Don't be afraid to ask me! I love to answer questions. I'll be honest and straight forward. Im here to help you! So please go right ahead and ask.
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Gender: Female
Location: U.S.
Occupation: Freshman
Age: 14
Member Since: June 2, 2007
Answers: 60
Last Update: September 23, 2007
Visitors: 3712
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okay so i have this best friend. hes a guy, and were like REALLY tight. i have a weird feeling that he likes me. once, he called me 13 times because he was "bored". we were online and hes like "im bored, im gonna call u" and i said "no im doing hw" but he called anyway and left all these funny messages. then, i texted him at like 2 am cause i was bored, and he says "whats up?" and i said "bored, im under-the-covers texting!' and he said 'ooooooh. sounds seexy." i laughed about it, but it was just really sudden to me. he even asked me to come to his house and swim, but i wasnt free. but does he like me?? (link)
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It kinda sounds like it.
Just be honest with him
and ask him. Who knows
i could be wrong?!? And
if he does dont worry.
It wont ruin your friend-
ship. Just may make it
akward. But if you act
lik eit doesnt bother you.
im sure he will stop
acting all goofy over you.
And if you dont like him
you should just be honest
with him and tell him you
dont likehim.
if you do.. well then just
tell him.
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14/f (please read whole thing)
So I've lost about 32 pounds of my weight, and now I'm 155(i'm 5'2 and a quarter"), my goal is 137 (18 pounds left), and I'm doing really well this is what I do:
I normally consume around 1200-1350(or 1500) cals per day, but sometimes i take it up to about 1800 if i'm pmsing or something. I also work out whenever I can, i run a mile(and walk until it adds up to 20 mins) and i do the stairclimber for 20 mins and sometimes i'll add 20 mins of elliptical in, and then i just do random conditioning on the machines (about 20 reps of each)... and i do that on the days i don't have dance classes (and my dance classes don't start again until 3 more weeks so i'll probably be doing this every day or about 4 times per week)
Normally I've been able to lose a pound or two a day (i weigh myself first thing in the morning)
and I want to know how long you think it will take me to lose the rest of the 18 pounds...
(after i lose that i'll see how i look at 137 then i'll decide if i want to take it down to 115-130)
since I don't have a definate calorie deficit because it varies so much. (link)
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well not knowing what your eating is hard. but from the things you do. you seem pretty active. just remember that a short 20 min. workout that is active the whole time.. and gets your heartrate up and stays up. that will be more affective than a hour long workout that lets your heartrate drop and rise..and ect,..ect.
if you are drinking sodas?? coke.. whatever??
if you switch to DIETS only and dont change anything else.. like how much you drink cokes. but just change it to DIET. you can loose 10lbs. no joke. ive done it. its because regular cokes have so many carbs. and sugar is really rich.
so good luck
eat healthy and EXERCISE!!!
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okay i have a few questions
first off wat is obvolation?
second ive had my period for a little over 2 years and when im on my period the first day its just normal then the next 4-5 are heavy then its just normal and slowly dies out about the 7th or 8th day but will still have a few drops on 9th so my period will last for 7 to 9 days. today had i asked a lot of girls at school and they all said there periods last 3 or 4 or 5 days and im just like holy freak mine is 7 8 or 9 days so is there like something wrong with me?
im 13 and in 8th grade (link)
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THATS normal.
there is nothing wrong with you.
some people are just plegued with longer periods, and no one has a steady period. so it could change. SO takd a deap breath!! your fine.
oh obvolation-- when your eggs move down your ovaries and when the eggs are fertalized you become pregnant and or if they arent fertalized you have all the uterous walls deteriate which were for in preperation if you were to fertalize an egg. but if you dont thats what your period is. the walls of your uterous deteriating.
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out of these two beds, which do you like better for young teenage girL?? i am probably going to paint my walls light green...
http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_1/602-1619430-3919847?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000JEODSM
http://www.laurenslinens.com/sebe.html
okay i know this is an easy question, but i will still rate!!
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http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=br_1_1/602-1619430-3919847?ie=UTF8&frombrowse=1&asin=B000JEODSM
because it will match. IT has LIME GREEN IN IT!
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So, I am trying to decide if I am skinny enough or not to wear a bikini yet. I really want to because i have lost 20 pounds sice last summer but I am still 153ish. Im 5'5' and my BMI is a 25.5. So I am still overweight. I am not very tone on my stomache yet and I am scared that people will make fun of me because most the people at the pool I go to go to my school. I am worried that the guys will be like OMG she is way to fat to wear a bikini. Do people really judge you on what you look like in one? So should I do it or not? Sorry it is kinda long (link)
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As long as your comfortable in your swimsuit!! who the hell cares about what anyone else thinks??[[excuse the language.]] i mean really. ifyou like the swim suit andyour happy.. why do you care what anyone else thinks? you shouldnt.
and besides think of it as a reward for loosing the weight!!!
if you still feel unconfortable.--keep up the good work. exercise and eat right!!!
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My friends and I went on an exercise regimen, just to get more toned for the summer. Part of that regimen is 100 oblique crunches per day [the ones where you're not working out your abs, but more your 'love handles' or whatever, on the sides].
I've been doing my crunches for a couple of days now, but I'm not um, "feeling the burn," if you know what I mean. Like, it doesn't feel like I'm doing any kind of exercise.
Am I doing something wrong? I had never done these kinds of crunches before... so maybe I'm doing them wrong. (link)
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no. you are probably doing them right, you dont have to be feeling the burn to be exercising right, and when your "feeling the BURN" it mean that you are streatching or overwoking your muscles. so no dont worry. and remember you dont get the result ina few days. and if your young that can also be a reason. because the younger you are the more your muscles can take and the more reason you may not feel the burn!!!
good luck exercising!!!!!
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can you bring a Ipod, Game system like PSP or Nintendo DS, or a DVD player on the plane? i know they have rules of what to bring on the plane but can you bring these? i dont want to be borded the whole flight. (link)
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yes you can bring those eletrical items.
just not when taking off and landing. The flight crew will let you know when you may turn electronics on accept CELLphones.
btw they do let you use LAPTOPS.
someone just said they dont. THEY do. i take mine all the time.
your allowed laptops. just no internet..
thats what i eman.
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oh my god!!! i really want to have a orgasm. now!!!!!!! any ideas? i don't care how stupid, kinky or whatever they are. come on guys answer this too. and girls too. (link)
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if you really want a orgasim with out getting a deadly disease. i know some poeple who use a vibrator and or i know a few girls who go into the showers and put their show head to vibrate and then let it squirt inside of them?
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14/f
I have never used a tampon before. I am too scared because i dont know what it feels like, or if i put it in the right spot, or even how to find the right spot. Please help
and thanks in advance
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dont be scared! its part of becoming a woman.
and it doesnt hurt, unless you place it wrong.
looking in a mirror is the best when your a just beginning. AND let me tellyou tampons are better than nasty DIAPers.
when you look in the mirror, their will be a sinifigant hole that is larger. TAHT is the hole. and no thats now where you pee so dont worry!
id get a pearl tampon because they have easy aplicators.now youdont stick straight back your actually in an angle so go up at an angle. Go slow. no rush.
it wont hurt promise. and once you go past the end of tampon.you just push the aplicaton and pull out. now if it feels tight, its because you didnt get it far enough up so if you just use your finger and push just a little more it will feel better!! sounds bad but really its not.
easy as that. and then just use a pantyliner. and wa la. oh dont leave your tampon in more than 8hrs. probably change it 3x's a day.
because it could get unsanitary!! and its okay to sleep in a tampon.
and the best thing about tampons is you can swim in them. and not worry, just rememver when you finish swimming change your tampon because its oging to soak alot of the water.
REMEMBER not to flush tampons!!!roll in toiletpaper and throw awya.
and when you get ready to take out the tampon pull on the string and relax. if your tense it feels akward coming out. you can use small tampons till you get use to it. but you may need larger tampons for your Men. cycle.
so welcome to woman hood!!
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ok im going to get my belly button peirced, do i sleep in the ring, or do i take it out do i swim in it or take a shower in it? when do i take it out? or can i leave it in like all the time. also with earings, can i sleep in those, do they give me a certain pair i have to wear for a certain number of weeks? srry i have ALOT of questions (link)
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yes you keep the naval ring in for like 4-6 weeks i believe, but dont worry they will tellyou when you get it. you might take it out to clean it because it is a wound that needs to heal. but leaving it out will make it close just like your ears.
if you getting your ears peirced again you keep them in for like4-6 weeks same earings. and you sleep in them. you will also that to take them out and clean them, because if you dont they can get infected and or the ear will close up around the earings. but AGAIN not to worry the place you get it done. im sure they will tell you everything you need to know and happily answer your questions!!
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Ok well when i got my leg waxed I found out later that there are still some green spots of the wax on my leg and I can't seem to remove it and i don't have any paper they used. I can't go back because it was somewhere far away.
What can i do? (link)
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try calling the place you had it done.
they should know how to get it off.
you should have a phone # off the receite.
if you dont you can always look in the phonebook!
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When is the best time in a dog's menstrual cycle to begin breeding? (link)
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In domestic dogs, sexual maturity begins to happen around age 6 to 12 months for both males and females, although this can be delayed until up to two years old for some large breeds. Adolescence for most domestic dogs is around 12 to 15 months, beyond which they are for the most part more adult than puppy. As with other domesticated species, domestication has selectively bred for higher libido and earlier and more frequent breeding cycles in dogs, than in their wild ancestors.
hope this helps.
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i have 2 dogs and they are both boys. they keep licking each other's tongues like they're making out and humping each other. the one always tries to mount the other. and to make it worse, they're brothers!!!! are my pets gay?? or from west virginia?? help what should i do? (link)
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no one is trying to clean the others mouth. licking each others tongues is normal. its
affection torward the other, and no your
dogs arent gay, they are probably young, and
masterbation is common and they will out grow it.
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i love my girlfriend and we tell eachother everything. but lately ive noticed alot of black and blue bruises like HUGE bruises on her collar bone, legs, arms, ribs, face and back. sometimes like ocasionaly she will come to school with a black out. im worried. i alwyas ask her where they came from but she says its nothinng. and i know for a fact that her parents dont abuse her. but im afraid people will start thinking i did this too her. and i dont want that i love her and would never hurt her. but i wanna know where shes gettingg these from. what should i do? (link)
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the best thing you can do for her and you is to turn her into a respected authority. teacher, counselor, your parent & or friend. Somebody who you trust will help. that way they can take care of it and it releaves the stress from you and she can get the help she needs. That way you and her will be better off.
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my cat keeps killing animals outside, and bringing them in my yard. shes killed four different things just this week and brought them in my yard. my mom hates her, and i threatening to get rid of her. how can i stop her from doing this? keeping her inside isnt an option, sooo.
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Well this is cats nature.
Cats bring you things like
gifts. The reason she brings
them in the yard its like a
present for mom. They are saying
"LOOK MOM! I BROUGHT THIS FOR YOU!
I CAUGHT IT FOR YOU!" basically.
Now, you cant STOP this because
this is how all cats are. They do this.
You can put a BELL on your collar to
try and warn the creatures that it may
be stalking. You can get them at petsmart or
petco. They attach to the collar.
NOW. if she does it again. TELL her youlove her
and that she really doenst need to bring them to you.
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ok, let's say there's a girl at your school, and *everyone* knows that her boyfriend is cheating on her, but she doesn't seem to realize it. do you feel sorry for her, or do you just think she's stupid for not seeing it? and then... when she does find out, she forgives her bf and gives him a 2nd chance. do you think she's a nice, forgiving person who loves her bf, or do you think she's a complete idiot for letting him play her like that? just wondering, becuz that girl is me and i wonder what people might be saying/thinking about me!
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i dont think your stupid for one. you just didnt know the facts. And that doesnt make you stupid for not knowing the facts. But the truth of the matter is if you were in an exclusive relationship and he choose else where for companianship ,he didnt think enough about you or to see only you OR to be honest with you that you both might want to date other people or that the relationship with you wasnt working for him and that happens sometimes. ITs a good thing to forgive someone but its a foolish thing to give them a second chance and opportunity to do it again. ;] Because if you gave him a second chance because HE WILL DO IT AGAIN!! And sometime people are in relationships that really arent just right for them, and you cant force something. It either is or it isnt. hope it works out for you!
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im 13/f
ok i know this might sound stupid but sometimes i think im too nice, and people take advantage of me. like, if im sitting at a desk and someone says "aww i wanted to sit there", i'll get up and move, even though i really wanted to sit there. or if some girl is flirting with my boyfriend, i just sit there and dont say anything, even though i'd really like to punch her in the face. my dad and my boyfriend keep telling me i need to stand up for myself and not let people walk all over me, but i just can't do it! i dont want to be mean or look immature or rude! how can i stand up for myself without feeling like a "mean girl"?
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Okay well you won't be a mean girl if you dont give up your seat. PROMISe. You dont have to be rude when dismissing something like for instance the your seat.
And letting girls flirt with your boyfriend is not only your problem but your boyfriends. When your in a commited relationship your boyfriend shouldn't be flirting with any other girl but you! And you shouldn't let him. Now again youdont have to be rude. Honesty is always the key. If you tell your boyfriend the truth or you tell the person that said they wanted to sit in your seat just say im sorry i didnt know you wanted to sit hear. Maybe next time. Or Well you can sit next to me. And suggesting other ideas will help.
Now. just remember be honest. Have self confidence. Your just as good as anyone else.
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14/f
i am thinking about getting my naval pierced and my mom has agreed to letting as long as the place is clean. but i was just wondering, do guys like it when girls get it pierced? are there like a group of guys who think it is disgusting? is there some poll thing i can look at of what guys like the piercing or not? thanks. (link)
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The question should be do you want to get it?
Not do the guys like it? Because you have to be happy with it. Its on your body and it is goingto hurt.
But the answer to your question:do guys really like them? well that just depends on the guy. Because everyone has their own opinion.
if you do get one: buy some mouth numb stuff that you would stick on your gums and put it on your naval before you go. it numbs it a bit and you wont feel it as much!!
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im 13 and i wanna be a lifeguard when im 16. i'm gona pratice swimming and get better, but i want to know like whaat you have to do on the lifeguard test like to get your licence, like what do you do, like run, stuff like that.
please ttell me. (link)
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Well you have to get:
-certified in CPR
-you have to be able to swim[[haha. no brainer. they will give you a swimming test.]]--
youll have to tread.
youll have to probably swim back and fourth.(laps)
youll have to also be able to go down atleast 10ft or 12ft and pick up a 50 lb. weight. and whatever their swim test may also ask for. Depends on the people.
--you have to go through a class
--take a written test
--and if you go onthe American REd Cross web site it will tell you everything. GOOD LUCK.
and hope that you get your FURTURE JOB.
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13/F
I have been going out with this guy, lets call him tom . Well he starting kinda flirting with this girl kinda lets call her sally[hahaha]. Well anyway, sally[who i want to choke] is all over tom. AHHHH i want to like kill her. Wow it makes me sooo mad. Shes all like giggling and smiling and stuff at him ahh. So one night i got so frustrated that i started flirting with this one guy lets call him logan. i really did like him at the beggining of the school year, so i thought it would be easy to flirt with him. So i did, and i look over at tom to see if he gets mad and he looked sooooo teed of. wow he was mad. then he looked away like nothing happend. now im trying to stop flirting because he stopped, but logan thinks i like him so he keeps flirting with me! ahh im afraid of tom getting mad at me. :\
need help badly,
ANYTHING helps.
thankssomuch
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Well, have you tried telling TOM how you felt about this other girl? If hes your boyfriend he should try to understand how you feel. Its good he stopped flirting with her though. But two WRONGS doesnt make a right. So for you flirting with this other guy LOGAn is wrong. But was in the past is in the past. Just be straight forward with logan. The more truthful the better. That way he knows he can trust you to always tell the truth. And if Tom your boyfriend does this again with another girl or the same girl just tell him how you feel. He should understand. Honesty is the key to a happy relationship. Any relationship. bf/gf, friend to friend, or even family. If you need anymore advise. Let me know.
BrittanyMegan :]
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