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Hi my name is Lee Ann. I am 29 years old and Graduated from Bethany college obtaining a bachelors of music. I am a happily married woman with two kids, ages3 and 2. I currently have six books out on the market, all of which can be found on amazon. The first is called The Leaf: One fallen heart and a burning desire, my second is called Avengement of Glory, my third is called Spiral of Enlightenment, fourth one is called Prodigy of the Immortal, fifth one is called Augment in the Realm of Darkness, and my sixth novel is called Bond in the Spiritual Heart. I started this advice column to see if I could give good advice. Turns out I am pretty good, better than I thought actually. I enjoy seeing people smile when I give them good advice and they use it. It makes me feel better as a person to help people. I want to make the world a better place and I think that starting an advice column is the right way to begin. Writing is a huge part of my life, without it, I wouldn't be able to function properly. After seven years, I think I have done pretty well as an advice columnist.
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Well, im not ugly, But im not the prettiest person in the world.i just feel ugly.How do You be pretty, I mean those girls witht eh pretty eyes and guys are all over. how do they do it? anything is apreciated
They put makeup on everyday and do their hair everyday. If you change your appearance like wear makeup. Or change you style of clothing maybe wear something that will get you notice that is really in style. Or get a hair cut so you change yourself a little. These girls are confident in how they look and you just need to be confident too. I bet that if you just did something to change yourself an dliked it then you would be noticed to. Flirt with the guys and get to know them
well my boyfriend is in the army and hes been gone for a month and a few weeks now. since a few days ago i keep haveing these dreems, and in them my boyfriend is flirting with other girls, makeing me feel bad, cry ect. I wake up from these dreems feeling terrible. The only thing i can think of from these dreems are how he i feel about him talking to other girls. But any other suggestions?
Your feeling angry that he left and alone. So you dream about him flirting with girls because that would obviously make you angry. You may not feel the anger but subconciously you are angry that he left. You also feel alone becasue while he is away you are sitting at home alone waiting for him to come back. Your worried that might meet someone out there also.
well i look at these three girls there all very much pretty, they'll beet anyones a*, and everyone loves them. I want this so bad it hurts. I want a best friend i can do crazy stuff with. But i dont have one i have tryed mnay times to relate to People i know But i cant. and it just doesnt feel right, What do i do?
The best thing is to change your appearance. If don't wear makeup then you should try and wear some. Change you waredrobe and wear something no one would expect you to wear. The only to get noticed is to change your appearance or something else about you. These people were not always pretty and if they were that will change fast. All the popular girls in my school have dropped out of college or they are gaving babies unmarried without anyone to help them. Maybe get a new hair style that changes yourself too. And the best way to relate to people is to find something in common with them. Maybe join a club or something to get to know people a little more. Also you can talk to people more and just get to know them. You could be the person in school everyone just likes. You are not any specific category but you are friends with everyone. The key is be confident in yourself and jus to tell yourself you can do it.
16/f
when i was in 8th grade i went to a private all girls school and i hate my high school im a junior at a technical school and i hate my shop and i want to switch back to the private school senior year but im torn. please help!!
The best thing is to talk to your mother about it. Tell her your unhappy and you wnat to go back to your old school. I know that some schools have the worst things and you just wnatto get away from it all. But nothing will change unless you talk to your parents and tell them how unhappy you are. If you explain to them why and the solutions to the problem they will transfer you back.
me and my boyfriend waited 9 months before we had sex .. now WHENEVER we hang out we do it like 5 times .. i dont want it to get old .. and i think we do it too much .. he feels differently but im not sure how to talk to him .. please help =[
Just explain to him when you guys are hanging out that you don't want your relationship to be based on sex. You want to do something else. Have him come over or something and just talk to him. The best way is to just get out and off your chest so that you are relieved. If you don't it will eat you up inside. A good idea is to get out more so that you guys can hang out more and don't have to rely on having sex so much.
my ex-brandon, and i are freinds and i broke up with him about a month ago. he has kind of changed, but not totally bad. we were pretty good freinds up untill he started acting weird like on monday, thats when i kept asking him if he was okay, he would get all weird and say things like, "why is their something that i shouldnt be okay about" and stuff like that. then the next day he kinda stoped being so freindly to me, like he didnt talk to me as much and all that crap. well this morning-like everysingle morning, he was supposed to meet me at a certain spot and walk together to our 2nd period class, well he like ditched me and went to class by himself, then he is talking and laughing and hugging all my freinds but he wont even look at me or talk to me. what should i do?
Ok since he won't talk to you then you need to say something to him. You don't deserve to be treated like that. And you need to let him know how you feel because if you don't he will continue to not say anything. Guys hate talking and the only way to get them to is to make them or corner them so they have to. Maybe go to his house so he has to listen to what you have to say. Don't give up on it and you will get the answer you want.
is it wrong for a 15 year old and 18 year old to be together? he's still in school yet and he just turned 18 in august? is that still bad?
No it is not wrong at all. I have dated so many people that were younger and older than me. It is kind of what is in style now. You don't date people your own age but people older or younger. So you don't have anything to be worried about.
14/m
ok so i play acoustic guitar.
im decent at best
the only thing is that there are certain songs i cant play
because i have stubby fingers
i cant hold down a bar chord
which is very aggrivating because things like jack johnson would be very easy if i could just play the bar chords.
is there any way to get my short fingers able to press down all 6 strings for a bar chord?
or am i just going to have to wait for my fingers to grow more
thanks-
If you buy a gripmaster it helps make all of your fingers really strong. If you use it everyday or before you start playing you will be able to play all the strings with only one finger. It helps strengthen your fingers so when you play fast songs you can hit the notes and not have to worry about your fingers.You can buy a gripmaster in any guitar store or just order it off of ebay or something. Mine is red and black. You would probably want to go with the medium tension.
I cum in about 10 minutes after I start masturbating, but sex can take more than 20 minutes right? Does this mean the sex I'm going to have is going to be 10 minutes? or longer?
No normally sex lasts longer not matter what you do.
Masturbating is healthy, actually. A lot of people do what you're doing and it is totally normal. If you enjoy it and you aren't harming anyone, keep on doing it.
I think it is healthy on some level but doing it to much becomes hazardous. Especially towards your body.
I don't have a whole lot of money for my Halloween bash this year, so I need to craft a lot of the decorations myself...does anyone have any ideas? Its STRICTLY an adult party, so anything gory-weird, just not hokey/little kid/ stupid. anythings appreciated!!!
The best place to get cheap stuff for a cool adult party is walmart. They have awesome stuff that you can decorate your room with or the kitchen and living room. I used some of their stuff for a halloween party and it only cost me like 20 bucks to decorate four rooms.
hi I'm a freshman in highschool and my mom just told me that I need braces I don't want to have braces!. I already have acne and need glaces I'm gonna look like a total geek. I don't know what to do. Is there anyway how I can fix my teeth without using braces?. Is there any invisable one?. Any ideas. Please.
No there are clear ones you can buy that are shaped to make your teeth straighter. If you talk to your dentist he or she will tell where to prescribe for those. And as for glasses, it is in now. People are buying glasses even when they don't need them. So if you buy the black ones that are in style now that takes care of that. And the commercials they have on tv with jessica simpson. That product works wonders for acne. I had alot of acne and when I tryed that stuff it really worked. I have the type of skin that nothing ever works but that product did for me to. So after this you should be pretty good for school.
13/Female
Im a young girl surronded by tons of couples. I need flirting tips cause theres this guy whos really tall and cute that I want to catch his eye. flirting tips needed!
The first thing is to start talking to him. You become his friend you can persuade him to become anything. This way you get to know him and gets to know you. Most girls like to flirt with a guy especially about sports. Find his out his interests and use that for conversation. If he sees that you have the same interests he will ask you out.
I am about 23 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend just got me a rabbit, to keep in my apartment because i am usally there alone. i was wondering if there is anything i should be catious about with the rabbit so i dont harm my baby. Thank You
The only big thing you have to worry about is the rabbit and what diseases it might carry. You should probably get its shots done if they are not already done. Other than being allergic to it there really isn't anything to worry about.
i have no idea on what to be for halloween...any ideas or suggestions?
superhero, vampire, angel, devil, serialkiller, prom queen, model, rock star, athlete, princess, some kind of monster they have the masks in the stores, an animal like a mouse or something.
the other night i got a call from my best friend and he told me that he is back with my friend and his ex who he swore he'd never go back out with. after we hung up. i began crying. i cried for 2½hrs. yeah i know what you are probably thinking wow! but i love him. i've liked him for three years. i have just been to shy to say anything to him. and today i got up enough nerve to say something. so i called him and got his voicemail. so this is what i said..
"hey **** I know that you are back with her and if that makes you happy, then I'm happy for you. But I need to tell you something. I really like you, and I have for 3 yrs. I have just been so scared of telling you. Scared that I could screw up our friendship or that I would scare you. But I'm not afraid anymore.. I need to let this off my chest. I want you to be happy but you being back with her then i will be happy for you. It's your life and your choice and I know that I have no say in it but I just wanted you to know the truth about how I feel about you. Call me back and if not I completely understand."
so do you think it was right of me to finally tell him? and should i be worried about what he says?
It's always good to tell the ones we love the truth. If you would have never said anything you would have spent the rest of your life wondering what would have happened if I had said something. You don't want to go through life wondering what if. You want to know. It was completely right for you to tell him because in a way you were not being completely honest with him. And friendship is based on honesty. You can't look at the bad because there is good to. You may not get the results you want but you end up getting something better afterwards. Being completely in love with someone means you will never give up on them no matter what the obstacles are. If you are patient and wait you will get what you want the most. If he doesn't call back then there is someone who is even better for you than him you just havent found him yet. And he will regret it when he sees you happy with your true love.
Hey. ^.^ I'm a f/15 and I have a boyfriend. My mom caught me and him getting really close, and now i'm not allowed to see him. I was fine with that, because I planned to move out whenever I get a decent job, and some money (and of course come of age), but my mom continues to tell me that i'm not leaving the house until I finish college. (Which means I won't leave the house until i'm 24 or older...)And anytime I happen to tell her i'm moving out until I am legaly an adult she screams at me, and cries to my dad insisting that I hate her and want her dead. Which gets me on my dads bad side. But, she think she has cancer so i've tried to forgive her, but i've just found out that she went to the doctor, but didn't get a biopsy to prove she does. So she "feels" like she has cancer, when really I just think it's menopause. It's really quite horrible and because of her mood swings i'm starting to become an angry person. And lately she's been pushing another guy onto me in hopes that me and my boyfriend will break up, and sadly, I think it's working. The guy she's been pushing off onto me has gone off to the marines, and anytime I tell him I just want to be friends, she yells at me more and tells me i'm ungrateful, disrespectful, arrogant, and irresponsible. I've tried my best for 15 years to keep her happy. I've never done drugs, never had sex, I NEVER cuss, and i've never drank. But she continues to tell me i'm a bad child. But, we're also in the middle of a move so I figure somewhere between moving, her "cancer" and menopause, she's just having a bad decade. But, it's gotten to the point to where she started crying because I asked her for my own bed! I have a twin sister who i've been sharing my LIFE with for 15 years, and she flips because I want my own bed. And after the incident where she thought I got too close to my BF, she has threatened to hit me, called me a whore, and she cusses out my existence all the time. She gives me dirty looks whenever I walk into the same room as her, but again thinks I want her dead because I don't want to be in the same room as her. And, again, all of this wouldn't be so much of a problem but just a few hours ago I was writing in my diary about how much I really don't think she has cancer, and how I really think it's just her way of having a pitty party, and I left it on the ground. Now, she is constantly listening in on my phone calls, which I have nothing to really hide so it's just a stupid invasion of privacy I think, but she read my diary. It was locked, and under books in the bathroom, and she pryed it open, and started crying to my dad saying I left it open for her to read intentionaly so that I could let her know just how much I hate her. But, fighting won't get me anywhere, i'm too young to go anywhere, and crying certainly doesn't help, so I have no where to turn! We've been to family counceling and she makes it a point to make sure I don't say anything. The minute I open my mouth to tell the councelor about her threatening me, she immediately interupts and tells the coucnelor that I have a horrible lying problem. I need someone for some advice please make it quick! I don't know what to do, because i'm starting to think that I really do deserve what she's doing...Am I really a bad kid? ...Should I hate her? What can I do to make things better? I've already tried talking to her, but she starts crying and continues to insist that I want her dead, and that I hate her because I don't feel bad that she has cancer...But no one knows if she does! She keeps saying she's going to die soon, but she refuses to get a biopsy because she's afraid she won't have cancer and she'll be missing half of her breast for no reason....
I guess my biggest problem is low self esteem right now. Or maybe not...I don't know!! Please tell me what I can do, because she's starting to drag me down into depression, but I don't want CPS to take her away!!
When people constantly fight like that it is because they have so much in common with each other. So the solution is to get out of the house. If you separate yourself from her then you would be able to finally get some peace. I know you mentioned you were not ready to move out so I suggest getting a job first. If you get a job you will be able to spend time away from her, if you have a job then get one with lots of hours. You get a job you can save money to get an apartment so you can move in with your boyfriend or one of your friends. You are not even close to being a bad person. You are right your mother is going through menopause. I know some people who are going through the same thing that act like that. The best thing is not to give up but to constantly try and work things out and if they don't work out in your favor just remember it is not your fault at all. You have the strength to do this, it is a matter of believing in yourself. Just do whatever it takes to speak up in therapy. Prove that she is at fault and it is not you.
does anyone know where to find cute myspace layouts besides createblog.com and whateverlife? im in a desperate need and really really want an awesome layout :-D so if anyone knows please please please tell me
thanks soo much in advance
If you go to my myspace you should see a website located on it that takes you to a really cool place to find lots of different backgrounds and stuff. My myspace is www.myspace.com/darkesthourforme and it should be there.
i don't really get much pimples, but when i do, it's usually like, 2 or 3 at a time. and i HATE it! they're usually in between my eyebrows, on my nose, or close to my nose. i don't really want my mom to buy me cleanser and stuff, so i need advice on what i can do to prevent this from happening. yea, i know it's not ever gonna b flawless, but i don't want it how it looks like right now, either. so any advice on what i can do will be GREAT!
thank you.
The best thing is to put on a face mask. If you do this it cleans out your pores and prevents pimples from coming out. Also if you scrub your face when you are taking a shower or bath with shower gel and not soap, it helps alot. If you wear makeup, use makeup removers because it will help to. If you don't remove the makeup off your face it clogs your pores and makes you breakout.
Just to make sure, In the Bible in Revalations, it says the sexually immoral go to hell. What does that mean?
It means that people who don't believe in Christ will spend eternity in hell. And sexually immoral means having sex before marriage.