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hey everybody this is mary ann! im here to hopefully help you guys out with anything and everything.. leave me any questions! much love - mary ann

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ok..there is this guy, and ive gone out with him a couple times now, but then he dumped me the last time for no reason. i tell people im over him, but im really not. and when im w/ him he makes it seem like he still likes me, but then online hes really mean to me and will just start yelling at me for no reason?? what should i do?..

-confused

If this guy treats you like this -- one minute he "likes" you and another minute he doesn't well he's just not worth your time and i guess your love. Just think to yourself you don't deserve this and you can find a whole new guy who WILL treat you right.

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Hey im back aagain newayz yeah why is it just becasue im white and i play basketball that automaticly makes me a wigger. I mean F larry bird was the living shit he was tha man at bball and he was a damn cornpicker in idaho and he was like the Great White Hope he wasnta wigger. I don wanna be a brother and i dont wannaact like a brotha do i have black friends yes, do i like rap music yeah but i also like pop so to every1 that thinks ima wigger screw u. Please answer my originial questain of why im automaticly a wigger cuz i play basketball

I really shouldn't be saying this but "Stereotypes SUCK"! And yea I've heard stories about "wiggers" and white people playing backetball being called wiggers but yea what you need to do is prove to these people that you're not only this you have to prove to them that even a complete "dork" and "nerd" can play basketball and yet not be classified as a wigger.

**and to add to this I just thought of this.... but just don't think of what other ppl think of you.... I guess just be you**

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Hey Murry Ann why do so many people bitch and complain about relationships when they're only like 13 and 14. Its ok to have one I suppose but if all your gonna do is bitch bitch bitch why bother and why make those around you feel uncomfortable. And lastly why doso many people think they have it tough when tehy're biggest problem is hem whos my real best friend when theres people with real world problems cough*me*cough?

Bitching -- gosh there's so much to say about that but unfortunately I guess you could say the problem with relationships nowadays is that everyone wants to be in one...... People always think their in love and yea maybe they are but you have to realize that whatever other people do shouldn't stop you from being you try not to let it affect you as much and hopefully your life and problems will get better. Now as for the problems issue people think their biggest problem has to be with love and relationships when of course they haev to think outside of the box and again realize that there are many more problems out there than just LOVE.... so I leave you with one thing.... don't let what other people say and think affect how you live your life. hope this helps :)

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wut does love really mean?!?!?!?!

Love is when your heart skips a beat and you realize more and more that you HAVE to see a certain person, it's when you're with him/her everything around you just seems to go away.

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my mom totally pisses me off and she argues a ton with me and just ME! its like she makes me do everything she knoes i HATE doing and she keeps me from doing everything i love. when i try talking to her about it she just argues back saying if i dont like it then why dont i leave and stuff like that even though she knoes i cant leave since im only 14. when i try to tell my dad he just says things like "you knoe how she is" or "you and i can't do anythng about it" and he doesnt even try. my sister is the only person i can talk to but she cant say anything because if she does my mom will start hating her too. my mom doesnt do any kind of physical abuse or anything its just...GRRRRRR!! i dont knoe what to do but i hoped one of you would. im afraid that im going to collapse sometime soon with a major heart overload or something if things dont change around here soon!

(~*~ --__) LoUiEd (__-- ~*~)

Well welcome to the life of a teenager. It's only normal that you go through this. Becomming a teenager means a lot. It comes with a lot of stress, hardwork, pain, and of course theirs always the great moments of these years. Just stick it out and trust Me you'll thank your Mom later on for just always being there.

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hi um my neighbor knows i like him and i think he likes me but today he had like 5 friends over and they were inside in the basement and like i heard one of them say to me hey logans gf! and i ignored her but then logan was like heyyyy rachellll! and u know what i mean but yah i dk if he likes me and i wanna go out wiht him really bad!!! please HELP!

It all depends on how he says "heyyy rachellll" like if its in a sarcastice tone of voice. But just try to check these things out first and see how he acts around you before you do anything "BIG".

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hi guyys .. theres this guy that i rele rele love! and we went out for like 2 weeks but then he moved to florida :-/ and we broke up .. i went out with this other kid on the rebound and i guess i hurt the florida guy and he was telling me how much he loves me and everything and i broke up with my boyfriend to go out with him and now we're going out but it seems like hes avoiding me :-/ he says he loves me more then anything and more then anyone could! and i love him so much! but new york to florida?? thats a long way.. :-/ idk what to do .. help me PLEASE!!

a long distance relationship is one of the hardest things that life can give you and I mean You only have one life to live.... but if you really love this guy and he really loves you then your love will make it seem like you guys are neighbors and live very close to each other. Your love for each other will help you along the way with this relationship and make it a strong one too.

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my friend amber is really making me mad! all she does is yell at me and says i lie to her what do i do??

signed,

im sick of it!

Amber,
Well maybe what the two of you need is a "break"... you guys probably spend too much time together.... also try confronting her about this problem that the two of you are having and hopefully as a true friend of yours she'll understand and come to realize. .xOx. MaC

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my neighbor and i are really really good frineds and everytime i am around him i feel like the world has just stopped and i get this werid feelin inside of me do u think i like him

From what you've described I think you are for sure in love.... or if not in love you will soon be because it seems like that.

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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me.

Don't try to be someone your not and that includes your sister. There's a reason why you and your sister and two completely different people because the world doesn't need two of the same person. Just show your indivuality and you'll soon meet that special guy that will love you for who YOU are. .xOx. MaC

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Choose one or the other 4 each question!!

Chad Michael Murray or Johnny Depp??

Ruben or Clay??

Bush or Kerry??

Hilary Duff or Lindsay Lohan??

Apple or Banana??

Ben Affleck or Matt Damon??

Paris Hilton or Jessica Simpson??

Chicken or Tuna??

Chad Michael Murray
Clay
Bush
Lindsay Lohan
Apple
Ben Affleck
Jessica Simpson
Chicken

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yo i broke up wit my gf for another girl 1 year ago... we dated for 1 year... well today i called her and asked her if i could borrow a movie of mine... she sounded normal when she answered and then her voice changed to a really mellow soft voice, a sort of sad tone... that voice brough up so many feelings and the weird thing is she changed her tone when she realized it was actually me... we ended pretty nastily... any girl know if the voice might be a sign for attention and if she might still have feelings for me 1 year later? i mean we were so in love... but for some reason i was dumb and started seeing this fine fine fine fine girl instead... neways hit me up wit response...

I mean if you guys havent talked lately maybe she just realized how much things have changed between you... and yea she may still have a little bit of feelings for you but the question is... do u still have feelings for her after one year of being in love with her???!!! if you do well than I would say wait awhile and just start talking to her more and see what happens! .xOx. MaC

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I am going to the 8th grade and I did excellent in the 7th grade . I am so nervous, but I don't know how to feel because, I know it's only natural. So last year I liked this guy ALOT ALOT ALOT because, all I did over the whole year was obsess about him . I used to try to act perfectand all and I really lost my true self when trying to be perfect . Well over the summer, I know who I am and I feel great and all , but I don't want to be in any classes with him because, I know that these feeligs will instantly come back and I'll really want him and it'll be a whole repeat of the 7th grade again . Tell me what to do and how to deal with this because, I big time need you HELP . Thanx . I'LL RATE YOU .

Well I just graduated from 8th grade and now its off to go to high school and yea 8th grade is the year before "Life actually begins". The worst thing you can do is live 8th grade as if it were any normal year.. why??!! because it's not a normal year it goes by really fast and before you know it you'll be graduating and going onto bigger things. My problem was in the 8th grade I was dating probably one of the best guys ever but after we broke up I looked back and realized how I spent way too much time with him and not enough with friends. And you're right you really shouldnt have any classes with him but maybe and hopefully you'll come to realize that you just need to really let things happen... if you get feelings for this guy again then you do and if you do get feelings for him than I would say TAKE ACTION (because you only have one life to live)!!! .xOx. MaC

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hey ok there's this kid that i met a lil while during the summer. he's really kool... but there's a biggg age difference. he's 18 and im 14. he's really nice and i like him a lot , but i kno that he would never like me like that cuz i'm waaaayy to young... wat do i do..... im reallly confused!

signed::
meee

ok what I say is you never know what could happen.... just wait and see how things go after awhile! And yeah maybe you might want to start hanging and talking to guys more of your age!

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