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15 year old male and im gay and i have really strong feelings for this guy we are good friends ive had feelings for him for awhile im too nervous to tell him ive come close to telling him but im not sure if he likes me not real sure if hes gay im worried he might reject me im nervous about it getting out that im gay but i really like him but im nervous to say anything how do i go about it do i just talk to him? (link)
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Ok, this is kind of a hard question.
You have to be ready for rejection, because, first of all, he might not be gay. and you cant really make him be either. If he's your good friend, you should just sit down and talk to him, and say that you are gay, and if he's truely your friend he will be ok with it. If he is ok with it, tell him that you like him, but you would understand if he only likes you as a friend, and you dont want it to ruin your friendship.
If he isnt ok with you being gay, then, you should probably stay away from him. He can start rumors (or even truths) that you dont want to get out.
Also, about getting out that you are gay, does anyone know that you are??
Depending on where you live, such as a city, people might be more accepting of gay people. If you live in an area where I live (like... christian churches EVERYWHERE, unnaccepting of gay people) you might not want to come out that you are gay. But you are who you are, and people SHOULD accept that. just, some people arent comfortable around what they dont understand, and it comes off as hate.
Im sorry if my answer was confusing, but i really hope i helped. if you have any more questions, just ask!
Good Luck!
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is it possible to email myself a video from my phone or any possible way to get the video to my computer? cause when i try to send it as a message it won't let me. (link)
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well i think some carriers have a way to text it to yourself. but my advice is get a micro sd card, and put it in your phone, and save it onto that, and then you can put the micro sd in your computer, and transfer it whereever you want when its on your computer!
Hope i helped!
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what matters more to you, what you really really want or what you deserve? and why? (link)
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Other people matter more than what you want or deserve. But you cant always get what you want, or what you deserve, but you SHOULD Want what you deserve.
this is a really difficult question to answer, but i hope i helped.
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ok, i'm 14 year old girl and i have a boyfriend, and i really like him, we spend lunch and break times together, hugging, we wait for each other to come out of lessons, hold hands and stuff. this is really typical, but it would help to know if he wanted to kiss me, not proper snogging, just a little one on the lips.
when we hug, he kisses me on the head (mostly because that it is the only part he can easily kiss with out leaning down, he is quite tall) and he brings me in for hugs all the time. he is also quite protective over me, and wont let people hit me over the head with water bottles etc. (ummm... yer, this one person seems to do it all the time... don't ask...) he is quite shy, the 9th of december is our one month, if that helps?
answers from boys would be helpful, but girls are welcome to give advise, like if he does want to kiss, which way do i go in, head tilt? kissing is a confusing business...
oh yer, i'm from England :) (link)
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I could tell you were from england! not many americans say snogging! :)
Anyway, I think you should just ask him, tell him you want to kiss him, or just go try to kiss him when he goes to kiss your head, lean your head up. About which way to tilt your head, see which way he tilts his, and tilt yours the other way. So your noses don't hit each other.
I hope I helped, and good luck! And happy one month to both of you!
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ok, im 13 (turning 14 at 12.08.09) im a male and i need advice on what to tell people i want! everyone asks me what i want and im not sure.(this question also goes for chistmas)can give meh advice?!? thanxx (link)
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think of stuff you want.
Here's some suggestions,
Ipod,
laptop,
video games,
giftcards,
clothes (i know, clothes is more a girl thing than a guy thing)
Cell phone,
new computer
camera
musical instrument
it really just depends on your likes and needs.
I hope I helped, and have happy birthday and merry christmas!
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I skipped a period last month and this month when I got my period it is brown blood. From what I understand, my skipped period was due to dehydration. Is it possible that this is blood that has been sitting in my uterus (or whatever) so it's brown with age? Not a medical emergency, just curiosity. Thanks. (link)
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well, what i think if could be, is some times your period can change times, and be lighter or heavier than others. Sometimes when i have a light period it is brownish color. So i think its normal, but if its still weird next month, maybe you should ask a doctor.
I hope i helped
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i think its because of winter, but lately ive been getting some dandruff. not a lot, but some. i used head&shoulders, said to be anti-dandruff, but it just gave me more.
any other shampoos / conditioners? thanks :d (link)
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I know that if you use to much shampoo, conditioner or hair products it can give you dandruff. so maybe try using less.
And Here's a site that has some information and suggestions.
http://www.getridofthings.com/get-rid-of-dandruff.htm
Hope I helped and good luck!
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my parents told me to make a list of what i wanted for christmas..but i don't really know what i want...every year i usually just ask for giftcards and stuff but i want to ask for something that i can get excited to get ON christmas...soo what are some things a 17 year old girl would want? hahah (link)
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there are so many things you could want,
Ipod, cell phone, laptop, if you are into music, then an instrument, cd's, makeup, books, clothes, jewelry, video games, movies (dvd's), a new pet, portable dvd player.
Hope i helped! Have a merry christmas
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i wont a sleep over with my best friend, but the thing is im not the best at making a good conversation and its always her making the conversation an i think she is abit sick of it tbh. anyone no how i could make an interesting funny conversation ? thanks :) (link)
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Well, first of all, just ask her if she's getting sick of it. if she's really your friend, she will understand that you have trouble starting conversations.
Well, you can talk about anything, pets, news, facebook, myspace, random things you've always wondered, pretty much anything at all. I myself am a very random person, and it can make for some really fun conversations. just think of the most random thing, and mention it, but nothing too crazy. Something like....... well i actually cant think of anything right now, because im thnking about it. you just have to point out something kind of random.
again, if you dont want to be random, you can talk about your pets, school, myspace, facebook, boys, news, holidays, your family. just bring something up.
I hope i helped, good luck, and have fun!
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19/f
I recently moved into a house near college with two people, my best friend and her best guy friend. Not to her knowledge, he and I have been seeing eachother for almost three months now. Ergo, we've had to be secretive about our relationship.
Yesterday he asked what I was doing for Christmas, I instinctively answered that I was spending it with my parents, and then he asked if I wanted to go home with him for New Years, in that case visit. I was super psyched and I agreed, but said I would have to get my parents permission since I would be taking their car to drive to his place (2-3 hours away). My parents are aware of the situation and approve, and have been since the beggining.
This is what brings me to my dilhema; he doesn't want to tell his parents about us as a couple. I mean when they visited the house for Thanksgiving, I understood why we were 'just roommates' because it had only been like a month since we started dating. However, this time, he invited me to spend the holiday with him, at his home, with his parents. Would this not qualify as a 'meet the parents' situation? I mean, of course I've met them already, once when we moved in, and again at Thanksgiving, but this just seemed more 'legit' in a 'comming out' way. Am I wring to think this?
I understand if he just doens't want to tell people because of the risk of our roommate finding out, but he hasn't even told his best friend, which kind of bothers me as well, but I'm okay with it, I guess I just like to talk to my friends. But why won't he tell his parents? I know he doesn't tell them much, but if he's inviting me over, would that not be a good thing for them to know? I mean, I don't want to be lying to them, that wouldn't go over so well. (link)
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Well maybe if he invites you over, he is either getting his parents used to you, or hoping they will understand that you two are together, without straight out coming out and telling them.
If they ask, then tell them, because they dont deserve to be lied to, but you dont have to go out of your way to tell them.
Does that make sense?
its kind of like the saying "you arent lying if you only tell part of the truth"
I hope i helped, and have fun!
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I'm class of 2012 and we have to make posters for a rally and we dont have anything good to put on our posters. So basically i need a quote or saying for class of 2012. I'm a sophomore, my school colors are blue and gold, and we're the grizzlies.
so please help me :)
thanks! (link)
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I found these, they have a few good ideas:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080917213041AAYidOZ
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20081027171550AAZbEh6
Good luck! hope i helped!
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A couple of days ago my boyfriend said, "I tend to **** everything in life up." And I said, "No you don't, you haven't ****ed up this relationship." Now here's the weird part... the next thing he said was "Well, I'm trying to distance myself from you so when I do **** it up, the breakup won't kill me. Because it will." He wouldn't talk about it after that... what the heck does it mean and what do I do?! I'm sort of freaked out. (link)
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Truthfully i understand your situation. I really dont know what to say to you though. My ex told me something like that, and we both have depression issues, and he is trying to prevent pain to the both of you, but im not really sure why.
What happened with me and my ex boyfriend, he does stupid things, for absolutely no reason, and he knows he does that. Maybe your boyfreind is kinda like that, and knows that he might do something to **** it up.
All i can really tell you to do, is try to put yourself in a mindset that, whatever happens, if you love him, and he is happy, that is all that should matter. Also keep an open mind. if he breaks up with you, there are 7 billion more people on earth. You will find someone eventually.
I cant really tell you much more. but if you need someone to talk to, im always here for you, and just ask me.
Sorry i couldnt help more, but dont forget im here for you!
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i have been dating this guy for 5 months now, and we have had sex and we both care about anther. i love him and i have loved him for awhile now. i know he cares about me but he hasnt said "i love you" he has told me that he is scared and doesnt want me to get hurt and that he about about me.he knows how i feel, even though i havent come out and told him that i love, but he knows. i dont want to tell him i love him because i dont want him to feel pressured into saying it back. so the question is; does he love me? (link)
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I'm guessing, if he cares so much not hurt you, then he probably does. its really hard to tell, why dont you ask him, but tell him that he shouldnt be pressured to say something he's not ready to say.
I hope I helped.
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Alright so I have a few dream questions.
What does it mean when I dream about my crush/ex really good guy friend calling me on the phone and telling me he 'loves me alot'
And what does it mean when I dream about my bitch ex bestfriend and her starting the friendship up again?
AND what does it mean when I dream about ghosts moving things in my house and basically scaring the shit out of me?
Thanks (link)
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dreams are expressing what your subconsious is thinking.
What i would think if i had those dreams, is you really like your ex. Maybe you want her to be your friend again, even if you think you dont, part of you might.
About the ghosts, maybe your dream is trying to release creativity.
Also, some people (me) sometimes have dreams that come true. Maybe the first couple are "psycic dreams."
I hope i helped
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16/f
I consider myself a straight individual. I've always been attracted to guys, and I'm only interested in having a romantic relationship with a guy. But sometimes I question if I am weird or not, because I like to watch porn. Especially girls, either with another girl or with a guy. It really arouses me and makes me consider want to like, touch and goof around with another woman and their bodies. However, like I said I would never want a relationship that way. Its like a curiosity, I guess.
Is this normal? Is watching porn bad? I'm just really afraid my parents might find out or my friends. (link)
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Watching porn isnt bad. Almost everyone does it. Mostly guys watch it, but even girls watch porn.
Its also normal to be "curious" about other women.
Believe me, because i'm also 16/f.
I hope i helped, and believe me it is normal, and watching porn isn't bad.
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how do i get rid of arm fat/flab? (link)
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Do alot of arm excersices such as push ups, lifting weights, etc.
That is the best way to help get rid of the fat/flab, and it builds muscle at the same time.
Hope i helped and good luck!
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I am female 5'1 17 and 112 lbs.
I recently went from 113 lb- 108 lb via the special k diet but I cheated and gained weight and ever since then my diet is al messed up. I need to get back to 108 lbs (or even lower) but I don't know how. I need a diet that will work fast and one that won't mess up my system so if I cheat once I won't
have gained almost all back.
Can someone help me with a full on diet plan?
Thank you much (link)
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Can i first say, i dont know why you want to lose weight. i've weighed 170-180 for the past 5 years, and im 16.
What i think would help you most, would be excersice. that is the best way to lose weight. watch what you eat, but you can cheat some times, and still be ok. just keep excersicing, and you should lose weight
i hope i helped, and good luck.
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15/f
I have one class with this guy. He's 15 like me too. He asks me questions like what I did over the weekend, and we crack jokes and flirt sometimes. I just met him this year in the class but I want to take it farther. I want to maybe hang out with him outside of school or just be able to have a conversation that's not about the homework in the class were taking. I could talk to him on facebook but I don't want to freak him out. He's shy and I don't know his friends and he doesn't know mine. I also don't want to throw myself at him. Most guys if they like me will talk to me outside of school but I feel like he doesn't like me yet but I want to get to know him (link)
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just go ahead and talk to him. Dont start stalking him or anything, but if you both have texting, just text him. or talk to him on facebook.
Try to get to know his friends better, just go up to him at lunch or something and start a conversation. i know it might be hard, but just gather up the courage and talk to him.
I hope i helped and good luck
if you have any more questions, just ask!
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Hey
What does 'aur sampark me rahiye' mean??
Thank you (link)
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i searched every search engine, and even translators for dozens of languages, and the most i found is that aur is gold in Romanian.
Do you know what language or anything else about it?
I'm sorry i couldn't be more help.
Good luck.
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I'm new here and I didn't know how to properly ask a question. The Subject is basically my question. In an email, a woman told me she had a sore (pimple) on her rump many years ago and it has recently reoccurred. She says she has herpes. but I have my doubts as she has never had a genital or oral sore. I have asked her if she had a blood test, but so far she hasn't answered. Is it conceivable that she actually does have herpes? I wonder because I was diagnosed and treated for herpes, when I didn't have herpes or any other STD.
David Hogben, PhD (link)
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well, im only 16, and have never had an std or anything, because i've never done anything to get one. but, couldnt it just be a zit? i've had a few zits on my butt and back. of everything that i've heard of herpes, i thought it was only in the genital or oral areas.
I guess it could be herpes, because again, im 16 and not a doctor. but i think it was probably just a zit.
hope i helped.
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