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is it normal for a guy to be exhausted after having sex for the first time?

Absolutely.

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im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks

Pregnancy is a crazy time. I know a lot of single mothers that are all like 22, so woo. Anyways, your girlfriend is on an emotional and hormonal rollercoaster right now. I would see if there is anything on the market for such a thing, something natural and wouldn't affect the baby. Really, just be there for her. It's a really normal thing to be a basket case when you are pregnant, so be understanding. Plus, I know there are a lot of books on pregnancy and hormones, you should check it out- their experts. hope this helps.

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17/f ..all the time i cry..about little things and i get upset very easily sometimes i jsut sit in the bathroom and cry...i think about my life and whats going on and i just break down..does anybody know what i can do.or have an idea whats wrong? please help i rate high

It sounds like depression or anxiety. Because I don't know your situation or about who you are it is difficult to say exactly. I would say though, that you should go get an evaluation to see whether it is mental or chemical.. it could just be that you are a naturally sensitive person which drugs could change or you have something that is bothering you subconciously. I'm not a big fan of drugs myself, whatever it is you should try to do it without a perscription first, but it is always an option as a last resort.. hope that helps.. and like someone else said, these things do affect a lot of people so don't feel alone or weird.

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this isnt exactly about sex, but i think it may have something to do with it.

i have a lump on the very top inside of my thigh, underneath, yeah. well its not always there, but every now and then it just kinda shows up. usually for about 4 days or so. but this time its been there for about a week. could this be something wrong, or maybe just a gland. and if it has n e thing to do with it, i am not a virgin. please help, im freaking out! thanks soo much.

It's a lymphnode. They swell when you are getting over an illness or during allergy season. Lymphnodes are dump sites for your immune system, eventually your system will settle and flush all of that bacteria out and the lymphnodes will go back to normal. They are all over your body: under your jaw, in your neck, arm pit, sides, groin, etc.

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I am in love with this guy. He is my ex-boyfriend and he broke up with me for reasons that no longer exist. Well, I love him and he's in love with this girl. She's in love with someone else and is in a serious relationship with him. My ex is really unhappy. He helps those two see each other as often as they can and he takes the noble way. He told her that he loved her and she ran away. In fact, he's only told two people "I love you" and they both have run away. He has this large void that needs filled. His mother is dead. And his father doesn't see him. He lives with his Aunt and Uncle. I wish there was something I could do to make him happy. He knows I love him and that I'll always be there for him. He just doesn't love me. I'm not trying to get him to love me, I just wish there was something I could do to make him happy. His happiness is the most important thing to me. He poured his soul out to me last night and we cried together for two hours. I know he likes me. I mean what guy stares at the front door when you go inside for an extra few minutes and doesn't care about you. Everyone also thinks he's using me. I don't think he is because he still has some feelings for me. I mean we hit 2nd base last weekend (my first time) and we made out a lot. I want to know where do I go from here. I wish I could fill that void in his life because I would do anything for him. Is there someway that I could help him get this girl to love him or for him to get over her? What can I do to help?

This guy is the first of many. If you don't understand that people come in and out of your life very easily- then life will be hard. You should take your friends advice, they are most often the ones that see what you don't - "ie. him using you." It sounds like you are having trouble drawing a line between lust and friendship. You can care about him, but if he doesn't treat you well, which it looks like he doesn't, then 2nd base means nothing. Get out of there girl he is not doing anything good for you.

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so i want to impress this guy at schol so how should i waer myhair? i have light brown hair that goes up to my ribs, i have long bangs, and it is layered

If he likes you, he will like you however your hair is. Don't try too hard because he's not worth it if you have to go out of your way to impress him. Love yourself the way you like yourself.

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why do parents always say "your not in love its just puppy love" how the hell do they know i mean they arent you and all that and just because they didnt find love and all that at the age of 15 and 16 doesnt mean that others cant sometimes people do find love right? that just gets on my nerves so much when my mom does that

Love is something that no one actually knows. In this country you're lucky to find true love, because as we have seen there are too many people that think they are in love, get married and then divorced. Love is something that everyone is constantly figuring out, so neither you or your mother are right... to each his own perception of the world and one's relationships.

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