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why did our lives change drastically?
okay so I'm 14 and my cousin is like 17 but two years ago she was 15 ,right? So yeah back then her life sucked and all this just like mine. Why does life change like that? like one min. you are a loser and nobody likes you at all and then everyone loves you and you are happy. I don't understand. When i was happy she was sad and now she's happy and im sad again. I dont have friends that i can call my own and people on myspace keep deleting me because they hate me and i have never had a real boyfriend. what is going on? so since shes all cool now does that mean I'm gonna be all cool and everything? or is that just what happened to her? I dont want people to hate me forever at all. I want guys to like me and girls to be my friend and yeah! i'm not a mean person so why is everyone treating me like im not worthy of their relationships??? please explain all this to me.
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Awh it's ok! Everyone goes through stages. I did for the first 14 years of my life as a homeschooled child. And while I'm not exactly the most popular girl at my boarding school I'm very well liked (i think). so things like popularity comes and goes in waves. things will get better. but analyze if you've done anything to make people treat you this way. if so fix it! apologize. whatever it takes.
you can always talk to me on AIM. i won't be on til the beginning of next week though. my sn is emptyeyesforever. i'll be glad to talk to you :)
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I know exactly how you feel. I'm fourteen too, and a few months back, I was in a total rut. My best friends quit talking to me, I broke up with 3 boyfriends in a row, and it was just really bad. The thing you have to know is that things will always get better no matter how terrible they may seem. Now, 3 months later everything with me is great. It just takes some talking to the people that have hurt you, and some time to think by yourself.
Also, as for the boyfriends and myspace friends-
Most girls our age don't have boyfriends. I've had a few serious boyfriends before, and I kind of wish I wouldnt've. It just makes everything more complicated. The friends- If you want to make more friends, try getting involved in things at your school this year, or going to a youth group. Remember, friends who aren't willing to talk to you about things, or just delete you on Myspace probably aren't worth your time anyway.
Basically, being a teenager is just really crazy, but things DO change.
I hope things get better for you :]
and, if you wanna talk to me or add me on myspace my AIM is marciamarcia oh & my myspace is myspace.com/omgitsmarcia :]
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