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Gender: Female
Age: 14
AIM: Lucky12 101
Member Since: December 2, 2004
Answers: 72
Last Update: December 12, 2007
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Alright there is these two guys... the first one is the one I lost my virginity to and I really care for him.. The second one I haven't done anything with him except hold hands....except when I hold his hand I can't stop thinking about my the first guy and Im not a player or a slut or anything but what should I do and do you think I still have feelings for the first guy (link)
go with the 1st guy its really obvious. READ MINE ITS CALLED......COMPLEX RELATIONSHIP.


There is this girl Amanda at my school. She is one of my really good friends. But sometimes I think otherwise. When girls usually go to school they try and get all "dolled up" for the guy they want to impress. I get all "dolled up" so Amanda wont tell me that I don't look good or that my hair looks bad. Is she a real friend or not? What should I do?
Thank you;
Jessica (link)
i dont think so try to make some new friends .......READ MINE ITS CALLED ......COMPLEX RELATIONSHIP


I'm having my 16th b-day party tomorrow, and I have no idea what to do for games. There'll be about 8 people there. Does anyone have any ideas for games for bored high-school students? Lol, thanks! (link)
if guys are going to be there do some games like 7minutes in heaven or spin the bottle. HAPPY 16th!!


do yall know any GOOD face masks you can make like with just everyday stuff in ur house? thanks (link)
go online to google and just type "facial masks" or anything in over 1 millon websites will come up. READ MINE ITS CALLED CAUGHT UP.


we've gotton together and dated...currently we are best friends...and hes been playing the field (like every typical teen boy)....we hang out and talk non-stop....he still puts his arms around me..hugs me..kisses me on the cheek sometimes..affection is definently there.

i wish we were together.
i love him to death...today he said he loved me..but it was just as friends when we were hanging out.

he doesn't want a relationship right now so i'm not going to tell him how i feel just because i know that is a bad idea.

what in the world do i do-hes incredible and i love him to death? (link)
you know what i would talk to him and tell him that he can't have it both ways. he can't kiss you and stuff and say you guys are not going out. i mean he can but its not rigght. sit down and talk to him. get things straighted out.READ MINE ITS CALLED...CAUGHT UP.


ok well my brother and my firnds brother r on the same soccer and since me and him ar the same age we hang out alot and i really lik ehim but hers lik my really good friend....but liik if we went out every one would make fun of us should i ask him out even though i allready did or lik does anyone know how 2 make him lik me bc i really really lik him what should i do? (link)
only go out with him if the ice is like "broken" between you to. if its not you might look stupid. READ MINE ITS CALLED...CAUGHT UP.


ok, i have a thin body, like a really thin waist, but i have reallyyy big hips and a big butt...which is nice to a certain extent, but i want my hips and upper thighs to be a little thinner...any exercises anyone knows of that are good? (link)
Im sry i dont know any exercises but i am telling you you should be proud of having a big butt and hips. you can do some cool dance moves with big hips. my hips are really small. READ MINE ITS CALLED...CAUGHT UP.


I have 2 questions...
1) How can I decide what college I want to go to? I know I have to apply to a few, but, you know how everyone has there heart set on one, how can I pick one for me?
2) And, is there any kind of quiz online I can take to give me some good results on a career I could go into? I'm dumbfound when it comes to what I want to be and go to college for. (link)
Well if you know what you want to do or what area or work you are interested in see which college has the most specific classes on that subject. READ MINE ITS CALLED...CAUGHT UP...


Ok there is this New Guy that has been at my school for like 3 days. And he Sits at my table for lunch, and he also is in my Gym class and my S.S class. And i think he is cute but i don't know if i should tell him or not. Can you guys please tell me if i should your not. (link)
i think that you should talk to him a lot more and then tell him after you have broken the ice. READ MINE...ITS CALLED..CAUGHT UP...


My dad smokes. I try to make him stop by saying "please stop smoking dad" or "you should quit" or cough really loud when he lights up a cigarette. DAMN IT, I FUCKING HATE THE SMELL! He smokes when hes in the bathroom, i just hate it. When i cough and stuff around him he'll be like OH SHUT UP, YOU SHOULD BE USED TO IT ALREADY or YOUR OVERREACTING. and id be like, havent you ever heard of second hand smoke dad?? he doesn't care.. i mean hes a good dad but he needs to stop. i dont think he'd do that nicotene patch or gum thing. When i tell my mom about it, she'd be like, get used to it, or she'd do nothing about it. What should i do? (link)
start smoking or just pretend and tell your dad like i learned from you and since you didn't quit i thought that i shouldn't quit either


k i was looking at your column and i can tfigure out if your a girl or a guy. what are you????????? (link)
i'm a girl...i haven't really personalized me column yet...


ok so i have this friend john and i like him. there was a dance on friday and since alexia (my friend and his ex girlfriend) couldn't go she asked erin (another friend) to see if i danced with john. And i did just 1 little slow dance. And then l8ter at the dance erin was talking to him while i was dancing and then for the rest of the dance he was like avoiding me. i am wondering was he just trying to protect me from alexia getting mad at me, (she would get mad even if we talked) or was he avoiding me because he didn't want to be around me? (link)
it seems like erin is the one that made him avoid you..the reason i dont really know..just talk to him and straighten it out. i can see why you dont want alexia or erin to know but just play safe.


I have this boyfriend...I just got him. I am moving soon and we aren't really hanging out. He asked me out in the first place! What should we do before I move? (link)
do something really romantic....READ MINE ITS CALLED.......AVOIDING ME OR NOT...


I have been working so hard in school. and my mom wont let me do anything! i have worked my butt off, and all she will let me do is work more! She expects me to read books in one day, yet she doesnt believe i can write an essay in one hour when i am determined to go to a play with my friends! I am getting so tired, i have had so much pressure on myself i feel like i am going to crack under it! PLEASE help me! what do i do!? I am pratically being grounded from a life! Even though its winter vacation she wont let me do hardly anything now either! She went shopping today right after i woke up..so i didnt wanna go, becuz i had just woken up..and she was lke. How about you read a book or something! agh! All of this work isnt making my brain stronger! Its making it over-pressured and weak! I really need advice! (link)
talk to her maybe that will help..just sit her down and talk to her....read mine its called.. AVOIDING ME OR NOT..


I'm fifteen years old, and I'm about 5'3. I'm not overweight, but I'm on the verge of it, and it most definitely wouldn't hurt if I shed a few pounds. When I'm home alone or just out with friends, I'm fine as far as resisting bad food goes. The problem is...my mom- and the rest of my family. My mom is ALWAYS buying junk food and tempting me with it. When we go to McDonalds and I say that I just want a bottled water and a salad, she'll order an extra thing of fries because she knows I'll eat it. My question is...How can I resist this with out my family thinking I'm anorexic? They won't understand if I simply explain that I want to lose a few pounds because like I said, I'm not overweight yet. Any ideas would be great. Thanks. (link)
just say no to yourself...read mine its call AVOIDING ME OR NOT...


ok...

im in love with this dude lets just call him perfect!! n he was supposed to ask me out yesterday after school but now he wont because i told ppl that he was gunna ask me out When I DID'no!!!! this is so bad !! n his friend lets just call his friend liar and he lied to me about perfect liking me and now i look like a idiot.. please help me i dont know what to do!!!!
signed
broken (link)
i kind of went through the same thing. i had this friend and i told everyone that i liked him and then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. so we are sort of friends now but i have learned to keep some of my feelings to myself. do the same thing


well there this guy at school and well he like likes me he ask me out and i thought i liked him and i told my sis that i did then my sister had told him i said yes then like i broke up with him then like he is trying to give me money and expensive gifts and well i havent excepted them but im confused what should i do. (link)
figure out if you really like him and then if you do tell him he doesn't need to buy you fancy gifts to get you to like him. but if you dont tell him that you dont' like him.


I have an oral presentation to give on monday (it's powerpoint) and i'm terrified... like this is one of my biggest fears ever. Whenever i go to give a speech or something my voice starts really quivering and shaking and it sounds like i'm crying. Is there any way to stop this from happening? also... any other advice on giving speeches would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!!! (link)
you just have to go up there and not care about what anyone thinks. just really try that because as long as you're comfortable with yourself then they will be comfortable with you. RATE ME..


I'm a teen girl going through puberty and my private has losened up. I never had sex before so it couldn't have "stretched" that way. Also, around the edges of the viginia it's turning a dark tan color. What is this and is it normal? Also, are there any exercises i can do to tighten it up?

thnx so much, i really need your help! (link)
ask your doctor that might help...even if it is embarresing


ok so i am 13 years old and i have been since november 16. I am really self concious about my breasts because like all my friends are a size A and i dont even think if i am a size AA (i've never tried one though) I mean when you read this you might think that i actually have breasts but they are small. But i acutally really dont. I have only 2 small like bumps when i look at myself in the mirror. and when i look at myself from the side in a mirror it is literally flat. nothing sticking out. And i have had my period since July. please help! (link)
blah blah your needs mother fucker!




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