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Hey. Pretty much all you need to know is that I love giving advice. And no question is too out there, as long as it is serious. So ask away! =]
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No matter where I am I going... I am always late!!
I'm late for the bus in the morning and afternoon, late for volleyball practices/games, late for parties, and some other things in my life.
What are ways that I can make sure i'm EARLY, not late!
I want to reach a goal that says I'm always 15 minutes early for everywhere I go.
what are some solutions??
ohh my you sound just like me. haha. i have the same problem. im alwayss late. what i do is set my clocks a few minutes later than what the time really is. so, if the time is really 6:30 in the morning, set it so that it'll read 6:40 or even 6:45 so that youll think to yourself "oh no im gonna be late if i dont get up!" before you know it youll be ready to go and youll end up having to wait 5 mins for the bus!
you could also try setting out what to plan to wear to school at night so that you dont have to look for things to wear in the morning.. if this is a problem.
hope these helped!
im 16 and my bf is 19. we want a baby so badly. but thats only what we want. my mom would kill me and him. but what if it happens soon.
okay. well it may seem that your in love and want a family already. and im not saying you dont love eachother, im sure you do. but please think about this.
aside from the finanical hardships and the disagreement of family members, when you have a baby, most of the attention goes right to him/her. you wont have much time for eachother anymore. your still so young! and so is your boyfriend. this is an exciting time in your relationship and you should be focusing on eachother. You're probably sick of hearing "you're only 16" but this really is true. Its such a young age and you have your whole life ahead of you. Why rush it?
Take time with your boyfriend and make sure hes the one that you want to be with for the rest of your life. if you have a baby with him and end up deciding he isn't the one for you, imagine how much harder your life with be and the life for your child will be.
and think about your mother. please. so many people take their parents for granted. they try to do whats best for us and the least we can do is respect their opinions. parents know best afterall. even if we dont want to believe it.
maybe you could try getting a puppy with your boyfriend or something. and see how much care and time it takes. just please consider all of these things. hope this helped.
For girls: if a girl has a pimple do other girls notice? if like she has many pimples but they're all on like..you know when you have a pimple and its clearing up but not totally because there's like a red cirle there but you can't feel anything when you touch it? well what if your face was liek that but you have a HUGE pimple, do other girls notice? Do they go OH MY GOD LOOK AT THAT?
you know how girls are. they like to see flaws on other people to make themselves feel better. personally though, as a girl, i dont really think anything of a pimple when i see one on a friend or another girl. i mean i notice it. but it doesnt make me think any less of them. and i dont think anyone would point it out to you. unless they were a complete jerk. even then i doubt they would. because we all get them. they all go away after a few days anyways, so i wouldnt worry about it.
just make sure you take care of them. a pimple is no big deal. but when they get big and red and infected, thats when they look gross. as long as you clean your face everyday you dont have to worry.
hope that helped!
Okay I'm so sad! There's this unpopular girl in my class who has only one friend. When I was walking come she called me a bitch. I never even talk about her and I'm not popular myself and never said anything mean about her or to her and she's not even in my class! I know you'd probably be like, don't think about it. But when somebody calls me somethign mean or accidently, even accidently calls me something a little bit mean, I get realyl sad about it and remember it for years and I don't want to add thsi one on the list. I shouldn't be so sad about it but I am and I've been crying for hours because I'm so emotional
wow. okay i am sooo the same way. when someone says something to me like that even possibly as a joke i take it to heart and think about it for days. you seem to be the same way. really this just means that your a very sensitive person and you must have a good heart if what she said really got to you this much.
im assuming this must have to do with why she is so unpopular. she probably isnt a very pleasant person and feels the need to take her angry emotions out on innocent people like you.
please dont take what she said personally. believe me i know its hard not to. im sure if it was anyone else she would have said it to them to. you were just at the right place at the right time for her. like you said, she doesn't even know you.
hope i helped =)
the girls at my school are getting gayer and gayer everyday, gay in the way that they are acting different and weird not actually gay. Ever since we changed school from 8th grade to freshmen all the girls think there hotshit now and try to boss around all the guys like there nothing so ive started not to listen to them anymore and now im hated?? and all other guys agree with me also. Like girls think there using you know and just start flirting with you to make them feel good about themselves when they really dont want anything from you. I Dont get it. And how should i act towards them without being a total dick cause thats how i have to act to show them there not hotshit.
i would say start hanging out with the guys more. these girls should know that you aren't like them. (which is a good thing) and if they see that your just a down-to-earth girl who the guys like hanging out with, they'll get the hint that they shouldn't be jerks to them. hope i helped!
i have this amazing guy friend, and i think i'm starting to like him. I'm not really one of the pretty girls, but i'm not neccessarily ugly either... pretty average, i suppose. Anyways, i really want to like this guy, and i want him to like me. however, i have friends who like him, and he has a friend who likes me, so it feels like i shouldn't like him, you know? I'm kind of wondering if he does like me, but is maybe thinking the same thing. he and i flirt like crazy, and he always starts it. and nearly everyone says we act like we like each other. is it possible that he likes me, or are we just friends? its too hard to tell!
this is always a tough one. well first of all don't worry about if your friends like him or not. if hes not into them, then what is the point? and if your not into that other guy who likes you.. there is no point in that either. maybe try hooking them up with eachother. at least then they will know that u care about them.
secondly, if he seems to be flirting with you then he probably likes you. when your talking, try scooting a little closer to him or looking him in the eyes. smiling is good too. but BE SUBTLE! if he doesnt like you like that you dont wanna freak him out. but if he responds well to it, its pretty much a given that hes into you. just dont rush into anything and take it slow. your lucky you 2 are already friends because then that step is finished. you already know a lot about eachother. use this to your advantage. hope i helped!
13/f
ok well i like this guy...and i was just wondering what guys in general would find most attractive about a girl.
also what are some good flirting tips?
and lastly what are some signs to tell me whether or not a guy likes me?
all help appreciated! thanks!
well there are all types of guys out there. its typical that when they're younger they tend to be more shallow, finding appearance or "hottness" to be very important. this will change as they get older, trust me.
but beyond that a guy would like a girl who can laugh with him, is generally a nice person, and who is easy going. i think this one is especially important because guys hate drama.
i could tell you all kinds of flirting tips that may work or not work, but i think you just really have to show that you are comfortable with him. and LAUGH with him. this is sooo important. even if what he says isnt that funny. also touch his arm every once and a while if he says something funny.
if this guy likes you he will laugh with you and he will smile at you. he will also look at you a lot. this is if he is open and more outgoing. some of the more shy guys may pretend to have no interest. this is tougher. you need to talk with him and let him know that your interested. but slowly. shy boys may look at you and then when you look at them, they look away. this way you KNOW they are interested. its so cute. hope i helped!
15/m
ok so my girlfriend and and i are really really in love, and i know that sounds cheesy but its true.
we've never exactly "made out" . . . we kiss each otehr all the time but yea. . .
anyway, i don't want to sound sleazy or anything, but i've thought about possibly fingering her. . . i keep getting this vibe from her that she wants to go further.
anyway, i guess my question is, is it appropriate for people our age to do so? i mean i've read alot of people who are our age's questions about the topic. . .and i don't know. . .
thanks in advance
i think itd be a good idea to make out first. if you do this you will be a LOT more comfortable if and when u decide to do other things with her. plus it could be pretty akward just fingering her. you would usually want to do so while making out. and about the age thing. if your both comfortable with it then it shouldnt matter. hope i helped!