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well i weigh 130lbs and im 5'4. im a 13/f, I know this is fat but i was wondering if you know anyways i can lose weight. thanksss a bunch i want to look nice for when i have my pool party at the end of the school year for grad. (link)
technically if you are 5'4 & weigh 130 pounds you are not overweight, but only by a decimal.
your BMI is 22.312 & the range for 13 year olds is 15.3-22.6
but anyways.

eat healthy & excersising is the most effective & healthiest way to loose weight. stick to fruits & veggies & eat protein with every meal (nuts or lean meat). excersise atleast 30 minutes everyday. Also drink alot of water, that is one of the best ways to help you lose weight.

i hope i helped
Jess


Iam 17 years old and i babysit my niece and my nephew every saturday from 3:00pm until 10:00pm and all we do is color and watch movies and iam pretty sure they get tired of it sometimes i read them stories but iam running out of ideas.cheyanne(girl is 5)kaligha is 3)and iam running out of activities for them to do please help me. (link)
Ask them what they want to do.
Go outside with them & play tag.
Help them make up an imaginary game or something.
Paint their fingernails & stuff like that, little kids always liked to be treated like they are older & stuff.

hope i helped =]
Jess


how much make up should a 14 year old wear?

*&& if so, could you please tell me in steps? im new at this lol!

thank you ! (link)
I'd say eyeliner, eyeshadow, mascara, lipsgloss, & foundation if needed.

just the bottom for the eyeliner. and a small slim line if you are going to do it on top. Nuetral eyeshadows not like hot pink & dark purple. um a natural looking lipgloss with a little shimmer. & if you are using foundation dont pound it on like icing on a cake, feather it out with a make-up sponge. & remember make up is to enhance your natural features not cover them up =]

hope i helped =]
Jess


All the time I read about how to get rid of belly fat they always say the usual sit ups and crunches but I have no idea what are crunches because I never heard of them before but by the sound of the word CRUNCH it sounds very effective. Can someone explain to me how to do it? (link)
Its like a sit up except you dont go all the way up. you just like get your head half as up, sort of. heres how:
http://exercise.about.com/cs/abs/ht/Crunch.htm

hope i helped =]
Jess


ok so im invited to my friends costume party but we have to dress in pairs so.. my friend was gonna go with her bf as catwoman and batman but they broke up so now im gonna go with her. but she already bought her catwoman costume and she doesnt wanna waste it so i dont no what to dress as.. i dont want it to be like really stupid so ya...im 13f.. thanks
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umm you could be catwoman twins/sisters. isnt there a batwoman? you could be that. just look around. surprisingly there are good costumes at target. If you have a party city you could look there.

hope i helped =]
Jess


NEED LYRICS TO SONG BEST DEFENSE BY EVERY NEW DAY. I need these really bad. If you have the CD or can find them online, in english. Please I really need them (link)
I couldnt find a band named every new day.
maybe you are getting band names mixed up.

do these sounds familiar?
http://www.lyricsfreak.com/f/face+to+face/best+defense_20052346.html

hope i helped =]
Jess


16/f
Okay. So. Here's my problem. There's a few different guys in my life that I just can't get off my mind.

Guy 1- We had a little summer fling during summer school 2 years ago. Then, it died out, and I barely saw him last year (but still kind of liked him), and now I have a class with him, and I will always have some feelings for this boy. We are like perfect for each other, everyone always thinks we should date, but nothing ever happens. He seems to go for younger, more immature girls for some reason (and hes older than me)

Guy 2- I've known him for 3 months. He is not my type at all, and I'm not his either. He has a girlfriend that lives 3 hours away (no idea how serious it is). He's the kind of person that doesn't treat people the best. He's not really mean, he's just not overly nice. Except to me. He's so good to me. He flirts with me everyday. He asked me to go see saw 3 with him when it comes out. He will compliment me daily (like "I like your hair today, it looks pretty"). Problem-- He came to school high yesterday. He's in the punk/into-their-music crowd, and they smoked before our pep assembly. I don't really care if you smoke, but I don't like it when its around me. So it just really turned me off. Plus I know my friends won't accept that.

Guy 3- This boy lives 3 hours away. His best friend lived here during the summer (he doesn't now), so he'd come visit me all the time, because he had a place to stay. I liked him so much, but I always felt like he was hiding something. And I got mad at him about something he did, and we slowly stopped talking, and then I found out he really didn't do it (I never confronted him about it, just acted more coldly toward him) so I texted him saying whats up, and he never responded. I miss him a lot

Guy 4-Met him at the beginning of the school year. He's the sweetest smartest guy I know. We are just friends, but I have such a puppy crush on him. We only talk online and briefly during the day, but he is just so interesting. BUT he's into drugs too. but He doesn't come to school high. So I really don't mind it


I don't know what to do with these 4. I don't know who I should like or who I should forget about. What do you guys think? (link)
I'd say go for guy #1
you don't want a guy on drugs or one that has a girlfriend..
but remember you don't always have to have a boyfriend, single is fun--you get to flirt with everybody!

hope i helped =]
Jess


ok, well im 15/f and i really like this guy.

hes also 15 and we met around august. i hung out with him the other night, and i realized how much i like him!! i think he might like me, but then again, im not even 10% sure of that. i want to know if he likes me or not, but i dont want to ask him "do you like me?" and ive tried almost everything i could think of. ive tried talking to him regularly to see how he responds, i tried flirting with him, and he sorta(i think) flirted back, but im not sure. are there any ways i can tell if he likes me, or ways i can see if hes flirting? any help at all will be greatly appreciated! (link)
www.myjellybean.com

hope that helps =]
Jess


What personality traits do you look for in friends. I have servere depression. It's been so long since I've been...sane. Ha. I just need a little help getting back to my old self. Thanks. (link)
well they deffinatley have to be fun and trustworthy. im really bad at naming traits so i think ill stop now =]

hope i helped =]
Jess


i need advice quick! wed. is my mom's bday and she's really sensitive about these things. she doesn't like when we make her cards the day of cuz it makes her feel like she's not special enough to plan ahead. however, her bday is wed and today is mon. i need something special to either get or make her. i need ideas! i don't have a lot of time due to school so it will have to take thirty mins or less. of course a card will be made, but what else can i do? what is something i can pick up quickly? i have no car but my friend is giving me ar ide tomorrow and can stop by a store or something quickly. i can also make something using stuff i have. please HELP! for my moms sake (link)
you can stop by a mall and go to build a bear and make her a stuffed animal and put a voice recording thing in it thats says "i love you mom" or something like that. does your mom like chocolate? get her some dove,Ghirardelli, or lindt chocolate, its the best. If she likes to read buy her a gift card to barnes and nobles.
or you could always run to bath and body works and pick up some lotions and body sprays or bubble bath for her.

hope i helped =]
Jess


How much do drums cost?
Are they pretty easy to self-teach? (link)
it depends on if they are previously owned and what brand it is. they can be from like $300-$1200 it just all depends.
and everybody is different, so it might be easy for you to learn how to play by your self and hard for somebody else, but they dont seem that hard, you can always look stuff up online.

hope i helped =]
Jess


the song crazy by gnarles barkley. what is it about?
thank you in advance
p.s. i'm not asking for lyrics (link)
hes talking about going through a time in his life. and he thinks he is going to go crazy, but then he thinks about it and then thinks maybe its just everybody else going crazy.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Hi I am a 15 year old female. I lived in the same town for most of my life. About a week ago I moved. I now live about 3.5 hours away from there. My mom kicked me out so I live with my dad. I miss my friends and my old life so much that I am seriously depressed and I'm afraid that if I dont run away and go back there and live with a friend that something even worse is going to happen. For example I used to cut myself to let out my emotions and I have been trying not to but I want to so bad.
What do I do? stay here in hell or go be happy? (link)
don't cut yourself, first of all.

just try the new place out. try to change whatever you dont like about the new place. sometimes it takes time to get used to stuff. talk to your dad and say you arent enjoying being there and tell him what he could do to make it better.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Are there times in a relationship where a partner may have doubts? I mean I love my boyfriend very much. But I dunno today I just didn't feel good and I just thought he was soo annoying and too touchy and I didn't want to hug him. I'm fine now though and I very much want him to be at my house with me.. Is it just me? (link)
sometimes you just need a little break from people. You will probably be over it in like a day.

hope i helped =]
Jess


what are default layouts? (link)
it looks like you dont have a layout but there is a background behind it. its kind of hard to explain.

hope i helped =]
Jess


how do you make pictures like this:

http://profile.ak.facebook.com/profile/825/91/s1223790531_19114.jpg

http://profile.ak.facebook.com/profile2/1075/118/s5743722_25877.jpg

i saw it on facebook, but i was wondering is there a website? (link)
no, you have to use filters on a photo editing program, like adobe.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Ive kissed a girl, but never "made out" with one.... is all you do is move your tongue in the other persons mouth? and if thats not the way can anyone tell me how to thank you. (link)
http://www.myjellybean.com/flirt/flirt.html

hope i helped =]
Jess


what are some cool things to do with xanga so its not so boring? links would be great. thanks in advance =] (link)
layouts - www.xanga.com/beachtrend
music - www.xanga.com/xmusic_xplease
put countdowns and stuff on there.
you can find so many codes for cool stuff, just do an xanga search for "codes" under "blogrings"
thats will give you good stuffs =]

hope i helped =]
Jess


Does anyone know if there will be a second season of Cheer Nation? (link)
A long time ago I heard the next show would feature U of KY,..but I haven't heard anything lately.

hope i helped =]
Jess


Ive seen old friend slippers That I really like. The problem is most of them are way to expensive. Does anyone know of a website or store that sells old friends for 30$ or under. Im a size 8-9 (female)

http://images.amazon.com/images/P/B0007TDG14.01-AI72NJ5OCL0UP._AA280_SCLZZZZZZZ_.jpg

Those are the STYLE im looking for BUT! the colors im looking for are ANY of the following.
Pink, Tan, blue or red (link)
The cheapest i have seen are for $38 here

http://www.slipperwarehouse.com/oldfriendW.phtml

hope i helped =]
Jess




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