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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!
well the one that was raped really had no choice to have sex while the other did and thats the consequences of a decision
Does anyone know of a really easy-to-work digital camera? I've seen digital cameras these days and theres all these different buttons and stuff. I just want something simple and thats easy! Nothing too fancy..any suggestions would be great.
-Sherry
my mom has this cannon olympus one and its super easy!
I was babysitting at a place over an hour away (I was spending the night there too), and I was charging my cell before I left, and I guess I forgot it was on and charging, so I had left it at home when I left (accidentaly) and it was charging until about noon the next day... maybe later, so if I estimated it would have been from 4p.m to maybe 12:30p.m, not quite 24 hours, but about 3 and a half hours less.
2 questions...
Is it bad to leave you cell on when you're charging (my cell will still charge)
And is it bad to keep it charging for so long (even if it was on accident) Thanks!
lol no its fine once its done charging itll just sit there hope i helpeded!
I recently found out that my boyfriend drinks. Every fiber of my bones is completely and utterly against drinking and alcohol. I hate it like you would not believe. My dad was an alcoholic and my best friend died from drinking and driving a few years ago.
I love him. I really do. I care about him and beg him not to drink. But he tells me he knows his limits. He says he doesnt get drunk just "tipsy". The other night he went out with a few of his friends and they played drinking games. He didnt tell me about it but his friend did.
I feel lied to. I feel betrayed. I know it's his life and he can do as he pleases. I dont want him to think Im trying to control him. But I dont want him to die either.
Help me. Should I leave? Should I stay? How can I look past his drinking habits?
i know how you feel because my father is also an alcoholic and it hurts because im the one that seems to be picking up his pieces wen hes drunk. im the one always getting phone calls and letters because my father was in a car accident or he did this or that. i think that you need to find him and sit him down and sternly talk to him that even though he knows his limits that he will try to stop drinking seeing how its definitly not healthy anyways
i am pregnet like 2 months along, and as we know your not supposed to have sex, well my boyfriend really want it, but i cant give it to him, and i dont want him cheating on me, i was wondering if you can have anal sex while being pregnet?
you can have anal and vaginal sex. it wont hurt the baby at all due to the placenta covering ur baby. its perfectly fine! just be careful though and dont use complicated positions! hope i helped
My friend and I met online from another friend of mine. We were always good friends, but the only time ( it seemed like)we get in to fights is online. It's kind of weird now seeming that we met online. I mean, It seems like just because I wanted to meet her, we have gotten in a fight.
Any Advice?
~.CoOkIe~.
maybe its the confusion of having to type ur emotions and somethings can seem wrong wen you type them to be right. your not the one causing the fights i just think its the way u communicate online. try to be a lil more clear wen you talk to her and see if it gets better!
My bf and i are going to 2 proms this year and we're not sure if he should buy or rent a tux for them. What do you think would be cheaper. All he wants is a basic Black Tux with nothing fancy and also besides Mr. Tux and Steping out Formal where can he rent them and where can he buy one. thanks and sry if that is confusing
renting is definitly cheaper! hehe hope i helpededed
Okay so my best friend is all of a sudden being a total jerk to me. She's saying I'm stupid when I'm an A- average student and she's a C average student. She's saying just because it took me a longer time to move up a level in gymnastics means I'm not as good as her when I'm the one who got her into it and she's only moving up a level because she wants to be better than me. I work my butt off to get the scores to move up but she gets a score 4 points lower than mine and she can move up. I have other friends but I spend more time with her. What should I do?
theres no use to be in a friendship with someone whos being a bitch to you u deserve and need a more kinder and supportive friend. you really need to get out of this friendship cuz its not doing you any good
In the past couple weeks, ive gained 10-12 lbs and i cant stop freaking out. My exercise and eating habits havent changed and i dont know why but i keep putting on more and more weight. I feel so disgusted with myself. Can anyone explain to me why ive gained all this weight all of the sudden? (No, im not pregnant.) I dont overeat. I actually burn all my calories. Any way i can lose all this weight because exercise and eating healthy arent working?
it could be several things like slow metabolism, growth, puberty, or muscle seein that you work out. its more likely a phase and that ull probably grow out of it soon enuff
Is there any exercise(sp?) to make ur but ...bigger? cause i have like no but'
nope sorry but you can do yoga or pilates to help tone it that would probably work
when u smoke pot do u get high the first time? some people say you do and some say you dont.
i never did drugs so i wouldnt really know but i think that it depends on the amount i guess. hope i helped
Im thinking of having a spa kind of day today but i dont have a face mask product to use so i want to make a natural one. does anyone know what i can use from around my house that works, like food?
honey, uncooked oats, and plain yogurt! mix em together and they cleanse your face hope i helped
i never do anything on the weekends except hang out at home... and with only one frined...i dont know what to do i want to start hanging out with more people but they always have plans
hey i have the same problem but its because my grandparents are very VERY strict and think that i should just be focuse on school and shouldnt have much time for friends (im korean so it sucks). i absolutly hate it cuz everytime my friends ask me to go out i have to say no and it sucks. i think that you should just keep asking ur friends wat they want to do that weekend and if they cant then keep trying for the following weekend eventually theyll have some open time
i have these jeans that i want to put rinestones on. what kind of glue should i use???
fabric glue! you can find them in any crafts place
Well, recently, My best friend told me what happened at a party when i was 14,i am now 16. As it turns out, at that party, there was some extesy going around. Someone snuck it into my drink. I was lead away from the party,to the basement. When i woke up from the extisy, A guy was inside of me. I was sexually assaulted. I tried to get away, but he hit me again to knock me out. I had a mental block of this night, and when my friend told me of what might of happened at that party, it all came falling down. I have horrible flashbacks. She is the only one who knows. I am having some weird pains in my stomache that started at age 15, i thought it was nothing, but as it turns out, i went to the doctor. When i went to the doctor, he revealed that i had aids. What do i do? He video taped it. one of my guy friends was looking at a porno site, and said they saw someone who looked extremely like me on a video. I asked for the site, and went to it. It was the man. The tape is on a porno site. I do not want people thinking i am that way, a porno star. What do i do about this whole horrible weekend?
I thought at that party i was just going to have fun.
Please help me.
I am sorry this is long.
im sorry but theres really nothing you can do just make sure that ur parents are aware of this and im sure they are. all you can do is just be strong and hope that the guy will get caught for wat he did. hang in there and im sure youll be fine.
I am 15 I had my 1st love and after we broke up I was down all the time and i cud never have a boyfriend cause they always reminded me of Joey then after 9 months of being single i got back with my ex CJ and we were happy i forgot all about joey then we broke up and he is with my bestfriend..I try to have a boyfriend to forget about Joey and CJ but it dont work..I cant find a guy 4 me...Whats wrong with me?? Please help!!!!!!!
nothings wrong with you your just upset because its hard to let go of a first love. its happens to most of us just give urself time to think about the GOOD times you had and say that you need to move on. i hope i really helped
can the foods you eat affect your skin(acne)? does eating chocolate or greasy foods make you break out? and does makeup make you break out? i heard these were a myth but i think this is true.. well in my case.
THANKS!!
nope! there all myths u only get acne from the amount of oils in ur skin due to hormones hope i helped
i am a 6 ft 15 yr old female and i was just wondering, is being tall a turn off? i have a thin frame and get called 'hot' sometimes, so excluding looks is being tall a bad thing? through a mutual friend i have with my brother i found out what my brothers mates were saying about me 'imagine having sex with bozzas sister what a tall freak forget that I'd rather have sex with bozza' (LOL, note: that was the cleaned up version)
being tall isnt a turn off but i guess some guys want to be taller than the girl you know wat i mean? but their a bunch of losers so wat do they know i think ur cool!
ok well im trying out for a school called davidson Fine arts,Its a place where you sing do drama dance ect.well my friend tried out and she said you had to do drama and sing in front of EVERYBODY!well im already nervous about it and ill probobly be shy..how can i get over it??
pretend everyones in there underwear. trust me it seroiusly works.
My mom is the biggest blabbermouth of all time. She can't keep her secrets to herself. She can't keep MY secrets to herself. She tells everyone the details about my life. She humiliates me infront of everyone. She makes up lies to exaggerate the truth. I really don't know what to do. Should I just stop telling her things? I can't stand the way my life is out there and availible to anyone that wants to hear about it.
hey i know wat u mean and my mom does the same thing (i cannot fricken stand it!) anyways well im korean and well korean mothers tend to tell embarassing and stupid things to their friends wicch is pretty stupid but anyways i think that u should talk to her and tell her that its bothering you that shes doing this and say that shes pretty much ruining a good motherdaughter bond doing this hope i helped!