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Hi everyone!
My name is Alexandra!
But my nickname's Aly. And as you can see I love the color pink hehehe i really do.(but you probably don't care) so anyways I'm here to help out anyone with their questions, concerns, etc..
So ask me! And if I know i'll be more than happy to answer!
lots of love
Aly~
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Member Since: July 28, 2008
Answers: 44
Last Update: July 30, 2008
Visitors: 3478


I would go to speak in spanish, but I dont know maybe no person speak spanish here, but I am searching for good pop spanish songs, with the good melody. Songs I like are like Coleccionista de canciones por Camila, enrique iglesias, reik, and good pop bands like similar above. Ok, thankyou. (link)
Hola!!
yo hablo español, soy de puerto rico.
anyways ahora mismo no me recuerdo jeje solamente de los q has dicho ya como camila, reik, enrique, etc etc... pero nada ya sabes q hablo español so si necesitas otra cosa me puedes preg jeje...
cdt toodles
Alexandra~


15/f
Okay, well i went to a party about two weeks ago and this guy i didn't know but thought was cute told one of my friends he thought i was cute and we started texting and he said i was pretty and cute and all that but he saw me from a distance and i usually don't get boyfriends because i mean i'm not the most prettiest girl in the world but i'm not the worst either but i think that once i see him again he won't think i'm pretty because he saw me from a distance and he is a really popular guy and i can't believe he would like me. So i don't know what to do. Also, i haven't kissed a guy before and i didn't want him to know that but one of my friends told him. I don't want the cutest guy in school to think i am unexpierienced. I mean i am but i found out from his best friend that he was talking about that to him, not bad about it but just talking about it. I mean, i am really shy but and i just don't want him to know that. Once, he sees me up close, i don't think he will like me...what should i do? (link)
Hi!!!!
no worries! I know it's hard but just be confident! believe you are pretty and he will believe it too (even though he already does)...
It's like selling a product (don't get me wrong you're not selling yourself), If you don't believe the product works no one else will, you have to belive it and if you don't, like any good salesperson, FAKE IT! after a while you will believe it. And just be yourself cause that is the best you can be, believe me. He will like you. and if he doesn't you're to pretty for him anyways hehe
toodles
Alexandra~


okay im 13 and i will be 14 in 2 months and im thinking about having sex w/ my boyfrien tell me what i should do (link)
Hi!!!
Well I'll tell you the truth, I don't believe in sex before mariagge beacuse that would be fornication. Im a christian. anyways my advice would be not to do it. and even if you were going to do it before mariagge considering that everyone is different and I will not expect you to think the same as me, 13 is waaaay to young.
Imagine you getting pregnant? even if he does use a condom it could slip of, even if you could take the pill it's only 99% effective so there is a chance you could get pregnant. But in the end you are going to make your own decision so you could do whatever you want and face the consequences or be safe, he will understand. believe me you also wouldn't like having to come here after, asking if you have pregnancy symptons like millions of girls who come here scared. so it's up to you girl.
If you have any other question just ask me ok???
toodles
Aly~


15 f i am a songwriter and i have a guitar and would love to learn to play it but my fingers dont move fast enough any excersises i can try?
and any tips on learning to play guitar i cant take classes they are expensive. any videos online would be good too. if you play guitar just plz tell me the basics of learning to play. and add anything else you think i should know thanks alot! (link)
Hi!!!
You sound just like me! (yes, you do hehe)
well, not now but a few months before I had your same concern. Why? Well here is the thing:
I used to take guitar lessons in 5th grade (and i'm going to 10th grade now) but I forgot everything, (well i remembered a few things but not much) so I had to start from scratch (which is you). anyways I went on the magical world of the internet hehe and I got myself a guitar chords directory and saved it and I went on youtube learned some tips and stuff (you can learn a few stuff in youtube) and started playing.
So I LEARNED THE BASICS! yay! and you can too! now all I have to do is keep on learning some more difficult stuff. Ok piece of advice: DON'T GIVE UP! You are probably thinking:"No, i wont" yeah yeah you get tired and maybe even bored given that sometimes it takes time to learn a few stuff, and when you don't get it fast you get frustrated. So having said that here is what i recommend:
1. USE THE INTERNET (it's not only for myspace) go to sites like e-chords, guitarworld, youtube, guitarchordsmagic, and chordbook (chordbook is very good cause it actually plays the chords for you so save it in your favorites so everytime you learn a chord you go there to see how it's supposed to sound, etc... (you will stumble across more sites when you go to these)

2. watch people playing guitar. If you don't know anyone or don't have the time go to youtube (the answer to your prayers hehe) and watch people who play guitar to learn techniques and see how they do it (trust me it works). i recommend people like: brinicole22, savannah 7448, miaarose etc...

3. Learn like 3 chords and pratice them. OK THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT ONE: don't try to learn like a thousand chords a day cause you think you will learn faster. THE TRUTH IS YOU WONT. Take it easy you will learn faster if you take it like 1, 2, or even 3 chords a day. And pratice changing them like if you are in G, change to D and pratice so you can get faster. Oh and this will make it more difficult to forget the chords.

4. PRACTICE PRACTICE PRACTICE!!!!!!!
haha yeah i know you've heard this but you really need to practice a lot so you can master this (I won't give you a speech on this)\

5. DON'T GIVE UP
I already told you this but I'm telling you again cause it's really important so please don't give up.

Ok im almost finished but first:
WORD OF INSPIRATION: If you dedicate time to this and you really want it and you practice a lot and don't give up, you can learn the basics in like a month or less. To tell you the absolute truth I learned like in a week and a half to learn the basics (specially a week). yep I did so you can learn fast just be sure to learn it well so you won't forget it. AND REMEMBER everyone learns at a different pace so don't get frustrated if you don't learn that fast. Oh and one last thing, set goals for you like say for tommorow I want to learn this and work hard towards that and reward yourself if you do it (that's what I did :-)

SO you can ask me if you have any other question!
I'D love to help you ! there weren't many people on the internet available to help so i know what it's like.
so to you it's different i will help hehehe.
so i hope the best for you!
toodles
Alexandra~




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