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how can i get over and forget about an old crush who i have no feelings for but i think about him and fantacize that we're dating. please help because i really want to know how to get over him, forget about him and move on because i think i stil have feelings for him and i want to get rid of them (link)
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Well, i think you do still have feelings for him if you still think bout wanting to be with him, and fantazing about him.
But if you truely want to get over him, go out and have some fun, and spend sometime with other guys.that always works for me.
Hope i helped....
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theres this song that i keep hearing but i have no idea what it called i think it goes like this:
she hit the floor
(she hit the floor)
she bang it low
(she bang it low)
low low low low low
thats the chorus
if you could help me and tell me what the song is i would be ecstatic thankss:) (link)
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all i can think of is low-by flo ridea but that isnt the chorus. if it says anythin bout applebottom jeans and boots with fur its definately it.
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Well I was fingering myself the other day and i then i got an orgasm so i quit i went to the ktichen to watch tv by the time i new it i felt something burning. i went to the bathroom and checked blood was coming out but like it wasnt really red. So does that mean that i popped my cherry?It kept buring for a while!btw i am 13/f thanks for the advice in advance! (link)
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Okay, so it kinda depends on the consistancy of the blood really and the amount you bled. Its a possibility that u could have popped your cherry but is't really likely, it would would depend on how long, and how hard you did it. Another possibility is that you could have scratched yourself.
Just clean it out real well, and you'll be fine.
Hope I helped
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this might sound stupid, but what if you are about to have sex, and his penis is to large for your vagina and it doesnt go in, it wont fit. does that happen? and why does that happen? what are you supposed to do? (link)
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Well, Vaginas Stretch and go back. But Be careful it could tear you and thant could be bad.
But if it does happen it may have to take you a few times befroe you get the whole penis in. So go a little further each time it'll lossen you up more, but dont get carried away it may end up hurting.
Hope i helped
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i've looked at pictures of people kissing and it seems like the girl is kissing the top part of his lip, not the bottom omg how do you kiss i know its suppose to come naturally but im so nervous cause i just got a boyfriend and were going on our first date and what happens when we lean in , i dont know what to do help pleasee! 15/f (link)
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Kissing comes natuaral i promise.
Dont think too much or be to nervous because, you may end up bumpin heads or something like that. Just take a deep breath and do it. I promise it will just come to you.
If you arent ready just tell him.
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ok, I don't really know where to start. I go to school in Montanna. Me and my boyfriend had been going out for about 3 weeks talking for about 2 months and then it was my bday. I was turning 16. he got me this card about fart. It was strange, and he doesn't really even talk to me at school. I don't know what to do. I guess he's shy, but I am too. He will call pretty much every other night, and we will talk about 20-30min. What does all this mean. Does he even really want to go out with me or does he just sound like one of those guys that goes out with someone just to say he has a gf? Help Help Help!!! PLZ (link)
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To me it sounds like you two dont really connect and hes trying to break up with you. But if you really like him, the road runs both ways, so start talking to him more and try to make more of it. If it doesn't work then it isnt really meant to be.
Go up to him and hug him, and ask him how his days going. if it doesnt go anywhere from there then i would kick him to the curb, hes kinda wasting your time. If it does then call him more and kiss him when you go up to him. And so on. Hopefully i halped a little more than before
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months, he's a wonderful guy, and won't ever do anything to me, he wants me to put his hands/or tell him anything I wanted to do, and I like that about him, he's amazing.
So, a few nights ago we talked about going further, and we're only going one step, AND ONLY THAT. We got that clear!
Well...he's going to finger me. He's had sex before, maybe 3 times, but in a 1yr relationship!
Is this going to be bad? Since he has had sex before...anyway, one more question, I should check his nails first right, and make sure no cuts at all, right?
Please don't think I don't know what I'm doing, I've thought about this for a few months, and I'm ready!
Sorry this is long..just can anyone give me some advice or something? (link)
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Well, it really isnt as easy as you think it is. It is goin to hurt. And your gonna have to finger more than once.
And him not being a virgin and you are then its better becuase ones knows wat they are doing and make it easier and they can teach you. It may take more than once.
But u should make sure your on the pill first too. Im not trying to judge you or anything just make sure your ready, only have sex if your will to suffer the consequences it may bring.
WEll, i hope i helped a little
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Im getting bored of it. It either goes straight down, or i scrunch it. What other possible hair styles can i do that takes less than 30min. ? (link)
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you can :
Braid it
curl it
put it in a half pony tail
Put a headband in
do it wavy like when u take braides out.
flip it out with your srtaightner.
jus a couple ideas.
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my sister really needs to find a new hairstyle, but i dont know what to suggest, she has long dark brown hair, like to her butt long, its naturally straight, and shes got this cute heart shaped face, does anyone have any suggestions?!? (link)
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I think she should cut a little off and layer it and get a face frame like a slide cut. Like jennifer anistons hair. or like this pic...
http://www.1haircuts.com/long-haircuts/long_haircuts/Wild%20Wavy.jpg
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i have like 11 pairs of jeans
but since its gotten cold i can only wear about 3 pairs,
because the rest are skinny jeans.
and the only shoes i have that look good with skinny jeans besides flip flops are my high top DCs. thats really it.
so any other ideas of what to wear?
or a style of shoe and where to buy them?
thank you thank you :D (link)
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In my opinion With regular flare jeans any tennis shoes look good. Like nikes jordans, sketchers, or even skater shoes.
You can get those shoes at any shoe store or the mall.
Nike is mostly found in sporty stores like sports authority and shoe stores and khols.
Sater shoes you can almost find anywhere since they are really big...
I hope i helped...
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17/f
my boyfriend and i want to have sex but the only problem is, i think i'm too small down there. it took months before him fingering me with one finger felt okay. i told him to try two fingers the other day and he said he couldn't get them in and it hurt.
is sex going to be possible at all? i mean i know girls wayy younger than me have sex. (link)
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I know alotta of people with this problem. You guys just need to finger more and it will eventually stretch, it will take longer than normal but it eventualy will. You can also start to have sex like start by putting it until it hurts too much then pull out and just keep working on it at different times. It may also help to finger maybe efore you have sex but that may be too much for you.
Thats all the advice i got hope i helped good luck hope it works out for you.
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Ok I'm candy selling for my church and I am doing it for the church and to go on a trip but to go on the trip I need to sell 15 boxes. Its really hard too because alot of people won't buy. I'm 13 and my parents let me sell but they won't take me anywhere so I went with my friend the last 2 days and I sold 1 box and almost 2. I need to sell alot. There are 24 candies in each box and it is $1.50 each. It is 3 weeks long though. Since my parents won't take me I have to find someone else to take me everyday. So far the next three days I won't be able to sell because everyone is working and my friends get out of their school earlier than mine so I won't be able to go with them. Thursday and Friday I found a ride and probably Sat. and Sun. I will go with a friend. Sorry it was long but does anyone have any tips or something that can help me! Please! (link)
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People do that at my school. Take it to school and try to sell it. Or if you have any up coming school games try to sell them there too. Thats all i can really think of... hope i helped or gave u ideas.
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how do you get rid of your center part to get bangs like these:
http://www.rasysa.com/pkg/style/length/long/d.phtml?st=14426&page=9 (link)
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when your hair is wet blow dry them with a round brush and then striaghten them.
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It seems like all of the girls in west milford high have always been dating assholes who want nothing but sex, then when one sweet guy comes into their lives they dont know what to do and end up hurting him. Why cant nice guys ever have what everyone else has? Do i have to turn into an asshole for girls to like me? (link)
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No dont do that.
Just flirt and show them how sweet you are. Girls just like guys who give them attention so give them all our attention but dont be a tease just pick the one girl u really like and try to hangout with her and get to know her. But dont become a jerk nice guys finish last.
Your time will eventually come.
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Alright, so my family makes getting each other christmas gifts every year a big thing. (We're a medium sized family and money isn't an issue.) Every year my aunt goes shopping the day after thanksgiving all day, and likes to get as many presents for everyone as she can.
Every year I seem to be able to come up with a few things here and there of small things people can get me, but I really don't need anything big. Plus, if it's THAT big, my parents were already planning on getting it.
So I decided to just make up a list of movies that I'd really want but just haven't gotten around to buying. So far I've come up with Beetlejuice, A Walk To Remember, and Clue.
Any other ideas of movies I can request? Thanks. (link)
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Request any adam sandlar movies
hot-chick
animal
son-in-law
benchwarmers
just friends
love and basketball
the notebook
italian job
transformers
shark tale
madeas family reunion
Diary of a mad black woman
Well i hope i gave you some ideas...
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so i used to have super long hair, and all one length...but i just got it cut.
i play volleyball and i dont know how to do my hair so it doesnt get in my face. i have the kind of bangs that kinda sweep to the side and they never go back in a pony tail....anyideas? we're not allowed to use bobbypins or other metal things (link)
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do little rubber bands like do the parts, or tie them with little rubber bands and put in a high pony tail. or use one of those stretchy headbands.
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i'm trying out for a volleyball club team in november.. what skills should i practice now and how should i practice for it? and should I like run and stuff? How can i get in shape for it? btw I'm 13 and i've done summer volleyball once, volleyball in school (like gym), a 5 day volleyball camp in the summer (preparing us for highschool vball), 2 clinics (they were 5 week clinics.. like you came once a week) and yeah.. thats about it. i really want to make the team.. so yeah, haha i love vball. and thanks for the help! :) (link)
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I Love Volleyball. I suggest you work on ur spiking and bumping and serving for sure setting will help too the more you can do the better chance you have.
Spiking: Practice against the wall its hard to explain but hit it down on the floor and it if it was a good hit it'll bounce off the wall and keep coming back. It isnt that easy but its super helpful and takes time.
Bumping:Get a friend or family member to pepper(pass) with you back and forth and call eveyone because you have to get in that habit and make sure your bumping/passing right
Setting: lay on the floor and set it above you head or stand on the wall and move back and forth setting it on the wall.
Serving:Just continue to serve it and practice.
sorry i wrote soo much... hope it helps :)
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I want to get a guys' number. I mean I know how to flirt, i'm acutally very good at it, it's whatever. but like, for some reason.. I can't get myself to ask him.. I want him to ask me.. but idk, I know he's interested. We talk all the time.. and we always sneak smiles and everytime we see eachother we just immediatly walk up to eachother and start talking.. what can I do to get myself out there more? What can I do to show him that I want him to make a move, or vice versa? (link)
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I would suggest that you mention hanging out or invite him to hangout. If he seems interested then ask him for his number so you can call him with all the details.
Another thing i would suggest is you should do more touchy flirting. For example lightly push him when you walk by him or something like that.
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well, I have this guy..at first I dony really feel anything something special for him..for me his just a friend..a simple plain guy friend..we always talk about anything...I feel comfortable with him coz hes not a typical guy who judge and thinks awful things about girls..hes someone whi is very understanding...but hes someone who is very secretive...by the way he acts I can say that he likes me too..but many girls are after him beacuse his one of the most sought boys in the campus...I dont really know if he feels something special too...I really need your advice... (link)
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To me it sounds like there is something but youll never know if you dont talk to him. So since you guys are close it may be easy to talk to him. If it turns out that he doesnt feel the same way and im sorry. But i think you should talk to him about it.
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hi, im 14 and a month i haven'tstarted my period so im worried how can i make it come and i lied to my best friend saying i just started it i feel scared she may find out please help and i masturebate with random stuff in the toilet and i think i scratched myself in there when i fingered myself does this affect periods when you atart?
thanks in advance (link)
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Everybody starts at different times and in my opinion the later you start the better, beause trust me its a pain in the butt. The masterbating I dont think it could affect your period, because your period has mostly to do with your eggs inside of you and you only scratched your vagina.
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