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who sings this song:
im lookin for attention
not another question

a girl sings this song and thats all i know about it so ya. thanks

i think not another question is actually called Walk Away by Kelly clarkson here are the lyrics http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/kellyclarkson/walkaway.html
i hope i helped =)
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i want to get my belly button pierced but should i get it on the top or bottom.. i know a lot of people have it on the top of the belly button but how about on the bottom.. will it still look good and do people have the bottom pierced?

i would stick with the top.....if you had a dangley belly ring it wouldnt look good on the bottom. but im not totally sure about that!
hope i helped!
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My brother & I are close (He's 21, I'm 17) His guy friends are my friends. Since I'm 4 years younger, I'll always have the label of his little sister to all the guys. I've started to really like his best friend and we always flirt/play around. I don't act like I'm this little schoolgirl with a crush & his best friend treats me as if I'm at his level. My brother would approve if a relationship started. How do I get rid of that label as being the untouchable 'little' sister?

i think the only way to get rid of the label is to go out w/ that guy you are talkin about that you always flirt with! good luck with him!
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Hey everyone! My problem is, is that i want to be a model. Last year i did a runway show, and i absolutely loved it! the photoshoot, the chaos backstage, it was great! they're doing it again this year, and i hope to make it again, but i want to do other stuff on the side. the problem is, is that i live in a small town. not a small town, its got about 23000 people, and about five mintues away is a city of about 89000. where are some places i could model for without having to pay big $$ to travel? i really really wanna model, so please help!!

gracias!

GO FOR IT!!! you sound like you have a good shot if you are expeirienced! esp. if your not having to pay big bucks and not having to travel. theres almost nothing to loose!
good luck!
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Okay…..^_^ this might take a while. Well, at camp, on the second day of the time we were there, Abby and I were sitting on a loveseat during this camp activity thing. Everyone was told that they had to sit in the middle, (which is where we were sitting) So, Mikey gets up from the back and looks around for a place to sit. He looks straight at me and sits down INBETWEEN me and abby. We are sitting there, and my heart was kinda pounding. Anyway, he starts to poke my leg…. and so of course I had to poke him back. So we went on like that for awhile. And then he laid his hand on my leg for like 5 seconds and smirked at me…. almost like a challenge…>.> so I had to do it back of course. So then, we went on like that forEVER and it was almost like the nervous game but I stopped. And then I elbowed him in the side, and it was funny!

Okay! NEXT DAY! WOOOOO…Okay, I was in crafts with abby and kirstie and Marissa. And Mikey was in Ping-Pong, which is in the same room. Then I finished my craft, and he had lost at ping-pong. I walked past him to go talk too abby and he stops me. He’s all….”sit on my lap” and I was all…O_O no! and then he was all…. Please? And I said, No, cause I’m not a slut. So he asked me to sit on the arm of the chair. So I did for like a minute. But then my butt started to ache so I got up and moved into the chair next to him. Then he started to show off, and he rocked back and forth in the chair he was sitting in, and flipped it backwards on purpose. He was sitting like that for a while, but then he was uncomfortable, cause he couldn’t get up. So he asked me to help him. So I tried…. for like 2 seconds, but got bored so I gave up. Then he was whining and whining and stuff. Then he stopped and looked at me and was all, “hold my hand…” And I was all “._.;;;;;” But I did, ^_^ and then he said that I had really soft hands which made me laugh. Then abby and kirstie helped him get the chair up, but he wouldn’t let go of my hand.

THEN, , we had swimming. I went down to the pool, but I didn’t know he was going to be there, and I didn’t want to swim cause I had my cloths on, and I had my period. BUT, he kept threating to push me in and I didn’t wanna get wet so I sat next to the lifeguard. The lifeguard was all, “If you touch her and push her in then I’ll get pushed in to and I WOULD NOT be happy…*glare*” (cause she was holding my hand so he couldn’t get me.) ^_^ Heehee, anyway, so he just stood over me and dripped water on me, and splashed me, AND HE WAS SHIRTLESS! …*Drool* but then I got bored so I wen’t and put my legs into the water in the shallow end with kirstie, and It was nice and we were sitting there and I was all ahhhhh. But of course, he had to come over. So he walks over in all his wet shirtless glory and is holding a Frisbee. He dips the Frisbee under that water and all the sudden splashes me. I sat there very quietly, and he said…”You can hit me if you want…” and I was all…”I’m not going to hit you…. *and then I jumped in the water fully clothed* I’M GOING TO KILL YOOOU!” Lets just say he ran away like a little girl, lol.

Then since my group was with his for the next activity which was ultimate Frisbee, he pretended to be sick and sat on the sidelines and watched kirstie and me. We were doing handstands and stuff and it was fun. After that, we were walking back past the rec hall, and he ran up out of no-where and just grabbed my hand. It was like…*Mikey appears out of no-where* *snatch’s hand* I got very scared, but I let him hold it! ^_^;;;, then some random kid was all, “Hey Mikey! Is that your new girlfriend!” and I looked at Mikey and went “EWWWWWWWWWWW” and walked away. ^_^ Heehee, oopsie? Then after that, there was just random flirting and him throwing stuff at me and being adorable, and stuff

Then when we got back home and stuff, kirstie randomly asked him why he kept hitting on me at camp, and he said its cause he likes me!


Okay,my quistion is, do you think he likes me, and i'm wondering if i should date him, cause he is in rehab right now....and after camp he made out with some other girl. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?!?!?!

hmm...i think he likes you. but i think hes one of those guys that likes alot of girls one after another that has no problem getting over a girl. you should go out with him IF YOU LIKE HIM! but he sounds like a dork to me =) no offense ♥ sometimes it makes it a little easier to answer questions if you put your age on here =)
i hope i helped!
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what are some ways to heal a broken heaart? i mean ive had my heart broken twice this week...whhat are some things you do to help? dont say lyke someone else cause its lyke a cycle here...ill rate 5's unless its mean!

get yourself a pick me up...my friend whenever shes sad she goes out and gets some coffee at her favorite coffee place (java divine). go shoppping...that relieves a lot of broken hearts for me and my friends. just go blow all your money at your favorite store ♥
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i think im bored out of my mind. if i dont find sumtin to do soon i will take it out on u. wat should i do

whenever im bored i go to www.bored.com it has a bunch of links to alot of fun/funny thing! or if you are a girl go to a magazine website! thats always really interseing like www.cosmogirl.com i like the battle of the boys =) ♥ check it out, yo! i also got really bored today and opened up an account on advicenators but i have had one before! also www.getamused.com is like bored.com--also for a bunch of cool survey kinda things go to www.memegen.net--
hope i helped!
♥Jess
GOSH WILL! lol

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Hey, I'm going into the shower, and I was wondering how to make my hair like wavyish,curlyish..maybe? how can i do that?

when you get out of the shower put it up in a messy bun and sleep in it or keep it up intill its dry. or you can braid it when its wet. i use to do that all the time!
i hope it works out for you!
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what does the spanish word mierda mean in english?

it means SHIT
and if you need anymore words translated just go here!
http://www.wordreference.com/
i hope i helped!
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what can i feed my over weight dog?

i rate you !

i would say diet food =)
and cut down on table scraps!
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i'm dying my hair red. what is a good kind of dye to use? my sister is going to do it. and it needs to be inexpensive from walmart.

first of all that stuff you buy from wal-mart will totally mess up your hair if you dont do it right. it also screws up your hair in general. i did it. and then i went to my salon and they got really really mad at me! they said it messed up like the ends and its just not good for it. also i have family in the hair salon business and they totally dont recommend it. neither do i. so i say go to a salon. and if you dont want in permanent then ask for a temporary color. thats what i do w/ my red highlights for the winter =) this probably isnt the answer that you want. but its the best i can give..
i hope i helped!
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I took my first school picture..
the eye doctor said that after getting my first glasses this summer my eyes might get a little light sensitive
they got REALLY light sensitive on picture day.
I ended up blinking in my school picture.
I freaked out, then took retakes.
They came back today.. eyes closed.
I already talked to the yearbook sponsor. She said that I can bring in a picture of me and they'll scan it into the yearbook.
But there will be a different background and stuff and it will be at the end of the yearbook.
I have this AMAzing picture of me and i want to put it in, but i'm not sure if people will laugh at me or anything or talk about it if it sticks out.
Should I have stick out or not have a picture in there at all?
I rate 5s for constructive answers.

i would put in that "amazing picture" it doesnt matter what the background looks like. if its so amazing dont you want it to stand out! i mean you dont want to be exactly like everybody else! you've got to be different some time or another!
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i really really really like this guy in my global, gym and study hall classes he always glances or stares at me but ive never really had an acutall conversation just shot backs how do i get him to ask me out/like me?

i would say flirt! flirt! flirt!
Message me for more on the flirting if ya want! i can go into detail! im a BIG flirter! thats how i get my guys
but if you arent that type of girl... then i would say try to make small talk with him in the hall or during your free time.
try to stand out of the crowd (in a good way--like showing off--just not too much)
i hope i helped!
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hey!
where can i go (online since this is like a usa thing!) to get GREAT clothes?

im into the preppy thing..so i like--
www.aeropostale.com
www.ae.com
www.abercrombie.com
www.hollister.com
www.pacsun.com
but i dont know what you like! =) try being more specific in what type of clothing!
hope i helped!
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whats pig latin?

its like a silly language ..its quite simple!

EX. I give great advice. = Iay ivegay reatgay dviceaay

you take the first letter and move it to the end of the word then add a "ay" to it!

hope i helped!
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i need a way to humiliate my bro and get bak at him BIG TIME!! but i hav 2 do it w/out having him tell on me, and without having him no it was me and stuff, cuz i reaaaaaaly dont want to get in trouble! i rate high for good answers!

when hes around his friends say somin really embarrasing or go to
http://www.revengeunlimited.com/catalog/ i googled that. you might find something there.
i hope i helped!
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does anybody know any good lipgloss/chapstick/etc...brands or flavors that work well while kissing? I'm looking for something that is moist like chapstick, flavorful, and looks good...i'm actually more concerned with the moist and flavor thing..any ideas? thank you.
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the best in the world in the Jessica Simpson Dessert Treats its at claires for like $12.50 its actually edible and it looks really good
or i also like the Tutti Dolci at bath and body works(i recomend creme brule) also for a minty smell w/ a tingle i like the burts bee's lip color you can find that anywhere from eckerd to bath and body works.
i hope i helped!
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How do I made a messy bun so it stays in place?
It always slip out after a cuouple of minutes..or directly if I run =/
Sometimes it ends up being a ponytail ;P
What am I doing wrong!?

wrap ur hairtie around ur hair once and then the second time half way threw and for the third time like wrap that lil bun part in half and then include the lil parts that are in front. uhh i dont think that makes much sense but i did it a couple of minutes ago =)

sometimes its the hair scrunchy..i use to use the little thin ones. i always redid my hair like every 10 minutes and then i realized that it was too thin..so try a thicker hair tie. or even two...

i hope i helped!
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A friend of one of my friends recently commited suicide, and it's really taking a toll on my friend. (Let's just call her Jane haha) So I've tried talking to Jane, but every time I try to comfort her or w/e she says something really rude or just turns away. I know she's grieving, and I'm trying to tell myself it's nothing personal, but what she's doing is really hurtful. How should I tell her how this makes me feel? Is it too early? (This happened just a couple days ago.) Can anyone tell me how I should try and make her feel better? Thanks.

just tell her how much you love her... i was thinking about it one day and posted it on my myspace and my friend soo talked me out of it when she told me how sad she would be and how much she loved me =)
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What is Cold Play's newest song. Not Fix You!

is it speed of sound?(my bad!) if not go there they have all their songs and albums there
http://www.coldplaying.com/page.php?file=/html/tracksearch/index.htm
hope i helped!
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