A little bit about me...
*Name Stephanie Njunuri
*Age 17
*Height 5'4
*Hair brownish blonde
*Eyes drk brwn
*Location H-Town
*Stats SINGLE!!! all the way baby!!!!
*SCREEN NAME QtWitABooty00721... if someone is on a different sn other than QtWitABooty00721 pretending to be me... then YOUR NOT TALKING TO STEPHANIE NJUNURI your talking to an IMPOSTER!!
I belive lyf is only wut u MaKe of it, so love lyf cuz it dont last 4 eva
~When U Have A Problem KiSsEs Can Solve Em~
Gender: Female
Location: Houston Tx
Age: 18
AIM: QtWitABooty00721
Member Since: June 24, 2004
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Last Update: December 16, 2004
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well heres the deal...theres this guy...well just say his name is bob...so i really really like bob...and i think he likes me too...my stepbro and my friends all tell me he likes me n thinks im hot n other stuff like that...and when we are together we are like really flirty w/ eachother and all that and ive liked him for almost a year now and he knows i like him and we text message eachother almost all day everyday and i cant figure him out...what is the best way to ask him about it...b/c i think he likes me b/c of the way he acts around me like at partys he always gets me drinks n drives me around n were really good friends but i want to be more than that so what do you think would be the best way for me to find out what goes on in his head???
{im 15} (link)
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ASk him if he likes you and tell him you wan tan honest answer. Since yall are so close then it shouldn't be that bad.
*good Luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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my best friend is a year younger tahn me in school...so sometimes it feels like i dont have any one to talk to that is my age. I have many friends that are inthe same grade as me...but they arent my best friend...so help plz! (link)
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Well you can have more than one best friend so just try and get closer to some of you freinds so yall can become best friends.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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well i have/had this friend we grew apart and i noticed now that she had been lieing to me about certain things but i just forget about them since im not her close friend anymore. and with my previous b/f, whenever she would find out something about MY relationship with MY b/f @ tha time she told EVERYONE and it wasnt n e of her business. sumtymes i miss her then other tymes i just hate her and wish she would leave me alone. she talks to my boyfriend a lot because her soon-to-be boyfriend is my boyfriend's friend. everytime my boyfriend and her start talking i feel really pissed and i dont know that to do. i mean he can be her friend its just that i always get a bad feeling considering she was my bestfriend and now she thinks she can "flirt" with my boyfriend that i have now that and she did with my pervious boyfriend. i dont know what to do. (link)
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Comfront this so called 'friend" and let her know wuts happenin. Forget about what happened between yall and move on. What happens in the past stays in the past. i dont mean forget it literally, but dont worry cuz your boyfriend is with you not her.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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okay so i was at this socca turny and i met this boy he really wasnt soo cute but he was really really sweet and he spoke spanish so i really didn't have much to say to him but he was all putting his arm around me and all his freinds thought that i was like his gf but really i wasn't and then when he had to leave he was all like can i get a kiss so i was just gonna peck him on the cheek but when i went in he like turnd his face and went for my lips and then he like all pulled me closer and all and then he opend his mouth to french me and all and i wanted to make out with some one but not really him so for a second i was into it and then a sec later i pushed him away and now my friend is all making fun of me cuz i made out with some guy i didn;t even like! and i think that she is totally right! i mean i just met him and all and now i can't stop thinking about it! and i totally regret it! idk wut to do. he prolly thinks im his gf now so if i c him he'll prolly wanna talk to me and kiss me again when really i don't wanna talk to him again.
please help (link)
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Well if you don't want to talk to this boy then don't! he seems like hes kinda aggresive and likes to be incontrol of things so watch out for him. The kiss obviously ment something to you, otherwise you would have pushed him away sooner! But making out with someone you don't know isn't bad but its not good either....i did b4! If you do see him again then tell him how you felt and let him now there's nothin between yall. You shouldn't regret things because everything happens for a reason, just learn from your mistakes and move on!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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i used to like this guy ever since 6th grade n then i didnt really like him anymore in 7th grade. i juss sorta gave up on him...then over the summer i met this totally great guy hoos head over heals for me n i lyk him a whole lot too! but he livs 3 hrs away from me n wen i go bak 2 skool, im afraid im goin 2 lik the guy i used to lyk at skool instead. i want to get that guy outta my head n be with the sweet one i met over the summer. the one in my skool never expressed any emotions that he liked me so i moved on. i wanna forge about him n date the other guy hoo lyks me bak. i lyk him bak...but can i be stuck between?
Charlize (link)
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Well obviously you can't move on because theres something your trying to rush out of. if you and this guy you met over the summer are ment to be then it will happen but dont ignore your feeling about this boy from school because i dont think your over him yet. Not all guys show their emotions toward a girl in the open but figure out which one makes you feel special and go with him!
*Hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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hi. im in a state of confusion at the moment. its about clothes. i jus dont noe which style 2 wear. ive tried the raggedy style (tomboyish look) that didnt work out. ive tried the fancy cute style, not rite 4 me either. ive even tried the normal style. nothin seems rite 4 me. when i look in the mirror all i c is an invisible image. if i ask my friends bout the clothes i wear, half say its ugly, half say its cute. i dont have ne idea wut 2 wear. ive tried it all, but i jus have no 1 that i can truly listen 2. and i noe, i noe, "listen 2 ur heart" but when i do that it jus says, "y the hell r u askin me? the whole reason u dont noe wut 2 wear is cuz i dont gotta clue either." im sooo confused. i jus look at myself and think i look ugly in everythin i wear. wut shood i do? plz help! i really need it! (link)
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Well maybe your just buyin clothes that dont match you, wear what YOU would wear. Dont get caught up in tryin to look good 4 others. wear what is comfortable for you! I'm pretty sure i knoe who this is so ima give you advice on what i think looks good on you.
1. Wear tighter jeans, but not to tight to where you are uncomfortable
2. Cuter shirts, throw out all your huge shirts that make you look likt a tomboy or save them as sleepin shirts
3. Try Brighter colors, the dark ones show your pailness! lol...not tryin to b mean!
4. Fix your hair, i have seen your hair look good.... so dont torture it by not taking care of it
5. Jewlery, try to get jewlery that matches your outfit...thats in fashion now.
If you change your look....PLZ dont change your personality, because you are so AWESOME hoe u r!
P.S~That pleaded mini skirt your mom bought you was cute....you looked pretty!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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|Gurl| 13 | Hey ive liked this kid for like 3months now, he knows i like/liked him but things never worked out between us, we never actually went out though. We started out as friends, then one day i told his friend i liked him n he was still in tha room n saw it. His friend told me he said tha other day he felt tha same way bout me. So then the nxt day wen he was home i told him i liked him, then he told me his friend told him already. But I kinda ruined things wen i madeout with sum kid wen i wasnt going out with dat kind n still liked him(as in tha kid i liked for a while). I dont think i like him to much anymore, cuz he barley shows any intrest in me anymore n we barley talk. N 1 of my friends i think likes him now, which was really rong of her to do to me, even tho i tell everyone im over him and i pretty much am. Im just kind of jealous and mad cuz we're not even really friends anymore! Wat should i do?!
Thanksz! (link)
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I think you should tell your friend how she is making you feel. And apologiz and let this boy know that your sorry for cheatin on him and tell him you still kinda have feelings for him. But if things don't turn out rite its nothe end of the world! there are plenty more bee's in da hive!
~*~ KiSsEs~*~
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(im 14 by tha way)Okay three years ago i met this guy..i went crazy for him..we went out for 3 months n i found out he had played me when i was on vaca. well i dumped him..then we went out fer another month or so n broke up again..because i had found out he had tried to play me with my friend hannah! well tha year after that i irnored him completly..i couldnt stand him afta everything he put me through..well he went to a different school tha rest of tha year. then just last school u he was back..at first i wouldnt talk to him then i cracked. we went out fer a week n broke up then went out fer 2 months n broke up again. After that we had gotten in fights didnt talk fer a few weeks started to talk again got REALLY close..that just kept happening tha last 4 months of school. Well then my dream came true he asked me to go with him to our 8th grade dance. I was sooo happy n excited! well a day b4 tha dance i asked him if we were still on fer tha dance n he said "sure...but..im guna hang out n dance with other girls!" i got so mad! so i decided last minute to tell him i was going with sum friends..at that dance he came up hugged me n said u look sooo good tonight! i think he was wanting me to say aww thanks dance with me!! but instead i said yeah i know! n just kinda pushed him away...i felt so great!!! him n my bff have been on n off fer tha past year and a half. Right now she is totally crazy for him. and i know he is just going to end up hurting her again but newayz they talk on ths phone all tha time n she was on tha phone with him tha other day when i was over n he was calling me a b*itch (dont know if we can swear on this website?ol) skut hoe n stuff...i got sooo mad..then every so often he would ask my bff "did she say nething bout me yet??!" he is sucha jerk..and i know hes just doing that becausee i dont like him..but he also left me to really nasty msg's on my cell phone. i want to say sumthing but im not sure because this fall he is going to tha same highschool as me and i dont want to have any trouble! what should i do?!!?!? plz help thanx! xo0ox!! (link)
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On and off relationships are common between alot of people... but You need to straighten things out with him and tell him to just leave you alone and let you move on! He played you and that wasn't rite, so he got what he deserved! Well tell your freind exactly what he did to you and that it could happen to her too! ONCE a player ALWAYS a player. Let him know that you want all the nasty name calling to stop, he obvioulsy wants you to fall for him again...but you gots to be strong and show him your NOT weak!
*good luck*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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hey there sexy! The name's jenny! hey steph! ;) u noe hoo dis is! well...im goin on dis cruise *wink wink* wit my bestest friend in da world...but i dont have ne thing cute 2 wear. now my friend has great taste in clothes...i mean great taste but im sorta scared 2 ask her if she'll shop wit me. do u think my friend will wunt 2 go wit me shoppin? if so, how can i ask her without soundin like a loozer?!
luv ya like the sis i alwayz wunted, (jk jk)
(dont let aimee c that)
~*jenny penny*~ (link)
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Hey Jenny!;) well it sounds to me like you are one lucky to be going on a cruise! especially with your BEST FRIEND?!?! WOW your gonna have some fun! But what you need to do is be honest with this frined and tell her how you feel! if she's a TRUE friend she won't make fun of you!
*YES i will go shoppin with u and ur NOT a loser*
4 da record *dats my gurl jenny*
P.S. i wont tell aimee! hehehe
~*~ Stephanie~*~
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Hi ya!
=)i have a question. well duh! ne ways i am 14 and im at the sort of time in my life where i cant stop thinkin bout guyz! but the prob is im not exactly attractive. thats y i havent had that many bfs. i mean, i only fit into large clothes, i have some acne, im real white, and i jus dont have ne attractive qualities. Everytime i try 2 tlk 2 a boy 2 show him i have a good personality, he jus lookz weird at me...like "y r u even tryin?" i uno wut 2 do ne mor! plz tell me wut i shood do!
UR GURL,
TOTALLY CONFUSED! (link)
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Its normall to think about guys alot......i do! Well the problem is that you THINK your not attractive, everyone has an attractive quality! you just have to find yours and floss it! Try tanning (but use sunscreen because u can start peelin and get cancer) Try to find clothes that are more your size....lyk not things that make u look big but not things that make you look to exotic?! get me?!?! Acne comes natural to ALOT of people... its part of puberty, yes it sux...but its naturall! You are obviously talking to the WRONG boi's because the right guy wouldn't make you feel like that. Don't worry because your Mr.Right WILL come, it just takes TIME, and time takes PATIENCE! But in the mean time look for a guy who will repsect the qualities you carry and treat you how you DESERVE to be treated.
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Me and my OLD bestfriend had been split up when we went to highschool...but we still talked. but after she started going with this boi she REALLY fell off! i mean she made her life revolve around him. She also use to throw their relationship in my face and i think she was trying to make me jealous! but we stopped talking for like 4 months then she called me for my birthday and we went out 2 nights in a row. should i forgive and forget or move on?!
p.s. i guess you could say im jealous of her relationship, so sometimes i dont feel comfortable around her. (link)
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This boy must be important to her and she just got miss guided on your freindship. You should try and attempt to be happy for her cause he obviously means alot to her! She seems to think you need to be apart of her life otherwise she wouldn't be trying to hang out with you. Maybe she was not trying to brag but got carried away with her happiness and it went to another level. But if she was bragging then tell her how you feel. being jealous is normall. But if your friendship doesn't show progress then let her go because you shouldn't get caught up on one person whos not trying. Don't reminicse on the past. Their are plenty of freinds out there for you to make. If yall were not talking for 4 months then thats not a REAL friendship!
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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Hey! well a frined of mines told me your a really nice and honest person so i thought i night ask you about a situation im having with a really close friend and this boy i like!
Well there was this boy at my school and i use to talk about him with my friend but i never actually talked to him then my friend moved to my school and they started talking. i then started likeing him more?! but they went out recently but only for 2 days. so he told her he wanted to go with me so SHE tryed to hook us up but when we all went to the movies they left me and went off together?! i was not upset but my friends were telling me i should be. i'm the type that don't put friends b4 boi's but i really like him even though i think he likes my friend still. what should i do? (link)
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First of all, tell your friend i said "thank you for recommending me and for all the compliments!" But it sounds to me like your "friend" isn't really much of a true friend. But people make mistakes, give her another chance and hopefully it won't happen again. But don't mess with this boy any more cuz he seem like he ain't got his mind made up of which one of you he want. Until he does leave him alone and let your friend deal with him, no boy should be able to brake the relationship of you and your friend. It may be hard to let him go but its what you should do to make things rite! Be the bigger person and make the rite choice.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I made up a personage vividly in my head about a year ago. I know everything about him. When something goes wrong, this imaginary person appears in my mind. I haven't told anyone about him yet. His name is Elliot and I suddenly think of him everytime something bad happens. What does this mean? And no, I'm not putting the blame of things that I've done on an imaginary figure. I think he's causing the bad things (??) (link)
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Maybe "Elliot" is your escape from all evil...when ever your uncomfortable or not pleased with a situation you turn to him. It sounds like he's your security. I doubt he is causing all the bad things but if so then try to find control
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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An etched out poem reread,
Many times crumbled and then smoothed.
Can this truly capture how I feel?
My words seem so far removed.
How can I define this feeling I get
At every accidental touch?
This energy, this passion,this undescribable lust
The most desirable and beautiful rush.
Words are far to capricious,
They die after being written down.
I need something with substance with truth,
Something with validity and sound.
A kiss can speak a thousand words
Even poets can not define.
So kiss me now so I can remember
All the things I wanted to say, but couldn't find.
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You are really talented! that was really touching....it seems like you think with yout heart and not with your head! thats DEEP
*keep up the good work*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I met this guy last summer at a resort, and I fell in love with him! Both of us had fun all week. We had a bond fire played basketball and alot more.At the end of the week we both had to go home, ( and he lives in a different state)so I figured I would see him again next year. I've talked to him all year on the internet and the phone and ect. When ever I talk to him it always sounds like he likes me and when we say good bye on the internet he types " Bye bye kiss kiss" Now I have had my friends ask him if he likes me and he wont answer them. I even asked him if he liked me. He did not answer me back. What does it meen when he didnt answer me back? Should I talk to him about it and tell him how I feel? and Do you think that he likes me?
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Personally i think he does like you, he's probably just not sure how and when to tell you or maybe he's shy. but don't give up cause i see fate in yall.
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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How come one best friend can like another best friend more than one you have known longer?
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Friendship isn't about how long you have know each other, its about how strong the bond between two people are. You and one person may have more in common or get along better then you and the other person
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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my boyfriends birthday is coming up on august 8th and i have no clue whatsoever to get him...please help!!!! (by the way, if this helps, he is turning 15 n is black...only if that helps lolz) ok thnx! (link)
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well ask him what he wants if he says anything then ask close frineds or family members. but i'd suggest cologne or money!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I broke up w/my b/f of 8 months almost a year ago. He was heartbroken at first, but then got over it and now is going out with another girl. I haven't found anyone who's like him, and I miss him so much. But he's over me, and I still need him. Help!!
~Kat (link)
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Gurlie, u aint gonna get any where if you keep comparing the past with the present. You broke up with him for a reason so DON'T backtrack! it could only make things worse. Your a girl, we get what we want....the right guy is there your just too caught up on your ex to see this guy!
*hope i helped*
~*~KiSsEs~*~
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I know this is kinda embaressing but, How often should you mowe your lawn? i mean my grass grows so fast! You don't have to answer if you don't want to.....thnx Kisses (link)
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Mowe your lawn as often as it needs to be mowed. No problem....simply helping:)
~KiSsEs~
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I 14 yrs. old and i am so down lately (like the past year) and i just hate my self so much and i cut myself sometimes... and it doesnt hurt... i dont know what to do to get out of this! i feel like i have no more friends and tht everyone hates me and wants to (litterally) kill me!I've been around some drugs lately but i dont really want to try them but im so tempted. I've been taking a lot of pain killers lately... Hoping tht i might over dose or something.... i've strangled myself to where i pass out before... i dont kno if I just need some one to hear me out and understand me or what? but im hoping i can get somewhat of a reply from this...?
~Kelly~ (link)
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Kelly, life can be very hard sometimes but u can't let bad situations controll you, you need to controll them! As for the people who don't like or accept you FORGET them. there are soOoO many good, nice and funny people out there... don't let the bad people get to you. It's good your seeking help but maybe you should talk this with your parents or discuss it with a phycatrist Stay Away from drugs they could only make things worse!
*Good Luck*
~KiSsEs~
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