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I'm going to go tanning in my backyard tomorrow and im fair skinned. Does anyone have any tips for me to get a good tan? How long do i have to stay out there? If i ware sunblock will i still get a tan? I will rate!

If you use a low SPF sunblock, you WiLL still get some color. It may take longer, but you can still get a bit of a tan. I'd use sunblock the first few times you lay out, and then if you don't burn or anything // start to tan, you can just use nothing. If you don't get burnt doing this, you could probably use a tanning lotion, but don't lay out for as long, because if you lay out too long, chances are, you WILL burn. Be careful + good luck! :o)

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how come sum ppl freckle n sum ppl tan? and if u freckle how can u stop/get rid of ur freckles?

You can't really stop // get rid of your freckles, but usually if you keep tanning, they become less visible.

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hi. im going into 9th grade and in 4'9 and i weigh 74 pounds. Im so tiny short and skinny and bcuz of that i look like a 3rd grader! i always got things like what grade r u in? and "i think ur lost little girl" like i just graduated 8th grade and on the 1st day of skool i was going to home room and this new girl saw me and shes like 6th grade is downstairs this is 8th grade. i hate it! now im going into high skool! im so worried n upset! in going to b with 18 year olds! Im gonna feel so out of place. help

LAUREN

Don't worry about it, we've had really tiny kids in our school, and they don't really get picked on or anything. If you want to, maybe you could talk to a docter and see if there's a reason you're still so small. Good luck!

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hi. i have really long legs and im very thin... great rite.. well whenever i go anywhere and im wearing a skirt or short i get really dirty looks and stares from other girls! i cant stand it. i feel awful and so uncomfortable. Is there something wrong with long legs? do i look like a giant or something? they make me feel out of place :(
what should i do?
thanks

Ignore them, they're just jealous.

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How long do u usually have to wear ur retainers for after u get ur braces off? thank u

I think everyone's different. I never got like, an actual retainer, they just cemented this 'permanant' thing to the back of my teeth, and that was that. The top one broke a couple of years ago, though, and they said it was no big deal + just took the whole thing off. I think it just depends on *your* teeth.

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hi. im really skinny but recently i had a "growthspurt" and went up a bra size, so i have boobs a little bigger than girls with my frame and even girls who arent as thin.. now everyone thinks i stuff my bra.. its so annoying. i should just ignore it rite? thanx

Just tell them you don't and then ignore them if they keep saying stuff.

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is it a good think when a guy calls u a barbie?

I guess it depends on how it's said. It could be a good thing // joking around thing, or it could be meant in a number of not-so-nice ways.

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COME ON PEOPLE... ASK SOME QUESTIONS!!! I LOVE ANSWERING EM!!

Uhh .. sorry, haha, I don't have any.

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Im always being touched my guys! im like y do u guys touch me so much and there like ur so hott we cant resist and so i let them but it gets annyoing. my friends tell me that im lucky that i get the attention. what do u think?

Stop letting them. If you let them know that it really bothers you and if they don't stop, you're not going to hang around with them anymore if they don't lay off a bit, and they should [[ hopefully ]] get the point.

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alot of guys want me! i get asked out a few time a week like 3-5 and i dont like alot of them and sometimes i just want to b single and i dont want to hurt their feeling. IM NOT EASY either! i dont get y they wont leave me alone. im pretty (im not conceited) but the wont leave me alone. im so suspicious about it bcuz i think some guy or gurl started a rumor about me. what should i do?

Just tell them you don't want a relationship right now, and hopefully they'll start to leave you alone eventually. Ask your friends if they've heard anything about you lately.

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My aunt is a casting diector in hollywood and she got me in a commercial and a walk on role in a tv show. Everyone from skool saw me on tv and wanted to no how i got on tv when i dont even live in cali so i told them that my aunt got me on tv and word travels fast and now all these ppl are begging me to get my aunt to get them on tv. its so annoying. i dont even no half the ppl asking me! help

Just tell them to leave you alone, because you can't do anything to get them on TV. What commercial are you in?

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how do u make urself throw up. i no that i lean over and stick ur fingers down ur throat and cough.. is that rite..what else do u do
-just wondering

I'm sorry, but I refuse to give someone advice on how to make themselves sick. It's NEVER a good idea, even if you just want to try it out once or something .. trust me on this one.

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im 5'5 and weigh 94 pounds. everyone thinks im anerexic, i dont fit in anything, i dont look healthy, should i gain weight?

It probably wouldn't be a bad idea to gain some weight. If you want, talk to a doctor + they'll be able to help you out :o)

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If youre a 14 year old girl and somebody tells you your voice is "mature" is that a compliment or not?

Yeah, I'm sure they meant it as a compliment.

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How do you make your breath fresher... I mean I brush my teeth every day but my breath still doesnt smell that nice. Pwease help!



{""::I RATE::""}

Yeah, make sure to brush // scrape // whatever your tongue, and floss .. get one of those little flosser things, and it takes like, 1O seconds. Aaand, use mouthwash, it helps to clean your mouth *AND* freshen your breath :o)

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im stressed out all cuz schools coming ^ soon wut can i do to make me less stressed out?!?! i still have tons uf stuff i wunna do before i go to school. lol. like clean my room buy some stuff i need for school and all this other stuff and i dk. im so stressed i cant even remember the rest!! help!!


{{stressed out!!}}

Just have fun and enjoy the rest of your summer! Make a list of everything you need to do, and make a point to do one or two of them every day, and by the time school comes, you should be all caught up :o)

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I usually give advice-but i have never been to highschool-so i need advice about this
I'm going to Highschool this year(as a freshmen). Does anyone have tips on what to do and what not to do or what to expect! I would really appreciate it! Thanx
Twizzler

It's really not much different than middle school, except it's a bit of a bigger school and you're the youngest again. But I didn't get picked on once for being a freshman, so don't worry about that. Don't be incredibly obnoxious or slutty or anything, and you should be fine :o)

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hi, im really athletic and play a ton of sports. but i think i have way too many! im on the varsity dance team, i play basketball, im on a division one travel soccer team and i play volleyball. I know its not that many but travel and varsity take up SO0o0o0o0o0o0 much time! i need to give up something bcuz im way to bizy and i just dont have time. what should i give up?

If it were me, I probably wouldn't be able to quit anything, but since you want to, I'd put a LOT of thought into it and maybe make a list of what you like + don't like about everything. Could you play soccer for school instead? Because if dance, basketball and volleyball are all for school, [[ at least at my school ]], soccer is at a completely different time and you could do that instead, because then you could keep playing everything, it'd just be a bit different. I don't know, though, good luck deciding!

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i have a huge problem. everytime i ask a question no one awnsers.. ahhh or they do..but the awsner dont help me at all..

I'm sorry about that =/

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What does lol mean?

laugh out loud

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