what are some things you can do to make making out more exiting
Let your hands wander. :] That makes it more fun..
Biting softly and sucking on the lower lip.
You could always run your hands across their chest or feel them up.
Biting or sucking on their neck.
Strangling them is pretty exciting too.
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Last year I became ill with this weird sickness, which is pretty rare, it was called coksaki or something, and it left deep scars, everywhere, but my face is what gets me the most.
I miss how it used to look,
everytime I see hole pictures of myself,
I want to just break down and cry,
because I thought I was pretty than,
I know looks aren't everything,
but it really hurts my self esteem.
And I had heart surgery when I was little so I havea huge scar on my right shoulder blade, I just have so many scars, and I feel like I'm just a big scar, and that I'm ugly and undesirable. I'm pathetic I guess, anyone ever felt similar to how I'm feeling? How do you deal?
I also know theres nothing I can do about it,
like the deep scars on my face, but I dont know how to accept it.
Ah but scars can be beautiful. it really is. i think it gives you character. you're really strong to overcome that sickness.
You aren't undesirable, anyone who can't look past your scars is stupid. I have scars all over my face too. I held my face down during my middle school years. It really hurt me but now, after so many years of beating myself over it and treatment... it's faded slightly.
Don't let it get you down. Don't look at those pictures anymore. I know it will take you time to get over it. It took me about 5 years to gain some confident. Don't be like me though, be happy and be confident. You aren't a big scar.
Have you gone to a dermatologist? See your options?
I'm sure there's some treatment out there that will lighten the appearance of your scars.
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what is toxic shock syndrome, its always warnings on tampon boxes but it never really explains what it actually is.
but it sounds scary haha.
You shouldn't keep a tampon in more than 8 hours. Sometimes a girl can forget.. and it stays up there. So it's pretty much absorbed by blood. Bacterial growth is encouraged by the presence of a tampon.
So you should always remember how long you have been wearing one and remember to take it out.
Because the girls that suffer from TSS is when they forget they already have one up there and then insert another one there.
You should always switch from tampons to pads sometimes. Just so you don't get any infections.
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i've given my boyfriend a bj and a hj and he's fingered my but he wants to eat me out and im nervous about it. i guess im worried that im going to taste weird. i dont think i should be worried about this, i've had no diseases or infections ever down there so i should be normal right? i know it's not because of him, i trust him completely and he says he wants to do it to make me feel good but i dont want him to be totally grossed out if i taste bad.
I was the same way!
But if he offers you should take it up.
Not many guys are willing! It's so sweet when he wants to give.
Just take your showers and you'll be okay. You could always wear bodyspray. Don't worry about the taste. I mean you have to give your boyfriend a bj, so he must realize that you probably aren't so keen about his taste.
my boyfriend said it tastes bitter but he still does it. if your boyfriend thinks it tastes bad and doesn't want to do it anymore. it's not really fair to you ..it's really all about being a giver and being a receiver.
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15/F
Is it true that if you take birth control pills it will make your boobs bigger? -and-
I've had discharge for about a year now still no period whats the deal? My dads side is late but I've had discharge and pubic hair for about a year. -and-
When do you get armpitt hair before or after you start your period? Because I don't have any...not that I really want any... but if its a sign I would like to know.
thanks in advance! :OD
Well the pill contains hormones which are factors in breast development. I've heard it's common to see a slight increase in size. I'm on the pill, it only makes my breasts sore. I'm still growing though..
I've had that for about 3 years before my period came. Since your dad's side is late, you'll probably be late too. Probably. Maybe you'll get it later this year or the next. If you haven't gotten it at 16 or 17, I suggest going to see a doctor to see what's up. But for now, enjoy not having cramps and bleeding every month!
Most girls get armpit hair.. during puberty. So around when there period starts.
Did you just turn 15 or what?
I got mine at like 12. Suckerz.
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do (most) girls like it when you finger them
YUP! only if you do it good. not so rough [unless they are used to it]
it's really good if they can find the clit..
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are you suppossed to like move your head while your making out with someone?
You don't have to.
I like to switch sides though.. So I move my head to avoid his nose.
Yup I agree with the intense part. If you're really getting into it and you're french kissing.. it seems okay to move your head.
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I have really thick black hair and I kind of want to change it up. What do y'all suggest? I'm willing to cut and dye/highlight.
http://i113.photobucket.com/albums/n235/beautifullybroken_07/DSC02431.jpg
Yes layers.
Get it thinned out if the thickness bothers you.
I can see you with red highlights or bright red.
Like bright red underneath and keep the top black.. Or some red underneath your bangs.
If you're looking for a natural color. Dark brown would be pretty too :]
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What, for you, is the most comfortable place to put your hands when your making out?
I like to wrap my arms around his neck. Or play with his hair behind his head. I also trace my fingernails lightly into his neck because it's sensitive. I also like to run my hands up and down across his chest. :]
My boyfriend likes to hold my chin in his hands or around my neck. He puts his hands on my hips or.. on my boobs. Haha XD
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I want to get my cartilage pierced but I'm scared it will hurt. I already have my first and second holes done, so I'm wondering.. does getting your cartilage hurt more or less or the same than a first or second hole? And do they do it with a needle or gun? Which way hurts less? I need to know a lot. :] So if you got yours done, tell me everything about it!!
I feels like your other piercings.
but less pain I suppose. I got my third lope piercing and that hurt more than cartilage.
You'll probably feel a burning/throbbing sensation right after. But it's not horrible. If you can, get a stud!
Because I had hoops and that was hard to sleep on! My head/ears were throbbing when I was trying to sleep. My hair always got stuck in it and created tangles..
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ok i was reading this magazine and in the magazine there were about 100 guys who described there perfect girl.
most said "caring, thoughtfull" but some of them described appearances. 1 guy said "preferebly long, brown hair" and the other said "curly, brunette hair" but none of them said blonde.
i have short blonde hair, and i was wondering if guys really do care about hair color or style.
thanks.
Some guys do but they are shallow and are only after a certain preference. Someone that will probably NEVER meet their standards. forget those guys.
But there's many guys that aren't like that.
Yes, they may have a preference but they won't hold it against you.
I like brown eyes but I'm dating a boy with green eyes. You get used to it and love it. Guys want personality in a girl more than looks. Looks are just the accessories.
It's only a magazine. There's a lot more guys than that too. I know many of my friends like blondes. :]
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so basically i was making out with this guy and he said that i kiss differently than any other girl, like i use a lotta tongue. now idk if thats a bad thing or what. like we didnt stop after that and he was still into it but still. i just know that when i pulled away i kinda sucked on his lower lip for a second. we just kinda werent clicking i guess..am i a bad kisser or wat?
umm ok thanks
A lot of girls kiss differently. Maybe he's not used to being kissed with a lot of tongue. Maybe he's used to pecks and a little tongue. I mean he didn't tell you to stop so it must be a good thing. You could have asked him. As long as you aren't slobbering all over him.. I don't see a problem. I think some guys like it when you suck, bite/nibble or lick their lower lips.
Everyone kisses differently though. Different can be good. :]
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ok so i was getting fingered and (ive never been fingered before by the way) it really hurt. Like it felt good because we were in the moment but it still hurt. I had to tell him to stop a few times just because i needed a break. is there something wrong with me?
k thanks.
Nope. it was your first time. you're not used to being fingered so you're tight. it hurt me the first few times. tell him not to go too deep or be too rough. tell him to take it slow too because after a few times, it wouldn't hurt and you'll be stretched out a little.
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HUGE PROBLEM. I am going to be a freshman this year, and im going to a highschool where I dont know ANYBODY. I mean, not one person. I cant even tell you how unbelievably scared I am.
Can anyone whose in highschool tell me how easy it is to make friends or something? And has this happened to anyone else? IM REALLY SCARED!
THANKS YOU :/
Don't be scared. You'll make friends soon. There's people in the same situation and there's a lot of NICE upperclassmen that will be your friend and help you out. I had a whole group of sophomores and juniors come up to me. I'm not outgoing at all either. Really shy but we exchanged AIM, myspace, etc. They also said where they hung out so I could meet them.
You could always join clubs and that will bring you closer to people with similar interests.
I went to a different high school from all of my friends.. as well as middle school.. but I managed to make new friends. And well, I'm practically a mute! It may not be easy but you need to talk to people. Maybe when you're getting your schedule or picture taken.. bring up a conversation if you can.. You could always ask someone to show you around.
If you're outgoing in class.. someone's going to notice you and want to be your friend.. hang out. especially when you're partnered up.. you could build a friendship there.
Most of the people are really nice. People always tell you that the upperclassmen are going to hurt you or play jokes on you. But it's the complete opposite. You'll probably have more friends in different grades.
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I'm 14/F and chinese. I don't have the straight black hair. After showers, I love my hair. It's curly and very pretty. When it dries up...its like a sponge...it's all dried up and huge! Normally I just put it in a ponytail...that's all I can do! I have bangs which are to my chin...Not a lot of bangs but med. amounts of hair...if you understand. When I straighten my hair...it's still kind of big but not as big so I tend to put it in a half pony tail.
My question is...what can I do to my hair?
yes get your hair thinned out. it wouldn't be so bulky.
when you get out of the shower, you should put some gel or cream.. to hold your curls.. so it doesn't dry up all huge. :o
Get your hair thinned out and layers
it would be a lot easier to deal with.
You could always put it in a braid.
There's not much you can do when it's really thick.
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when it's thinned out..
they take a razor comb and comb through pieces to
take some weight off your hair.
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Hey, I'm 14/F and I'm Asian. I want to look good when school starts so I want to begin with a new style kind of. Something refreshed!
I do put on make-up but not a lot. I have small slitty eyes an on the eye lid (it's very small), I put some dark colored eye shadow and my friends love it. It's simple. However, I want something a little different. Something that will make me look a litlte older. Also, get me ready for the homecoming.
I once in a while put mascara but it never turns out good. I have small lashes and no one can hardly see it! I'm too naive to put on eye liner. What do I really do? Also, what kind of color blush should I put on or should I not use it? Lipstick color? Thanks for all the help!
I found some videos that may be helpful:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=QX_NAsrgYqQ
http://youtube.com/watch?v=8JhZcDqJYmg
http://youtube.com/watch?v=xZqzzRH7eJE
Makeup tutorial to give you some ideas
http://www.xanga.com/RiceBunny/592799684/makeup-tutorial-2--basic-smoky-eyes.html
Use black or brown eye pencils :]
I think eyeshadows you stick to should be these colors
(http://www.make-upusa.com/makeup/eyeshadow.htm)
"Mystic" "Eclipse" "Grapevine"
purples & charcoal for smoky eyes.
just experiment with other colors.. you might like it.
small lashes? you need to look for a certain kind of mascara then. it should say for volume or lengthening.
Like this
http://content.ulta.com/images/products/large/2100190.jpg
brand is Maybelline
and you'll need an eyelash curler
it does good to the lashes
http://shinymedia.blogs.com/photos/uncategorized/curling_1.jpg
just don't go overboard with the makeup. less is a lot better. so maybe you don't really need blush unless you're a bit pale, you know? if you wear foundation.
i don't think you need lipstick. maybe just lipgloss. :]
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What Is The Name Of The Song In The Episode Of Degrassi Called The Bitterest Pill
Say What You Will by Damhnait Doyle
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when i get horny on my period, what am i supposed to do? like, i cant get any from my boyfriend and i dont want to stick my fingers up there. what can i do? i can't buy a dildo.
You could always masturbate in the shower. You'll get clean in there and it would be less of a mess.
if not, you could always try rubbing your clit to get you off instead of sticking your fingers up there.
There's other things you could use.. like the end of a hairbrush. I know it sounds weird, but I've heard other girls using it and cleaning it afterwards.
I'm sure if you do it once and get it out of your system, you won't be horny for a while.
You could always try dry humping your boyfriend. Most girls get orgasms from that. :]
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why do guys like bj's so much. what's wrong with a simple hj, its the same thing minus the spit. or does it feel different, i dont know i dont have a dick. someone please tell me why bj's are so much better
Well your mouth is hot and wet. It's almost like being in a vagina. almost except not. It feels a lot better because you can go up and down [wrapping your lips] around it just as though you would with your hands.. AND use your tongue at the same time. It feels really good apparently. It's a different feeling I'm sure.
Handjobs are good too.. you could always play that in a blowjob.
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Hey. First of all, congrats on being featured columnist! Ok my question is this: I have light brown hair, I have some golden blonde in it but not much. My mom won't let me go to a salon and get highlights so I was wondering what types of things could do sort of the same thing. Yesterday I tried lemon juice and that didn't have the desired result. I've heard sun in is good but if you have any ideas that would be awesome. Congrats again ♥
Thanks! :D
How long were you under the sun when you had the lemon juice on it? It has to be several hours and you may not get results you want quickly. It won't be drastic though. You might have to try 2 more times.
You could also try putting enough lemon juice on you hair..Cover it with foil and blow dry it on high for a few minutes.
There's also olive oil. Just comb some in your hair and go out.
Yes Sun in is good to use. The more you spray, the lighter your hair will be. I used it on my hair and somehow I got red highlights. hah!
You could always read this-
http://www.ehow.com/tips_2341.html
And read about how people lighten their hair. They have their own recipes mixing lemon juice and olive oil.. and keeping hair moisturized.
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