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Q: so theirs this boy and my best friend likes him nd hes trying to fuckk me and i dunno what to do. . help

thanx
If your a true friend and im sure you are youll straight up tell him NO. Also let your friend no about this even if it might hurt her but if she finds out from someone eles its gonna hurt her more!!

love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: alright so my boyfriend and i started having sex; we've been together awhile and i completely trust him. We're 17.. still too young for children. I know, we should be using protection but we aren't and i was wondering if there is anyway for me to get birth control without having to tell me mother? She's overprotective and thinks that sex before college is a huge "no no." Do you think i should try talking to her about it? Should i tell her that yes, i have been having sex? It would be the more responsible thing but i know she would never let me and my boyfriend be alone or go anywhere together anymore. Help, Please..
Id talk to your mom about it. Your 17 almost 18 so your ready to make your own choice. Just tell that you love him you no. You wouldnt have sex with someone that you didnt love and to trust you. And im not sure about getting pills with out telling your mom cause im not planing on getting the pill. Hope i helped


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: my friend is thinking shes gonna have sex soon. she wants to know what the guy does first. what will he do? can you please give specific details. i know youre really good at givin advice. this is really impotant. ive read the "how do you finger a girl" question. so can you awser this question like you awsered that one? pleez!
I'm so sorry i never answered your question my computer had a viris. I will update my answer here soon. It'll be the bestest story you ever read lol


*-*love*-*
-->Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Hey. I want to have sex, I have a steady boyfriend for three years, and I am totally ready. I am 18 years old. The only thing is I am afraid that having sex will hurt so much it won't be worth it. I have a very small body (about 5'1, 111 pounds). Please help. I am a female. Thanks.
Rebekah
im 5'1 and a half and 115 lbs and it dont hurt that much. It does hurt but not to the point were your gonna die. Most the time when girls cry its not over the pain its over the feeling of the first time have sex. I no thats why i was upset. I hope you get over your fear dont worry it wont hurt its just pressure to me. Hope i helped


LoVe,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: watdoes it mean to eat a girl out?

well its when a guy/girl sucks licks whatever makes them feel good down there you no there peach. I never had it done YET lol but im sure its great!


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: ok but lol i keep buggin you b.u.t what if sherene wont let him come near me she probably will too .. answer that and by the way bitch god is mii brother so dont go there! and i hope you know when i talk to him in the beggining your gonna be right there.. well not when i say that shit you told me to say but when we first walk up to him.. kk ??!! thanx butt crack .. loOVvvEEeEE the biggest skank evaa... LiiiSSSsSSAAAa
Ok miss. Butt crack if sharean wont let him talk to you shes gonna have to talk to me!oh yeah... im gonna make sure it turns out great dont worrry and ill be right there when you say AsHlEy illl be there like paul on me!lol

kIsS ThIs CrAcK sKaNk WhORe lOver


Q: what if he wont talk to me at all you little dorkk face!! what if he is all over yeah you know who and i have no way to talk to him? answer this one u hoe =) love ya babess! thanks for the other answer hunnie buns
Ok bitchy pooh. Hes gonna talk to you i no it!! Im ashley i no everything and god is my brother. So i no it. And your gonna make it clear that you need to talk to him. And hun sharean aint got shit when it comes to you hun!!!


Love ThE Bitchest Of All Bitches




*-*empty spaces feel me up with hope distance face with no place left to go with out you within me i cant find a way were i going is any buddys guess... i try to go on like i never new you im awake but my world is half asleep i pray for this heart to be unbroken but with out you all im gonna be is incomplete*-*


Q: ya .. what do i say to this kid.. -- you know who -- well i juss thought i should tell him mii self because i feel weird having otha people ..and i dunno what to tell and how to tell him i like him .. help me bitch=)!! i love ya babes=) --LIiiisSSsSSAAAAaAaA!!!
by the way you skank im 14 wait no.. 15 well suttin like that and im female..!! duh im your lovely girl friend!! BIISEXUAL BABIII!!=)
omg i love you you skank bag!!
well bab it took me like ten min to write this lovey thing i think i would do if i was you...

well...just go up to him and be like corey you butt poop i need to talk dont walk away from me this is something important in my life that i just gotta no about....(youll move away from all the other people) ok dude i really like you its unreal how much i like you and everyone saying you like me but i dont know cause you wont tell me how you feel so will you pleaze right here right now tell me what your feeling for me cause if your not feeling anything then im just gonna have to move on on the outside but ill like you on the inside and if you like me alittle bit then im gonna try my hardest to make you like me alot to give me a chance and if you like me alot then i wanna make something happen i dont wanna be the girl thats just your friend or the girl that people tell you that she likes you i wanna be your girl...just yours.... dont look at me like that im gonna cry....... your probley thinking oh my god what a idoit or something but i cant take it im tired of being hurt in life your just such a great person and i dont no you that well but i no theres something so great in you its just so unreal...so tell me what your feeling?

if he says something good= cry and smile and say oh my god im so happy now and give him a hug and kiss him on the cheek and tell him you cant wait to have a future with him..
if he says something bad= cry lightly and hug him...(you talking)im glad i no now and im just gonna have to move on i guess its gonna be hard. i now learned not to fall in love with a stranger. and im sure theres a great girl your liking and good luck with her.....(walk aways to me(ashley)slowly then hug me)
now ashley just goes nigga style
(ashley walks up to him) you bitch you little fucker thats gonna work in the junk yard thats bout the bestest thing your gonna get in this life and you blow it away for what nothing omg you skank you little skank and dude get something for them split ends....lol sorry lisa i just want you to you to feel better thought that little part would help but dont worry i wont go up to him after....
but i dout hes gonna say something bad hun its all gonna work out great i just got this little belly feeling!! and if he does that whole little hug and tears and walk away and what i said for you to say will so get him and he'll scream lisa im sorry i wanna work something out i no it lisa...have i ever lied to you hun....nope i always ended up telling you the trueth and i hope i helped and if something ever happens like you two get together then something happens that just means theres something better out there and everything happens for a reason and if your ment to be hun it\'ll be one way or another you no it

if me and you no who the boy i like is ment to be then you and cory or so ment to be



love your skank bag ashley zzzzzzzz



i love **** and lisa

Q: hey this i a very weird question to ask you guys out in public but my bf and i want to start having sex. But idk if he wants my "pussy" shaved or not and im not going to ask him because it would be awkward. What do you think i should do?
Well i think you should shave that peach hun. I no it might be weird but most boys like it shaved. They dont want a bush you no what i mean. Nairing it would be alot better cause when you shave it hurts later. I nair mine and like all the hairs are gone.hOpE i HeLpedddd!!!


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: how do you know if your bi-sexual ?? because i think i might be but im not sure .. like whatsz a sign of it ?? cuz like .. id have no problem hookin up with a girl or like eatin her out or somethin like that .. idk why but i juss like think its not a big deal .. an could bi-sexual lead to like lesbian ? because seriously i dont have any problemsz with gaysz or lesbiansz but i jus dont wanna be one .. like bi-sexual ? eh aint that bad n i know i proly dont have control over it or not .. but can someone PLEASE HELP ME

i RATE G0OD !!
Well if you wouldnt have a problem with eating a girl out then i think your BI. Theres so nothing wrong with being BI. Look at me :o) lol. And if you like boys too thats good. I love boys and i like girls. I no its might seem strang and everything at first but you'll get used to it. I've never ate a girl out before but if your ready too and aint got a problem with it go on ahead. Dont be like ashamed of it or anything and dont be afriad to tell people or to tell your bf if you have one. IF you have a bf then he shouldnt mind if you are BI cause he loves you. I might be hard for him at first but if he loves you he'll try to work it all out with you being BI. And BI probley could lead to being lez but only if you wanted it to. Cause i no i never want to be lez!I have no problem with them though!*-*Hope I Helped*-*


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: well this guy that i like says he wouldnt go out with me because i was prude but im not soo he said if i wasnt prude then i have to have sex with him to prove him but now i think about it i dont want to cause i just isnt right at my age (15) and i dont what to say to him that i dont want to have sex with him just to show him im not prude!! everytime i talk to him he always says are u ready to have sex but i always say yes because if u dont then he might spread rumors about me which he is really good at!!! soo i dont know what to do at this point!!! HELP!!!!
Ass thats all i gotta say. Find another boy hun. You can do so much better! All he wants is sex im sorry to say. Find a boy that will wait till your ready and will talk about sex. Dont fuck him cause then he might just leave you no. Plz find a boy who will date you and wait for you to be ready! Hope i helped.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: My boyfriend really wants to finger me and i just want to know from someone who has gotten fingered before... what should I expect? Thanks. I'll rate anyone with a serious answer.

Well it feels great! Dont be scared either. It might feel wierd at first but after awhile you'll get used to it. You'll love it i bet!!
*-*Hope i Helped*-*


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Everytime I shave..down there..I get these little red bumps.What is a quick way to get rid of them? I rate high.

When i shaved my peach it did the same thing and it really hurt you no. So i got Nair its really good!! Its like a lotion that you put on down there dont rub it in. You leave it on for about 5-10. It works for any hair by the way. You wash it off and its gone. Its about $4 not much at all. It last a long time too. The only thing i dont like but im used to is the smell. Oh yeah its painless too lol. You can get it at about any store by the shaving stuff. Hope i helped!!


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: All of my girl-friends were like "omg the notebook is soo sad! I cryed so hard!" and my cousins told me so too..they said it made them cry soo hard..but then I watched it for the first time..and it wasn't sad or anything..they died together..I didn't cry or feel any sorrow..is something wrong with me???

No theres nothing wrong with you. Maybe you aint girly like the rest like i no so many people that i can watch a movie with and im like balling my eyes out and if its my mom ill look over and she'll be fine. All my other friends cry though but some dont. Your just dont get upset easy or maybe your jsut not one of them lovey people. Dont worry bout it if you dont cry dont try to make your self cry. If you dont wanna cry or you dont find it sad then dont. When you get upset over a movie youll cry then but for now just watch everyone eles like me look like a dork messing up our make up over a movie. See im the tatol other way i get made fun of cause i cry to much lol. Hope i helped!!


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: yesterday when i went to school i got my period and it leaked though the pad and then i went to the nurse and she wanted to know what happened so i told her and she gave me a diper type thingy and it was like 6 inches thick all over and i was wearing really tight jeans today and everyone saw me and they were calling me diper butt and then i went to the nurse again and she gave me another one and she put 2 on me and it was like thick like 12 inches or sumthing and everyone was making fun of me and then she put this thing on me and it make me have a huge but and like i couldnt get it off and when i did she took me back and gave me 3 and then i couldnt like move but she said oh well and everyone was really making fun of me and i dont know what to do it make me look so fat and like since they were tight jeans it made me look huge everywhere like the frong between my legs and my but and i dont know what to do. help me!
Ohs god i would of killed. Dont worry bout anything people say. Just give it a few days and it will all be in the pasted dont worry. People will soon be talking about someone eles. And for now on carry your own pads so you dont gotta get one from that lady.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Well this morning i woke up and my boob was hurting. what could this mean?? 14/f. thanks
Well my boobs always hurt when there growin and they always hurt before i start my peroid so maybe your gonna start or maybe there growing. If you feel a lump or something dont freak and think cancer its probley just a milk glad forming or getting bigger.
Or you could be gifted like me and your boobs hurt before it rains lol.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: ohk well im sick of people hating me because im a "slut, hoe, whore, or skank" the thing is dat im really not any of that ... how can i make people see who i really am, or just get da image of being a hoe out of my life?


i rate high so please help
I no just how it feels. Im like a huge one at my school sept i dont get called a skank. Im not any of them either. I found out its the poeple you hang with mostly. But none of my friends are called one. Ikd its really hard to make that go away. All my exs made me look like one to. Maybe if you dating alot of boys dont date as much or pick the good ones. If a boy calls me a slut or whatever and says i fucked someone last night i always say no hun i only fuck on the weekends . Maybe thats why they still call me a slut idk i hope i gave you something to think about but i really truely dont no how to get that to go away to loose them names cause ive had them for three years no probley longer.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: I think that i'm pregnant because last month I lost my virginity to a guy and I have a strange craving for egg-McMuffins and I gained 3 pounds. Is this the early sign of pregnancy??
By the way:
-I haven't ever started my period and I didn't use a condom

Do all of these signs mean that I'm pregnant??
Well you have the signs and everything. And the people that are saying you cant get pregnant are wrong hun. Say your gonna start your peroid next month and you have sex you can get pregnant. So get a home test and try it if your not for now on bab make sure you have the boy use something its not safe at all to not use something!! Or get on the pill. Hope i helped. And let me no what happened.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: Yes well i am 14 and i have been wondering if it all right to finger your self instead of having sex or yousing a dildo,vibraitor your bitch Dildo
Theres nothing wrong with fingering yourself if thats what you wanna do. Some boys like it if you tell them too.


Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

Q: My boyfriend and I gave our virginity to eachother ( im 14 he 16) and the way we slept together was we snuck out of the house. I got caught and now I am grounded until June 18 now we got caught on April 25 and ever since then he was acting really weird like he didnt like me anymore and everything else but before april 25 we did it 4 times before that. and he acted fine but the thing is he didnt even get in trouble for sneaking out and hes acting really really really weird. like I talked to him about how he's changing and he said he doesnt know whats going on. so i asked him if he's still interested and he said "i guess so" then the next day i asked him do you want to be with me and he didnt answer then we almost broke up but we didnt and then i said to him i need you to be more affectionate and he said no. and hes not going to change or even try to.

This is very confusing but for people who understand me tell me. Should I break up with him? and what is wrong with him!!

I WILL RATE 5'S!! JUST PLEASE HELP ME!!
Aws thats sad. Well he could be a jerk and got old of you and thinks your no fun and wants something eles. Or he could just not want to do anything cause he dont wanna get you in any more trouble. But i dont see why he would be mean about it. He could just be going through mood swings. You never no something could be wrong at home at his house in life and just dont no what to do and is taking it out on you. But i dont think you should dump him give him sometime to think things and see if he changes. Keep having talks with him to see if he opens up and make sure he noes he can tell you everything. Let me no how things go.

Love,
Sweetie Pie Ashley

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Hey!! How you all doing today? Well im ok i guess people. My names Ashley im 15. I go to the dumbest school ever Shenango!! I love to hang with my friends, partying, listening to music, riding my horses, talking on the phone, watching lifetime. Ohs i have black hair brown eyes 5'1 and a 1/2 cant forget that 1/5 115lbs(im fat i no) dont tell danielle i said that she'll kick my ass!!lol oh yeah im BI!!! I'm a freindly person and i love to meet new people and try new things. I'm a smart girl too but i have no commion sence!!Well i dont no what eles to say but ask my some great qestions plz im here to help when it comes to anything. Every one says im a great peron to talk to about problems. Well i love all of you Poop butts!!
*:.rate me !
.:*[a]ddiction: Boys
*:.[b]irthday: March 1
.:*[c]olor: light babi blue
*:.[d]ream: To have a great life someday(Nikki live with me)
.:*[e]yes: lots colors
*:.[f]riends: too many to name!
.:*[g]rade average: B+ ? lol
*:.[h]air color: Black with some red
.:*[i]nterests: Partying % hanging with friend
*:.[j]ob: barn cleaner
.:*[k]razy: KRAZY AINT EVEN THE WORD FOR ME!!
*:.[l]ocation: in a sucky place called New Castle
.:*[m]usic: Punk, Rap, Metal, Rock
*:.[n]ame: Skeeter
.:*[o]bsession: SEX
*:.[p]lace: Computer room
.:*[q]uotes: love quotes
*:.[r]ace: um..Indian
.:*[s]pecial talents: I can lick my boob
*:.[t]ell something about you: I love my girlsss
.:*[u]nbelievably embarressing moment: too many to name!!
*:.[v]ery best thing about me: My sexi body(Lisa you no you want this)
.:*[w]orst thing about me: I cry over everything
*:.[x]tremly daring stunts: I can hide boys
.:*[y]ummy food: Fruit
*:.[z]odiac sign: if only i new how to spell it LOL
.:*[1]love
*:.[2]Friends
.:*[3]Party
*:.[4]Drinking
.:*[5]Sex
*:.[6]Sexi boys
.:*[7]God(what god??)
*:.[8]peroids
.:*[9]Hair



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