I am completely blunt. Unlike the ignorant adults who feel like they are keeping you safe by "sugar coding" the truth. I'm going to tell you how it is.
I have been on my own since i turned 18. I have the brady bunch family on the outside, and the Osbournes on the inside.
despite overcoming a drug addiction at the age of 16, I later found my place in this world, Helping others. If you want the TRUTH talk to me.
I'm not mean or rude, i just say what's real! check out my web page and see what type of person I am.
E-mail: Amanda_vann2005@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Texas
Age: 18
AIM: strafish72204
Member Since: September 11, 2005
Answers: 47
Last Update: October 8, 2005
Visitors: 3609
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Ive been with my boyfriend now for about one and a half months, and i think he loves me and i think i love him, we have a very happy relationship. Thing is i want to go further than how far we have gone, snogging.
He is really indecicive so i dont think he is going to make the first move so how can i without freaking him out, making him nervous, seeming like a slut or being blunt (like asking/telling him, i cant do that)
Particular help needed refering to 2nd base and home run.
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Girls are very sneaking so you need to stand up and be the woman. Make the move. It's not considered being a slut. We have needs as well.
The best way that always worked for me was to watch a movie.
Stay at home (just the two of you), and pop some popcorn. The dark setting and the heat will definately turn up.
Start with the hand holding. then put your hand on his thigh. start kissing on him. If he's a healthy straight teenage boy, he'll take the bait!
Hope it works! =)
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ok i have like a redish brown hair and today im going to get it died mayb like just a brown then get like cranberry blonde and carmel highlights...do you guyz thinks its a good look or not?
I'll right all 's for all answers!
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If your going to dye your hair your self be sure to go to sally's beauty supply or a beauty supply store in your area. There are tablets you put in the actual dye to get rid of any brassy tones.
if you are going to get your hair professionally dyed, that would probably be better because you want high lights as well.
It should look great!
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Hey.
Im starting high school next year. I dont think ill know anybody because im moving. Not far away really, but a different city && school district. I'm really shy at school && around new people. But around my friends & crazy and outgoing. I want to make a good first impression when I start school. I want to step out of shell & be outgoing & popular ( not bitchy popular just the loving popular with tons of friends) What should I do? & How should I make new friends? Thanks! I rate High! (link)
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I know all about making new friends and wanting to be excepted in a new enviorement. My father is in the military so my family moves around alot.
what you should probably do is, join as many school clubs as possible. do what you think might interest you and what might get you closer to people. If you aren't an out going person then make small talk in class. such as, ask a random person for the time. Laugh in class when others are laughing to (even it's not funny). It lets people know you aren't stuck up and you do have a personality. Nobody likes people who are quiet or reserved it makes them seem stuck up.
Try to push your self into doing something positive that you wouldn't useually do. Besides no one knows you, so you can now be anyone you always wanted to be. =)
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my friend is 13 and she had sex with a sixteen year old and she got pregnant because her cheap boyfriend couldn't spare the extra 3 dollars to buy the good condoms and it ripped, so now she's all excited about having a baby and i told its nothing to be excited about and i told her that when your that young and have a baby that its not very safe and you could die is it true?
and by the way i love my friend to death and i have know clue what to say to her about the whole thing and she's mad that everyone is calling her a slut which she is! (link)
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Your friend may have made the mistake by having sex at a young age as well as getting pregnant, but as her friend you should continue to be by her side. It's tough being a teen parent and even though she is excited about having this child now. she's going to need a good solid friend who will be there to support her when she needs it most. Also, if she sleeps around with about 100 guys, no female or male deserves to be called a slut. We all make mistakes and no one has the right to judge anyone for whatever they may do. Keep your head up, and be a friend. Stick this pregnancy out with her. when you need someone most, you may be assured to have the same friendship that you have given to her. =)
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should you still have sex with your ex??...if you have feelings for him still but arent sure if he has them for you
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Wow! no you definately shouldn't have sex with your ex. Especially if you two broke up for a reason. If you are having sex with him and you aren't sure he feels the way you do,it's because he is using you for that one reason. That could be the reason in the first place why you were together when you were dating.
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I'm 17/F and I need advice concerning my boyfriend. We have been together about 2 months now and things have been up and down between us, but we are head over heels in love with eachother. We occasionally have our fights over petty things, but we always make up and I am very happy being with him. Well recently things were even more amazing than usual and we hadn't fought like we usually would. Well it seems like everyone is out to break us up. I had my ex boyfriend trying to tell him that I cheated on him, and then I had guys that used to be friends with him telling me he cheated on me. Everyone was trying to get us to break apart and the underlying reason was crystal clear to me: They wanted us to break up so that I would be single so they could make their move on me. All of them mentioned how they could "treat me better" and all that bullshit. I truly love my boyfriend and I would NEVER cheat on him. But the one area that I always stumble into in all the relationships I've been in is trust. I'm naturally not a very trusting person. And I definently don't trust my boyfriend that much. I trust he would never cheat on me, but when he tells me something I don't trust his word on it. He makes up white lies all the time and exaggerates alot. I have no problem with this really, because I can be a fibber at times as well. But the problem I do have is that he is VERY secretive about his serious issues in his life. Like his family especially. He only lets me know bits and pieces about his family issues. He lives with his mom and his step-dad. I know ALOT about this family. I've met them and I know all of them really well. But his real dad I don't know much about and he doesn't tell me much. His real dad he is not allowed to see because his mom doesn't want him around him, so she told my boyfriend that if she caught him going up there to see him she would send him to military school. So he secretly keeps in contact with him and visits him only about twice a year. He said he won't tell me much about it because the last girl he was with threatened to tell on him to his mom once and she almost got him caught and he said he wants to keep certain things to himself. And I understand that. I'm the same way. But he is double-sided. If I keep something to myself and I am upset about it, he will get PISSED if I don't tell him all the details. And just last night I was hanging out with him and his mom called his cell demanding him to get his ass home or she would call the cops. He had just got off work and it was around 12:30 when we drove back to his house. His mom and step dad were pissed because he "hadn't done his laundry" and he was out late, when he doesn't have a curfew on the weekends! So that didn't at all make sense to me. Well he pulled up at his house and his step dad was standing in the front lawn. He gave me a kiss goodnight and the minute he opened the car door to get out, his step dad reached his hand into the car, grabbed my boyfriend by the hair and threw him onto the front lawn and started punching him and kicking in his ribs and face! I immediately got out of my car and ran over there. His step dad was punching him and cussing him out and my boyfriend was on the ground screaming, "I didn't do anything wrong! STOP!" Well I started screaming at his dad to stop fucking beating him up and he looked at me and briefly stopped and told me to get in my fucking car and get the hell out of there or something will happen. I stood there not wanting to leave, but my boyfriends uncle gently pushed me toward my car and told me to leave quickly. The whole night I couldn't sleep or eat and I was crying all night and morning because I was afraid they found out he went to see his real dad and they were going to send him away. And I was also afraid my boyfriend would decide to move 2 hours away to get away from them. Well I finally got to see my boyfriend around 10:30 and his face was all cut up, his ear cartilage was torn, his back was covered in welts and so was his neck and chest, and his head had a HUGE bump on it. He told me his step dad called the cops on him because he punched him and busted his nose. (His dad had continued beating the shit out of him for 15 minutes straight after I left and drug him by his hair up the stairs so my boyfriend got up and punched him in the face). Well when I asked why his dad did this he said he would tell me later. Then he told me later that he couldn't tell me because it was a "family issue" and it didn't concern me and it was something real serious, and he was told not to talk to anyone about it. Well I was upset that he wouldn't tell me, but I wasn't going to press it. Well later that night he told me the reason was because he "missed curfew", "kept having people over without permission", and "wasn't checking in with them enough". I know it was a lie. I can tell when he lies and he was lying to me. But I wasn't going to add stress by bringing it up. So is there any way that I can get my boyfriend to open up to me? I understand people need there privacy and some thing kept to themselves, but there are certain things I think I should be entitled to knowing since I am his girlfriend, and since he expects me to tell him about my serious issues as well. (Sorry my question is so long!) (link)
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The fact is..do you trust your boyfriend? Do you think he trusts you? There will be obsticles in a relationship but couples have to be strong and stick them out. That's what makes you strong! Forget thefriends who are trying to come in between you two. they aren't real friends to begin with. =)!
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Hey everyone, I just got back from my brother's party, and I got a little drunk. I think I'm sober, but I still feel a little weird. I don't feel sick yet, but if I do get sick, my dad will find out and we'll both get in a lot of trouble. Is there anything I can do besides drinking water, so that I won't get sick? I can't sleep either. What should I do?
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Hey definately eat alot of bread when you are drunk or even a little tipsy. the bread will soak up any type of alcohol that is in your system. Also try to spray parfume to drown out the smell of the alcohol that may have soaked through your poors (trust me, that does happen).
Brush your teen as well. You should be perfectly unnoticed!
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