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Q: i have a couple of friends that use 2 be so good but now they are going in the wrong part of life i don,t know if i should let them be my friend or unfriend them (advice please )
hello u can let them be your friend but don,t follow them in what they doing that is wrong peace and love

Q: how do i contact you? and im 18
i,m sorry but i don,t really talk to boys that are older them me but you can read some of my advice and you will see my contact information but it,s only for people who in need of help, are you black or white and where you came from ?

Q: hi i have a fren by the name of iceromano we have been frens from since primary skool. now we are in high school she is going through a hard time with a boy she likes she told me she likes him real bad but cant admit it. The boy name is jb****** can u plz tell me what to do.
hello! wow u spell her name right but a space have to be between the e and r ok will u say this friend likes this boy really bad, but how is she going through a hard time ,and what does this have to do with you ,i do think that she is to young for boys and she really should focus on her school work ,but if she likes this guy she should tell him and see how he react about this , but i really do think that she don,t like him how you say she likes him peace and love :)

Q: i have my facebook listed so its possible so maybe you should contact me on there :)
how about you contact me .and how old are you

Q: i would love to get to know you :) what would your answer be :D
hello!:) i would love to get to know who you are cause i have no idea who i,m speaking to ha ha but i don,t think it,s possible, peace and love:)

Q: i like this guy and he likes me back but things were not working out so i broke up. he said he doesn't mean to be pushy but he wont take no for an answer he is gonna keep trying until he gets me back. should i go outwith him?
hello while if you don,t like this guy any more while don,t go back with him ,it,s you life do what makes you feel happy peace and love :)

Q: 13/f
I found out that my 15 yearold boyfriend got me pregnant.I called him and told him and he freaked out. He told he can't take care of a baby now and that he doesnt want to be part of this.I don't know what to do about the baby.I don't know how to tell my parents and don't know what to do about my boyfriend.I need help and I'm scared.
hello ! this is a very sad position that your in , i hate when girls like your age is pregnant and to make it worst the boy who you called your boyfriend does not what to be a part of your life ,you see what happens when you have boys to young , while your mom will freak out ,but be claim and pray to god he does answer prays okay and if you ever need someone to talk to i,m always available on twitter and facebook as lenica crawford, i,ll have you in my prays peace and love

Q: I have a boyfriend, we've been going out for a year and I've been noticing he's been acting different like lets say one of his friends said something rude shit to me and he was there and he didn't say anything to him, but when someone is talking shit to him, he expects me to defend him. I always do defend him though. There was one time i didn't say anything when this guy said something insulting to him and i expected him to say something back, but no he didn't say anything O.o and he got mad at me I've also notice that he gets angry when i hang out with my brothers whom I'm very close with. I hang with him and his friends and he would pull me aside and tell me that he doesn't like a certain person in our group because he thinks he likes me or some bull shit. Then at the end of the day he is buddy buddy with him. O.o Isn't that what you call a two face? I don't know, like I don't think i should try to make this work. He pretty much went over the line when he gets mad at me for hanging with family? Think i should ditch the guy?
hello if your not happy with him well you should leave him ,it,s your life you do what makes you happy and if you feel like he,s not defending you well thats not a person you should be a girlfriend to peace and love :)

Q: 16 year old male and i'm christian and i want to get closer to god i read the bible and i've been praying to god more i feel good praying i know i can talk to someone about my problems and i know he's listening so do i keep praying more than usual how can i get a lot closer to god?
hello! finally some one have a question about god !i think its very amazing someone like your age wants to get closer to god ,and it do feels good when you pray to god because you know that your speaking to someone who truly loves you more than anyone and who will listen to all your problems,while i do believe that you already close to god just keep praying and always have him as your number one ,peace and love :)

Q: hi should I'm devastated, should I confront my lover and tell her how I feel? even then I know he love his wife?
hello, you can tell him how you feel but don,t expect that he will leave his wife for you,and if he do what to leave his wife for you don,t accept it because imagine if you was that wife and some one else loves your husband and now he whats to leave you for that person who loves him ,you will feel hurt so do what is right and not what your heart wants peace and love

Q: Hey advicenators!
So ive always had a dream to become a fashion designer since i were a little girl,but ive never really had the chance to apply to fashion school yet.So now ive finally got the chance!Ive been accepted into this "design a wedding dress" competition and ive got about 200 something likes on facebook so far and its only my third day!But,i need more votes!So my question is,if you guys think my dress is pretty,would you please help me by hitting Like at the picture??Please help me fulfill my dream =(
Thanks guys
hello!i saw your dress and i like it ,i hope you reach your dream, best of luck peace and love :)

Q: So, I'm an exchange student from Brazil, living with a family in the U.S. in the family there are two kids, a girl my age, and a boy 2 years younger than me... well one of his older friends has come over a few times, and we've hooked up twice... but since the last time we hooked up he hasn't come over... he plays hockey and soccer everyday after school, and we also go to two different schools... the second time we hooked up we went a little bit further than I wanted too... after that we cuddled and he would stoke my cheek and brush my hair off my face, and from time to time he would kiss my forehead, or kiss my cheek, occasionally he would turn my head and kiss me on the lips.
some of my friends say he likes me and some say he doesn't... I don't know what to do, because he acts as if he likes me whenever he's around me... but when we were taking my host brother to school, my host mom said the guy I hooked up with has a crush on a girl, that hugs him all the time, that doesn't go to the same school as him... but then she told us her name, but a couple of weeks ago, my host parents asked me really weird questions involving him, and they're like oh I think he has a crush on you...
I need help! how can I find out if he likes me or not??
hello while i do thing that he has a crush on you ,if you will like to find out ask him when he,s hanging out with you,peace and love

Q: I am a really hard worker but I am not very smart. I need to study SO hard to get a B in subjects like math and science. I am better at English and other subjects.
I am in Advanced Algebra (or Algebra II) and I am a senior. Its pretty low- I should at least be in Trig. There's a few other seniors too.
I was supposed to take chemistry this year (since it was the first time I would be able to because of the math level) BUT the school I just moved to did not have any more space and I was so mad because I couldn't switch my other classes! I am taking another science and next semester I might too. In total my sciences I've taken are: Physical science, Biology, Biotechnology, forensic science right now and next sem another one like that last one.
*Many colleges say they require at least one laboratory science, so biology falls under that category right? I hope so. I really don't want to go to a community college. I want to be able to go to a University that I want to go to and take the classes needed for me there.
I am not applying to hard schools. At collegeprowler.com they are all classified as "Easy" although they aren't thaaat easy.
I am going to write a really good essay though and my grades this year will be like 3 A's, 4 B's and one C (in math- this is very common for me) The only year I did not have a C in math was Algebra 1 (got an A-)
I don't know what my avg. GPA is but I have usually gotten 3.4 and this year its gonna be like 3.3. I AM SO SCARED. My apps are due in like month and a half and I really wanna get accepted! :( I don't want to go to a community college. i am SO worried.
I have many extra co's and activities and service and interesting things about me which will help.
Any advice?
Thanks!
hello!i am not smart and i have to study really hard as will but once i pray to the lord he makes every thing so easier for me, i use to think it was impossible of me to be in a top class but now i,m in the top class and it,s all because i pray and study ,prayer do work ,if it work for me then it will work for you to ,i believe that you will make it to college i have faith in you, just try your best and ask god for his help peace and love:)

Q: I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do?
hello!while this is so wrong you should tell your parents and if they don,t believe you try to tell someone else before it is to late and he end up taking your virginity ,try to catch him doing what he do to you on video to show that you have prof or ask god to help you ,god is always there just ask him peace and love .

Q: Hi. I'm 13/f.
So there's a girl @ my school that I don't really talk to unless she talks to me and I think she's hitting on me.

I'm a girl and she's a girl. I think she's lesbian or whatever but I like guys 100%. We were doing this thing at school where we needed to bring in lipstick and she was asking me to put hers on yesterday. She was looking at me the whole time but I didn't notice (I did NOT know she was lesbian yesterday) and today I felt really dizzy and we were outside playing kickball AGAIN and I just felt like walking and reading my book "out of my mind" by Sharon M. Draper. (because beleive it or not it actually helped with my dizzyness.) so I laid down in the grass and 2 seconds later I heard her say, "well if you want to play it that way..." and I heard her lay down beside me like 2 feet away from me and she was looking at me the whole time again. Coach made us stand up right away, so nothing else happened.

Was she hitting on me? I don't know but I'm really freaked out about this and if she was, how do I tell her that I don't like girls?

Thanks for any answers in advance!!!
hello ,while girls use to hit on me to ,so i do think that shes hitting on you or wants to be closer as friends you should ask her if she likes you more than just friends and if the answer is yes then tell her that your not in to girls peace and love .

Q: ok i know this is early but im a girl and im 13 and i have no clue what to give my boyfriend for christmas. i dont know what guys want. so what should i give him that guys would like for christmas???
hello !will you should try making something really special from your heart to show him that you care ,be creative and maybe just maybe he will love it peace and love.

Q: i am 13 and about 5 or 6 days ago i had a brown dishcharge on my underwear and when i wiped there was a tiny bit of pink on the toilet paper. this has happened for 4 days and it stopped on the 5th morning and it is now the 6th day and it still hasent happened anymore. i have no cramps. i broke out. i have mood swings (sometimes). i have certain food cravings. and food swings. i want something sugary one minute and then i want soup or steak the next. did i start my period or am i going to soon. it was a very small amount of blood. you can see pink but barely.
hello ! while your period is developing its not exactly ready to appear yet like normal , but it will be normal very soon , i do have problems with my period , the first time mines was getting ready to come it had the same brown stain on my underwear but my period had take a couple of month to appear like normal peace and love.

Q: Hey Im 16 and a senior in highschool. I met this guy in an interschool competition. He's the same age but is a senior in some other school. We started talking after the competition and became good friends. We have gone out on three dates till now. And yeah, we have kissed each other and made out a little. We cannot resist each other at all. And hence the makeouts were a mutual desicion. I am falling for him. But the problem is that even though he says he is falling for me, he keeps on telling me he cannot date me cause he's a bad guy and he cares for me too too much to hurt me. He says he is not one of those dateable guys who will love their girl completely and he might find a new girl and dump me.That would hurt me and he doesnt want to do that! He hasnt had a past record of cheating or anything it's just that he tells me he wants to be sure before he asks a girl out that he will be completely loyal to her and not flirt around with other girls. He also liked this girl a year back and he says he feels guilty that he got over her and fell for me! But when we meet we actually act like we are dating, cause he gets me stuff, he tells me he loves me, we hold hands. we actually act like a couple in love. we also talk all the time. I dont know what to do. Because I really want to be with him. But cant figure out how to make him ask me out? and if he is really a bad guy? HELP.
hello! will i don,t no much about relationship cause i never been in one ,and i think i,m to young to be falling deeply for someone ,but if this guy admits that he will hurt you and cheat on you ,then he,s not the right one for you ,because if you guys end up dating and he end up going with some one else and bring back with him a virus and give it to you ,you will feel like your life is over so please no what is right and make the best in life ,you still have time for serious love because your young and 16 is not the time to be thing in about boyfriend love ,just looking out for you peace and love :)

Q: I am sick and tired of living. My family hates me. They treat me like crap. I'm never appreciated and I want it to be over. I cannot continue to live this way. I'm either going to kill myself or run away and hope someone will kill me. I need help before I do something stupid.
hello! you might have feelings like you what to die or no one in this world care about them but god will always love you and care about you ,sometimes people don,t even know what your going through and it seems like they are encouraging you to kill yourself but i can tell you this thou ,do not kill your self because they will be worst to come after you kill your self ,you will end up in this place where no body will like to go and thats HELL! so please i,m asking you to ask the lord for his help cause prays do work and ,you have to learn to be strong ,things will not be bad all the time, life comes with good and bad so be strong and take care i will have you in my prays peace and love :)

Q: What do I say to someone that I really love and just got together with how much I care and love him in a way that he will remember forever?
hello you should point out why you love him and tell him how much you care about him, you can try planning a romantic date on the beach in the night and look him in the eyes and say you love him in such away that he will remember forever peace and love :)


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Jesus is Lord of my life. His love warms me and keeps me together. His name brings peace to my heart and his hands are rest upon my life. He creates my path and lead me where they is good,but only if I trust him. I love my creator and I know he loves me. He helps me and he will help you too. I pray that all who comes to this page receives the blessings the lord has for them. I rebuke all depression, anger, lust, fornication and all the demonic threats the devil neatly planned out for you in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

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