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Personally, I hate this website. The majority of questions are either horribly worded, incredibly easy to answer on one's own with the use of widely available resources (including, but not limited to, www.google.com), alterations of a very common question, or a combination of the three. I confuse myself sometimes as to why I continue to read random questions, only to be to be driven insane by the utter disregard for the reader of the question. Maybe I just use this website as an outlet for my rage towards the section of teenagers who upset me the most, or possibly it is just ingrained in my psyche to read over poorly spelled questions to fuel my masochistic personality. I might even be staying here to prevent the overtake of this hapless corner of the internet by ignorant and lazy teenage girls that don't know how to say "yes" to someone who asked her out by the use of common sense and correct grammar.



I have, however, found that reading topic specific questions eliminates most of my frustration. Of course, that still doesn't stop me from running into unbelievably ignorant questions such as "does doing squats really make your theighs smaller?" in the INTERNET AND WEB DESIGN topic list.



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How can I change a WAV file that I recorded on my mp3 player to an MP3 file when I put it on the computer? (link)
http://www.dbpoweramp.com/

Get the "dBpowerAMP Music Converter." Converts back and forth between a number of audio codecs.


I wasnt sure were this belonged but anywho:

I want to know what are some things that cause premature birth and what disroders or health problems can they develop if they survived.

The reason I'm asking is because I was born premature && I've developed Anorexia.I didnt' know it until I just noticed.And I want to know if being premature has anything to do with me developing Anorexia.

And well I've just recently found out that my mother use to be Bulimic. Could it also be that its genetic., Or because of my premature birth. or both?

My question are :

What kinds of health problems can premature people who survive develope as they grow old?

Is it possible that because of my premature birth, Ive developed ANorexia or is it because My mother had Bulimia when she was my age (13)?

and anything else.

Please Help!!! I'm getting a bit worried & I really want to know. Ill rate 5's & recommend you. (link)
Being born prematurely doesn't really have anything to do with anorexia. Since you've lived through it, you should be fine.


Firefox wont let me automatically log in to any websites. And it wont ahow any new things on the same websites.

I've tried turning it off and on again, uninstalling then re-installing and none of it works. (link)
Make sure cookies are enabled for that particular website. It doesn't matter what browser you use, if cookies are disabled, you can't automatically log in to that particular site.

Tools -> Options -> Privacy -> Cookies


does anyone know anything about it, i am so confused, please help, i will rate 5's! (link)
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Note: This is NOT an answer to tell you what polygenic inheritance is, seeing as that has already been answered twice. This is an answer to inform you that there are very easy ways to find out the answer to that exact question on your own.

http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=2

Check the last half of the page.


i saw this thing called "filelib" in my documents, and i don't remember it being there before. i clicked on it, and the name of the folder inside was my screename. i clicked on my screename and it was just blank. so, whats "filelib"??

i will rate high.i really want to know what it is :] thanks (link)
Anything you put in there can be accessed by other people on AIM if you enable file sharing.

Everyone so far who has said that it's where files are downloaded to is wrong. Your downloads go to:

My Documents -> download -> {Screen name}

"thx. but i already got the answer from a lot of ppl"

But they were all wrong... Thanks for the 1 anyway.


SOrry about the subject.

I was online the other day at like 3 am and my ex had IMed me. i brok eup with him about 2years ago. It was kinda the parents fault because of my grades and they told me i couldnt see him anymore. So online he was like hey slut: im like shut up and leave me alone. like half way thru him talking to me he told me if he ever snapped he would kill me. He said when i broke up with him i made him suffer and i causeed him to have no respect for girls anymore. Im like why do you say stuff like that and he said he can. He has a girlfriend right now that he has been with for over a year they live together. He had no trust in me what so ever. We wouldnt of lasted. My question is what do i do about him saying he would kill me? I dont have any prove because the message got deleted. I told my mom.

He lives in a different state. And he doesnt know where i live because i had moved.

Any help would be wonderful thnk. (link)
You could start by blocking him online and just not talking to him. Not too tough. It's *probably* not much of a threat.


I absolutely love to read. Can anyone give me lots of great teen books (novels are great!) that you absolutely loved...Most likely if a lot of people have read it, ive read it too. so think of some good ones that not many have read. some examples of my faves are Looking For Alaska, and Hard Love. Just looking for some more options!Thanks a bunch.
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I recommend "1984." I am in no way a reader, but this was a fantastic book (my favorite).


I have liked this guy for about one year now, but I really don't want to like him anymore. It has grown awkward between us lately after he found out that I like him and I just want things to go back to the way they used to be, but the problem is I can't stop liking him. Like whenever I think I'm over him he will do something that I think is cute and I will start to like him all over again. I'm just sick of it. If you guys have any advice I would be very appreciative! (link)
ERASE him? A tad mean, I'd say.

Well, if you want him out, just stop talking to him all together. Don't go where he is, don't talk to his friends. It's a very sick and twisted idea to completely cut someone out of your life that you liked, but if that's really what you want, then that's how you need to do it.

Don't be suprised if he ends up hating you for that. I would hate you too. I'm starting to hate you just thinking about you doing this to him. But you don't know me so that's no big deal, right?


first of all sorry this is so long!!!

i really like boys to answer this cause they know how other boys are thinking cause boys are a soo weird sometimes :-)

well i really really like this guy and uhm lets call him D :-) so i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that! uhm so i really often looked at D but not because i liked him or something just because he was interesting and always so funny and hyper so i think he took it like she loves me or something! and then once he talked to me and well then i started to like him but i was really shocked and answered weird when he asked me something and he was like: why are you so mean to me? so than he asked me if we should be friends or something and then he got interrupted and than my busstop (this whole conversation was on the bus :-) came so i never answered that question! then i kinda ignored him even if i loved him and then he told me he loves me and i was so shocked i was like: uhm 2 bad! or something AAHH i felt really bad than so i called him about 3 weeks later because im just shy with boys! and i said im sorry and all he said was like: uhuh or yeah and since than he always ignored me and sometimes he looks at me but only when im not looking (but hes not smyling or anything)and i dont know what to do anymore! i wanna talk to him but im scared that he wont answer again and everything! and by the way does he still like me? what is he thinking? cause i know he really loved me once you could see it the way he smiled at me....... and is he like over me now or something? hes always ignoring me and that hurts! but i really love him! what is he thinking???? (link)
Sorry, I'm a man, not a boy, but I'll answer anyway.

Also, don't apologize for making a long question. Long questions are fine. But if you're going to ask a long question, break it up into paragraphs so it isn't such a pain to read. Also:

"o i am a new kid in this school (i kinda really hate) but never mind that!"

Never mind that? Why did you say it in the first place if it wasn't important?

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Well, since he wanted to be friends and you didn't really ever answer that question. From a guy's perspective, having a girl wait 3 weeks to respond is generally a sign that the girl is not interested at all in me, and is trying to find a nice way to say "no." I'd say any chance you may have had with him, you pretty much shot by waiting. Suck it up and move on, that ship sailed.


ok i really like this boy and we've known each other through 3-8(were in eighth now) and he rly funny and nice and sometimes knows wat im thinking and i rly though about asking him out he knows that we flirt with each other its kinda obvesious and i was wondering if he feels the same way i feel about him? please help i rate high
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Oh yeah, I know that one guy. Yup, totally. Go for it.

That sarcasm aside, you should seriously just ask him out. Worst case scenario, you never speak to him again. Best case scenario, you go out for a few months and then end up breaking up over some petty argument that you 8th graders have. (I have never seen a relationship in 8th grade last. It just doesn't happen.)


does anyone know any free teen hotline numbers where you can just talk to people? k thanks. (link)
That sounds like the dumbest idea ever. Get AIM and get some friends. Find a chat room and shoot the breeze.


im a blond guy and i once learned that girls dont like blonds what should i do with my hair? my hair is short and i am male i rate high (link)
Nobody in the history of the world worth dating has ever turned a guy down simply based on hair color. It is a superficial and insignificant detail.


All of my About Me in my Advicenator profile got deleted!! It took me soooo long!!! Do you know how to get it back!? I'll rate supa good please. (link)
Deal with it. You have to rewrite it now, but here's some tips for the future.

1) Take a keyboarding class. Typing properly is so much faster. Then, the next time something like that happened, you wouldn't have trouble typing it back up in a minute or two. Also, being a fast typer means you'll be able to use a computer a lot faster. Write emails faster, type up papers faster, etc...

2) Get firefox. www.firefox.com If you hit submit and something went wrong, you could just go back and your profile would still be there. On Internet Explorer it would be blank and you would be forced to retype everything.


Hi, 17f and 18 male. Ok theres this guy who i really, really, really like and i know he really likes me too. I mean we are sort of talking like we are together but we don't have any titles to our relationship yet. I would really like to be his girlfriend but i don't want to press the matter and sort of with his timing becuause im ok with where we are right now. But i don't wanna wait forever. I know that his last girlfriend kinda broke his heart and he was really torn up about it but that was over a year ago and he says and acts like he's over it, but still says that he's not ready for a relationship. Like i said, i dont mind it being like it is right now but i don't want it to be like this forver and it doesn't really seem to be moving forward. I am really starting to fall for him, but i just keep asking myself is that worth waiting all this time for him. The last time i fell for a guy like this and we weren't together i just waited because i had the mentality like i would take him any way i could get him and that didn't work out so well for me and i don't want a replay of that. Not with him. I wanna wait for him but part of me is thinking that if i keep waiting like this it won't ever change. Should i wait for him?
P.S. Sorry for the length. (link)
If you decide that since he isn't ready to date again and just go find someone else, that'll show how little he really matters to you. I'm not saying that's the truth, but that's how he'd perceive it.

If you "really, really, really" liked him, there should be no question of waiting. You just need to work on going without a relationship for a while (trust me, it's very possible and easy to do).


My friend recentaly dated this 17 year old boy who turned out to be a pervert (Common sense, why did she expect a 17 year old to be dating a 13 year old?) Her best friend was against it from the beginnning but now that they have broken up, shes taken interest in him. Shes a liar, a terrible best friend and stubborn for believing the stuff he tells her.
Trouble has only arised since she became friends with all of us, including this and changing one of my close friends into a narrow minded person. My guy friend is yelling at her all the time now, and our friendship seems on the rocks.
My question is whether to let the relationship go on, watch her get hurt and let her relize what a mistake she made (I've tried hard enough to tell her what he really "loves" about her) Or to put our friendship to and end since all of our friends seem to have a problem with her every other week. (link)
Well, that's up to you. Do you want to put forth the effort to keep trying to help out your friend, or do you want to just cut your losses and move on with your own lives? Is it worth trying to help her? Are you going to be able to abandon your friend?

It really depends on how you feel about this. I can't speak for yourself, so you'll have to weigh the options and decide what's best for yourself.


A friend of mine offered to teach me how to play the guitar. He knows I don't have much money and because me and my friends are always helping him out with his business, he told me that he would teach me for free. At first he was really nice and was patient. But when I had my third lesson he YELLED at me and said "YOURE NOT LISTENING TO ME". This was because I told him I wanted to look at my quitar book to see how to play a cord instead of having him move my fingers with his. (this has made me uncomfortable). He is married and I think sometimes he tries to come on to me. He also can get really inpatient with me when I can't play cords right.
I really want to learn to play the quitar but he just makes me so nervous and I'm almost a little afraid of him. I'm only staying with him because of the money issue, and also it would hurt a lot of my friends if I quit because they say what a nice guy he is to teach me for free.
What should I do? (link)
There are no 'q's in guitar. You know, if you have the instruction books, you CAN learn to play on your own.

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If you are uncomfortable around him, you are hardly going to learn how to play, anyway.


I am currently 8 months pregnant and the last 2 months i have been addicted to sniffing Tipp Ex and marker Pens, could this have caused any harm to my unborn baby? (link)
Yes. If you didn't kill it, the child will end up with a mental handicap for his or her entire life. Way to go.


okay, whenever i get a grade ike a "B", my parents yell at me! i'm used to it, but why dothey have to yell when i only get a "B"? i mean, what's up with that? i know this seems like a small situation, but please help me!!

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Because you technically could try harder to get A's. I'm not saying what they are angry about is right or not, I'm just saying that they expect only the best from you.


ok well we all know what febuary 14th is and i have no idea what to get my bf im 14 so its not like serious but i want to get him somethin speacial any tips? (link)
I have a rose dipped in gold if you want to buy that. $50 +$10 s/h. Talk to me on AIM if you want it.


I have bit of problem but then again since I'm asking a question I guess thats obvious.

15/F. (16 in a couple months)

There is this guy Marcus, who likes me and I guess I like him. Lately my feelings for him have diminished but anyways he has a girlfriend now but he still says he loves me and all that. (I don't understand guys who say they love you when they don't even know what it means)
At the beginning of December I had a dream that sort of disturbed me and didn't make sense but its become constant now. I have it almost every night.
basically I'm taking a walk and I run into Marcus making out with a girl and I'm shocked, hurt and angry at the same time but when I turn around someone is right there and puts their arms around me and reasures me everything is alright. I know this person is a guy because of his cologne. he's in this brown/tan trenchcoat and I finish crying he goes out and beats up Marcus. (its a dream. I have to have my revenge) Then comes back and puts his arms around me a takes out to the car so no one can ask questions. When were out there we've been talking for sometime, I think and then this person says he loves me and I realize I love him too. We kiss and I wake up. The most desturbing part of the dream is that its my best friends' little brother. He's two years younger then me, 13. I mean this kid is very nice, and matture for his age but its no reason for me to be dreaming about him in such ways. I keep telling myself I don't like him. That its not right to like him but for some reason I constantly think about him. I'm really disgusted with myself. I don't even care that he's my best friends' little brother so much as the age. I feel stupid.
I've told my friend about my dream and she sees no problem with it. I can't get her to understand that there is something wrong with me.

Now my real question is, How the hell do I get myself to quit dreaming about him? I try listening to music before I go to bed, and think about anything but him yet it still doesn't work.

Any suggestions would be great.
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Why are you so hellbent on NOT liking him? What's wrong with that? Even your best friend doesn't seem to mind (oddly enough).

So what's exactly wrong with liking him?

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Just because it's unusual doesn't make it WRONG. If you both liked each other, there would be no issue.




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