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my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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How do you give good head, and hand jobs where a boy really likes it, and can you get preagnet if you do it but the boy doesnt bust in you, how can you tell if he bust, and can he tell if he does for sure? (link)
head- guys like when you deep throat them, usually. alternate how fast and slow you go. and it turns him on if you act like you're enjoying it too. if you use your teeth, make sure it's only on his shaft and it's really really light. handjobs are pretty much the same deal, except with your hand, obviously.
and the only way you can get pregnant is if he ejaculates inside you or near your vagina.
i would suggest using a condom and if you can, start birth control a month before you plan on having sex.


I love Pramore. Are there any other bands that have a lead female singer? (link)
..i think the band you're talking about is paramore?


Ughhh! I am 14 and still, no period.
I have discharge, and pubic hair, and all the signs.
Last month the only one of my friends who still didn't have a period, got hers. Im pretty much the only girl in the grade without it.
Well my question is: Are there any other signs of when I will get it, besides the basic ones?
And Please do not tell me I am lucky I don't have it. Because I want it. ANY ADVICE IS APPRECIATED!!

Thanks!! :) (link)
you will get ridiculously moody and not even realize it. if you have a younger sibling, they'll probably be in trouble. not to scare you, but you'll get bad cramps in your lower abdominals.
last thing i have to tell you, enjoy your time without it, because it does suck. i promise, you don't want to get it.
ha, hope i helped.


im in love with this girl. ive liked her for a year and i still cant get her out of my mind. the past year ive been killing myself to get her approval, and nothings working. id give up every single thing on this earth for her. id give up every single dream i have in my future just to hold her once. shes the most beautiful thing in the world, and i want her worse than anything ive ever wanted anything in my life. i just want one chance with her, and if it doesnt work out, at least ill know i tried. (link)
don't kill yourself for her, no one is worth thatmuch hard work. if she doesn't show an interest more than friendship after a year, then don't keep pressuring her to date her; she'll respect you more for giving her her space.


my boyfriend is in none of my classes this year and im sad. im worried i wont be able to see him at all this year and im worried we'll break up. what should i do to make our relationship still special? (link)
just because you don't have the same classes doesn't mean you won't have the same learning material. once or twice a week you could go to the other's house to do homework. you still have the weekends to hang out, too. andd you still will see eachtoher in the hallways, so if you have classes together, you can walk with eachother. if you really like/ love eachother, you won't break up.


When my boyfriend fingers me, I like love it and believe me, he enjoys doing it. But sometimes he goes really like... "far up"... and it hurts. So I like want him to stop, but then I don't.

Is there a way to prevent that, or do I have to just tell him to slow down?

Plus, if he's fingering me and that hurts I can't imagine what sex must feel like, which we are planning on doing.
I'm of age, I'm in love, and we've been together for a long time, so there's no advice needed about those issues.

Thanks. (link)
just ask him to not go as "far up" into you and be more gentle.
i'm guessing the reason is because you ARE a virgin and haven't had your "cherry" popped [hymen broken] and that's why it hurts.
hope i helped :]


and i just had sex for the first time. slut much right? but anyways, i got really really excited and my mind went absolutely crazy. do you know why this is? (link)
uhhm, sex tends to do that to you. you were probably getting an orgasm. nothing to worry about.
just be careful, you're way too young to have a kid in your life.




what does deep throat mean. like what is it and how do you do it ? lol idk if that sounds wierd? but i dont know what it is (link)
when you give a guy head, deep throating is when you put his shaft down your throat. it's usually not too easy because of gag reflexes.


How do you have phone sex? i dont have the first clue.... (link)
you pretty much just tell whoever you're talking to what sexual things you would do to/with them.


i would do ANYTHING for you. anything youd ever want, i swear. i just want that one chance, i adore you. youre so beautiful, and no matter how many times i try not to, i can never stop thinking about you. (link)
if this is who i think it is, i think we chatted about this already.


you have no idea how much i love you. you're my everything. i would give up everything just to hold you once (link)
that's really cute.
talk to me?


i love you so much (link)
talk to me?


i absolutely adore you, and id do anything to have you even for a day (link)
aw,
talk to meee.


16/m

so i dated this girl Ashley about 4 months ago and we broke up. We went out for a little longer than 4 months and i even told her that i loved her which is a huge deal to me. She was my first really serious relationship and i thought that we were perfect for each other. We then broke up bc we went to different schools and we realized that i wasnt working. I thought i had moved on since then but i havent had any serious relationships just like hook up kind of things. I recently found some pictures we took together (just normanl ones) and all of a sudden i cant stop thinking about her and i keep thinking that i made a HUGE mistake breaking up with her. Im scared to call her again but i really want to talk to her. Is this normal? should i feel this crappy? (link)
it's normal. you're heartbroken. my advice? call her and talk to her like you're friends. talk to her a few times and if the subject doesn't come up, like if she doesn't bring it up, ask her about it. tell her how you feel, even if she has a boyfriend, she needs to know how you feel, and for you to feel better, you have to tell her.
good luck.


what is four play?and what is g-spot? (link)
foreplay is what people do before sex. it like, helps turn the couple on before they have sex. and a gspot i think, is the place the person gets an orgasm.


i already know you (link)
tell me?


Myself - 16/f
My Mom - 51
My Dad - 60

I realize my parents are getting older, and it scares me to no end. My parents haven't smoked for years but they used to, my dad needs knee surgery but won't get it and they both get very little exercise. My mom walks a lot, but my dad really doesn't do anything. Every time we go out, I can't help but worry that something might happen to them.

Everytime I think of something happening to them, which is everyday, I just start crying. I haven't even seen another teenager for the last two weeks because I have been spending everyday with my parents. I take as much time as I can to be with them but it never feels like enough. I'm so scared for them and it makes me so emotional.

Please help me find a way to cope with this, thanks. The one thing is, I will never talk to them about it or go to a therapist. If that was what you wanted to tell me, sorry in advance. (link)
schedule your days. spend 2 or 3 days a week with them during the week with them and one day a weekend, then spend the other days with your friends. it might not feel like enough, but trust me, your parents think anything more than 5 m inutes at your age is a miracle. if you want them to get more excersize, when you're with them, suggest you all go for a walk down the street or something. don't be so worried, though. people live so much longer these days than they did before. your parents wouldn't want you worrying about them and not hanging out with your friends. watching you live your life will make theirs a lot more enjoyable.


but he says i love you to like everyone, so i don't know if he means it or not. (link)
one time, say it back. see what he says. just give it a shot. if you don't, you're always going to wonder what would have happened, and i promise you'll regret it.
good luck.


16/f

hi, im in love with this really adorable boy, but he likes other girls and i dont think he wants much to do with me lately. i cant stop thinking about him, no matter how hard i try not to. but hes been saying that he loves me lately, and i honestly dont know what to do. should i even bother with him or try someone else? everytime i talk to him i feel so much better (link)
give him a chance. word to the wise though, don't put your entire heart and soul into one boy until you're sure you won't get hurt. if he's saying he loves you, i don't see why he would lie. just take a chance and see what happens.
good luck.


Okay well, all my life I felt like I have grown up all by myself. My parents weren't really there for me. I am the oldest out of four kids, and my parents would always leave us at my grandma's house when we were young. And when I started school they started leaving us at home alone. My parents would always be too tired, so they would never help me with my homework. I felt that I had to grow up and become someone important just so they can pay attention. So I would try so hard at school. I would get straight A's, get awards, and other stuff. But they simply didnt' show that they cared. They just always said "good job" and that's it. As I got older they kept pressuring me to become a lawyer at age 9. I felt so pressured. And now at age 15, I want to tell them that I don't want to be a lawyer. And that I don't want to stay in Anaheim or California. I really want to tell them, but they have so many expectations for me. I mean, they REALLY want me to be a lawyer and stay with them forever. I don't know how to tell them because my mom has panic attacks. And well, my dad can has had strokes in the past. I don't know how to break the news to them without them dying. What should I do? Am I a bad daughter for telling them that I don't want to be what they want me to be? Help, please. (link)
you just have to sit them down and tell them that where you are isn't really where you want to be when you get older. make sure you're calm and it's at a time when the don't have a ton of stress. they should understand, and you're young, so they may not take you seriously, but tell them it's something you've been thinking about a lot and staying where you are isn't what you want. they should be able to respect your decision.
you're not at all a bad daughter for wanting to follow your own dream as oppsed to theirs. you're you, they're them, you think differently and want different things.
good luck.




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