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im goin on my first date with this guy i got to know online and im MAD NERVOUS....we only talked like a couple of times and hes really sweet and we know a bit bout eachother...my problem is im shy to the extreemist extent anyone can imagine...goin red when talkin to guys...i really need help cuz when i go on this date im nervous that i might not say anything or talk at all!i have an outstanding personality among my freinds but infront of this guy...ill totally mute...what do i do...what do i say to start convos...im so nervous what do i ask him...or talk bout:((((((((((( (link)
I'm the exactly same way. Even down to the meeting a guy online and going on my first date with him lol. There really isn't a way to get over being shy, because i've tired that a million times, but nothing works. What i did with that guy was before we went out, i told him online that im EXREMELY shy, and that i probably wont talk every much on the date until i hang out with him a couple times and get comfortable with him. He was totally cool about it. He started conversation and he didnt mind that i didnt talk very much. And then as i hung out with him more, i got more comfortable with him and actually talked and wasnt nervous at all.

good luck!=]


i smell like fish "down there" & i dont know what to do. im only 14. HELPPPP. (link)
Thats pretty normal. Most girls vaginas smell kind of fishy. If its an odd smell, it might be something else.


Check out the first answer from BrittanyMegan here,http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=509097, and take a look at the link. That should help you.


Hello.
I am a 13 year-old male. THIS QUESTION IS FOR A GIRLS OPINION ONLY! Now girls, am i weird? I try to look cool but somehow always make a fool of myself. like today i was trying to get my huge backpack out of my locker and i fell on my back. NO ONE LIKES ME AS A FRIEND, NO GIRL LIKES ME EMOTIONALLY,AND I THINK ITS BECAUSE IM WEIRD. I dress in baggy shorts,
and cool vintage tees, and try to act as cool as possible. but i can't stop being weird. Every joke i say noone laughs, but if another kid says the same thing, evryone dies laughing. I am a little overweight but not much. (link)
I cant really say if your weird or not over the internet, because i dont know you. But it seems like your trying a little too hard. Well, a lot too hard. You cant try to be cool. Cool is being yourself. Just stop trying to be cool and act normal and yourself. People can tell when you try too hard. You shouldnt want people to like your for not being yourself.


what specifically is considered in the group of oral sex? (link)
Im not sure if this is what you mean, but oral means mouth. So oral sex for a guy is a blow job and for a girl is eating her out. I guess making out can be considered oral sex also.


what is the point of a pitfall seed? and how do you get peoples pictures faster? Also, can you get a golden net and golden fishing rod? thanks soo much!!! (link)
The point of a pitfall seed it to put a whole in the ground where no one can see it, and then when someone walks over it, they fall in. It doesnt really do anything, its just like a practical joke type thing.

To get the golden net, you have to catch one of each type of bug. For the golden rod, you have to catch one of each type of fish. Tortimer will give you both when you earn them.

As for the pictures, i dont know what your talking about, so i cant help you there.

I lovee that game lol=]]


i need to upload a pic from a disposable camera onto my computer
my scanner is broken, and since its not digital i cant just upload it with a cable
i have the pic, so is their any way i can upload it? (link)
There isn't a way to upload photos from a disposable camera onto your computer from home. Usually, you can take the camera to a place that developes pictures and have the pictures developed, and then have them use the negatives to put the pictures on a cd, which you can then put on your computer. Some places can put the pictures onto a cd without developing them, but others cant. You can always ask them before they develop the pictures. But thats the only way to get them onto your computer with your scanner being broken.


what exactly is a-line and asymmetrical hair (ok in dictionary of course that means hair that is not even on both sides? who would want that)? searching on google provides too many results and i cant see the pattern amongst all the hairstyles so if someone can just tell me that would be great. (link)
Usually when people talk about asymmetrical hair, its not uneven on both sides, its a different lenght in the back than in the front. A really good example of this is Victoria Beckham.

http://hair-styles.womendiary.net/wp-content/uploads/2006/08/victoria-beckham-hairstyle.jpg

See how her hair starts short in the back, and then gets longer in the front? Thats usually what asymmetrical hair is. As for why people would want that, i have no clue. Some people can pull it off, like Victoria Beckham, but others cant, at all lol.


What would you do with it?

There's this girl who I absolutely hate (with good reason.. a lot of people hate her but don't tell it to her face) and she basically has made her friendships through myspace. It's like her life or something, but I'm so sick of it because she's really fake. Well anyway the point is, I have her password so what are some things I could do to ruin her life? Do you think I should delete it? She has no idea I have it, but still.

Remember I'm trying to ruin her life.. So things like deleting her myspace would probably make her actually HAVE a life. Which I don't want. I want everyone to realize the real her and hate her as much as I do, but I don't know if I can do anything like that on myspace.

(& normally I wouldn't do anything to someone I hate but, if i have the oppotunity like this, i will take it) So.. :]? *will rate 5's (link)
Ohhh i love revenge=]

You should start off small, like changing a few things on her profile. Maybe change her email adress to yours for a few days so she can't get on, then change it back(alls you have to do is go into acount settings and then change the email adress). Send bitchy(are we allowed to say bitchy on advicenators? oh well, i just did. twice actually=]) comments to her friends, but nothing too mean. You could delete all her pictures. I wouldnt delete her myspace all together, because theres no fun there=].

Have fun and deffffinetly take advantage of knowing her password=] It sounds like she deserves it=]. How'd you get it anyways lol?




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Sorry it took so long to get back to you.. i kind of got banned for a couple of days for the answer i gave you lmao. It was very worth it though. But anyways.. my aim screen name is xxbaby gurlxx211.. i used to think i was wicked ghetto and stuff=] i dont think i could have been more wrong.. buttt yea.. feel free to im me=] whats your name by the way?




Ok, well tomorrow I'm going to this event so I'm taking things to get signed, and my digital camera.

I'm taking a backpack to hold everything. The thing is I don't have a camera holder thingo. And I'm definitely not putting my camera in my pocket. What can I substitute for a camera bag? (link)
What i usually do is put it in a little wristlet or a small bag or purse, then you can either put it in your backpack and it will be much more protected, or with a small purse or wristlet, you can also just hold it because its small.

Have fun at the event=]


First off,
you should know that when we were younger my friends and I always made eachothers mixed cds, looking back we all noticed that we could tell eachothers specific moods and what was going on through the music/lyrics.

So now, I feel like Im losing them, one told me flat out that she doesnt want to hang out with me anymore and hates my boyfriend.. who she used to love?(as a friend) and I was wondering if anyone had any good songs pertaining to this to put on cds for them to let them know that i feel like im losing them, and I miss them, and im sorry that none of us made an effort. (link)
If you want to kind of hit them over the head with it and be obvious, you could do You and Me by No Doubt.

Theres also Losing You by Busted, but some people could take that as more of a relationship song. I'm Losing you by John Lennon. Can't Stand Losing You by Sting.

Thats all i've got right now, but i think thats a really cool idea=] Good luck


15/f

ok, well. I decided to shave down there. but like, everytime I do, I always get these red bumps. and it really hurts. but, I still wanna shave.. and like, recently i've had an infection. and like, it REALLY burns. and it's really annoying. I don't wanna tell my mom, like at all. please help? (link)
Those little red bumps are caled razor burn. You can easily get razor burn "down there" if you dont have properly. When you shave, use shaving cream or soap and shave with the direction the hair is growing(shave from the top of your vagina down instead of from the bottom of your vagina up.. stomach to legs instead of legs to stomach=]). That should stop you from getting razor burn.

You could also use Nair. I've never done it, but a lot of people swear by it. Its a cream hair remover, and its supposed to last longer than shaving and it doesnt cause razor burn.


I got my new pair of Converse Chucks shoes yesterday, but on the box it says size 4 mens, and size 6 womens. But on the receipt it says MENS! Is this a good/bad thing for a *girl* to have MENS shoes? Are Converse Chucks men's and women's shoes kinda made/are the same way? I don't know if it's me, but they really DO look like men's shoes and it's kinda embarrassing if anyone knew! On the website converse.com, if you look at a shoe and roll over sizes in US womens then size 6, it would say "your converse size is 4" So I was wondering if I could still buy them online. (I don't think size 4 men's//6 women's and size 4 women's//6 women's are the same so I'm really worried I can't buy them online.) (link)
All Converse are made in mens sizes, but they are womens shoes lol. I have like 7 pairs, and on the boxes of all of them, it said mens. Its just the sizes they use, because mens sizes are different than womens sizes. Mens sizes for Converse are two sizes smaller. So for me, I'm normally a size seven in womens, but i have to get a size 5 in Converse. Dont worry about it=]


I can't seem to find any pictures of this online, and please don't ask me to look in a magazine because I'm not in reach of one currently, nor can I get one.

Anyways I'm looking for an asymmetrical hair cut, but a specific one. Where like in the back it's short and then it slopes longer in the front.

Like this

http://rds.yahoo.com/_ylt=A0Je5mWdibNGiNUAGiCjzbkF/SIG=136jog97r/EXP=1186257693/**http%3A//fametastic.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2006/09/victoria_beckham_short_hair.jpg

but longer.

I want a long version of it, is it possible? Like where the longest ends of my hair go below my shoulders. (link)
If your going to be going to a hair dresser and you like that hairstyle, but longer, you dont actually need a picture of a longer version. You can just show him/her the picture and tell them you want the longest part at your shoulders, and they can do it.

Thats a very cute hairstyle, by the way=] Is that Victoria Beckham?


why do people straighten naturally straight hair?

& what's the best flat iron for that purpose?

can you give me a brand, price, & location?

i'd prefer if it was smallish, 'cause i don't have a lot of room in my bathroom and i'll only being using it for a few strands of hair. (link)
My hair is straight, but it flips out at the ends and its frizzy. And a straightener stops that. Pretty much all ceramic hairstraighteners work best for naturaly straigh hair. Metal ones suck lol. You can get some pretty cheap ceramic ones at Walmart, like 20 dollars. One inch thick ones work best and are small for the amount of space you have.

This one, http://www.walmart.com/catalog/product.do?product_id=4053424, is a pretty good one. I used to have an older version of it, so im sure the new one is a lot better than the older one.


hey peoples:).
i have pretty thick hair. i got it cut in layers for the first time a couple months ago and its really thick!! i am stuck with either 2 choices get a better straightner or dont get my hair cut in layers. this is the straighter i have right now http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=90068&catid=29113 When my hair is straightened good with layers i like it! so i would much rather prefer i better straightner.
Any recommendations?? (link)
I have a Corioliss one inch straightener. It works like magic. Its a little pricey though. www.Folica.com has all different kinds of Corioliss's, but the one inch one works the best. Plus, it comes in wicked cute colors. Mines purple and my sister has a pink one. Theyr both wickeddd cute. =]


i am trying to find a cute comforter for my new room
i wanted a pink zebra kind. a duvet cover would be better but any will do.
i kno wakeupfrankie.com has one but i dont like it because it is like velvet.
anyone know any other places that have them?
and target and bedbathandbeyond and target dont. (link)
If you scroll down a little on this page, http://www.specialtylinens.com/animal.htm, there is a pink set and a purple set. both are reallllly cute!=]

This website, http://thethemeroom.com/faux_fur_duvet_cover_sets.htm, has tons of cute colored animal print duvet covers. Some of there are wicked cute.

You could also check ebay. Theres usually some really cool one of a kind comforters on there.


Okay well my boyfriend is going to be out of town for 3 days. I have been checkin out this really hot guy and I have the feeling he's into me so how should I approach hanging out with him? Should I be like Hey ___, _____ is out of town we should hang out! Or what that would be kind of weird. How should I approach this!! (link)
If you are going to hang out with this kid while your boyfriend is out of town, make sure your boyfriend knows. Make sure he knows you have feelings for this kid, and make sure he is ok with it. If he's not ok with it, don't hang out with this kid. If your willing to go against your boyfriend, then maybe you shouldn't be with him.


But anyways, onto the how to ask him. I wouldn't ask him the way you said because that sounds like your implying that you want to do things with him when you hang out because your boyfriend is out of town(wether or not you want to or not is none of my business, but just remember, cheating is bad and it can really really hurt your boyfriend in the long run). You could be like Hey ___, my boyfriend is out of town for a little while, and i don't really have anything to do. Do you want to hang out or something?.. something like that.


alright so im soposed to go to warped tour, with my friend and i've just got this bad feeling that it's not gonna work out. this thing is in 4 days almost 3 now, and i dont have my tickets yet, and neither does she. the kids were soposed to be meeting up with already got their tickets and everything. thing is, shes just always so difficult, and i cant explain it. we get into arguments constantly and im to the point where i almost dont even wanna go anymore. so tonight i made her ask her dad when hes buying the tcikets and i heard him in the background, not giving a straight answer, and my mom was gonna buy mine like a while ago but she wanted to wait until her dad got hers, just because i know how they can be, so she suggested that she'd just pay me back the 36 something dollars and my mom would buy them. but my mom is saying "i know how they are, so i kinda want the money first, before i buy her ticket" and i agree, but shes not saying when her dad's gonna pay me back and im on the verge of just being like "forget it" and im so close to, but i need advice on what i should do? help!!? (link)
Thats a very itchy situation. If the girl wants your mom to buy the tickets, and she'll pay you back, dont buy her ticket until she gives you the money, and tell her that. You should buy your ticket asap though, because warped tickets sell out fast the last couple days before the concert. You wouldnt want to miss out on going because you have to wait for your friend. You should either tell her you want to money first, or tell her to buy her own ticket, and you'll buy yours. If your meeting up with other people there, it doesnt really matter if she goes or not, because your going to be meeting with other people, so if she doesnt go its not like you'll be alone.

have fun!


i have some cute bord shorts and i want to wear them to a pool party...but i have fat hips and a stomach. so idk what type of a top to wear..i want to look hot but i dont want to show skin if i dont have the body for it? any suggestions? pics would be awsome>
thx (link)
tankinis are an awsome option, as the last person said. Delias.com and Alloy.com have some really cute ones.

I'm not in the best shape at all lol, and very self concious about my stomache. I just recently bought this bathing suit, http://store.delias.com/item.do?categoryID=1498&itemID=46817&sizeFilter=&colorFilter=&brandFilter=. Although it does show your hips, it covers your tummy, and looks really great. I'm totally comfortable in it. You could wear that and board shorts over it. That would look wicked cute=]



I want to get a Pink DS Lite but I'm not sure if I should get it. My sister has one and I love it but she barely lets me use it. I'm a 13 year old girl so I'm not really into gaming. The only games I like are Mario and Sims. Haha. So should I get a DS or is it a waste? I also like the Picto Chat thing. =) (link)
If your thinking about getting one, then deffinetly get it. I'm 14, and not really into gaming either, but my younger cousin used to let me play his ds every once in a while, and i liked playing it, and then he left it here for like a week, and i played it all the time, and now im addicted. And i had to get one for myself=] Its so much fun.

If you like the sims, have you played Catz, Dogz, Horsez, or Petz Vetz? Theyr like the sims, wih animals. Theyre a ton of fun=]If you get a ds you should try one of those=]




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