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hey guys this is Andie. I love helping people out with there problems because us teenagers tend to have a lot of them. Trust me I would most definatly know. If i dont answer your question the way you wanted me to, ask again! I'm here for you guys!!

♥ Andie

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Why do i still like a guy that dumped me like 3 weeks ago!?

Oh idk...its the mysteries of love..lol no but i know how you feel i went out with a guy for a while, but then i dumped him and I dont know why I did it because I still had feelings for him. So I think you just have really strong feelings for him and you should tell him that, he might have them for you too. ♥Andie

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Hi,
the other day i was at my friends house and we were messsin around and i tryed pantsing her. she ran after me and tryed to do the same... well ne ways it ended up with me locked outta her house. even before this happened, my life has been going down hill. my parents r always arguing with me and dont support me in ne thing i do ne more. i thought the gurls that i was with that nite were the only ones i could count on. u dont wanna kno wat ive picked up on lately... but i just dont kno wat to do ne more... do you think i should apologize to my "friends" or should i just give up on life as it is?... if you have ne questions let me kno and i'll rite again...

You should deffinatly NOT give up on life. This is just one of those "speed bumps in life." You just have to work your way around this. It is going to be hard, the first thing I would do is you habit that you have picked up on you should stop, it isnt going to help you anymore, and is just going to make things worse. You should tell your friends that you are sorry for what you did and you knew it wasnt right in the first place. Last, you should most deffinatly talk to your parents about how you feel that when they dont support you. I know that it might be tough, but when I told my mom that she wasn't supporting me in a sport I wanted to do, i told her my confidence level in me went down and she started to worry about me and she started to support me more and more. So I think you should talk to your parents about it. I hope I helped and your life WILL get better you just gotta get through this first! ♥Andie

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oK! i think you no who this is (i have been dirtbiking since i was seven.. hint) and i am going out with a guy i really like and have liked. its like a dream come true.. but i still have feelings for one of my ex bf's and im not sure what to do cuz HE still likes me.. im so confused on what to do! please.. i need help with this problem and fast.. im not sure if i should break up or ignore.. hmm... help!

Hey hunni! haha I think that you should stay with your current boyfriend becase if it is like a dream come true, then you should def. stay with him. I think you just have a little bit of a crush still with your ex, but everyone has that still! You will eventually get over him, sometimes it will be a while, you might be over him tomorrow for all you know! So my advice is to stay with him! Good luck for the both of you two! ♥Andie

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Okay, so I have a boyfriend, but I don't really know if he is the one for me, it is really hard to tell, it really feels like I like him so much, but at times it feels like he's not the one for me. I don't know what to do, or what to think anymore, he can be so immature sometimes, but then perfect the next .. please help !

Well i'm really not that great at realtionship problems but I will try my best.

I think it seems to me like he is uncomfortable for some reason. I think that you guys should both talk and see what the deal is between you guys, and if he feels the same way you do. I'm sorry i really cant help much but I tried lol ♥Andie

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Okay here's whats happening..
Im a sixth grader.. and I have been feeling really sad lately.. and i dont know why. I guess its cuz my dog died or sumthing.. but i dont know how to get over it. Also.. ppl are putting more pressure on me by the second. Im not sure if i can take it anymore! Please help me Andie!
Thanx..
Love~ *me*

Oh my gosh i am soo sorry what happened to your dog! both of mine dog a year apart and it was hard for me too, so I know how that feels. Tell people that if they dont have something nice to say to you right now, dont say anything because you dont need to hear it right now at this point in time. Dont you just hate it when people put pressure on you, yeah i know it stinks..=( I think you should have like a "girls day" with one of your best friends and go shopping or have a spa day with them or something like do each others nails and hair or something just to get your mind off of things. I hope I helped and I am always here for you if you need something! ♥Andie

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i told my parents to f**k off and i got grounded for 2 weeks. do you think this is fair? because i was really pissed off.. i coulndt help it. lol.

I think that is reasonable. I accidently told my parents that and I wasnt aloud to do anything for a month! so you are lucky. I kinda felt guilty after that though because they are my own parents. I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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Ok so i am usually never shy but at my gymnastic place i am so shy i never lift up my head or talk to anyone unless they ask me a question and i only lift up my head when i am doign my job(what i am sapose to do on beam,,,ext)and when i am there ppl r mean to me saying my leatard is really ugly.....or durty (which i always wash) and idk when i go there I HATE IT SO MUCH i am good at it that i know but i mean i will make up excuess not to go.....i think about quiting all the time but i love it so much but not there and my mom won't let me go anywhwere else and i mean when im there i literally cry and just think....I don't need friends or want friends cause i am here to do a job a career btu still i mean ik if i go and do not haev friends i migth do better but i might not......what do i do i tryed to talk to my mom but she is still not letting me switch....sry about the lenth

Its okay. First of all don't quit! If you think you are good at it, then you shouldnt quit, you could go farther at the sport and you never know where you might end up at! As for those people who are making fun of you, just forget what they are saying because they are probably just jealous because you are better than them. And who cares about what your leatard looks like! No one is really paying attention to that anyway, they are seeing your ability at the sport. Looks deffinatly don't count. When i was in ballet like 2 years ago, i had this ugly leatard that I wore and I loved ballet, but I quit because of what people said to me, and I regret it soo much because I love to dance. So dont let what those girls say to you, because I made varsity dance team this year, and I dont care what people say about me anymore! I hope I help and you will go far with gymnastics!!! Good luck! ♥Andie

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people say im stupid what should i do

Just be like, so. haha no, but most of the time when people say that just tr to bring you down..DONT LET THEM! because then if they see that it is getting to you, they will start calling you meaner names. So just ignore and eventually they will stop.♥Andie (dont worry your not the only one, people say it to me at least 1nce a day)

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Hey Andie,
Well, I've got these two friends and we are all really close. Well, my best friend told me that they were going to Texas together tonight. It REALLY hurts my feelings because they never bothered to tell me. One of them even lied to me and said she was going to visit relatives. I've tried talking to them already and I couldn't get ahold of them. Do you have any ideas on what to do???
Love,
CE
PS: Marshmellow Puffman!! :)

I think you should wait untill after they get back and then be like "so did you guys have a fun time in Texas?" and then just be straight forawrd and say I wish you didnt lie to me about were you were going, it hurts kinda when you lie to me about that. or something but dont just yell at them becase I think they didnt want to tell you because they didnt want your feelings to get hurt. I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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is it wrong to wear a thong? i want to get one but i dont want people to think of me as a hoe

No its deffinatly not wrong. But people might think of you differently if you have it hanging out the whole time haha. Go ahead and get one if you want! lol ♥Andie

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i cant get a boyfriend. all the boys say that im sooo hot but they wont go out with me. whats wrong with me? why cant i get a boyfriend?
help me! ^O^

Hey there is deffinatly NOTHING wrong with you! they are just some random guys that want to get down your pants or something. ((seriously)) they will try to get your attention and they think they can drag you in them so they can "get laid," and they will be kool. But yeah, those guys are deffinatly not worth it. I hope I helped! ♥Andie

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do you need to be a certain age to buy condoms or can anyone buy them?

It is illegal for sales people to not let people buy them, so yeah basicly anyone can! ♥Andie

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i'm a male and 13 years old.okay i have this one friend (a girl) and i noticed that she gets taken advantaged of by one of her best friends.she has fun when she is with this friend, but her friend will always make her do the stuff that she doesnt wanna do or the stuff that could cause harm to herself. i really care for this person (the one thats getting taken advantage of) and i dont want her to get hurt. what should my friend (the one taken advantage of) do about this situation?

Yeah, that is tough i felt like that when I was that one girl, and sometime she was so mean to me I would cry. But yeah, I think you should talk to your friend and tell her you are worried about her, and eventhough she might disagree with you, you should tell her you dont really want her to be friends with her because you are just looking out for her. Your friend needs to realize that this other girl isnt really a "true best friend" and should find anther friend before something happends that she might regret. I hope I helped you a little! ♥Andie

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Take A Wild guess of who this is. I think my boyfriend is cheating on me, but i am not 100% sure. I really like him and i dont want to loose him, but how can i trust him? Thnx for everything u do for me. Love~ You know who

Hey babe! Ya that is very very though. I think you should deffinatly talk to him face to face and tell him exactly how you feel. Dont take me wrong, and I know that you really like him, but if he is cheating on you he isnt worth being with. Because how do you know he wont do it again? Also, whoever told you about this, ask the person if they were there. Oh and even a better thing, confront the person who he is cheating on you with so you can get details and facts from your boyfriend and this "other chick." I'm so sorry if I didnt help that much but if you ever need anything hunni! I am ALWAYS here for you sweetie! ♥Andie

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ok me andmyb/f were in his pool and he stuck it in me for like 3 min but ti kept comin out(in those 3 min) and he said nothing came out of him ....we didnt use protection, wat is the chance of me gettin pregnamt???????

There could be a chance that you are pregnat. You should take a pregnancy test just to make sure so you know. I hope I helped! ♥ Andie

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Hey so u might know who this is but anyways i have a lot goign on i mean i have so much to do and well i just got to a new barn(horse's) and my sister rides there two but she is a snot and she is really mean to everyone but yet she is a good rider and does well at shows and i want to show my barn that i am a good rider but i am not like my sister(a snot) what can i do i mean i went to a show and got champion,and when i was there i heard that my trainer said that my horse was junk what do i do about that???

Well I dont really know because I dont have a sister but I will try my best! First of all if you got champion your trainer shouldnt have said that your horse was junk! that is horrible! I mean come on it just got champion! (congrats by the way) I think that if you are just you around everyone, they will relize you are not like your sister and you arnt a snot! I hope I helped, and just remember just be yourself, and dont come off like your sister does! ♥Andie

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If my hair is cut to my sholders,[[little longer]] and i got layers ABOVE my ear,how fast do you think it will grow?[[per month..or week even better]] [[avraged]] Its very thin since the lady cut the layers shorter than my ears.
But how maybe inches will it grow per month/week?

umm..it depends on how fast your hair grows. Its different to everybody. My hair is like your length, but not soo short of layers, Mine would probably be about 2 inches below my shoulder when school starts (Sept. 4th ish) if that gives you any kinda of an idea. I'm sorry if I didnt help much, but its different for everyone ♥Andie

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were can i get cute clothes and they are for a good price? thanks
luv hallie

There is always something real quite at kohls and there is always something on sale which is a plus! Or my other favorite store is American Eagle, if you dont really want pricy clothes go to the clearence or on sale clothes, they are all adorable there! I hope I helped hallie! ♥Andie

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how long after a break up should you wait before the next chase? I mean like... looking around for new people... if the relationship you've just come out of wasn't that serious... but I don't want to hurt his feelings by jumping straight back in... :S
16/f

I think you should wait like..at least a week so he can get his thoughts straight out, as well as you should too. Dont just into anything too quick unless you know who you are "going for," and if they like you because that could just end up in a short relationship. I hope I helped! ♥ Andie

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Does anybody know any good fonts that are cursive? Sorry it's a short question, but that's about all I need :)

Script MT Bold, french script MT, are also very good! I hope I helped! if you ever need anything drop one in my inbox! =) Andie

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