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hey guys! my name is suzy, and i'm currently a freshman. i love my friends, they are amazing and i can't live without them. i live to have fun, and i love meeting new people, i am a friendly person, but that doesn't mean i let people step all over me. yes i can be a pain if i am pissed off, but deal with it. i love to laugh, and i love people that can make me laugh. i am here to help as best as i can. so just ask away! =]

advice

Since my name is short enough: I'm having trouble coming up with a nickname. Are there any for the name Lisa? & if so, what are they and how would you pronounce them?

hmm here are some im going to try out

Lee
Lea
L
or your initals, L[LAST NAME INITAL HERE]
lis
lyss


lol that's all i can think of, hope i helped =]

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My birthday is in ten days and I want to do something fun with all of my friends that doesnt take too much effort to plan. I do not want a house party, a bonfire, or a sleepover (considering this is oging to be co-ed). What's something really unique and fun? Suggest away!

go to a beach near you! the weather is still pretty nice and warm, and the beach is just.. the BEST! there's so many things to do, and you can stay there the whole day. you can go swimming, surfing, tanning, building sandcastles, have contests, dance, play sports. and then when it gets dark or the sunsets cut the cake and you guys can all eat it under the stars =]. or you can toast marshmellows, but you didn't want a bonfire lol. =] that soundss pretty fun to mee =] haha.

well if you don't like that idea im sure there are a lot more things you can do, maybe just rent a party bus? im not an expert in party buses so you can go to google and look it up.

sorry this is all i can thinkk of at the moment. hope i helped thoughh =]

happy early bday!

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I don't even know if that's what I should call it. But I'm 22 years old and I'm afraid of needles. I think it's because when I was younger I was always sick (prematurity, emphysema etc.) and I was always getting blood work, shots.

But I have a dentist appointment because I think I might have some bone loss going on and most likely teeth are going to be pulled. What can I do to calm myself down about having to get a shot?

ohh boy, i have been in your postion recently. i was scared to death about going to get my teeth pulled. here's what i did

close your eyes!
if you have a relative or friend with you maybe you can bring them in to hold your hand, haha that's what i did =]. or just squeeze the handle bars really tight! that should do the trick. now i'm not going to lie, it's not going to be pleasent, but it doesn't last too long. so while he's injecting you think of happy thoughts. i was "daydreaming" of the guy i liked =]. but that only lasted for a couple seconds and then my mind was like "NEEDLES NEEDLES!" so if that doesn't work, then try saying the alphabet over and over and over again![ i did this and it worked] or sing your favorite song in your head. whatever you do try concentrating on something else, something that can get you relaxed, or calm or happy. and then before you knoww it the needles are gone!


hope i helped and i wish you luck! =]
don't worry everthings going to be fine, i survived it and i am AFRAID TO DEATH of needles! [=

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is it wierd to like a guy thats 3 years older than u
for ex
if ur 13 and hese 16 ??

thanks

it totally isnt weird! in fact it's probablyy very normal, most of my friendss are dating, or have dated older guys around 16 too. as long as you both like each other, then go for it! and if people talk smack, well that's their problem. just ignore what they have to say.

good luck! =]

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Ok so im going into highschool, and well i found the cutest out fit, but its a tube top, and well my school isnt SO strict about it, like after three weeks they don't care what we wear. But my question is On the first day of school do they really look out and care what we wear and stuff and were they really strict about it at your school? thankss

well, i personally wouldn't wear a tube top on the first day of school. my school didn't start yet though so i can't really tell you what they would do. but i wouldn't want to start my first day off on the wrong foot you know? i think you should wear a different shirt that you won't get in trouble for, then after a couple days or even a couple weeks you can wear the tube top and the cute outfit.

i don't know if they would send you home or make you change or give you detention, if you wore the tube top on the first day, probably not because it's the first day, and especially if you're new to the school. but it's better to be safe then sorry.

hope i helped =]

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I don't know if I should have sex with my b/f. He's 17 and I'm 15. Usually guys older pressure you to have sex. I dont think he's trying to harm me in any kind of way. I just feel like that's about all he wants is some sex. I'm not ready for sex. I dont want to lose him. I know if he really cares then i wont lose him. But he's tired of waiting . Help???

well, if you deffinitley aren't ready, then don't do it. if your boyfriend really loves you then, he'll wait for you, and he wouldn't just leave you because you don't have sex. he has to understand. talk to him, if he feels that he can't wait, then sweetie he isn't worth it. no guy should pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. good luck =].

i hope i helpedd

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I'm a boy in 8th grade and to some girls I don't know what to say. I try to come up with things but I have no idea what to say. But to some other girls things come easier and I don't have to think about it. Could you please tell me things to talk about or why I might be able to talk easier to some people. Thanks!

basically i agree with the people below me.
just be yourself when you talk to a girl. and i am a suckkerr for guys that can make me laugh =]. so be funny, im sure a ton of girls woulld love thatt i know i would. you should make the first move and go up to a girl, a simple "hey what's up" is fine. personally, i like it a lot better when the guy makes the first move, it shows that he has confidence, that's something i think is hot[=.

and for me, i find it harder to talk to people that i have a crush on or someone that i think is cute. but if im just going to talk to one of my friends thats a guy..it's really easy, so i think this may be your problem too. but i honestly don't know what to do about this problem, haha i still have it. i guess just say she's a girl, not an alien, i can talk to her.

haha i hopee i helpedd =)
iff you need anything elsee messagee me.

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15/f

ok. this is what i'm gonna wear tomorrow..

its from macys, and its really cute. its this like purple, that seems to be somewhat in. that darker purple. and then like it dips down low kinda. kinda like a scoop shirt or whateveR? and then its a baby doll top, and it has silver trim, and the sleeves like kinda puff. and then it has threee little silver heart buttons, going down. its really cute. and then i'm just wearing dark jean capris. & then i have these cute little silver bracelets, 3 of them. that im gonna wear.

is that a good first day outfit?

I understand people don't dress up or anything. but i don't wanna look like a slob. i wanna look cute.

ohh i was at macys just yesterday and i think i saw the shirt your talking about. or it might be something similar haha.

anywayys. yes that sounds like such an amazing outfit. i absolutleyyy love it =D great taste! =]

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Hi i'm 13 and a girl. Is it weird that I put on my ipod, go in my room and close the door, and in my underwear dance and lip-sync the words to the songs? Sometimes I dress up when I do it too. Sometimes i'm bored and it's really fun to me. Like do people usually do stuff like this, or am I strange? Tell the truth. Thanks!

wow, you are totally weird...
HAHAH i'm totally JUST KIDDING [=.

don't worry, it's totally normal, i mean everyone has their own hobbies, me and my friends, we throw our cellphones in the grass and see who could throw it the furtthest. crazy crap like that. don't even worry about it. have fun! =)

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For my birthday I'm having a huge scavenger hunt in Boston, MA, with a bunch of my friends. The types of things to find are like "a hot guy" and take a picture with them, or something funny like that. I'm having a tough time figuring out too many things, so I wanted to know if anyone had some ideas. I'm turning 17, so it can be R rated. Haha, just kidding, but yeah you get the idea.

Message me online @ x3ashleyjean or message me through here if you have any questions or ideas.

Thanks so much. =]

ahaha i've always wanted to do this. ever since i saw the movie sleepover! ahhaa kk here are some ideass.

-get a hot guys number
-find 3 red balloons
-dress up a statue and take a picture of it, and then of course take it off.
-sneak into a boys house and steal his boxerss. [haha this was in Sleepover.]
-find a person wearing orange, and take a picture with him/her.
-switch a stores sign to closed instead of open.
-somehow earn at least 2 dollars, either by doing a street performance or asking strangers.
-find a really really tall person, and ask to have a picture taken with him/her.

that's all i could think of haha sorrry.
but anyways hope i helped and have fun [=

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I'm 14, female, weighing 91 pounds, height around 5'1". I'm not overweight at all, in fact I'm a little underweight. I'd really like to gain at least a few pounds, because I'm really thin and I don't really have much of a figure.

What could I do to gain some weight all over my body? Not muscle, really, I just want to fill myself out a little bit more.

well, im not really sure if this is going to be much help but.

you can try drinking ensure, or something like that. it helps you gain and balance a healthy weight. honestly i don't know much about it, but my friend drinks it. check it out before you buy it and everything.

hope i helped =]

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What are some places to shop at besides
- department stores
- forever 21
- hollister, ae, aero, abercrombie, etc
- deb

I know thats not really specific, but I'm trying to find some unique places to shop (16/f by the way) for a different wardrobe

PS please don't say check out your local mall, I already have...Thank You!

yeah i agree with wisewoman98. pac sun and delias have some nice stuff. especislly pac sun, it's one of my favves [=.

and also try urban outfitters, they have amazing cool funky stuff. guess, h&m, victorias secret, charlotte russe, zumies, 2cute, free people [they havee cute stuff! i lovee them.], bloomingdales, french connection, ruehl.

those are justt some stores that i can think of.
hope i helpeddd =)


Edit:
hmmm i don't know.. the 2cute in the mall near me it's for teenagers. sorrryy.

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I know, wrong category. My family and i are planning to move. I was just wondering what websites are there that post apartments available. I live in new york (queens) if that helps. Thanks!

ughhh i dont know
maybe you can try this
www.laffey.net
but i think it's like houses, maybe they have some apartments too.
or i think if you go to google and type in apartments in queens new york, you'll get something.

hope i helped =]

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http://www.wetseal.com/productDetail.asp?mi=1300&style=38384578&size=M,913&color=549&added=true&token=dJbSlZB0iq6G1iCv8TxUjZpQH4SRf8fn72fO%2Fsrgcx1OYbFn9IN5Qskscw%3D%3D

^So basically, I love that.
And I was wondering how I could wear it to school without making it look too fancy?
Maybe like a thing white zipper jacket? or something...
itd look weird with jeans right? I'm not sure how long it is...

okay first of all cute style! that dress is cute =]/

and i deff agree with LaUgH_OuT_LoUd_x0x with skinny jeans and a flats i think it'll look cute. something else you can do is wear it with skinny jeans, and maybe wear a white t-shirt or a white long sleeved t-shirt underneath. im not entirely sure if that would look good but you can try it and see =].


that's all i got. hope i helped! =]

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does anyone knwo where i can get a bag like this:

http://i8.tinypic.com/4yagoef.jpg

well im not sure exactly where you can get it, but here are some stores that have cute bags and maybe something similar to that one.

check: macys, forever 21, steve madden, aldo, lohemans, sometimes t.j. maxx, bloomingdales, uhm maybe kenneth cole? [not sure how to spell it] and maybe GUESS.

hope i helped a bit, check those stores they should have really cute bags and the bag in the picture, im not 100% sure, but you might find something similar. =]

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has anyone ever finished reading the entire dictionary cover to cover? can i do it

hahhaaa yeah my 7th grade math teacher, lol everyone made fun of her for that and well basicallyy anything she did because people didn't like her.

andd sure you can deff read it if you really set your mind to it. you can do anything =]

hope i helped!

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is there anyway to go about seeing someones private myspace without adding them? a code or a back way or something?? i really need to see this persons but they havent been on in over a year soo its not like they could add me anyway.

ecch nah sorry =/ there isn't a way to see the persons profile. they have to accept you, that's the only way.

hoppe i helped =]

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Okay, well. I can't make this short.
I'm 15/f with a crush on a guy that's 16/m.
I met him this school year. Now it's the summer.
I wanna try and get his interest back on me again. Wow, that sounds really selfish. Okay, let's try that again. I wanna try and get back to the way he and I were at the beginning of the year. But it's a pretty long story and I know people don't like to read long questions. Sooo anyone want to volunteer to help me??? Please! I'll bake you scones that look like biscuits or double choco chunk cookies! Haha, pleaseeee! My YIM/MSN/e-mail is xchoke_on_dead_hopex@yahoo.com and my AIM is r0ck0l0ser. Can you please help me? Could you leave your email/sn for me to reach you with?

I love you forever and ever =)

lol suree my aim is shOpaholiic x13.

IM mee nd ill help =]

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15/f [it only looks long because i put spaces.] BUT STILL, PLEASEEEE answer. please. i need your opinionin. even if its just a yes or a no. ill ratee.

so, me and this boy were like best friends,and then, he liked me or something, and i dont know, i basically rejected him. it was realllyyy bad. so we didnt talk anymore, and each passing day, makes me miss him more and more. and whenever i see him, hes always staring at me. always. like sometimes he'll try to sneak looks [this is what all my friends say] his friends are always looking at me. [but there not like laughing or anything, there just staring.] and sometimes he'll look me straight in the eye. and we'll be staring into eachothers eyes, which seems like forever. my one guy friend, said he thinks that he misses me, and he wants to talk to me, but hes embarrassed that i rejected him.

DO YOU AGREE? yes or no.
and should i talk to him? yes or no.

oh yes yes yes! you should deffinitley talk to him. it sounds to me that he does miss you, but i think he's afraid he'll get rejected again. but just go up to him and talk to him. he will feel better because it shows that you have an interest in him. but then he might be afraid because you did reject him, he was probably hurt by that. just talk things through. im sure things will pick up from there. see what he says, or how he feels. whatever you do, talk to him! =]


hope i helpeed && everything goes well. if you needd any more help just let me know. =]

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I've never heard of a dog, or any animal for that matter that was born mentally retarted.

Has anyone heard of an animal with a mental defect?

well yeah, my friend's dog is retarted, but i don't think her dog was born that way, i think as it became older [her dog is really old] it became retarted, it is also blind.

hope i helpedd a bit! =]

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