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Q: okay so theres this guy i met at a party a while back. well we started talking, and hes REALLY cute. on sunday, i was kinda drunk, and i invited him to a kickback and he came. and he was really sweet to me. he carried me around and stuff like that. and we hooked up. but he was like ohh i cant mess with you when youre drunk. so yeah. then yesterday, on valentines day, we went to see a movie together. after the movie, we went to the beach and just chilled. and he said really cute things to me and we just talked. like he said how that moment was so great and he said that if he died there, hed be happy. and it was really cute. and then it was kinda late, but he asked me to be his valentine and i said yes. haha. um. but yeah so we talked a little and made out a little. andd he wanted something more but i stopped it. he seems like the flirty player type, but then again i don't know him THAT well. but i think i'm really starting to REALLY like him, and i was just wondering likee how should i go about this? thankss in advance, sorry if its long.
don't bother likin him. he'll end up just using you, or cheating on you. like someone at your own school.

Q: we've been going out for about 2 months now, and he says he 'loves me'..we're both 16 and in the same grade..i'm the girl. lol

my first - i'm his like 7th gf lol
well, i'm easily manipulated. and i can't help it. i might get the courage to break up with someone and then immediately change my mind..because i'm too nice. and sensitive. my boyfriend has too much control on my feelings. he flirts with my friends - who are all girls...and then comes to me telling me he loves me. i don't mention the whole flirting thing because he denies it anyway. and this upsets me. i feel like he is flirting behind my back and so are my friends - and they're all in it together. as if they don't care. as much as i know he's a jerk - i still REALLY like him and i'm really attatched and i know if i break up with him, i'll be completely heartbroken and devastated.
today, i read over my friend's myspace comments and saw how my boyfriend was telling her about calling my other friends. he calls ALL my girlfriends..and he doesn't call me. he never does.
i don't know why this is. my friends may be more outgoing than me - but he is, after all, my boyfriend - he should show some respect. but it's as if he doesn't care.
whenever my friends come to school - he's so enthusastic about saying hello to them. with me, it's like...oh.. hiii...*gets physical*

please help. i really appreciate any advice at this point. i don't know how many more chances to give him. i'd give him 5 or 6 or 7 - but i know he'll keep on hurting me.
dump his ass, he sucks

theirs better guys out there. like me, i'd never do that to any of my girlfriends

Q: my question is very, very simple

http://www.csnofficefurniture.com/OSullivan-Furniture-11711-OV1645.html

find me that desk. it doesn't matter the price as long as it's not more than $200, and if it is send me the link anyway. doesn't matter what type of wood. must be finished. one drawer under tabletop preferred (does NOT have to be keyboard slider kind). nothing fancy, just a SIMPLE. DESK. how hard is it to find a cheap one of these babies nowadays? ps. i will love you forever if you find it.

pretty much, find me a desk that LOOKS just like the one above except cheaper, cause i can't.
Don't be lazy, ever heard of google?!! look at office max, target, staples, places like that. my god.

Q: I would like to know if any aussies out there are cutters or have been raped of anything like that because it always seems like things like that only happen in america.P.S im an Aussie!!! Aussie, Aussie, Aussie - Oi, Oi, Oi.
any ways any answer are apreciated.
Ta.
it doesn't just happen in america, it happens all over the world.

Q: what do you want me to ask? lol
What do mean? Ask that kid that you like to hang out, like go to the mall or movies with a group of people.

Q: I have recetly become a vegetarian, i am 15 years old and i am a girl. I can be picky, but i need to know some good dishes to make for myself! Please help!
Thanks a bunch,
Gina.
My one friend is a vegetarian and she is also 15 since she wasnt eating anything healthy her hair is falling out. id suggest going to a nutritionist actually, and theyll probably give you a whole list of things. make sure you eat alot things with protein.

Q: ive liked this guy tony for awhile and i noticed that he liked me back bc he asked to see my cell once and he saw another tony in my list and got jealous and ended up not giving me his # after that he would try to talk to me but he couldn't come up with something so he would think of the most random thing and talk to about that. a problem is the most popular girl is school jen flirts with him bc she has nothing better to do. no one likes her anymore and she has no friends so she always flirts with him and the geekiest guy in our science class. i can tell that tony doesn't like jen bc she kinda bugs him and she put her feet up on his desk and i said straight up to her that i think that tony doesn't want her feet on his desk and he lipped to me "thank you". jen really bugs me about that but also tony talks to her a lot and im worried he might fall for her. my main thing is that i really want him and i went out with his friends and he might be worried about getting his friend mad.
so to continue.....his friend likes me still bc i broke up with him. im kinda friends with tony like we would talk but not the kind of friend that would like have inside jokes like i have a bunch with a lot of the other guys im friends with. i only have one inside joke with tony but jen stole another guy that liked me and i liked him back but we didn't go out so i don't want her stealling this one. i really would like tony to ask me out and i think hes pretty shy about it but im trying to talk to him as much as i posibly can. ps i have no way of contact to him...i only time i see him is at school.....please help
that other chick is just being more aggressive. shes just doing whatever to get his attention, aks him to hang out.

Q: would this mean he likes mee..

*whenever we are done textingg eachother he always writes nite honey xox err nite sweetie pie xoxo

*he even called me sweetie on the phone infrount of his friend, [this one kid that likes me]

*when were on the phone, [alone] he gigles/silently laughs alot

*heesss sooo cute ! [opps, that not a clue lol]

haha. i think he likes you

Q: 13/ F

ok
so a little bit about the characters
M = me
S = sam (yes, this is a girl)
b = blake
anywayzzzzz

i like this boy lets call him B

and i used to go out with him, we both ended it because we wated to be friends. but then he told me that he still cares for me.
well... S knows how much i like him. bu ttoday she told me that she likes him too.... at first i didn't care because we aren't going out anymore
but then i was hurt really badly....
what kind of a friend would do this to me???

this has happened before i liked a guy named Sam then she liked him to

so i told my mom this problem and she thinks that she is jealous of me... so she likes the same guys

should i stay friends with her... well i mean of course i am staying friends with her
but she is moving away soon and i am very sad.
even though she is doing this to me

please help me
and yes i have tried talking to S but she just likes them anywayzzz

i have never liked her BF's and she shouldn't like mine right?

yes i rate
The girl below me is 100% right. She can't help it if she likes him. I think you're just really insecure. If this boy, actually likes you, then whats it matter if she likes him? Are you afraid he'll end up liking her? Get over it.

Q:
Would you rather ask a girl out or have her ask you out?

And out of all the movies that are playing right now- which one would you most like to see?

thanks.

(please include your age in your answers if you don't mind)
15
I'd rather if I ask a girl out. I don't like being put on the spot. And I don't like girls that are too pushy. The girls that have asked me out, thats usually how they are. They'll keep bothering me, saying "oh please like me! i like you. why dont you like me. your so hot."

thats so annoying. so, if your gonna ask a guy out, don't do that.

i don't see movies much. so i wouldn't know. Anything scary, or with action, i guess.

Q: 15/f

this is gonna sound way conceited, but i promise, im not trying to be. im much prettier then my friend. i mean, shes like fat and everything, so i mean obviously, guys dont like her much. plus she acts really stupid alot. anyways, since im a freshman, ive made alot of new friends. and so when me and her will be wlaking down the hall, just about every person says hi to me, and i stop and talk and make yano small talk. and she gets mad, and walks away. anyways, whenever i talk about like guys or something, she like finds some way to insult them. and its just really annoying. what should i do?
If you know shes fat and everything, then why don't you help her change that? I mean, if you say your as pretty as you say you are, why don't you use some of your beauty tips or whatever to help her. If she acts stupid, like as in 'ditzy' have her change that. Guys think thats annoying. I think shes jealous that you're making friends, and she maybe isn't? I somewhat agree with the girl below me. Shes too insecure, and you're too confident for her.

Q: my friend, ill be like mad at her over something. and like ill act cold. and then she just doesnt even care. its like ,it doesnt matter if i get mad or not. she just acts like its no big deal. uhh i hate her so much right now.
I don't think you explained yourself well enough. I'm guessing what you technically mean is that you'll be upset with her, and then she doesn't even care. So, you're feelings get hurt.


I'm actually going to GIVE YOU advice unlike the people below me. Talk to her. Don't be cold. Just tell her she hurt your feelings.

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