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hey, im jane and i love helping people out with their problems even though sometimes i can't help myself and trust me i've been through a lot so i won't judge you with anything that you ask me. anyway i love giving advice to those people who need someone to tell they're problems to. so ask me a question and i'd be happy to answer. c:
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I'm a 23 yrs old girl, I met someone online, and he was just the way I like.. I liked him & and he was so emotional, romantic, and caring. after a while, I fall in love with him, then I discovered that his real age about (37) and that he's already married and thereis noway for our relation to work. however, I continued with him and we had a cyber relation and met him only once in real.. now, we still talkin' to eachothers on the internet, and I we still like eachothers......... what is the expected future of this relation?
honestly, i think there is no future. sorry but don't you think you should stop your relationship with him after all the things you've found out? he's married and it's just not right for you and him to still have a relationship with each other. i'm sure your matured enough to understand. it's really unfair to his wife and to you as well. just try to put yourself in the wifes position. you should end your rel with him before things get messed up, and try to find someone who deserves all the love you will give him, and someone who will love you. ONLY YOU.
Hi.I am 17 yrs old girl.I am from India. I had read that you shouldn't phone your bf more than twice a day as it will make him thinking about me and he'll wonder when i'll call him. I had tried it once but instead he was so angry with me that he didn't speak to me for 2 long days!! what can i do??? please advice me!!! I want attention from him
maybe you should just stop trying to call/text him and let him miss you. you shouldnt keep phoning him cause he'll just get irritated with you. so just stay chill and he'll miss you soon enough.
I feel so lame for seeking out advice on something like this at the age of 20, but I don't know where else to turn. My family friends have this cousin who I am completely and utterly in love with, and I don't know what to do about it. I don't know if he would ever bother giving me a chance, or if I'm wasting my time because he is so close with my brother that he would never want to screw up their relationship. It's literally to the point where I can't even date anyone else because he's all I think about and I don't want him thinking that I want anyone else. Help!
well you know it's not a bad thing to have a crush or to fall in love with your cousin but i think maybe it would be the right thing if you just don't bother on telling him because he is your cousin and having a relationship or dating a family member is just wrong. but anyway life is short, so if you really can't stand it anymore and you want to tell him, then go for it. just be ready for what answer/reaction you will get from him.
So I broke up with my boyfriend of over 1 1/2 years because he was not paying enough attention to me and we had been arguing a lot lately. I also don't like the way he is so narrow minded. Well I broke up with him over skipe and I could tell he was upset, he argued with me than as well. The he wanted me to come to his family memorial party. I said won't that be akward and he said no, if we were still going to be friends that I needed to come. So I went and afterward he text me yelling about how I ignored him the entire time at the party. I calmed him down by the next day. I didn't talk to him until 4 days had passed and I texted him. He said it was perfect timing because he was on his break at work, there was just some small talk and that was it. I was his first love, and I'm wondering if inside he wants me back and would be willing to work at it?
I think maybe you just need to clear your mind first of what you really want to happen. if you really want to break up with him or if you want to give him a second chance. And when you do, you should tell him how you feel and what you want to happen. anyway if you really don't wanna be with him anymore it's alright to still be friends, and to talk to him. just try not to be bitter about your past with him.
I'm from Canada. Ok so there's this guy and I really like him and I want to tell him how I feel but I'm worried about what he would say if I did tell him how I felt about him!! But he doesn't have a phone so I can't really text him and I don't feel comfortable calling his home.. So I really need to figure out what to do!! Do I talk to him on facebook when he's on or what? Please help me!!! It's really important since it's almost the end of the school year and I won't see him until next school year!! Please Help!!!
it's really much better if you talk to him in person so that you can tell him everything that you feel about him, and so that he can tell you right away if he feels the same for you.
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I don't get it... all my friends have always told me that the best part of moving on is finding someone new to share my life with but i just find it depressing. Every time i start to get close to a new guy I'm with it just reminds me that they're nothing like my ex and i end up crying, even after sex i just feel this overwhelming amount of sadness that the guy i just slept with wasn't my ex and i literally start crying and have to excuse myself and go home and cry myself to sleep... All the time. the saddest part is the guy i sleep with actually is a genuine guy but idk whats wrong with me. My ex made it clear that he doesn't want anything to do with me anymore, i even sent him a birthday present and he never said thank u or anything.. When does this start getting easier and why cant i just let myself be happy with someone else? I really am tired of living in the past but it seems by moving on I'm just settling for second best since i cant have the one person I've always wanted. By the way I'm a senior in college and I've been with this one guy since my sophomore year in high school but weve always been off and on.
hey, first of all i just want to say that moving on was never really a fun thing. it is the hardest part of loving. i just want to tell you that maybe you shouldnt start dating yet. if you feel like all the guys you date arent making you happy or isnt like your ex then you should stop dating for awhile and start keeping your mind on other things. i know how it feels to try and forget the only person whom you've loved so much and who seemed so perfect. i know what it's like to cry yourself at night just thinking why couldnt it just be the two of you together. but you know what? it's just a phase in your life that you have to overcome. yes, moving on is not easy but when you try to ACCEPT everything that WAS and never will be again, moving on gets easier. forgetting someone that's been a big part of your life is a real pain in the heart but keep in mind that you LOSE someone to HAVE SOMEONE BETTER. and after all the pain your going through you become a stronger person. ;)
A boy named aj likes me at the church camp.and everyone is like oh go out with him but I don't want to and I said forget it.
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I speak english
you should just be honest with him and tell him the truth that you don't like him.
So basically I'm really worried he's losing interest in me. We talk for 5 months now, and he changed in a last month. He still replays to me but he goes off and online quite often. We don't talk for that long anymore and he doesn't compliment me or say anything what he used to say anymore. Few days ago he asked me to Skype with him and he said he really missed me. On Skype he was complimenting me all the time and was showing lots of interest, but he went back to what he used to be after a day. I said to him that I feel like he doesn't want to talk to anymore but he said that he does he's just really tired (There is 6 hours difference) So if I have given him a chance to tell me that he doesn't want anything to do with me would he take it if he wouldn't be interested or would he still lie? Is it that he's just getting comfortable with me and just doesn't feel the need of doing all the stuff he did? If he would lose interest would he even still bother replaying to me or would he just stop? And also, should I tell him how much he means to me and that I feel like I'm bothering him all the time?
hey, uhm if i were you i'd also really be worried that maybe he's losing interest in talking to me but sometimes you just have to stop worrying about it so much. there is a possibility that he's just getting comfortable with you that's why he doesnt compliment you alot like before. you should talk to him about all the things your worried about with him and accept whatever he answers. anyway if you feel like he loves you and you know that you love him and besides all the worrying, that you guys are doing good then you should just let go of your worrying and stuff. if he really loves you distance won't be a reason for him to love you less then he did before :)
I had a boyfriend of 2 years but he was acting like a jerk and if 18 and still doesn't have a car or a job so we broke up cause he was stressing me out. it wasn't a bad break up and we still are kinda more than friends. the problem is i have another guy. me and this guy have been friends for so long but i just started liking him like that. idk what to do because i still like my ex but really like this guy. i cant keep having them both but i'm worried about screwing up with my ex cause i occasionally think about dating him again if he gets it together...what should i do?
if you have this other guy you like then maybe you should just let go of your ex. you guys had a thing and it didnt work out. maybe because it's a chance for you to find another guy who will support, love, and care for you more then your ex did. just give yourself a chance in dating other people. let go of your past and move on. :)
So there is this boy who I am really crazy about, he is the same age as me and we used to text near enough every day, we flirted so much and I started to fall for him but I did not tell him straight away, we still texted and still flirted but when I told him he was just said he could not be bothered and we do not speak now, he does not reply to my texts but sometimes he does when I text saying what are you doing or try and make conversation but it seems like he does not want a conversation it's like he can't be really bothered talking to me anymore, I deleted his number and I've not texted him for over a couple of weeks? When I bump in to him in person it's different, it's like nothing has ever happened between us, I'm so crazy about him! I can't stop thinking about him and its driving me insane, really upsetting if any1 cud help that be good! Thanks
ive been in this kind of situation but i chose not to tell him. know why? cause if a boy is really into you and not just the type who likes flirting then he should be man enough to tell you he likes you, but if he started to ignore you after you told him that you like him, maybe you should just also stay away. rather do that then keep on texting or talking to him and look desperate. just let guys chase you and stay chill. don't chase a guy who doesnt see your worth :)
My man and I are trying to get pregnant. I started my cycle on April 23rd and it generally runs 28-30 days. We had sex on May 3rd-6th. So I Still haven't had my period and it's more than 30 days. I tested on day 30 and I just test yesterday but both have shown up negative.
I have had back pain and headaches, bloating and cramps that have been way more intense than normal. I have felt slightly nauseous a few times and my sense of smell is inhuman.
Could I be pregnant if the tests have both been negative? I know stressing about it can delay a period, that's happened to me before, but I haven't had symptoms before. What's the latest a pregnancy test can show up as positive?
Any input helps!
well if that's how you feel then maybe you should start seeing a doctor so you could get checked up on what's happening to you. it's not always safe to take matters into your own hands. just get help.
So I have an advertisement on the newspaper and of course my phone number appears on it as I teach English,well a few days ago this strange guy started to call me pretending to need Eng lessons,but then he kept texting me saying horrible things related to sex,like a blowjob and even bareback!!I don't know how to get rid of him,I have a boyfriend and I'm really ashamed,I don't dare to tell him anything,cuz he'd go mad,I need help,thanks!
you know if he's starting to say those kind of things to you then the best advice i could give you is tell the cops or at least tell someone cause he might be a really dangerous person.
so this guy i like was sitting in the bleachers when they starts flipping out and trying so hard 2 embarrass me at least 7 of my friend gave tried to get him to date me and every time he said eww no. heres the confusing parti missed school sometime last week and my friend maddie told me he was looking for me in the bleachers what else ive observed us that he glances at me a couple times. i dont kno if his feelings are chaging or what. another thing he does is me n like 5 people at lunch we'll say hi and he ignores us so inseriously dont understand him what so ever. Anyone have ideas for what i should do? i speak english and im in 7th grade plz help theres only 2 day of school left and i wont c him untik next year!
well you know if he really likes you he'll do an effort to show you how he feels. maybe you should just stay low and wait if he has the guts to ask you out. and if he doesnt then the hell with him. you deserve better! ;)