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15 year old male and im gay and i have really strong feelings for this guy we are good friends ive had feelings for him for awhile im too nervous to tell him ive come close to telling him but im not sure if he likes me not real sure if hes gay im worried he might reject me im nervous about it getting out that im gay but i really like him but im nervous to say anything how do i go about it do i just talk to him?
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Ok, this is kind of a hard question.
You have to be ready for rejection, because, first of all, he might not be gay. and you cant really make him be either. If he's your good friend, you should just sit down and talk to him, and say that you are gay, and if he's truely your friend he will be ok with it. If he is ok with it, tell him that you like him, but you would understand if he only likes you as a friend, and you dont want it to ruin your friendship.
If he isnt ok with you being gay, then, you should probably stay away from him. He can start rumors (or even truths) that you dont want to get out.
Also, about getting out that you are gay, does anyone know that you are??
Depending on where you live, such as a city, people might be more accepting of gay people. If you live in an area where I live (like... christian churches EVERYWHERE, unnaccepting of gay people) you might not want to come out that you are gay. But you are who you are, and people SHOULD accept that. just, some people arent comfortable around what they dont understand, and it comes off as hate.
Im sorry if my answer was confusing, but i really hope i helped. if you have any more questions, just ask!
Good Luck!
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