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describe myself hmmm well im a wild out going girlie!
im from england, i've been through a hell of alot with parents... counsellors... social workers... sex...pregnancy... relationships.. long distance love... all that so you can ask me almost anything!
my friends say im good at advice but i dno lol i do try my hardest if i dont know what to say or the best option i dont say it saving people getting annoyed with me lol hehe!
drop messages in my inbox im more likely to answer then on the site :) xXx

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Please help! My Mom's had relashionship problems ever since she divorced Dad. She has boyfriends and goes 'too deep' with them. One boyfriend she just broke up with Abused her or something, she hasn't really told me, and she loved him so much but she felt she had to break up w/ him. Now she's going to college and is taking out of her life savings, so this is like her last chance, and now her heart is so broken, she can't sleep, study... She doesn't want to talk to me because I think she thinks I won't understand. Please help me in any way you can! (link)
why dont you ask her to go out with u like go on a shopping trip or a relatives for the weekend or something, show her that u love her so when she has to work a study she'll think about how great you are and not about the people she has gone out with, hope i helps huni! xXx


Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do? (link)
dont worry you aint allone..
do you have a video reccorder or soemthing,(borrow off friend) you can set it up, when he abuses you then show the police and he cant get out of it then can he??
does he give you bruises and shit?? show the police and they HAVE to do something good luck huni! hope it goes well! xXx


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I have dandruff and whenever I wash my hair, my hair is all moisturized and great. But when my hair dries my scalp gets all dry and itchy. I have tried all the shampoos but they do not work. My question is: is there any kind of moisturizer (besides something where you have to get your hair wet) to use when my hair dries? (link)
try to just use conditioner on the ends of your hair to help the sculp not dry out..
you can get different shampoo's to help but i wouldn't use head and shoulders when my dad stopped using it the dandruff came back worse then when he started! that might not happen to you but just come advice, xXx


Hey everyone,
My sister n law is having a baby, and she just found out today that she's going to be having another boy! I was wondering if anyone could help me out, and suggest any boy names pretty much that you can think of. I already suggested about 45 names to my brother, and he hasn't liked any of them! He's the most picky person I know! I know alot of the common ones people use these days, so if you can try not to suggest some of those. Thank you so much in advance! I really appreciate it! I'll rate you a 5 if you try, cuz I'm a really nice person. :-)
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go to www.babynamesworld.com there are names from all over the world you can choose from!
personally i like ermm..
kieran
jacob
jesse


I'm on my period right now, and I'm feeling pretty crappy. Okay, I was having REALLY bad cramps for awhile before I actually started. I usually have some cramps before I'm on my period (which kind of tells me that I'll be starting soon), but these were horrible, I was having them all week before I actually started, and I couldn't sleep one night (I eventually started that night though). And I feel really sick in the stomach. Last month I actually vomited while on my period. And this month I feel the same way. I can barely eat anything, or I'll feel sick in the stomach, like I'm going to vomit at any moment. Whats wrong? 16/f (link)
ibuprophin works really well take 2, 3 times a day for the first 3 days it makes the period lighter on the heavy days and the pain goes away really well! good luck! xXx


well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks! (link)
yeah i think it does huni, i know he;s the guy but i think he would expect you to pay if he's a real gentleman he'll say oh i cant let u pay that and he'll pay msome or all which is good news for u :D


I just overdosed. I do it all the time but this time I think I did to much. I keep passing out so I'm making this quick. No one would understands my problems so I can't tell anyone. I feel freezing I have no air conditioner though and I live in FL it's 90 degrees. Something's definatly wrong. What should I do?! (link)
how cna you fucking do that my best mate was in hospital like 1 week ago when i foudn out today i cried my fucking eyes out if you really wanted to go you wouldnt be asking for fucking help on here would u bitch i cant believe you can do such a selfish thing!!!


I feel really weird asking this, but I have to. Im almost done with my period, and this morning I woke up with really bad cramps. Except they didnt feel like cramps. They are much, much lower than usual. I have been having them on and off all day. What could this be? And should I be worried? (link)
i have them the hole week of my period some people get them at different times but i've spoken to my friends and they all get them too! its perfectly natural you can ask ya mum! if your really worried i would go to your doctor but just wait until after your period and i think they would have gone..


Ok well me and this boy fucked on satday alright its monday and last night i started getting bumps and oucer thingys in my mouth we made out too well i guess you'd no that. But today i was talking to my bestest friend ed and i showed him and it spread all over the inside of my lip well you no right infront of your bottom teeth. He said its herpies. Is it? It was the first time we both had sex and i no hes kissed at least one other girl other then me this week or 2. And if this is herpies how can i get it to go away with out seeing the doctor?


*-*Plz help ill rate 5*-* (link)
it could be herpes but it could be thrush, i kno you dont want to go to the doctor but its best they can really help and wont ask any many questions. i promise you i went through it last week lol good luck


im 16 years old and 8 months pregnant..my boyfriend ..which is the father and is 19..wont have anything to do with me..he wont even touch me anymore yea he comes over every now and then but he doesnt stay long..it breaks my heart because i love him so much..he says he loves me but it definately doesnt feel like it..what can i do? (link)
awwwww huni!
try asking him why he wont talk or touch you? maybe he's just scared about whats going to happen in the next month! hes going to be a father after all its a big step for him, more you then him but you know hat guys are like, when he next comes round talk to him see how he feels and tell him how you feel. maybe when the baby comes along it will bring you back closer as there's a little bundle around!! good luck with everything hope the birth goes ok and if you like send me a piccie when s/he born :D
email me if u like sarahlouise_hall1@yahoo.co.uk xXx


I have never smoked and this is my first time smokeing. I smoked 3 full ciggs. Can that make you sick or will I be okay??? (link)
just remember that each cig u smoke takes 5 mins off your life...


im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks (link)
being pregnant makes you VERY emotional over everything!!!!
is shes on her own see if she'll go on
http://www.babynamesworld.com/forum/forum7.html
theres loads pregnant woman and if u register you can talk to them its really good and you can see how other woman who are pregnant feel xXx good luck hun xXx


ok so i wrote before about this boy that did not text be back and basically loads of people gave me good advice and thank you for that the one that said he wanted to be with me.One of the advice was to phone him so i did and his mum picked up his phone!!! so i just put the phone down.Do you think his mum took his fone away or maybe she now has it please could someone advice me why did his mum pick his phone up? (link)
maybe he didnt text you because his mum has taken his phone of him and thats why she picked it up!


my friends ken and sarah really like each other. they just started dating yesterday. the problem is, she lives an hour away from our town. they both love each other so much, but she is having a few doubts about the long distance relationship. i think LDR's are hard and don't usually work out, but i think these two can pull it off with their love. what do you think they should do? if you need more info, please tell and i will give it.

-me (link)
if they love each other and they really commit and have the money to like go on the train or whatever to see each other it will be all worth it in the end! they do work out some can get hard but as long as u love and trust they do work!


My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer. (link)
well the first time my boy friend fingered me i got a multiple orgasm but ya know i think there a bit rare lol.

if it hurts u have to tell him, if it's your first time u may bleed because that thin piece of skin (dont know the name) breaks. but if you have used a tampon you dont have to worry about that..
thats all i can think of at the mo.
hope i helped!
ooo and relax!!!


Lately, I have to pee all the time. I used to only have to go once a day. Now I have to go once every hour. Anyone know why this sudden change has occurred? Should I be worried? I'm 18 female if that helps. (link)
you could have some kind of infection, or you could be pregnant, i would go to the doctor!


in college I want to major in interior decorationg because I think I have a flair in that type of art. for those who don't know that much about it, it's when you help design color schemes, furniture, decorations, paint, etc. for peoples' rooms and stuff. Well I want to know if that's a good paying job and if I'll make enough money to support myself and kids, a house, etc. I'm not trying to be selfish, but I really want to know if it's a good enough job. Thanks. (link)
my mum is an interior decorator and she loves it she's really good at it too!!
she works by herself so she can set her own price and everything, we get by really well have enough money for most of what we want!


A while ago my phsycologist said that i had really bad ADHD and its ruining my life. For example, it took me four hours to do a language arts assignment that it took the rest of my class 1 hour. Heres my problem: my cousin also had ADHD and they put him on medication. Later, they found that hewas abusing the medicine and taking way too much so they sent him to a re-habbilitation home. Now my mom wont let the doctors prescribe me any medication because she thinks ill wind up the same way that he did. is there anything i can do? (link)
if its really ruining your life that badly shouldnt your mum just keep an eye on what you are taking??
tell your mum your different and as you understand what happens if u do take too much you wont do it.
ask if theres any other way to cure or help it, ther must be something you can take, like if you were allergic to the medication or somehting...


well i have a few questions.
1. whats the "easiest" way to break up with someone? (i know its not "easy" but i barely talk to the guy anyway and thats why im breaking it off)
2. how long should i wait before going out with one of his friends? (we were together for 2 months...theyre not close and his friends last relationship ended a week into mine.)
thanks & let me know if u need more info. (link)
i would say i think it was better when we were friends and as we dont talk whats the point,
and i wouldnt go out with his mate!
if it was ok with the ex i would leave it about 3/4 months maybe!


Ok, my girlfriend is pregnant and she's really worried about it. We're both 19 and this wasn't planned or anything. We talked about it for a long time and we both agreed that we want to keep it. Her parents disowned her when she was 18 becasue she started to see me, because she was raised catholic and I'm not catholic. I felt that was rediculous because I have nothing against catholics and I was willing to join the church if it meant I could be with her but she decided that she didn't want that...anyway her parents won't be helping us with her pregnancy and with the baby so we're on our own. (my mother is dead and I've never met my father) I know that she's going to be going through a lot with her pregnancy and I was wondering if anyone knew how I could help her get through with a little more ease. I'm working two jobs one full time and the other part time so I'm not around that much. But is there anything that I can do to be of any help to her or is there anything that I should look out for? I was also wondering about taking care of baby. If anyone has any tips about taking care of baby that would be a big help as well. Thank you for the advice and I will rate a five for any help.

Tim (link)
i know this GREAT forum site for people that are pregnant

http://www.babynamesworld.com/forum/forum7.html

if you go to

http://www.babynamesworld.com/forum/

theres different things about baby names and other things about pregnancy but the first one is all about pregnancy and TTCers

Theres loads of ladies there that are pregnant, trying to get pregnant and going through TTC to get pregnant, they talk about different problems and give you some advice, they talk about there families and everything so it's all friendly, i would take her to a brook clinic or like a pregnanting clinic to see if there's anyone she can talk to about her worries i hope i helped and good lukc to her i'm sure she'll make a wonderful mum :D




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