I recently sent a few friends the link to this site. Since then I haven't heard from any of them and wondered what I had done to upset them. I can see they are on IM but they never answer. I go to a chatplace we all use and no ones talking. I came here to ask advice and now I find they have all joined and are busily handing out advice like it's on buy one get one free.
I have once again tried to talk to them to ask what's going on but I am still not getting any replies.
I am very concerned they have become addicted to being Agony Aunts/Uncles, and do worry that this may lead to them neglecting not only their friends but also their work and families.
I will feel really guilty if any of them end up getting fired from work for slacking off and then lose their house beacuse they can't make the repayments because they may then end up getting divorced and they won't be able to make the maintenance payments either and will probably end up living in a cardboardbox on the streets.
Am I a bad person for sending them the link in the first place? And how can I help them break this addiction before it goes too far?
Usually after going to a place all the time it gets kind of boring, they might go away from it and them come back. Just remind them that they have other stuff to do and keep them aware of that.
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When ever i babysit for this one family, they never pay me until weeks later. Im kinda shy to ask for it..but what should i do?
Well in that situation I would take the easy way out, by getting someone else to do it for you. Or you could casually tell them that you were hoping to have the money within the week so that you could go do something or spend it or something.
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I have this guy that goes to my school and i really like him he gave me my first kiss but know he has a girfriend and i hate her, well i never really got to know her but i like her now.(as a friend) and i thought if i started to talk to her he would start talking to me but it didnt work. I got very sad becase he never talked to me so i wrote him a note asking him why we dont talk anymore and i asked him to w/b. And he didnt. but thats not the point so what should i do? Should i just leave him alone and move on with my lfe or should i keep on doing what im doing? Well i am just waiting to get him walking by himself and ask him what up? 16/Female
Just go about your normal life, if you see him somewhere say hey, he'll eventually start to notice you.
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why does its always seem that my boyfriend is always going after other chicks and flirting with them even when i am around. i mean i really love him and i dont wnt us to be apart. i love hom to much, every time i talk to him about it he doesnt admit it. but i think that he is seeing some one else. What should i do??
Female 17
I personally would talk to him about it, ask him why he does that, ask him if he wants to be with someone else other than you, ask him if he wants to take a break or if he truely cares for you, question his motives.
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I got my lip periced last year and that hurt like woah. Does getting your tounge peirced hurt worse
Yeah you're tongue hurts alot worse, lip doesnt hurt half as bad as tongue does. When you get your tongue pierced it's swollen and you cant really eat for like a week, and it takes about 2 weeks to start healing.
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well i have this guy friend that i talk to right but it the thing is the is like in his 20 and i really like him. and i can tell that he likes me...the bad thing is that i have boyfriend and i dont want to tell this guy that because he will be heartbroken... i mean he really wants me to go see him like everyweekend i have no clue what to say to him. god i really need up with this one... i really want him what should i do...PLZ HELP???
Go hang out with him but break it down to him easily that you have a boyfriend, like drop hints at first, and later if he says something about what he does or used to do with one of his ex's then be like "oh me and my boyfriend do that all the time" or something, that way you're implying that you already thought that he knew you had a boyfriend, etc.
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i like this guy and i think we're both going to this party on Friday.. He wants me to talk to him more but i dont know what to talk to him about. i need help b4 tomorrow. Its the last day of school b4 Thanksgiving vacation and i have to check it tomorrow. So if you can plz help me and give me some topics to talk about...
Another thing.. his birthdays comming up and i dont know what to get him...
Say it aint so....
Just talk about random stuff, ask him stuff that you dont know about him, tell him stuff about you, when the conversation gets dull keep coming up with more random stuff, eventually you'll find something to talk about for awhile.
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Ok I have this friend and I thought she was ok until recently I was dumped by my boyfriend and now she flirts with him like hell the other day he was saying how much he hates her so he doesn't even like her but is trying to make me jelious and I'm sick of it because I'm not over being dumped and she's saying stuff like oh he's flirting with me now and keeps trying to hold his hand should I ditch her because she's really getting me down she's keps going on about him 24/7 some friend she is I'm really gutted but have just kept it all in me and not said a word but I'm really upset about it but can't even cry because my feelings are so deep inside of me please if you can help me if you can't then ok
Tell her how you feel, and if she keeps it up then stop talking to her for like a week or so, she'll come around to realising that you're upset at the fact that shes doing that, and hopefully she'll learn to stop from it.
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how do u know if u have athsma. i think i do b/c i play sports & when we do conditioning after like 3 sprints i like cant breath i think its b/c my parents smoke alot & i have to be around it :-( can sum1 tell me how u know if u have it
It's best to go to the doctors to find out, but if you're running and you get to the point where you can barely breathe and you're wheezing, chances are you might have it, but its definitely a better idea to go to the doctors then to assume something.
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Last year at camp, there was this guy who's a little over a year younger than me that really really liked me and I guess I gave him the impression that I liked him as a friend. See, I was like the only one that was actually nice to him, and most people think he is reallyreally annoying, and so do I, but I didn't say it to his face. He was like in love with me or something and it drove me crazy how he was always following me around and stuff. Stupidly, before I knew he liked me, when he was collecting screen names, I gave him mine. When I found out he liked me, I figured he'd get over it during the school year and I wouldn't have to worry about it. I was really annoyed by his having to always hang around me, but turns out he was depressed and on meds and I didn't wanna ruin his life by telling him he drove me crazy. So when he brought up the topic of us going out, I told him I only liked him as a friend. He said that was better than nothing, and with the impression that I wanted to be his friend, (I suppose that impression was my fault) kept latching onto me and following me. The rest of that week at camp basically sucked but I figured he'd get over me. When I got back home, he of course kept IMing me. I figured he'd stop in a couple months. I didn't want to tell him I didn't really want to have anything to do with him, again, because of the depression thing. So I talked to him, and I really did give him a chance then, and I also did at first at camp, and I then knew for sure, for a fact, that I'd never like him and I really didn't want to talk to him. Howeverhe insisted I meet him at the mall on his birthday. I said I would, and decided after that, I would act like everything was alright, and we were friends, and then block him and claim that I lost IM in the middle of November if I saw him at camp. I've now followed through with the blocking him. But there is a very good chance that we will end up at the same camp session next year, and even though I no longer have to talk to him during the year, at camp he's going to assume we're best friends again. I don't want to hang with him AT ALL it's one of the few things I will not do to myself. But I can't really tell him that either because he's depressed and who knows what would happen. And I really have given him a chance, he's just not my type, and I feel bad for him because he's not ANYONES type. So I'd feel really guilty even if he WASN'T depressed. Please please reply. I have no clue what to do. I have asked so many people for advice, including a camp counselor whos a psychology major and always has a solution, and even she was stumped. If you can come up with anything please let me know. I also cannot just skip camp because it is the one part of the year I really look forward to and it's the best part of my life, but with him stalking me, it's not.
Make sure that you're hanging out with the people that you actually do like and when you see him approaching tell your friends to make up something so you can tell him that you guys are on your way to do something and you'll talk to him later and just make it seem you're busy, and then if he trys to see you later just blow him off but do it in a nice way, ex: if he talks to you say something to one of your friends and act like you dont hear him, or say hold on a sec and then start talking and pretend like you totally forgot about him, he'll probably just decide to go away.
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Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks
For awhile I used to use black eyeliner on the bottom and on the top like a silver or something, it looked really good. The silver was a liquid eyeliner so it was easy to apply and it makes your eyes look a little different.
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ok here it is:
i was at starbuck ordering a vanila creaam. The person asked me what my name is (they always do that and they out ur name on the cup). well when it came out the girl (who looked about 18 shes HOT!!!) she thought i was about her age and im only 15! she gave me her # under the cup...
the screwed up thing is it is all wet and its messed up. and each time i go up 2 starbucks 2 get her # shes not there. Should i jus give up w/ her
Most of the time when you go somewhere looking for someone you wont find them, well thats how it is for me anyways, try and forget about it, and next time you go to starbucks concentrate on something other than the girl, and if you do finally see her again then tell her what happened.
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Ok this is really weird. I had a dream about almost doing it w/ a guy I liked and so I told my friend about it... and I've never had one of those dreams before and so she told me that in her dream she actually did it w/ some movie star guy and so then later we were talking and I was talking about the movie Alexander and how thered be eye candy for all the girls and she's like what is the matter with you? Your obsessed w/ cussing and sex!! And Im not!! Just because I had one dream about that... does that mean I am? Im really confused!
No thats not what it means at all, maybe you were thinking about something like that before you went to sleep or something, but most of the time you cant pick what you want to dream about, it just kinda happens, think about it, if she told you that you were obsessed with horror movies because you had a nightmare that wouldnt make much sense. It doesnt mean you are.
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hey everyone! omg- i need some help!! okay, well this guy, Eric, like me alot and asked me out last night, and I said yes. But, my ex boyfriend(our relationship was 1 year)is coming down from Oregon tomorrow and i still love him. Help, i dont know what to do!! i really love my ex and i still like Eric alot. I am sooo confused!! please help me!!
It's okay to love your ex, but have another boyfriend, its absolutely normal, just consider yourselves really close friends now that you arent going out anymore, you dont wanna mess something up with the guy you just started going out with. Just see how things go, and be yourself, as always, and just remember that you have a boyfriend now.
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I have a xanga... and I have a webcam and I want to put videos of myself on my xanga... and I know I need to host my videos somewhere.. does anyone know a free place where I can host my videos?
You can do it at a free website.. i.e: freewebs.com or geocites.com
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me and my boi frend have been 2getha 4 a month!!...but have been talkin longer than that!! we are REALLY close!! nd startin 2 fall in luv alreadie!!..but wen we talk on tha fone...its alwaez silent!!...but if we text or chat online..we alwaez got sumthin 2 sae..or if were 2getha..we'll talk..but mostly make out!!...any advice?!
Just talk about random things, that same thing happens between me and my boyfriend and we've been going out for 1 year 1 month and some days.. It's normal.. But seriously just talk about random things.. Or talk like you do online or something
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Hey, im 5'1 and i like my body weight the way it is right now, but my stomach is fat (the fattest part of my body), and unproportional to my body. i really wanna get a flat stomach like i used to, but i dont want to loose any weight. Is there any way to lose the fat on my stomach? or make it look better?
thank you
Do crunches every night, it tightens up the muscle and makes your stomach flatter
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ok i have an appointment to get my license in december. for the test, is it a written test and a drving test or just driving and if there is a written test do i just study the same DMV booklet that i studied before i got my permit. Thanks!
BTW i live in georgia if that info is needed...
Well the tests I know of are on the computer, but it may be different for different states. I'd just study the book you got for your permit and try driving around with your parents alot so you're used to it.
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i like this boy.....but he dont really kno who i am....and im not the kind of person that goes up to ppl and talks to them.....so what should i do.......thanks a bunch!!!
Kayc
Ask some of your friends to talk to him for you or something..
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i need to reperice my ear does it hurt when u do it ur self?
It doesnt hurt to get it re-pierced, but I'm not sure if it would if you did it yourself. If you can tell where your hole was it probably wont hurt..
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