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So this is what you typically get; but I'm really confused because different people have been telling me different things.

It's a simple question, really, and that is I can't tell whether this guy likes me or not.

I've never felt so comfortable around anyone before. Usually when I feel so at ease around someone they are either related to me, or FEELS related to me. The thing is we're really good friends and I don't want to mess things up; plus we sit next to each other in English and it will be really awkward.

I had a crush on him at the beginning of the year when we didn't really know each other then I stopped. After a while, he was really depressed for no reason at all, and I was really worried he might be clinically depressed or sth so I spent time talking to him and trying to push him to go to talk to a counsellor about it or sth. We spent a lot of time together and I started liking him again. We flirt so much in English but sometimes I can't tell if he's just being friendly because I know he really respects me. Like every once in a while he'd lie his head on my arms or sth and there was once he wrote I love ****(his name) on my binder and grinned because he knew I'd get into trouble when my mom sees it. There are a lot of other things we'd do but everytime I go into English I'm thinking, alright, stop flirting but before I know it his legs are in mine.

I know what you're thinking, what about try asking him? Well I did. I asked him whether he wanted to do anything during the Winter Holidays just as friends to see what he'd do, but he kind of avoided giving me an answer. He claims he doesn't like anyone. What do you think I should do?

Btw. 14 if that helps. (link)
ok for right now i would leave it as just being friends. But if all of a sudden he starts to like someone, maybe you can tell him how you feel. If he doesnt like you back then i would just say move on. No offense but there is no sense in liking someone if they dont like you back. And if they say it wont happen then maybe they are right it wont happen but things can change.


I want to know what I should do! ok there is this guy on my bus, at my school and is kinda of my neighbor. I liked him when I first moved at the school in 5th grade and mow I am in 7th grade and I like him still I used to flirt with him all the time and he used to sit with me on the bus and last year I heard around this time I was told that he liked me my brother is always hanging out with him and my brother asked if he liked me and he said that he thiught I was pretty and he thought I was boring and dont flirt any more but he wants to make out with me and stuff like that I dont get it ? he comes to my house all the time and my parents keep on joking around that he is using my brothe to see me but he goes out and plays and snow boards but my dad wont let me out and play and mow he thinks im boring well i think he is write and at least I could do is flirt with him more I have like once and that was yesterday and he got glassess and i told him that he looked really hot in those and then I thought that was corny so I want to do better my brother keeps on telling me that I need a b/f and I never had one before so I need one before my little brother gets one and he is only 10 my sis got on e befor I did and she is in 6th grade and I know now that I need one so my ? isa how should I flirt with him to start a conversation? I will give everyone a 5 if you answer this long ?. (link)
ok look to start up a conversation just say hi to him and then it will just go from there and if you dont no wut to say then just think about snowboarding and try and talk about that


i really like this kid A LOT. but this girl tries to get inbetween us and i htink says these stupid lies to me. I'm not sure if its true though. This boy hasnt called me since thursday, because i got really mad at him and yelled at him and i was being really mean to him. I'm afriad hes gonna go back to the other girl and that I lost my chances. I dont know what to do I feel so sick right now:( does anyone have any advice? (link)
well boyproblems,
if you ruined your chances with him try and find a way to get him back.. be affectionate and try and be friends with the other girl and if he seems like he needs help help him like if he isnt good in a subject ask him to come over to your house and try and explain then maybe tell him your sorry about yelling at him and that you hope he understands that u still like him

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okay so im f.16 and there is this guy at school. we had a class together last year and one this year, so far. and everytime i see him he stares at me we make eye contact and he never looks away. we have never talked. i was just wondering if he likes me or something or if he just stares at all people..? thanks! (link)
well i think you should like in the hallway maybe look around for him when it is that one period time walk with him to class and then find out if he likes you not by asking but i am sure u can find a way just show some affection

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Ok there is a boy who I have like the hugest crush on. But sometimes he can be so mean then I think "I hate him". Then the next day I'll like him. But most of the time he is nice. Now I think he likes me a little but how do I find out or not thats the thing? :( Please help me! (link)
well i think if you like a guy older then you you should go for it invite him over do something together let him no how much fun you are having being with him then just let him no again anf if this works let me no

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Alright I'm going to make this as simple as I can:
There's this white girl at my school and I really like her a lot but I don't get the feelin sometimes that she likes me but I've been leavin hints here and there letting her know how I feel about her but I think she still hasn't caught on we're both 13 I really like her and I'm black we get along but she's more of the I'm too busy into my work type and the silent type like I don't want to get in trouble in school type you know just the complicated type can u give me advice on how I can get this girl to know my true feelings besides askin her out on a date I only rate 5's so if your advice is bad you get nothin if it helped you get a 5
Thx
Signed, The Ebony Prince (link)
ok we will try again dont invite her over dont do anything!


I'm sixteen years old, I finally have a boyfriend. lol. We've been together for two & a half weeks. My mom doesn't know about him yet. He & two best friends keep telling me to tell my mom, but I don't know how to come out and just say it. She used to not want me to have a boyfriend a few years ago. I think she might have changed her mind about that but I'm not sure. I want to tell her soon though so I don't have people telling me to do it. So, does anyone have ideas about what I could say or do? I was thinking about writing her an email. Thanks. :) (link)
well i think you shood write her an e-mail especially if she checks it every day and if she read your e-mail and she brings the subject up just say mom i found someone i really like and i hope you can accept that i mean i am sure she will understand parents listen they love you and they will soon love him to

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I'm 14 years old, and there is this guy at my school that I have a crush on. I'm pretty sure he only likes me as a friend(for now). I'm trying to get him to like me more than just a friend. So, he has asked me to hang out with him and acouple friends two or three times, but whenever he askes me I always have plans already. Now he thinks I don't want to hang out with him. What do I do? I'm not really supposed to be hanging out with boys(my rents r really strict bout that kinda stuff) So how do I hang out with him and not have my parents find out? -parents suck (link)
well parents suck i think that you should first explain to ur parents you are responsible to hang out with boys especially if they are friends... obviously since you cant hang out with him beacause you are so busy tell him to call you and you guys can make a day where your not so buys
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