hi peoplez! im alorra, if u need advice on anything, like boys, girls, school, work, or anything else, dont be afarid to ask me, ill give you a good answer to just about any question.
thoughts for the day: some people are only alive because its illegal to shoot them.
i dont suffer from insanity, i enjoy it.
earth is the insane asylum of the universe.
Most important: Dont cry over someone who wont cry over you.
oh and one more thing, i answer things honstly, so my number 1 rule, dont ask me something if you dont want a honst answer.
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Location: Fantasy Land
Member Since: July 16, 2006
Answers: 55
Last Update: August 3, 2010
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14/f
Ok, I have dated this boy on and off since the fourth grade. Well the last time we dated was for 6 months steady... The last time I broke up with him he said he didn't have feelings for me anymore. For some reason I think he has feelings for me because we have been doing this for years. How do I find out if he still likes me without asking him or having my friends ask him. I of course still like him, but don't know what his feelings are... I need to know so I can eighter let out or try once more... PLEASE anything would be helpful, PLEASE help me!!! (link)
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well there isnt realy a way to find out without asking him, you could always try secret admirer notes, but the best way is always to just come out and ask.
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k i have been depressed non stop( well everyonce in a while ill have a good maby 3 days ) but i have been sad for about.. 3 years .. iam in gr 10 now and ever since i met this certain girl my mind has been on her non stop for the 3 years i get really sad and cry at stupid times for stupid reasons and i know ur thinking i should just not think about her and stuff because she makes me sad but the truth is she dosnt i make my self sad because i sweat the little things i dont acually have to, but i do and thats the kinda person iam and im wondering if i love her and if i should give up or not we have dated befor and then i broke up with her cause i thought she would be happyer but i was wrong and couldnt take that back because she was afraid id hurt her again .. we have had on and off relationships when it comes to kissing and huging but now were just good friends.. but id love for somthing to happen in the future when school isnt in are way to slow things down i say i love her but i dno if maby i like her for 3 -4 years.. i dno if you guys can answer this but is this gunna last for ever...or can i do somthing to stop it in terms of moving forward with her one day pushing her away and out of my mind is not an option she makes me the happyest person alive just by giving me a smile in the hall ways
how can i get her to fall for me as i did for her ( she claims that she felt exacly the same and i belived her because of how she described her feelings ) but i guess things change.. so how can i change them back and keep them there and tipps :( pleaseee.... iam 15 yr old guy (link)
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Well you cant change people, but you might want to tell this girl how you feel. You do need to understand that she might not feel the same way about you, but the only way your going to know is if you talk to her. Tell her that she makes you the happyest person alive, tell her that youd never hurt her for the world, but do tell her. Try flirting with her, not too much but just flirt. Also try not to make yourself upset over little things, some girls dont like guys who are always mopeing. But do talk to her.
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Okay so my name is jessica and im 13 and im going out with this guy and before we used to be bestfriends and we used to talk to each other all the time and we liked each other and everything. so he asked me out and i said yes. and now he wont talk to me or anything....we kiss all the time and things but sometimes i feel like telling him its over or something but i really love him. he wont even hold my hand or anything and i dont wanna be the first move.... PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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ok, ive had this problem before. what you should do is, one of these times when your kissing alot, when you stop for a breth, talk to him. ask him why you two dont talk much anymore, and ask him why he dosnt ever hold hands with you. i understand that you might not want to make the first move, but sometimes we girls just have to because some guys are clueless. and remember that if he isnt nice to you about this then he's not worth it.
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MY mom is like super emotional and my dad is horrible to her. He yells and screams at me and her. I have nightmares about him and I'm like really scared of him. please give me some advice, he is very mean to us. One time I ate an apple that he told my mom not to touch and I didn't know it was his but he like screamed at my mom and all. Then he went to slap her so I told him it was me. I got a big beaten. Help! (link)
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Get out now! this is abuse and you and your mom need to get out. your dad needs help, call social serveses and talk to them, if you need help, talk to me.
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I'm going to put this as clean as I can.
I had sex, and was giving the guy a hand job before hand and didnt finish him off.
He penetrated me a few times before putting on a condomn.
I haven't missed a period yet, but I should be getting it any day now.
But I've not felt well at all in the morning, my breasts have been really sore, plus I've been neasuated somewhat.
I'm not sure if it's possible I could be pregnant? I need some help here, and asap..thanks. (link)
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well your 18 so you wont have any problem going to a drugstore and buying a pregnancy test, so do that.
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ok i need a diet just to lose like 5 or 6 lbs
i need it to include running and a healthy food diet and any tips for getting "pumped" to exercise
p.s. include running i love to run!
thx MArylynn (link)
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ok try having a lower cal diet, and work out like at least once a day. try streching out, then running around the block without stopping. then try lifting weights and doing sit ups. this kind of workout will slimm you down, and give you more muscle in your legs, arms, and abs.
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I am a male in his 40's who has always had a hard time being sociable. It is starting to affect my work and social life. My fiance and I will be married next month and I am scared to death meeting a new family. And im pretty uptight at work ,I hardly speak to anyone,so they think that I am a prude. But its not the case, since I can be myself with people that I care about. Its pretty depressing,and I have to find a way out of it. I hope someone out there can help me be more outgoing. Id like to enjoy the rest of my life without being afraid of talking to people. Thanks in advance, JB33 (link)
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ok, this is something alot of people have a problem with. i would suggest you try complimenting someone, just out of the blue. for example, a guy you work with, but dont realy know, gets a new tie, when you see him say, "nice tie is it new?" or anything like that. or if you have a problem with something at work, [example, computer problem] ask someone you dont know if they know what to do about it. try to start conversations with people or ask some newer people if theyed like to go with you to lunch [example 2 or 3 people]. as for your fiance, every man in the world is terrified to meet his fiance's family, its natural, but you cant let it make you so nervous. calm down, and treat them like your own family, talk to them as if youve known them for years.
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I just want to know how you know when the person your making out with is enjoying it or not? (link)
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you know if your a good kisser if the guy you kiss, still wants to kiss you, and he tries to alot.
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Ok not to be rude or anythingg but i only come to advicenators when im REALLY desperate/ upseet/sad. Ok heres the whooole story. So i started going out with this kid mike in december that i REALLY liked and we were so good for each other, for a while it was going really greatt then him and i started fighting alot and by alot i mean everyday. It got so bad to the point where he would scream at me and call me and cunt and a slut. This stuff went on forever and even tho it isnt physical abuse its emotionall abuse and i would cry every night about how hurt i was. finally we broke up and i was crushed, becuase he is the one person i havve realy loved in my life. and now i am trying to find someone else but i cant stop thinking about him i mean love overpowers all and i want to get over him so much but all my guys friends right now are taken so its so hard. Also my x bf killed himself and it hurt so much and now mike hurt me too it seems like all guys hurt. love kills
someone please help i really need it (link)
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first of all you need to know that ALL guys are idiots,some are nice guys, but their all idiots. ok all i can tell you is that if this guy was calling you all the names then he dosnt deserve your love, and you might have to be single for awhile, sometimes you have to wait for the right guy.
my opinion, your ex is a major jerk and you should forget him.
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Hey yall. Well, I'm 14/f and I'm not so good on the whole introduicng yourself thing. If anybody could tell me the good way to introduce myself to someone, what to say, and what topics to talk about in a conversation so that I don't sound stupid would be great. I really want to make good friends this summer, but I just need the right start. Thanks! (link)
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well all i can say is, walk up to someone you want to get to know, say hi i'm [whatever your name is] and just ask them about themselfes, like their name, what their into like music and stuff, and the conversation will start to flow.
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ive been sore a lot of times before
but this soreness i cant take
its in my arms
and my arms i do alot with
and i hurts to move them sometime
is there anyway i can help it
or treat it?! (link)
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ok, try takeing long hot baths, or takeing some motrin i.b. there are also some products called hot ice, or anything similar, you put the cream on your arms and it helps
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I have a huge, ugly pimple on my face and I need it gone by tomorrow. I rarely ever get pimples and when I do, they are easy to get rid of, but not this one! Are there any at home remedies I could try? I have a very important event to go to tomorrow and I can't have this thing on my face! (link)
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if the pimple isnt gone try this
get an icecube and put it on the pimple for a while, then cover it with a little make up
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ok i'm 14/f and im 5'5 and i weigh like 110 pounds. am i like fat for my age? be honest. and dont say that its whatever i feel comfortable with or muscle weighs more than fat. i do gymnastics but only like once a week but i practice on my trampoline a lot so i do have muscular arms and some muscle in my legs.
thanks (link)
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what is your problem chick? you are not fat, like at all, your 5'5 and weigh 110, your thin, not fat.
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ok so theres this guy i really really like and he really likes me too. like every time i we say bye he tells me he loves me and he says the cutest stuff. and everytime i tell him i love him he says no i love you more and adorable stuff like that. so anyways hes friends with my ex that i went out with for 3 months. me and this guy tried to go out but my ex got really pissed off (because i was the one the broke up with him). my ex also hated me then. so i had to break up with this guy that i really really liked. this was about a month ago. now i am friends with my ex again and i still really really like this guy and he really really likes me and we talk every single day on aim or texting or the phone. i was gonna go to overnight camp and i told him that i wanted to be single for that but now im not going anymore because im going to colorado so i think he might ask me out but im really good friends with my ex now and i think my ex actually likes me again because he gets mad every time i talk to the guy i like and i say to my ex.. well why do you care its not like you like me or anything and he said well.. im not sure if i do or not. my ex also calls me every night just to talk.. which i think is a little weird. well if the guy i like does ask me out what should i do because i really wanna go out with him but i dont want him to lose my ex as a friend and i dont wanna lose my ex as a friend either. thanks sorry it was so long (link)
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ok well if you like this guy, you cant let your ex get in the way. i understand that you dont want to lose your ex as a friend but he sounds like a very posessive person. if you like the other guy then you should go out with him, your ex needs to deal with the fact that your not his anymore. if your ex is realy your friend now then he should be happy for you, and if he cant mannage that then you dont need him as a friend anyway.
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Last night my boyfriend got mad at me and said he was mad because he doesn't think I care about him. I love him with all of my heart and he loves me too. I just don't know how to show it. Please help. (link)
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well you should talk to him, ask him why he thinks you dont care,[look him in the eyes] and tell him you love him, let him know that you love him with all your heart. try going out more often and talk about him. make eye contact, compliment him every now and then, and smile.
ask me if u need any more advice.
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