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Name: Liz (nickname=fish)
Eyes: Green
Height: (ha like you care) about 5 feet 5 inches
Hair: Currently dark red, some light streaks, and of course, all spiky in the back
Hometown: St. Louis, MO
Age: 15
Occupation: being a sophmore, helping out my friends
Interests: Music (vinyl now but I have a ton of cds of various cool people), local shows (check out my buddy tim's band, One Down. they're gonna be huge one day), Art, English (Creative writing), doing random weird things

"A zebra does not change it's spots." -Al Gore
"I don't really trust a sane person." -Lyle Alzado.

Happy Noodle Boy is the funniest thing since Homestarrunner.com but Thora Birch is the "bestest". And for some strange reason, Joey Jordison of Slipknot and Murderdolls is scary yet hot. I don't know but I like to think that I do- so in the words of Ricky from American Beauty, "Never underestimate the power of denial."

Peace. Out.
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, Missouri
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: June 21, 2004
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My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what? (link)
Well, talk to him. Maybe he just doesn't know how to communicate what he's feeling properly. It kind of depends on how long you've been seeing each other. If you've only been together for a short amount of time, you can't expect things like love to progress quickly. If you've been together for a long time, well, maybe you fall in love faster than he does. It doesn't mean that you don't deserve to be loved- you do - it's just, sometimes people don't get deep into a relationship quickly. It's kind of scary sometimes. But if you really think something is wrong and that you can't discuss it and try to resolve it, well then it's time to move on and let him go.


Hey well lets start off here, I'm 14 in a month 15(going to be a freshman), and the guy I like is 18(just graduated highschool). I know its crazy, but the thing is he was the one to approach me. He didn't think I was my age because I guess I look older, but we still hung out and had fun, talked on the phone now and then and texted eachother all of the time. One night I snuck out to see him ... and we kissed, and had dry sex (i'm not a slut it was the firstime I did something like that with someone that wasn't my boyfreind ... well dry sex first time ever). So of course ... I started to like him, this went on a few more times, But whenever we would talk he would talk about the age difference and how young I am, he also told me not to tell anyone, that made me kinda sad... not like I would have anyways. The thing is he treated me really wel lwhen I was with him, and made it seem like he liked me by saying tons of little things. So it's like two months later, and I got like no attention from him, one night I needed to talk to him but he was in Vagas and had to go. So I started to give up which was going okay. Then last thursday I saw him agian, and he hugged me and totaly acted like things were normal agian, I'm so lost, and I like him too much to try to let him go, I'm not sure what to do and I know everyone will tell me to leve it alone, I honestly don't think thats helping or that I can, Ive also been having problems trying to exlplane it to him, I told him I liked him, what else do I say? Well thanks for you time, and help me if you can!
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He seems confused. He also seems like he's using you. If he really cared about you, he would have made a point to talk to you while he was in Vegas. He also wouldn't have made it seem like he's ashamed of dating you since he told you not to say anything to anyone. And it makes partial sense, seeing that he's 18 and you aren't, but it also seems kind of creepy. Dude, really, let him go. It's better for you. See, if you can't explain to him how you feel and he hasn't picked up on it already, then he's not paying attention and chances are that he doesn't really care. It's like a mind game- not seeing or talking to you for two months and then coming home and acting like it's all back to normal. That's supposed to make you miss him/want him more and confuse you. Get out of the relationship for good.


What do girls my age (14) like in us guys? (link)
Well, most girls (at least the one's I know) go for a guy who's funny. As for me, I like the weird ones, humorous, caring, understanding, respectful, honest guys. Looks can make a difference but not always- if you're an all around great guy and fun to talk to, then you probably won't have a problem. Most people say personality but that's kind of vague sooo here we go: If you aren't condescending, if you listen, you aren't full of yourself, you aren't pushy, you aren't bossy, and if you give girls their own space. Honestly, if you look at all the qualities (personality-wise) that you find attractive in girls, chances are they'll be pretty close to what girls find attractive in guys.


theres this boy thats one of my friends n we hang out all the time like wit other ppl n stuff wit us. n durin the day this boy is the BIGGEST asshole. but then when night time roles around hes all touchy feely n wantin me to flash him n we mess around. it doesnt bother me or nothin because i love sweet guys...n when hes sweet...hes sweet! should i still let him be an asshole n then mess wit him when he 'becomes' sweet? (link)
NO!!! I don't get it. How do people even consider stuff like this? Look, you treat people how you want to be treated, it's like a guide. Stand up for yourself! You don't deserve to be treated like crap all day long and THEN get treated right. If this guy was actually a sweet guy, he'd be acting sweet whenever he saw you. Don't hang around this guy, he's playing you for a fool.


Okay , me and my boyfriend was talkin on ta phone and he asked me to marry him(AND AT A YOUNG AGE TOO) and I said no , was it the right thing to do ???were both 15.he aint mad but he is kinda sad , he said he wanted to be with me forever,and I let him down. was it the right thing to do??? (link)
Yeah it's the right thing to do. You are way to young to even be considering marriage with someone. First off, you haven't been through college or any of that stuff yet which means the real world isn't right at your doorstep- i.e. no big life experiences. Second, you have a lot more to learn about yourself and each other- if you rush something like this now, you'll end up regretting it later. And third, not to say you don't love each other, etc., but sometimes people think they're with the one they're meant to be with forever. And anyway, if you said no to an early marriage, it's not like you wouldn't consider it later on so he doesn't have much of a reason to be sad- it's not like you broke up with him. That said, don't lead him on to thinking one day the two of you WILL actually be getting married. It seems to jinx your relationship.


i have been tryin my best to give you guys good advice and i hope im doing a good job..but no one seems to be answering me back...does this mean im no help??...could someone help me and tell me how im doin??
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No, it doesn't mean you give bad advice. It just means people are too lazy to say "thanks".


Are monkeys really cool? or is that just your opinion? (link)
monkeys are incoherently cool. Cool without reason. And no, that's not my opinion.


Does anyone know any sad songs maybe something that makes you or someone u know cry? The name and who sings it? (link)
Smashing Pumpkins: almost the entire album of Adore. The Cranberries: No need to Argue (the album), Natalie Merchant: Ophelia (I think that's the album title? but all the songs are pretty depressing), Badly Drawn Boy: A minor Incident (it isn't really depressing, but it makes me cry for some reason), Brand New: Play Crack the Sky, Bob Dylan: Don't think twice, it's alright, Ben Folds: Mr. Jones Pt 2 (he's amazing live and the piano in this song is really pretty), Counting Crows: Long December, AFI: Sing the Sorrow (it has some really sad songs on it, but sorry I can't remember there names), Joan Armatrading: The Weakness in me.....hope you have fun crying?


if you were talking about your skin and spots and all that, what would you're 't-zone' be? (link)
Your forehead, nose, and chin.


ok me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months now, and hes been talkign baout having sex and whatever i try and blow it off because im still a virgin and I really dont think he is the one i wanna do it with but i dont wanna hurt his feelings, but at the same time I dont want him to think we are going to do it, i just wanna know a good way to tell him that i am just not ready...PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
If you aren't ready, then you aren't ready. If this hurts his feelings (even though it shouldn't) and he keeps asking about it, then I'd dump him. You've stated what you want to do and if he doesn't respect and understand that, than he doesn't respect and understand you.


hey i wanna know which screen name u like better! xOMeLiSsA26Ox or MeLiSsA 1613 ??? THANKS !!! (link)
I'd say MeLiSsA 1613. Just because it's easier for me to read. You probably think that's boring but I dunno...the xO thing makes it hard for me read. Maybe I'm just losing my sight. Oh well...


Ok so when im at school and im around my friends im fine speaking and all, but if im talking in front of groups or just random people i just blank out or say something stupid like, when the principal shook my hand and said congratulations i said," Nice to meet you." Is that normal? (link)
Nah that's totally normal. At least you aren't thinking of something funny and start laughing in class for no apparent reason like me. Part of me thinks it's embarassing, the other half keeps laughing anyway. It's fun to be weird anyway.


I discovered a dimensional rift under my bed sometime last year. It was never a problem until just recently it began to suck in my left socks I left on the floor. In exchange for them, it deposits lady bugs in my room. The bills for my black cotton footwear are starting to add up and I can no longer stand the sight of lady bugs. Do you have a solution to my perils? Is there a way to mend this? (link)
Go call Captain Magellospam of team Meat Lotion. He knows how to deal with all sorts of stuff like that. He'll probably come over with a "cacophony of sizzle crumpits" and throw in a vat of distilled monkey nuggets just for a thrill. That usually works....man, that guys a genious. Haha.


Whats cotton mouth? (link)
it's a type of snake. I heard it's poisonous. I'm pretty sure it's slang for something too.


would having sex with your clone be consider gay or a new form of masterbation??? (link)
wouldn't that be like sleeping with yourself? Maybe it's masturbation. Maybe it's a new form of incest...or sexual abuse. Since a clone would share the same DNA as you...I would call it self-incest. Just because.


ok i am a little differnt in school. i like it and all. But last year people got the impresioni was gothic, but really i just like to be wearing somthing differnt than all the others. I am so confused. also i just wanto to breack down and cry but i know no 1 will understand!!!
signed, GRL who isnt gothic! (link)
People are going to think what they want, regardless of what you say or do. People have thought and still think that I'm "punk" or "goth" or "punk-goth". The truth is, I just wear what I like and put clothes on in the morning- it's not like I think about what style I look like. Go ahead and be different, don't change yourself just because they don't understand it. Eventually, you'll meet some really interesting, cool people because of it. Be yourself and let them worry about who you are- that doesn't concern you. As long as you know who you are and are secure with that, none of those people's thoughts matter.


OMG TODAY I CAUGHT A LIZARD, IT IS SOOO ADORABLE, EVEN THOUGH THEY ALL LOOK ALIKE I THINK IT IS JUST SOO CUTE!!! DOES ANYONE KNOW ANY NAMES FUR 1?? (link)
name it beans. then find another one and name it pork. haha pork and beans...oh sorry...that was bad. Nah, I would name it Frank. Or Henry. George maybe. I always thought that naming animals with "human" names was the most interesting....and humorous. But then again, it's me.


ok.. does anyone else get lyk.. rEaLLy dumb questions.. but when you delete them or wutever.. tha people IM you and get mad?? (link)
I've gotten dumb questions that I try to answer. Then they rate me as a one when I'm telling them the truth (I got some question about the size of nipples once. I said there was no set size- which was what she was asking. She rated me a 1.) And this one chick told me I was retarded. Honestly, some people just come on here to waste time and make everyone agree with them.


ne one kno ne really cool but diff. sites i could go on? im wicked bored (link)
Homestarrunner.com, thespark.com, shockwave.com, ebaumsworld.com, ericmyer.com/orange/stereotypes.htm, sisley.com/Site/Links.php, http://quiz.ravenblack.net/insulty.pl, supyo.com


why is everyone so obsessed with giving hand jobs or all this other sexual stuff. I don't get it...to me it just seems so disgusting. (link)
Uhh what does this have to do with decorating?




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