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hi im lauren. im 15 & ive had experience with lots of stuff.. so i can answer pretty much any kind of question =]

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OKay i come from a fairly rich family and im about to turn 16, my grandparents are buying me a car and a chose a Mercedes-Benz. So i took the brochure to school the other day to pick out which model i wanted and some of my friends are like "wats u looking at?" and i said "im picking out my car." they were like "ur getting a new Mercedes?" and i said yes and they started yelling about me being a spoiled brat and now some of them wont talk to me anymore... wat shold i do???

Cody

theyre just jealous.

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14f
i have never kissed a guy. i've had boyfriends but only in 6th&7th grade. i'm a freshman in highschool and still no kiss. i mean guys have kissed me on the cheek but i don't think that counts.

i had this party and i was playing this game with all my friends[including guys] and someone asked if we have ever kissed someone. none of the guys said yes and only one girl did. so does that mean that i'm normal? i really want a boyfriend but i never really make it a point to always talk to boys, i have friends that i never stop talking to:p

thanks in advance[sorry its kinda long]

by 14 most girls have kissed guy..
but its completely fine if you havent.
the person below me is right.. some girls dont get their first kiss until 18. so dont worry about it at all.
to get a boyfriend start talking to guys more. make it a point to talk to them. they like the attention.
xo hope i helped

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This weekend, we are having a dance at my school! (14/f, freshman!) Anyways, I just moved to my new school, and I'm pretty popular now. Except, at my old school, I had a sort of "prude" image, so I never kissed a guy before! So my high school dances are pretty naaasty from what I've heard (grinding...making out!) and I know a hot sophomore that wants to hook up with me!! So my question is, (I know how to grind and all - I'm good at it too!) but while grinding, how can I just start making out with someone? Like is there a "signal" or something like that??? Also, what do you do with your arms while grinding - they feel awkward just being in the air!
THANKS!

you can put your hands on his hands which will probably be around your waist if you are facing away from him, or you can put them on your upper legs or something. if your facing towards him you can put your hands around him. if youre facing him and he wants to hook up then he will just do it. =]
good luck

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what are some good bikinis for the summer..
i have speed bumps but i got my period recently so by the time i have to start going swimming i'll have something,
im blue eyed
blonde

any advice?

im thinking maybe black or blue or blue and white stripes.. just ideas!

look @ the victorias secret catalouge
all the bikinis are SO cute =]

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when my boyfriend and i make out. i get really wet. what is considered normal. i dont want to be a freak and get unusally wet. thats why i wont let him go any further because i think i get too wet. so what is normal

okay first of all
thats a total compliment to him
he would like it if you were really wet
because that means that he turned you on.. A LOT
and that will make him happy
so dont worry about that =]

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what is a good and creative way to ask a guy to sadies? the usually asks the guy, so i'm looking for a funny and cute way to ask. thanks! :]

my friend led this guy on a scavenger hunt around town.. it was really cute :)
like she hid little notecards in places
like she went 2 starbucks & she had the ppl there
give him a hot chocolate w/ a notecard
it was cute then she was waiting @ the end w/ a cake
or you could just like get him a teddy bear or something cute like that

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is it bad to get the hpv vaccine when your already sexually active?

no, it just wont be as effective as it would be if you got it before you were sexually active.

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my goodness, this lady is like out of control...... i don't even understand her anymore...... like i'm not even kidding, i really don't. ok, like the other day i had my glasses inside my ballet bag, bc i had dance at school and i put them in there during class. well while i'm sleeping in the morning, she barges into my room and goes "where are ur glasses missy..." and she doesn't even talk this way, like i'm not even kidding. she NEVER talks this way, its like she's crazy or something. and i'm like ooooo their in my ballet bag cuz i had dance yesturday and she just passes by my room after getting them... and goes "NO!" like i'm a dog or something. just like that, how you'd talk at your dog if he were chewing on your shoes. and then, like today she starts screaming at me because im talking to someone helping them out with some problems and she gets super pissed saying i shouldn't be helping freshman..... ok?? just because their younger than me doesn't mean i can't be friends with them or can't help them. it's not like i'm going to go off and elope with him because i was helping him with some love problems. and then his screen name is like something with a potato and she calls people by their screen names and shes like, you know what it is you're talking to a potato?? like, its super mean. wait, theres more. my boyfriend called me last night and she didn't let me call him back this morning because she says i have to make him wonder because some guy posted on his comments on myspace something about a car. and she's like, you have to be very careful. you never know what they're talking about............ she interprets everything on people's myspaces and it's not like he ASKED them to write it..?? i know i have to make him wonder, but she's like you shouldn't go out to dinner with him tonight, while we already have reservations! just because some guy posted a comment about a car! plus, today in the car its kinda cold outside and she scratched me by accident when she was giving me money and i just went ouch because it kinda hurt bc it's cold outside and my hands were kind of cold and she's like, well you sure didn't mind that burn you have on you're face from him, because i have a little burn on my face because my boyfriend didn't shave. ok, and she tells me to turn off my phone and then she comes in and she's like super nice. what's wrong with her? can someone please tell me, because i'm SO confused, and I don't know what to tell her anymore. It seems like when I'm mean to her, she doesn't listen and when i'm nice to her, shes like worst to me.... please advice is appreciated thankyou

first of all, dont show her whats on your myspace. or your boyfriends myspace. its really none of her business. dont let her read your IMs. tell your boyfriend to call your cell phone. you need to stop sharing all this information with your mother. most moms would freak out if they knew all of that. shes just trying to protect you, but shes trying a little too hard. talk to her and tell her how youre feeling.

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my bff is colorblind~what do they see like black and white like a dog or what~this whole year hes been my bff~and i keep forgetting~like sendin color tests tht say like press different color buttons in order~what do colorblind people see

i know someone thats colorblind. he doesnt see black and white.. he mixes up colors that are close. like purple and pink, green and blue, black and dark blue or green. white and grey. etc.

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where can i listen to whole songs for free i no yahoo.com and aol.music.com but what others

youtube.com

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my parents were married in late may and my sister was born in mid december. my sister was born right on time. did my parents have sex before they were married?

yess.. it takes 9 months for a baby to develop so they must have had sex in like april or something

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Hello Everyone. I apologize if it may seem a little long but can someone PLEASE help me. Okay.

My boyfriend and I have been talking for a long time and we finally made it official this week. Our feelings for each other grew and grew but I parcrastinated because I wanted to see what was going to happen. He's EVERYTHING that I want and need. He calls me his princess. Last night we shared a few hours together and they were wonderful. As he was holding me, he started to cry, saying that I have really changed him for the good( I have). He said how he thanked God for me(this boy never talked about religion). He just was broken down that I am giving him a chance. He really means a lot to me and I know that it maybe to early to tell, but I think that I love him. He's always there for me, even when I have to wake up 5 in the morning, when I need something, he'll get it. He does everything to keep me happy. I appreciate him and I'm known for being a bit of a flirt but I have truly calmed down for his sake. Can It really be love?

yes it can really be love. it sounds like you both really love eachother. but you shouldnt have to ask if its love. you should know. =]

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Hey i'm 14/m and my gf just found out that my best friend and i like to j/o together watching p0rn. She got totally mad and wants to dump me. We've always been doing this sense we were like 11 and its just for fun. I dont know I mean is it wrong or is she super sensitive? thanx

hi do i know you?
or did you just randomly ask me a question?
anways.. your girlfriend is probably mad not because you j/o with your friend but because you actually watch porn in the first place. you need to make her understand that its just for fun and that it doesnt mean anything to you. she is probably jealous that you are looking at pictures of other girls. you need to make her feel beautiful and loved.

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is eating snow okay if the snow is untouched and clean?

no its not ok.
yes it is just frozen water.. but when it goes through the air it picks up pollution and other stuff that is bad for you. it was also reported that there is a lot of mercury in the snow.. which can kill you.
(mercury is the stuff in thermometers)
so dont eat snow!!

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15/f
Lastnight I was at a movie with my boyfriend and he fingered me and stuff and I was rubbing his penis but it was just through his pants. And when it was time to leave he was like "oh shit", and I asked what was wrong and he said that he "let himself go". He cummed all over his boxers & he said he was really suprised because that much had never came out without him having a full on orgasm. Now my question is, is this a normal thing for guys to ejaculate without a real orgasm? Was he just really turned on?

thanks.

yeah he was obviously just really turned on

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If anyone read Raisin in the Sun in school... what grade were you in when you read it?

8th grade
but i was in honors english..

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I am a male, 19 years old. I dont know when i started mastuebating but now i am a mastuerbation freak. I mastuerbate everyday sometimes even 4-5 times. Is mastuerbation bad and how should i stop myself from doing so??

find a girlfriend.

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pleeeease i neeed music for my ipod im so bored of the same ...though i like that kind of things like ..all american rejects, THE ATARIS =D!!, the used , the strokes, the killers,matchbook romance!!!, the sounds ,fall out boy,yellowcard, TAKING BACK SUNDAY, SAOSIN, panic at the disco , LOST pROPHEtS!! jimmy eat world! dashboard confessional, from first to last! brand new etc...
so pleaaase i need musicaaa

umm i like most of those & i also LOVE jacks mannequin and the fray so maybe you would like those too

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do you think that giving a hj as a freshman is slutty? because some of my friends have.. not my close ones but i know that a lot have. and i have a boyfriend that i really love and like i want to but like a lot of my close friends would consider that to be slutty. like i really dont think its that big of a deal.

Its wrong

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Hey,
this is the girl who posted the "make a move already!!" question.

& here's the thing its not like we havent even kissed. We have but I dont know I'm just not into it because it is always just cute little kisses(which are nice and all)but theres no lust. As far as how far I am willing to go with him,since you asked, I'm not really sure. I mean I know I'm not looking for sex or anything like that just..to turn things up a notch,lol,you get me.
Please help, i could really use some advice

yeah i understand what you're saying now.
maybe hes just nervous.. i know that my boyfriend was. the way i kinda got him to loosen up was by teasing him a little and saying that he was prude. by doing that.. he knew that i wanted to do stuff with him and he also had like the insentive to prove me wrong. but that wouldnt work for all people. well you can do things while hes kissing you like touching him or like putting your hands up his shirt. he'll get the idea that you want to do a little more. or if he gives you just a quick kiss and then pulls away.. kiss him again. maybe hes just nervous or unsure of how far you want to go with him. i mean if you want to do more than that.. like 2nd or 3rd.. you can just like flirtingly move his hand there or something. but once you give him the idea that you want to take things to the next level then you should be fine.
and if none of that works... then just make a move. guys like agressive girls sometimes. =]
good luck xoxo

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