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I'm Alyssa. I am 16, about to be a junior in High School, bi-sexual, and been through A LOT. I am willing to answer anything and everything.I am looking into becoming an ER Nurse or EMT and i'm taking Anatomy and also basic Health Science. Plus I have an insane amount of health problems.
I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety and also I know alol about eating disorders, as I have had one, and gay/bi issues I know a lot about! I'm also a computer whiz and know loads of HTML and that kind of stuff. Basically ANY kind of question-- I can answer! Hope to you help you.
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My guy friend and I have been friends since frosh year. We talk a lot on AIM and in person.
Recently, we've been chatting more and sometimes I get vibes that maybe he likes me more than a close friend.
Our first home football game was a few weeks ago and I got him to come to it cause another friend of ours was moving that weekend to Maryland. He came after his play practice and we hung out after the halftime show(yeah marching band!).We walked towards our homes together. Across the street from his house, we chatted for a few and then hugged. I think he might have kissed me on my forehead. When I hugged him, everything felt right in the world. Then I told him I'd wait for him to cross(cause its a main road and it was 10 at night). He said "So you'd know if I die, right?" and I said "Yeah, but I don't want you to die cause I love you." He smiled and crossed then we met up on AIM when we got home.
On days that I have my private flute lesson, sometimes I see him and he comes over and sits by me. We usually chat about random things.
We usually say hey to each other in school. Online lately we have been chatting a little bit more on the sexual side. We had a conversation about balls. He says he trusts me a lot and that I'm his close friend(he doesnt believe in best friends). We have pretty much the same personality and music tastes.
The other day, we walked to the music wing together(I have band the same period he has choir). We were chatting and we were both late by 2 minutes to class.
Usually he doesn't say anything to me when he can't chat, but now all of a sudden he says "can't talk now, going to eat dinner/do a project. sorry!"
He's also started holding the door for me and making me smile more.
any ideas. Sorry this is so long.
Go for it. Tell him how you feel, hun. Say something cute like, "Hey... How awkward would it be if I told you I liked you? You know, more than just as a friend"
He sounds like he is either wanting to be really good friends, or more.
See which one-- find out if your wasting your time fanticizing. If you are, then at least you will know.
Might sound cliche, but it's just the truth!
Oh and don't take the situation seriously, either. It's just one relationship. Chances are you will have many more. No need to be nervous-- You have to realize that. It's just a waste of energy. If he's not into you, you can't help that.
alright, i'm 14 years old and i'm around.. 5'3" or possibly 5'4" and im about 106lbs. I'm just asking.. is that really skinny? I mean, I have like, real high metabolism ( both my parents have it ) and all my friends say I'm too skinny and that I need to gain some weight. I'm just having some trouble. How would I go about doing that? Cause I'm not gonna sit there and like, pig out till' i die. I just don't want people thinking i'm anorexic or something. I mean I'm really not that skinny. I think I'm averagley skinny. =/ I don't know. Please help.
Signed,
Sad to be skinny
I the exact same height and the exact same weight. I am not anorexic.
Trust me, people are just jealous =)
As long as your healthy, you can be overweight or underweight and it just DOESN'T matter. I eat VERY VERY healthy. Maybe I need to eat more junk, I don't know, but anyway be happy that your thin. Take it from someone who has had HUNDERDS of doctors visits and a CRAP CRAP CRAP load of medical problems, yet not ONE of them are due to my weight. In any way shape or form.
Let me ask you-- do you have a lot of muscle? Because that would be the best thing for you to do. Gain muscle. It weights more than fat, and if you work out enough you'll gain weight. I have been working out lately and i'm up to 110. You won't LOOSE weight by doing this, trust me. You'll gain weight. You'll be more healthy, too!