...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
Gender: Female
Location: CA
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Okay like who did it???Why did you take my chocolate???? (link)
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Sorry, sorry I couldnt resist!! It looked so good!.....What are you talking about?
-shay :-)
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i've been friends with this boy for a couple of years, just friends, but now, after spending most of the summer and after school with him i now have a crush... he has a split personality... one minute, he's the nicest, funniest, all around good person you'd ever meet, but sometimes he hangs around druggies... this scares me... (link)
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Yes this is a bad thing. You dont want to be around people like this. A simple hello is okay, but nothing further then that. If you hang around him before you know it your a druggie too.
-shay :-)
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I ask alot of questions. . lately* lol
Well I was wondering, how can i tell fi my crush likes me? He acts dumb sometimes around me, and It was my frist day of school, But i started when everyone else did, and he was the first person to talk to me, he said how come u dont talk, I was like in my head, omg i dont know wut to say. . I dont know anyone!! And I just sat their staring at him, he was so adorable! And omg. . I dont know One time at recess it was wicked freezing and he wa slike i cant feel my toes. . it was soo cute, then my frined *a guy friend which is my crish's frined too* Stepped on my crush's toes! And he said oooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. . it was so funny/cute!
Then my friend said, how could u feel that if us ai du couldnt fel ur toes?!
I was so mad at her. . lol she was evil to my man!
Also when he walks by me he acts dumb/funny
And I think he thinks I like him* which I do*
Then their is the kdi i aksed about I kidna like him, but I duno hes a fun perosna nd all, but I duno. . I think of him as a friend! U know But my crush I wnat to marry this person!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But Im not sure. . I mean if he lieks me. .do u think he does, please help! he doesnt talk to me that much. . but i duno. . i think its cuz he switche doutta my class. and well he cnat rlly talk to me cept 4 recess, , which he is always with his frineds! (link)
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Oh my gosh questions these days sheesh! What kind of question was that?? Well it seems like he likes you and I think i already answered a question like this yesturday. Oh well!
-shay :-)
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Why am I black? (link)
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You are who you are for a reason. Just remember god doesnt make garbage.
-shay :-)
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Who Likes GoodCharlotte. .
Who Likes Simple Plan
Who Likes Bowling For Soup!
I LIKE THEM ALLLLL! (link)
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AHHHHH!!! I love simple plan and good charlote!!!!Simple plan is in my room on a poster. Not quite sure about bowling for soup neverheard of them.
-shay :-)
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He was talking in front of me to his cousin, saying that he likes someone, and then he said, well someone I think who likes me. . .and this kid with a big mouth said, wut *my name* < mee
And he was like noo *the kdis name* (link)
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Well then he likes you. Was that a question?
-shay :-)
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She is 91 pounds. . So do you thinks that about average?!! (link)
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Of course I think she is about average. I knew many girls that were just about that weight.
-shay :-)
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How can i stop myself from being self-consious? (link)
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Start believing in yourself. It doesnt matter what other people say about you. If you like something that nobody else likes thats totally okay!K!
-shay :-)
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Ask me about myself, but since Im nice I will tell you anyways!!!!
I am a girl obviously. .
I have blonde hair, Hazel eyes
I am sweet and I care alot. .
I luv alot of bands, but ask me more and I will tell ya! (link)
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lol!Im sorry I dont think should ask a question on my column.
-shay :-)
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Okay i like this girl a whole lot but i am to afraid to talk to her becuase i got helled back this year so now she's in eighth grade and i'm in seventh so should i still talk to her (link)
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Getting held back is absolutley no problem! Talk to her anyways and if she likes you she wont care wwht grade your in!
-shay :-)
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hey, listen, i have a bad problem with dating guys. i mean evrytime i go out with a guy i end up finding out his using me after i really fall for them too. how can i prevent myself from looking so easy in front of guys? (link)
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Be rough on them. Dont be so open and always talk.KKKK
-shay :-)
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well hoe old r u see i know that i should wait but i have erges like i need to or ill just explode and i cant take it (link)
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I think maybe you should see someone about your erges then.
-shay :-)
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This doesn't really go with this topic, but I want to be more punkish style, you knwo But I dont wnat a mayjor make over, like go littl eby little, wut should I start to wear, to get everyone to know Im startin 4 a new look and it will be punkish!???!!?!?!?! (link)
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Try wearing some of those cool black belts with spikes! Belts are always a big part of things these days. Maybe get some black dickie pants or if you dont want that try a weird and out there shirt that nobody has. Hope it helped!
-shay :-)
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Well i don't know but i would like to know if being a little fat has to do with any thing i just can't seem to get a girl to like me i'm nice i am a beliver of the Lord what should i do? (link)
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Sometimes girls are just like that. They are real shallow sometimes. Just be the nicest and most clean hearted guy you can be and hope for the best!
-shay :-)
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There is someone, a kid a guy. . well im not sur eif he likes me or not. . See we sit next to each othe rin math class. . and well he talks ot me alot laughs wiht me and well he trys to ge tmy attention laot, and he plays aroudn like hits me and stuff, liek not hard but playfully. . and its like I duno if he just my firnd or if he lieks me more than that!?>!?! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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It sounds to me like someone has a crush on you! Here are some tips to let you know if he really does!
1.He hits you alot(playing around)
2.Stares at you alot
3.He calls you to talk about nothing
4.he laughs at your dome jokes.
-shay :-)
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My friend is such a freaktart! Lol she is only 11 and doesnt know wut the average weight 4 a 4'11 11 yr odl girl is. . do not make this confusing, ,
What is the average weight for someone who is 4 feet 11 inches, and is only 11 yrs old?!
She is like 90-91 pounds (link)
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Hmm when I was eleven I was about that tall and I weighed about 83lbs. But it seems your friends weight is normal. No worrys!
-shay :-)
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I'm doing an extreme makeover on myself this holiday break and I need to change my whole style,especially my clothes. I'm in highschool and I've been going there dressed up as though this was elementary school. I'm still suprised no one has ridiculed me for wearing overalls the other day. I'm 6 feet tall and I am not model thin. What styly could help? (link)
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Dear makover,
Try going through your closet and depending on your mood where a spasific color. Mix n match your outfits. My sister does it ALL the time!
-shay :-)
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How can I get the entire United States to convert over to the metric system? We're like the only country that uses idiotic "standard" units of measurement that make no sense, it costs our companies money and it's annoying to learn about two systems in school. I need to launch a huge enourmous campaign to take over the country! (link)
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I dont think you can just change it. There is many people in this world who have all ready learned. Some of which are elderley and cant learn things like you and I can.
-shay :-)
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I am a quiter how can i prevent it. (link)
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What is your situation? Well all I can tell you is that when you choose to do something like an instroment make sure at the begining that that is wht you really want to do.
-shay :-)
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How can make myself to seem mysterious in front of guys and not so easy. (link)
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Ah you want to play hard to get. Be rough on them. If they ask you out you say "I'll think about it". Dont always talk to them. And when they say something say good or cool with a slite smile and walk away.
-shay :-)
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