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CALL ME ESTY'
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Location: Canada
Age: 13
Member Since: July 3, 2006
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Last Update: July 28, 2007
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I need to find a page that will let me add the song 'Mas Maiz' by N.O.R.E, Big Mato, Fat Joe, Chingo Ling, Nina Sky ect. I can't find it anywhere. Please help me out. (link)
go to www.imeem.com
you can add the songs on ur myspace ;)


Tomorrow is the first day back at school. I compared my new schedule with my friends' schedules, and so far none of them have the same classes as me. What do I do if no one is in any of my classes? I get really nervous and paranoid when I don't know anyone. (link)
just dont be shy, be nice and polite to people. You will always have your friends around break, but try having a conversation with a person that might be sitting next to you & participate in class let the students know how fun you are!

Hope this helped, xo Esty


what are some things that guys (in general) find irrestable? how can i get guys to fall for me? (ps. please dont tell me to "be myself" or "be confident" because i am myslef, and i am confident, i need more specific things, like what to wear, what not to wear, what not to say or do, things like that) it would really help if some guys answered this for me. (link)
Impress them with the looks, nice ass & love cleavage, Show them what you got hunny.& yeah..be yourself. Usually the guys that i know like girls to be fun around with, not just fool but laugh & talk. To wear; push up bra tight pants or lulu or tight jeans, tank tops, also guys like girls when they have stuff in common so have a good convo with a guy.
xoxbi hope helped, Esty


i really wanna learn how to dance, like you would at a party to a hip hop song or something. does anyone have any tips on how to do it? i've tried dancing in the mirror, it really does not help for me. are there are any good videos or ANYTHING? i just seem to have no rhythm and no idea as to how to move my body. please don't say anything like just listen to the music, because that's not working. (link)
youtube always helps, i learned some moves from youtube & also if your firneds can dance than they might as well teach you. My frined taught me some moves & you can listen to a song video and try to copy.
hope i helped xox Esty


I'm 15, and my little sis is turning 13 in like twelve days, on the ninteenth of january. what type of party can she throw in 12 days? she doesnt know whether to just go see a movie with her close buds or do a big thing at our house.. shes been asking me for ideas, but honestly I dont know what she'd want to do. it cant cost "too much" money, and for the movies, should she pay for her friend's tickets or not, because like.. its her birthday so maybe she should pay?? i dunno! or have any other ideas? bowling? shopping? etc.. please not too costly. like give me the full plan and stuff from your idea and i'll see how it goes with her. thankyou! (link)
m on my 13th, i had a big house party & didn't really like it because it was all a mess, but after all birthdays on 13th i enjoyed having a sleepover, its not big cash. All you need is a place for them to sleep & you can buy junk food rent a good movie, put on the latest music, play like truth or dare & many more games they can enjoy, & maybe wake up in the morning and enjoy a good breakfast & all that. It all depends what your sister likes to do and ask her what kinda parties she went to from experience.


how do u get cleavage? (link)
just like all the girls had said,
a tight bra sometimes it can work if you buy a size smaller like if ur a B34 you can wear b 32 and have cleavage but tight bra is better & tank top that u can put down low.
xox hope this helped,Esty


does anyone know a site where i can watch "The outsiders" movie online? Ive checked movie stores for it buti cant seem to find any...ive also tried youtube but no luck of the whole movie. Thanks (link)
im not sure they have the outsiders but you can try;

www.peekvid.com
xo hope helped, Esty


how can u make your hair grow faster? (link)
cut your hair, keep it in nice shape, maybe not strighting it, & i also heard, thatt, oil helps!


can someone tell me a song that is basically about a couple who have just broken up, their moving away but she wants him to know she still loves him or just misses him? Maybe even a song with the guy dating another girl now. I'd really appreciate any that you can reccomend, it would help me out heaps.

thanks every one who can help me. ;]

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note to selff - from first to last
fuck it- Eamon


I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help (link)
I cant believe you called this girl a friend. Dont think of dying, because trust me that will not help! She is not your true friend, she is a horrible person. I suggest you to ignore her, make new friends , meet new people. Start a new life, a life where you guys never met each other at all. To get over her, do something you enjoy, just be happy & always remember, that horrible person wont ruin your life, & whatever she tries to do she will never waste another tear that drops in your eye.

I really hope i helped. xox esty


first things first...
I am 16/f and the guy is 16 and my guy best friend...
Ok, well I really really love this guy, and I told him...and well things got all wierd but then one of my friends said don't talk to him for a while 'the lets take a break death-sentence' anyways so i did and well we havnt talkeds since about the 19th dec. and yea. yesterday he sent me an email that read something like "why aren't you on msn anymore!? thats all i have to say!" and well I answered it. now we havbt talked since that, should i wait for him to email me or should i email/call him? (link)
he made a move, & now his waiting for your move. If i was him & you didnt move i would feel like you dont wanna talk & you are ignoring me ( i dont think he wil like that feeling) If i was you, i would make a move. I tried to ignore somebody after they made a move but it ended up when i tried to make a move a month after they made a move they just ignored me, & the friendship ended! & i dont want that to happen to you. So make a move in a day or two

hope this helped xoxo esty


where do you download Itunes onto your computer? Do you need to have software or go to a website? I already have an IPOD, but I got a new computer and Im not sure how to get Itunes on this computer. Thanks. (link)
OHH OKK I SEE, JUST DOWNLOAD ITUNES FROM APPLE.


For my bday and christmas, since they're only 25 days apart, my friend bought me a pair of noise cancelling earphones along with a gift reciept in case i didnt want them. The thing is i dont know what i'd use them for.. i mean i know the obvious is 'block out noises' but thats what my mp3 player is for. I dont want to give it back but at the same time i dont see a use for it.. plus i'd feel bad if my friend asked me how it was and i had returned it. Any reasons why i should or shouldnt keep it? i cant make up my mind.. please help! (link)
i would suggest that you should return it. Even thought she got it for you. She also gave you a gift receipt, so you can return it. Thank her for the gift but tell her you dont need it. & when you return it buy something that you like & it would still be a present from her. Just be honest with her=]

Hope this helped, xox Esty


I always am thinking about food, even if i'm not the leastbit hungry. I always want to be eating. CAn you please tell me some good ways to keep food off my mind. (link)
Well, the things I usually do; Is think of something else like the things you would want to get. Have fun with a friend and go to the mall somewhere away from the food in your house:P But if you really thinking of food and not hungry than enjoy a little snack:P
Hope this helped, xox esty


How can I learn more about fashion? (link)
books and magazines are always good to find out the latest fashion. Also, you can explore what most people wear. For example in Canada, lots of people wear emus!YOu can go to the mall and see what store people most likely like to shop at.

Hope this helped, xox esty


my little sister Dana is turning 13 early next month and we don't know how to celebrate it but we want it to be special. she'd do a sleepover but our mom won't allow it. she's thinking of a party but she dosen't know what theme to use. what do you guys suggest? please help. thanks in advanced. (link)
Your sister and her family can go to a place like where you guys haven't been before or a place that you guys may enjoy to go. YOu can have dinner at a really fancy nice restaurant and she can invite her few closest friends. Also she can go out with her family a place that she enjoys and have a small chilling party with her friends.

Hope I helped, xox esty


15/m

okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?
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Well, in my opinion, it depends on how much you like her. Id you really want her back than its worth it. But she doesn't want you back anymore, so i would suggest to let go of her. Also, if a girl bothers a guy for like a month and he doesnt give her an answer than she gets over him. This happens with my friends and with me. So its your choice how badly you want her. =]

hope i helped xo esty.


Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like. (link)
Well, talk about the stuff like she likes. (example; bands, movies..) Make her laugh tell her she looks good & tel her shes pretty. Be nice & be yourself. & Enjoy a nice well done convo with herr. & hug her..it all dependss:p
xoxestyy,


Does anyone know any good bands I can download. Specific songs that are really good by these bands would be excellent! But you can just give me band names.

Heres the kind of music I like. Its kind of a mix of indie/emo/soft rock? ha.

John Mayer
Dashboard Confessional
Death Cab for cutie.


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underoath
the used
from first to last
three days grace
my chemical romance
drop dead gergeous
hollywood undead
30 secinds to mars
Pink Floyd
A Static Lullaby
3 inches of blood
Hawthorne Heights
escape the fate
metallica
disturbed
Nirvana
blink 182
Well hope i helped cant think of more at this moment but enjoy =]


I feel like I dont fit in at school. Lately, Im very anti-social. Im a girl, but I hate the other girls. I think theyre so annoying. The way they laugh with their friends so loud just to get attention. And they do it in a way that guys will look over at them and think theyre hot. They wear slutty outfits and are so cliquy. And Im not in middle school, Im in high school! Where people are supposed to be more mature? What do I do about this ? I get so angry I leave the class sometimes and say I have to go to the bathroom and then I cry because Im not included and I feel less compared to them and ugly. (link)
okay, first please dont cry over that. They are "fake" who try to show off and try to make themselves look hot, but instead they are fools. In high school, find some friends you can trust and do fun activites join a club & do well in school =] But dont pay attention to them. You should feel sad how ugly & fake they are. & you are a real regular sweet girll=] xox hope i helped.




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