I am totally honest i tell it like it is and if you dont like it im sorry but im not going to sugar coat answers to make you feel better i want to tell people the truth and tell them what i think is right so if you find that what i say is mean or not helpful just give me a low rating and move on but please dont be rude after all i did answer you question even if its not what you wanna hear just take the time to appreciate. Feel free to message me thank you :) (L)
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okay so i got off my period two weeks ago, im on birthcontrol, and i had sex the last day i had my period, and i just got it back.. and im not suppossed to till next weekend.. its really light and wierd. I dont know someone told me i may be preganut is this true ? (link)
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You should probably do a pregnancy test to make sure but it seems like it but just to make sure do a pregnancy test and then go to the doctor to make sure if you are or not because even if i tell you that you might be you might not be so just to make sure do a pregnancy test to confirm so you dont end up freaking out for no reason.
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i have a friend she's my best friend but she likes this guy who is also my friend the problem is that she doesn't like the fact that he only talks to her when im there i don't think its true but everyone tells me the same thing i got her to start texting him but it turned out worser was telling her what to tell him then out of nowhere he started texting me to at the same time i told her and she got mad she wants me to do things for her like make sure hes okay when he doesn't go to school but i don't like to because then she gets mad i just don't know what to do or say to her or to him so she wont get mad (link)
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No offence but i dont think you have a good friend i think you should tell her to do the sneaking up on this guy herself since she likes him and tell her to keep you out of it because your not interested because if you keep listening to her and do what she asks you to then eventually for any reason she might start thinking you like this guy and she could get mad or she could find any reason to get mad doesnt matter really but just stay away from this situation because getting involved with a friends crush will only ruin your friendship so i say avoid doing things for her and tell her your not going to do anything that involved this guy.
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okay this guy likes me back he told me but he also told me he doesnt really want to date right now and he said he was sorry...
whats that supose to mean?
will we ever go out or what?
should i still hang out with him and like him?
or am i waisting ym time with him. i really like him... (link)
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Well when guys say they dont want to date RIGHT now it usually means they dont wanna go out at this certain point because of a reason maybe he just got out of a relationship or he just wants to get to know you better or hes just not ready i say you just hang out with him for a month or two and if he doesnt ask you by then and starts acting all wierd which usually means he doesnt want to go out with you at all then just move on or to get a straightforward answer just ask him why he doesnt want to go out right now and if he will want to that way atleast you'll know your not wasting your time with him and can move on if hes not interested. good luck :)
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14yrs.
I have this boy that I'm trying to get over. I'm kinda real younger than him( 4 years) I'm in 9th and he's in 12th. I know him, he doesn't really know me. We both play basketball and we both play on varsity.I'm kinda good for my age. Well you know for the first have of the year of kinda been folling him. Ever since them I've forgot all about my school work and my parents on my tail. So my question is how to stop thinking about him. Ever time I pass him its like my knees literaly give out on me. Please help me out what ever it is ill take it (link)
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Well the only way i can think of getting him out of your head is just convince yourself that hes too old for you and its not possible to be together once you convince yourself it wont be hard because the feeling you had will eventually go away because you'll know nothing is possible or if that doesnt work find someone else to crush on someone maybe your age or the last thing i can suggest is keep yourself busy so you dont think about him and dont go where he would go so if hes standing around a certain just dont go there find a different way if possible.Good luck :)
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Im 16/f/sophomore, and i go to a public school. I've dated a few guys. One i dated for almost 2 years and that ended in heart break, and 2 guys that didnt really act like we were going out.
im in 4-H, and there, i met a guy who is home schooled. He is 2 years older than me (a senior), never had a girlfriend, and i dont get to see him much except for 4-H. We do talk on facebook though.
I really like him, and i am really nervous. i dont know if i should ask him out, or wait to see if he asks me out, and if i ask him out, what if i get rejected?
Also, just a random thing in this, he is a foot and a half taller than me. hahah
Please help me! i really dont know what to! dont just tell me to get courage and ask him, please give me some hints of how to get the courage, and some ideas of what to say.
Thank you so much! Sorry this was kind of a long question. (link)
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I think you should ask him out to just a movie or something and dw about the whole asking thing just ask him on fb or something to make it easier and just say "I was wondering if you wanted to hang out maybe go watch a movie or something" make it seem casual nothing big just because he might not be ready yet but ya dw dont freak out about asking him just do it and dont think about it to much or else you mite not want to do it anyways good luck :)
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im 16.f, and my sisters 18.f. She is now dating a guy who is 26, just got out of jail for drug possession and he was previously accused of murder, but there was "reasonable doubt" so they didnt convict him, and was kicked out of his house. He is a drug dealer without a real job..yet my mother lets him sleepover, EVEN THOUGH ive talked to her about it many times, nad told her he scares me and i cant sleep when hes here. I also hear them having sex at night and thats just disgusting. I really need help because i dont feel safe at night with him here. Please, i need some help. My dad doesnt live with us anymore, and ive tried talking to my sister and my mom but they dont listen to me. (link)
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Wow thats a lot to live with well i think if you feel this uncomfortable to live there while hes there maybe you should find somewhere else to stay like maybe with your dad or a grandparent or other relatives just for the days hes at your house. Also maybe you should talk to your school counsellor and have him/her talk to your mom or sister about the whole situation.
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hi!! i need some advice on my family. i am very big on nutrition and am currently trying to lose weight after leaving a particular medication.. i live with my mom and grandparents. they, however, don't have the same idea on nutrition as i do. they think that if you don't eat a steak, you are not nutritioned at all. i am a vegan. i really have been trying to cut a lot of dairy out of my diet because i have had a lot of indigestion problems... and it just has not been good. i eat a lot of tofu and very healthy things. but, i am really going to try to take some of this weight off. the thing is, that they are very unhealthy here in this house. there is always chocolate cake and different things here and it's not exactly fun. imagine being on a diet or trying to be healthier and there is always some desserts and things lying around. i know that it's impossible not to have something, but this is all the time! i'm trying to give up diet coke because i have had a really bad addiction to caffeine.... and they buy a fresh bottle every week. They also make coffee by the loads every morning. they keep ice cream in the freezer all the time! i have really been wanting to move out for a while, not because of anything or even because of this situation, just because i'm older now. but, i decided to stay here for college my freshman year because i had just found out i was adopted and it wasn't a good time to leave. but, times are tough, you know! i don't want to leave my school or go away, because right now, i have my life here already. my grandparents are older, and i just want to be with them. i have pets, and i can't just leave them here. i have two jobs here, and all my friends are here... so it's just that right now, i've established my life here. but, i do need my own space. for now, though, while that is in the works... any tips on keeping me motivated with all the junk food lying around? or a way to explain to my cuban family that there are other meals other than steak with rice and beans?? thankss (link)
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What you could do is have them put all there junk food in one section of the kitchen and you can put your food in one section and have them put everything away instead of leaving it out on the counter for you to see and for the refrigerator get a mini fridge for yourself and seperate your referigerator food as well.I think this is reasonable because if your family doesnt want to stop with the junk food you cant make them i mean you could try to convince them but i doubt they will listen but by seperating your food you wont be so tempted to eat there food but just so you know treating youself once in awhile while losing weight wont hurt so its k if you do. Good luck :)
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Hi there.
My friend and I are planning on having a picnic in an elevator.
I was wondering what I should bring to the picnic?
Like what foods are cool to have at a picnic?
Please help it's really soon.
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Well you could bring like sandwhiches or chips or cookies or salads basically little snack type things that arent too hard to make.
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My current weave is getting in bad condition.
-For those of you who do not know what a weave is, it's hair extensions that are sewn in on a track (a track is are horizontal cornrows-
My current ones are medium brown, Silhouette brand, and 18 inches long.
I want 20-23 inches, brown hair, good/awesome brand, and ones that are a weave (sew in).
I am looking for a website, ebay doesn't help & I am getting impatient on my search.
Thanks (link)
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Check out salleys beauty supply heres the link
http://www.sallybeauty.com/
you can buy some to get sewn in and then get them actually sewn it by the salon ppl and these are really good quality extentions all of them on this site are good luck :)
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I recently noticed a little red dot on the white part of my eye. It's only in one eye and it doesn't move, so it's not like a particle that got in there. It doesn't hurt at all, but it is noticeable. It actually does look like a red dot of blood. My mom told me she's pretty sure it's a broken blood vessel that can happen when you accidently scratch your eye or something scratches it or gets in there. Has anyone had this before? Will it go away soon and should I be worried? (link)
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You should probably go to the doctor i did have it before and mine was a broken blood vessel and the doctor gave me these drops and i used them for a week before the dot went away so ya i definitly suggest going to the doctor or it culd get worse
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how do i use this type of bobby pin?
http://www.forever21.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=FOREVER21&category%5Fname=acc%5Fhat%5Fhairgoods&product%5Fid=1070536049&Page=all (link)
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You would put it on as a normal pin and the flower part would be on top
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So heres the deal, my boyfriend asked me to prom, and I need a killer hairstyle that I can do myself, I dont trust hairstylist, dont ask why, im just random like that...
any advice?
Thanks :)
Sondra/f/15/Canada (link)
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http://www.hairstyleslibrary.com/images/prom-hairstyles-homecoming.jpg
http://www2.beautyriot.com/stuff/images/articles/approve/2882_3446_Hilton-Paris-05-4x.jpg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ttZOUyDFyO8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39tpnOUcHcE
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9sMY6d7BukA
Theres a lot more on youtube so ya just type in prom hairstyles on there and it shows you how to do it and everything hope i helped good luck :)
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Im 15f. ok there is this guy i have been texting. He likes me and told me he loved me, but i dont trust that easily. he is shy and barely ever talks to me in school, but he will txt me. everyone in school knows he likes me anyways but i think its becuase he is just shy. he told me he bought me a necklace for christmas. i dont know him real well so idk wat to get him. i dont think i want to get him candy so i jus have no idea. can someone please help me with ideas? please give as many as you can! (link)
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You can get him
Calogne
Sweater
Shirt
Watch
Cd's
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How do you write a physics lab. (link)
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This explains it all
http://chemistry.about.com/od/chemistrylabexperiments/a/labreports.htm
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heey ,
so i was wondering if there was a way you could somehome make your own gel nails at home ?
thanks
kaaitlyn (link)
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You cant make your own gel nails but you can use long nail tips as nails and you can paint over them and everything as long as there white long tips hope that helps good luck :)
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I was with my boyfriend for 8 months almost to the day when I broke up with him. My first few months of college had really stressed me out and the little things started to get to me and I pushed myself away from him and we ended up getting in a huge fight and I told him I didn't love him as much as I used to which wasn't true at all it was just something I said in the heat of the moment. We broke up and it destroyed him. I regretted it as soon as it happened but he was too angry to talk to me. He got a new girlfriend after a week but it was just for the physical benefits. We broke up in early October and started texting again around the middle of November and I told him I wanted to get back together but he'd tell me that I broke his heart and he doesn't give second chances. I didn't bring up the topic again until he texted me one day a couple weeks ago telling me that he wrote a song about me and he wanted me to hear it when I came home for Christmas, I brought up getting back together and he said we'd talk about it when I got home. I fought for us more than I've fought for anything in my life.
We've been together for about a week now. The first few days were a little rocky. He was still sorta depressed about the break up and he was worried about getting hurt again and the fact that he was worried about our relationship made me worried but we're past that now for the most part. We both agreed that we should do something together to bring back good memories but most of our relationship was over the summer and now that there's snow on the ground its kind of hard to do the same things.
So I guess I need date ideas, or just things to do. We don't have many places to go where we live.
Next I want to do something that really shows how much I love him. I feel like after the break up he doesn't feel like I love him as much but I really do so I want to do something for him.
I need ideas! I've never gotten back with an ex before. (link)
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Set up a candle light dinner for you both and cook the dinner yourself and get him a gift something he would really want and just tell him that you really love him and are sorry for what you did and you really want to make this work and ya maybe things will be better good luck :)
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i cant really remember the lyrics..but i heard it on the radio a few days ago..and this guy was talking about how he just loves everything about this girl, and how he misses her and stuff like that..
it's a new song, i'm pretty sure...any ideas? (link)
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Maybe you can go to the radio website that you heard it and usually you can find a list of song that are played and if its new you can probably find it there or if you send me some lyrics of the song then i can find it for you. :)
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16/F
I'm a very observative person, and I'm not a total recluse, I have a ton of amazing friends. I'm actually really popular at my high school. I'm a cheerleader, student body VP, drama club president...
But... I have a really bad habit of watching people and growing attatched to them even though I've never spoken to them, or spoken to them maybe once. I just like observing people, I don't act stalkerish or anything. And say they move or graduate... and I miss them terribly.
I feel like I know them even though I don't, then I don't know how to handle losing them because I can't just say "Hey! Call me! Keep in touch," because they barely or don't even know me... What do I do? I don't know how to handle this... I know it's unhealthy...
I still miss people who I haven't seen in years that I never even talked to... (link)
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I think you do this because you see something in them that you like i think the only way to stop this is by staying busy and just not thinking about them because the less you think about them the less you'll miss them or maybe see a school counsellor or doctor or even a pyscaiatrist or something im sure they can help you out more then me but hope i helped a little :)
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Club volleyball costs $1,500 dollars. And that doesnt even include the additional stuff like booking in hotels, paying for food during tournies, and apparel (aside from uniforms). But it lasts from November til June so its a good deal, too.. I think. Not like I have a choice, anyways.
SO, I need to fundraise or something to make money! What should I do? Im gonna rake leaves today, and then bake a cake and give people samples so that if they want it I'll make their own cakes and make a profit. Also put up babysitting ads around my neighborhood sometime next week. But the main thing is that I have to make like actually $850 of the money by Sunday. Help! When I rake leaves I'm also gonna ask if people can donate.. cause I really love vball but its been hard on my family right now but i just cant quit!! my life would be ruined if i had to hah. so yeah, help guys!!!!!
I even made a Chipin page if you want to donate (I'll love you if you do!)
http://missionvolleyball.chipin.com/club-volleyball-fee
Im 15 btw!!! (link)
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you could do like a bake sale or set up bunch of games that people could pay to play kinda like a fair or set up a movie nite and have ppl come or do tutoring or walk dogs or do chores for old people hope this helped good luck :)
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i am supposed to be receiving a package from leeton missouri and i live in kansas city missouri. i don't know the tracking number and i just want to know if the package was sent monday, how long will it take to get to my house (link)
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depends on how many days the shipping reciet said usually most things take from a week to four weeks if it takes more time then that then i suggest contacting the person who is shipping the package also if you have the reciet from your order it should have the tracking number or contact the person you have ordered from and get the tracking number from there.
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