Member Since: January 20, 2007
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Last Update: October 26, 2007
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he broke up 2 times in 6 months, first he broke up with me because he HEARD a rumor that i wanted to break up with him but she couldnt so he broke up with her, so when he found out it wasnt true that i wanted to brake up with him so wegot back together and 2nd time was he broke up with me again because he doesnt have feelings for me because he liked someone else when we were going out but he didnt wanna tell me because he was scared that im gonna hate him, but after that we still talk to each other a lot and he asked me if i had feelings for him and i said yes and he did too and he asked me out after that but then he said he wants to keep the relationship a secret because he didnt want people to know and its annoying when people asks about it so what does it mean if your boyfriend wants to keep the relationship a secret? (link)
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He's a jerk. Find someone better.
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would it be weird/unlikely if a 15 year old, almost 16(10th grade) dated a 13 year old(8th)? (link)
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Hey! I don't think it's weird at all! In fact that is exactly the same distance between my girlfriend and I. Don't listen to what that weird person says. It's her that's probably the desperate one. Fall for who you fall for. Don't let standards and other people's opinions get in your way. If you wanna talk more about it message me :)
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okay so I'm 14 and my cousin is like 17 but two years ago she was 15 ,right? So yeah back then her life sucked and all this just like mine. Why does life change like that? like one min. you are a loser and nobody likes you at all and then everyone loves you and you are happy. I don't understand. When i was happy she was sad and now she's happy and im sad again. I dont have friends that i can call my own and people on myspace keep deleting me because they hate me and i have never had a real boyfriend. what is going on? so since shes all cool now does that mean I'm gonna be all cool and everything? or is that just what happened to her? I dont want people to hate me forever at all. I want guys to like me and girls to be my friend and yeah! i'm not a mean person so why is everyone treating me like im not worthy of their relationships??? please explain all this to me. (link)
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Awh it's ok! Everyone goes through stages. I did for the first 14 years of my life as a homeschooled child. And while I'm not exactly the most popular girl at my boarding school I'm very well liked (i think). so things like popularity comes and goes in waves. things will get better. but analyze if you've done anything to make people treat you this way. if so fix it! apologize. whatever it takes.
you can always talk to me on AIM. i won't be on til the beginning of next week though. my sn is emptyeyesforever. i'll be glad to talk to you :)
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f/15
So i think i have a yeast infection. My area is sore/ burns when i touch it or anything else touches it. It doesn't burn or hurt at all when i pee or anything, but it does when i wipe. I haven't really had any discharge like on my underwear lately, i just got done with my period a few days ago. I'm NOT sexually active at all, so thats not even an option. So, do I have one? How did I get it? How do I treat it? (link)
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That doesn't really sound like a yeast infection to me. Discharge is a main factor of a yeast infection. So is itching. Bad, violent itching. And the discharge can be anywhere from a cottage cheese like consistancy to a grainy like appearing substance that is very soft. (disgusting eh?) and the smell is quite obvious.
i'm guessing you just have a regular urinary tract infection. but whatever it is, you need to see a doctor that you trust and get on antibiotics. best of luck :)
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actualy i know im in love with her but sometimes we go long times without seeing or talking to eachother and i get kinda scared and i worry about her and things she may not tell me about and sometimes it feels like its killing me inside. i just really needed to talk to somebody, but what should i do? (link)
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Well, here's a w=question for you. Are you a girl? (Don't be offended) That answer would cler things up and give me some guidelines as how to advise you.
If you're a girl! Hmm, I can help you with that being bisexual myself.
If you're a guy! ASK HER OUT ALREADY!
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heyy Riah!!! my names Leo. My advice column in LIFEis2cute4u
yeah pretty wandom i just wanted to say hi, and welcome 2 advicenators and all that.
and is Riah your real name??!
xo
love alwayss (link)
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Hello, yes Riah is my real name. Thank you for writing to me. How old are you?
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i know this is disgusting, but is there a good way to get rid of dandruff? (link)
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try using dandruff shampoo
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I have had these feelings latley for my friends. The problem is all my friends are girls. I am also a girl. So um I think I am a lesbian or bisexual. I tried to kiss my rfriend and she let me. I started making out with her we never talked about it again or did anything again but i want to. How do I stop liking girls (link)
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There is no way to 'stop' it, you are who you are. Accept yourself and love yourself for it. I'm bi-sexual. I expect my friends to accept it. Don't deny who you are just to please other people or fit other's standards. Good luck :D Email me at riahrnkn91@hotmail.com if you ever want to talk.
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my younger sister doesnt have her period but she is wearing pads what do i tell her? (link)
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don't tell her anything.......how old is she? she's probably doing it to feel "grown up". just let it go...
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has anyone here ever gone to Hyde boarding school right outside of chicago?
I'm probably going to be going there and i was wondering what it was like. The website didn't give me much info that i wanted and i wanted an opinion from someone who had gone there. I have a friend who goes there though I haven't been able to get a hold of her. (link)
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Hey, I go to boarding school....what do you want to know?
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well... wont u make disgusting non attractive sounds when u give a hicky? and what about the spit? will a guy actually like that? (link)
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Um.....no. No obscene noises are necessary....and it totally depends on the guy.
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so i was all excited for me and my boyfriend to have sex. Well we did and i mean it was fine and everything so we did it again the same day. When i went home i felt fine and then i duno i just started to not feel as strongly about him and i as i once did. is this normal? (link)
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This is normal I think, the same thing happened to me. But just because you had sex shouldn't mean that anything should have changed with the emotional bond you share. Give yourself a couple days.
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okay i just started my period and i went to the bathroom and this thing came out that looked like an egg, slimy clear stuff with yellow spots...it looked thick mucus. What is it? (link)
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Ok, unless you are sexually active it couldn't have been a miscarrige. It was probably just discharge.
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Okay, well.
I shave down there. See, I go in the direction that the hair grows rather than against it, when I go against it I get crazy razor burn and bumps and it takes like a week for it to clear up. But when I go in the same diection, I still have stubble (it's like four o'clock shadow or something! It sucks!) I heard that--of all things-- chapstick will fix this. Can you tell me, is this true, cuz if it is that would make me very, very happy. (link)
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Hello,
Make sure that you use a new clean razor each time and a really thick good shaving cream.
What works for me is shaving sideways very gently. But if your skin is too sensitive then maybe you should give up for a while. Or maybe wax it....though I'm sure that hurts like fuck.
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15/f
Hello, I'm a fifteen year old female. I'm tall and thin but my stomach lately has gotten quite big. I haven't had any diet/exercise changes and I am quite sure it's not related to my period. I'm not pregnant seeing I haven't had sex.
With those ruled out, could it just be a normal teenage body change? And will I grow out of this within the next few years?
People have actually asked if I was expecting, and that is something I would prefer to not have asked.
Thanks! =) (link)
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Well, it could be that you are protein defficient. And often if you get ill or some sort of bacteria it makes your stomach get big. I know from experience that kids from orphanages have this problem.
Most likely it is completely normal, but ask a docter to check it out if you're worried.
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I got the top of my ear pierced a week ago and it had quit hurting, but tonight it started hurting and it's swollen where the back of the earring is. Is it swollen because it could be infected or because of the earring irritating it? What should I do if it's like this I cleaned it with peroxide. (link)
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Ok, I have the top of my ear pierced and, I have really good skin unsensitive so, I can wear crap earring and it doesn't get infected.
What is the earring made of? You could be allergic to it and the quality could be making your skin react. Make surre it is a high carrot gold.
Give it around 3 or 4 more days, clean it with rubbing alcohal 3 or 4 times a day and always wash your hands before you touch the piercing.
If it still is bad then take it out and try again when it's healed.
Good Luck!
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okay so tonight i went out with a guy that i know pretty well. we both like each other and we have french kissed once as friends. so this was kind of our second date i guess. anyway we were at a friends house with a few people. they said if we wanted to chill alone there was a guest room in the house so we both knew why we were going in there. so we of course started to make out and then we got under the covers and he took his shirt off and then i took off my bra etc. so i took my jeans off so i was completely naked then. he was too and he was saying how far have you gone and i said i've given a guy a hand job sorta before. and he said hes kinda at the same experience level as me. and then he said i mean would you give head i mean you dont have to and i said i wasn't ready yet. and of course i try to give him a hand job and he says it would be easier if my hand was wet so i did. and he said you know it might be easier if you wet it with you mouth because my mouth was so dry for some reason. so i did and then it still didnt work so we both went into the bathroom butt naked and i gave him a hand job. and then he goes pee and he says so do you want to go back outside. and i said yeah. i just feel so violated but i feel like it is my fault. and i feel like such as ho/slut. (link)
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Well, I don't think it was your fault. It was him being a bastard, how were you supposed to know he would totally be in it for the physical stuff.
Don't worry, you should learn from this experience.
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when i shave down their i try to shave most of it of but its hard to get most of it off. i usally end up with just it being "pokey" from not doing it all the way. i dont want my bf to be disturbed by it (although i know he loves me enough that he wont care) i am doing this for me though. how can i get i ALL the way off. and how can i get it between my "pussy" and the edge of my thy. its so hard. any tips. thanks alot. (link)
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Ok, always use high quality razors and a really thick shaving cream.
Start slowly and get all the longer hair gone, don't worry about the stubble at first. Once the excess is gone, rinse and apply more shaving cream. Then VERY CAREFULLY shave in multiple different directions. To get the tricky hairs use a mirror and hold it between your legs and be careful.
Just keep shaving in different directions very carefully until the hair is gone.
Good luck!! Let me know if you have more problems.
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