...Im shay, I love giving advice. I've learned a lot of lessons from myself and my four other siblings. If I havent been through it, my friends have, or my family has, I can pretty much solve peoples problems. I do it all the time, thats why I love giving advice. I'm a sucker for music, ask me questions about it, Im sure I can help you. I play guitar, I play tennis, I'm pretty atheletic.
Gender: Female
Location: CA
Occupation: student
AIM: BreathingxDeeply
Yahoo: SuNkiStDeLonGe
Member Since: December 1, 2003
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how do i get people to ask me questions? (link)
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Come here to answer random questions and answer them REALLY good! And describe yourself on your settings like your hobbies n stuff. Glad to be a help!
-shay :-)
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I created a website on Bravenet (bravehost) and I've almost finished. I used frames for it, and when i veiw it in visual editor, it works, but when I look at it regularly, it doesn't. I have my lj as the center frame thing, and the side is an image map, etc. What am doing wrong? I went to FAQ and copied it exactly as bravenet said to do frames. ARGH! (link)
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I hate it when stuff like that happens!:-P It sucks. Well have you considered trying to getting a hold of the people that own the company? Or maybe somethings just wrong with that part of the web. Frames arent ALWAYS needed though right?
-shay :-)
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Hi Jenna!!! (link)
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lol! What? My name is not Jenna! Its shay! Well Hi to you too.
-shay :-)
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Well, a guy named *John just asked me out a few days ago. I have liked him for a long time. We went out the other day and are planning on going out again. Now, I have no clue what to get John for Christmas or his birthday. He plays soccer although he's majourly obsssed with lacrosse. He also likes hockey. His 13th birthday is Christmas Eve. So, if you have any ideas, please tell me. I want to get him something that shows i put thought into it but isn't too serious. i was thinking of getting him a signed lacrosse ball but I don't know any famous lacrosse playeres. Does anyone know what would be a good present idea? (link)
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How about some choclates! Mmmm now that sounds good!!!! Well you could buy him a card or a soccer ball. Or you can always just ASK him what he wants! Thats never a problem.
-shay :-)
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does anyone no where to find a free chat log for aol, not aim, aol? cuz i love looking at old chats from a really long time ago but its a pain to always save them to word. (link)
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Not sure if AOL messenger is free. When I had it we had to pay. Uhhh!! :-P I know its hard! Try the phone unless your willing to spread the cash!
-shay :-)
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One of my best friends is a hacker-gamer who, I suppose, can get anything he wants. He's a loner and a cranky brilliant sort of guy. Thing is, I dont know what to give him for Yuletide giving--it's illegal for me to buy a gun, even though that would please him, and I can't afford a motorcycle. I want to give him something good. Anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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You dont HAVE to give him a gift if you dont want to unless he gives you one. Try asking him what he wants. For a joke maybe you could get him a little squirt gun. Or just give him a nice holiday card with your name and something nice to say.
-shay :-)
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Okay, I have a question now. Here it is:
How can I feel the fire?
(*thinking* If only Gackt were an advicenator!)
(*Sings* I need to feel the fire, fire, fire! To keep me warm, I got to feel the fire!!!)
URQUAT!!!!!! TOG!!!!! Okay, I'm done now. (^_^;) (link)
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feel the fire? There are many terms for that expresion. What are you asking? Or is this just a weird question. Okay to feel the fire light one in your fireplace and stay close. Beware of eyes makes watery. Hope that helped i guess.
-shay :-)
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..ok...soo....its been a few months since my boyfriend and I broke up, and I was upset, but now I'm ok with it. And he has a new girlfriend, but yet...my friends say he always watches me when I walk past, but he tries to hide it (he doesn't do a very good job). And when you ask him if he would ever go back out with me, He's like No I'm happy with (we'll call her Bob) Bob. So then what's with the watching me crap? Could somebody explain it to me? Ahhh. Thanks. (link)
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Sounds to me like he still likes you. He trys to cover it up because hes got a girlfriend and he doesnt want to lose her. Hes still attracted to you in a way and he cant help it. Guys are always lieing like that.
-shay :-)
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i went out wit this boy 2 years ago and we broke up and everything. well his friend keeps telling me that he likes me and wanted to go back out wit me. well he acts like it i guess but i really dont know. it seems like he gets kinda scared to talk to me because he would only say "small talk" to me. but starting today i started liking him again and i dont know what to do. help me!!!! (link)
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The same thing is happening with me. Turns out he likes someone else though! I was bummed. What I can tell you is DONT give your hopes up! It may be just a nasty rumor going around.
-shay :-)
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Who's better?
Britney or Christina (link)
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I think they both rok! But christina is much better with her latest CD.
-shay :-)
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hey ashley um i'm in love with a girl we talk and stuff like that but I don't know if she likes me back can u tell me wat to do ?
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Now lets see here. Girls have some weird things they do when they like a boy so I think I can help you out here.
1. She always stares at you until you stare at her
2. You asks you who you like
3. Then critisizes that girl
4. Talks to you whenever she can
5. She says I wont tell you who I like with a big smile
Hope that helps!
-shay :-)
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That thread about the girl wanting someone to have sex with her. That was the FIRST time I've seen you use :-( instead of :-).
Crazy! It's like my whole world is upside-down now.
Joshua (link)
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Yes well Ive had a bad day and to add that I was not about to use a smile. But now I sha
-shay :-) But now I shall!
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Why is the grass outside my window green? (link)
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Have you not learned that in science! Sheesh! All colors are what they are because when the light reflects off of it, the sun shines every color of the rainbow exept the one on that object. For example the grass is green because the sun reflects every color exept green. And it has to do with chlorophyll in the plants.
-shay :-)
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This guy likes me..a lot! He is nice funny and all, but i cant picture myself with him..And yet when he went out with another girl..i got a weird feeling like i was jealous. And i could have gotten a boyfriend, but i was afraid he wouldnt like me anymore. I feel like i dont like him, but now im confused..What should i do??? (link)
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If you cannot picture youself with him it was probably never meant to be. I have just liked guys as friends, but when they get a girlfriend it feels like jealosy too. Its just because you're so used to them hanging around you and flirting with you. If you like him like that its just a strong flirty friendship.KKKK
-shay :-)
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yes im 13 and it means that life gives u hard times but people come along mostly your friends and they help u through it no matter how hard of a time and friendship can withsatnd anything (link)
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Ahh thank you. After I sent my response I read a few more times and sort of got the message. I grew to respect it more. You are great with poems!
-shay :-)
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(btw, it wasn't me who asked the question... I was just reviewing the questions in my column and noticed your answer right at the beginning of the fainting question -- but I'm sure the fainting person thanks you too) (link)
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Hmm. Who is this? Is this the person who thanked me? Well if so your welcome. And thanx for the compliment.
-shay :-)
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okay so me and my boyfriend just met a month ago and we're already having sex. I really enjoy it but i think it s too soon! what should I do?
Love,
Horny Baby (link)
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Okay, okay slow down! You should not be doing that so soon! Even a year is to soon. You should have remained a virgin. Since you cannot change the past change your future and explain to him that you are not ready to have that type of relationship. Plus your playing easy to get and soon he will not like you.
-shay :-)
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Ok well i used to be the girl who wrote the best peoms ever.Then bout a year ago my other friend started writeing her peotry and totally just critisizing mine and then my other friend started writing it oo and then my friend said whoa is she tryin to take m y place and then said well i took urs i mean my poetry is better well she didnt say that but implied it ever since then i have felt so empty b-cz peotry is the only thing i had why is she doing this what can i do to help and y do i feel like this? (link)
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Poetry is not the only thing you have. You are given many gifts you probably just have a lot of hidden talents. Well your friend is doing this because she admires your work, but the way she asked if the other girl was taking "her" place was VERY rude. She should have reminded her that she took your place. Just dont keep your focuse on her. Keep it on your work and you'll be fign.
-shay :-)
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y cant penguins fly cause they have wings and stuff (link)
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Okay penguins cannot fly because they do not have the many abilitys that birds have. (As I explaned in my last answer). They are too heavy. Mostley the only thing birds and penguins are alike about is their wings. Penguins do not have feathers to catch air eather so they cant fly.
-shay :-)
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why do birds fly (link)
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Because their wings give themselves the ability to glide and soar through the air. Their wings push air down lifting them up. They are extremley light too. Their bones are hollow, light, and strong. They have light feathers that catch the wind. So did I answer your question? Hopefully!
-shay :-)
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