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i am 14 and i have been through a lot with many different things i will help n e one with n e thing so just ask me questions and ill b happy to answer!!//xo stacey
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okay this is what my friend sent me.

her: okay well like the bad thing is he doesnt like how your a preppy n wear abercrombie
her: LIke TO Much of it
me: okay
her: he liked how you wear pac sun.. and how u are nice.. and all that little stuff... and like yeah i asked him all this ... n than at the end i said would u ever go out with her and he was like if she was not that weird and wasnt a prep and yeah then we talked and were like yeah yup yeah

and i really like this guy, shoudl i clean my act up because my aprents thing abercrombie is rediculous and everything. so they refuse to buy it

and i love pac sun also... but some of the things i bought like are WAY too see thought... so yeah im going to act my self and yeah is that a good idea?

ps im not doing this to get him to ask me out (link)
ok i think if you want to change you should but if you like the way you dress dont cange it for someone!! maybe you can just wear pac sun!! and i think you should be your self!! i hope i helped!!


I'm 13/f and I just had my first kiss. Well... Sorta. Anyways we were at the mall and he pulled me aside and said "I love you, I think your beautiful" and he started making out with me. It was the best moment of my life but after about three seconds I got really nervous and I didn't know what to do so I sort of pushed him off a little and I hugged him and he said it's still okay and he loves me. I know he isnt upset but I feel bad because I really wanted to kiss him and I probably made him feel bad although he won't admit it and he says its fine we'll try again another time. He's coming over Saturday. Is there anything I can do to not be so nervous? Or advice on your first kiss? Thanks a bunch. =) (link)
my first kiss was interesting and werid i pussd away to i was scared because i didnt no wat to do!! but u can go to this website it helps http://www.partyhearty.com/kissingadvice.html!! i hope i helped!!


Im not allowed to have a boy friend and im going to be 13 they treat me like im two. well i have a bf named chris and i been sneaking him for a LONG time now since i was a little kid we keep fighting and getting back together and fighting and well ne wayz i am sick of sneaking but i love him soo much and i dont want ne thing to happen between us but i am sick of my parents...what should i do.
LoVe,
puppyluv (link)
well just tell your parents stright up be like i am not two i am 13 and i need freedom i am only a kid once!! be like i am not going to do any bad with him i dont see the problem!! i hope i helped!!


I already asked this question but not many people answered please can you guys help me.
HOw can i tell if these guys like me
Okay there are three guys whom maybe show signs they like me or something like that. One is called Ben, the other is called Connor and the other called Ryan

Ben always asks me weird questions like Are you a lion tamer? when i say no he's like well only cool people are tamers. then he's like oh sorry never mind, I didn't mean it. And one time I was trying to open my locker and this guy we'll call him Jim just kept on closing my locker door whenever I tried to open it. Ben started pulling his arm away and he's like leave her (me) alone.

Connor sits behind me and he always rubs his shoe against my shoe when I told him to stop he just smiles at me and keeps doing it and he has a girlfriend.

Ryan always bothers me whenever I try to do my locker combination he messes me up by turning the nunbers the wrong way. He also shuts my lucker when I open. Today he asked me what my name was.

Sorry its so long but are these signs of them crushing on me or what. Please HElp !!
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umm i think ben likes you because he is protective of you! that is a sign. and for connor no i dont think he likes you sorry but no a lot of guys do that just to be funny but you never no i may be rong. ryan he mite like you but your best bet is ben it seems like he likes you! i hope i helped!!


well im a 16 yr old female lol.... and sorry if its long :( but i dont know what to do!
i have like a best boy mate
and i THINK he likes me. i really like him.
like today i was showing him something on my fone he came right up behind me and was like really close in a romantic way.
and when we was getting on the train he put his hands over my eyes and as i moved them away we kinda didnt let go for like 1 second but i really wanted to hold them.
and when we got off the train and in general we always walk really close to each other and our hands keep touching. i have a really huge urge to hold him its not fair.
i want to be with him so much but i dont know how to tell him or what to say
please help i really want to be with him. does what i explained above sound like he likes me?
emma xoxox i rate 5's for good advice :D
xx *sorry its a bit long* (link)
i think he might like you!! it seems like it. if he is that close to you than he problly dose. usually (spelling) when a guy and a girl are really good friends then they are attracted to each other! maybe you can tell him in a note or just in person how you feel just tell him that you really like him. and maybe he was waiting for you to tell him first that you like him and then he will say he likes you!!i hope i helped!


I don't know what you would put this under. but I am in a crisis people. haha I have to babysit a 2 year old on Saturday with my dad who wouldn't care if he got run over by a truck. The child is wild. He is my nephew and I have to baby sit him for 5 hours. 7:30am to noon. What can I do to keep him under control. Sorry if this is a stupid question but I am nerved wreched. No smart remarks either/ thanks in advance.

13/f. Neika (link)
baby sitting is not hard at all its really easy even if the kid is hyper!! well wat you can do is maybe find out from his mom wat his favorite movie is and watch that. then you can play a game with him. that will b easyer than you think!! i hope i helped.


im getting headachs alot and i recently got an ipod so i have been listening to that alot.. could it be that? also i heard if you dont blowdry your hair, you end up getting headachs.. i wash my hair everynight and i dont usually blow dry it ..what could cause these headachs? (link)
you dont have to blowdry your hair!! thats not it!! it mite have sumthing to do with girl problems before i start i always get headachs!! or you mite have a serious problem tell your mom and i am sure she will help!! you cood get a mri of your brain!! because you cood have an anurism mii aunt had that and died so get that cheaked out rite away!! i hope i helped!!


I'm a 15 year old girl. I am depressed. And I'm not talking about depression that has been going on for just months. Its been over a year. and it's getting worse by day. The latest thing I hace done to my self when I had gotten angry was cut all my hair off. I'm scared!!! I've tried to commit suicide before. but thank god i made it out alive. I cut and burn myself. I dont do it because i want to or because I wanna try it. I never believed in hurting my body. I always am thankful for being healthy and alive. I never went one night without thanking god for all the good that he has done for me and my family. I go to therapy but i feel as if its not helping me. I have tried asking god for help and still am. But I am not seeing results. I am trying to be patient but it's hard. My parents are diagnosed with depression. but don't take it seriously. They think I am just crazy!!! I thoguht I was too for a while until it really hit me that I had a real sickness. I believe that I got it from them. But I don't care how I got. All I care about is getting effective help. If I don't get some soon I'm gonna end up hurting myself Badly. AND I DON'T WANT THAT!!!! I had a bright future ahead of me. but now i just don't see it. I wanna get my life back and be the person I really am. I know I was created for a reason. I know I am worth something!! but i need help fast. I am not crazy I just need help before I end my life when it's not time for me. I am too young and don't wanna waste every day of my lfe doing nothing. Because every second that goes by brings me closer to the end of my life. I wanna have a story to tell about my life when i get old.I wanna see myself old. inshallah!!! and I don't ever wanna see anyone experience this problem not even an enemy. (link)
ok wow where to start!! you r not crazy!! at all!!! wat you need is a relle good friend that can help you with everything that understands you!! maybe u can take this pill called zanex mii mom takes it b/c she has depression! and with the cutting its not worth it!its relle not i have and i regret it everyday!! i went through depression it sux so bad!! but wat i did was talked to mii friends bout it they helped mee a lot more than mii parents!! and seriously dont kill ur self you have a perpuss (spelling) trust mee you do!! i relle hope i helped!!


my best friend and i have been friends for four years now. she started dating this one guy, and they have been dating for over 5 months. at first, i was fine with it because she never really had a boyfriend who treated her so well, but lately she has been choosing him over me, a lot. but not only that, i'll ask if she wants to hang out, and she'll invite him to places with us without even asking me. and then they'll do there little couplely thing and im standing there like a retard. i get sick of being the 3rd wheel sometimes. i always picked her over my boyfriends, and i dont expect her to never spend time with her boyfriend but i do think it is okay to leave some time for a friend?! personally, i think she needs to choose: boyfriend or best friend. (link)
this happens to mee sometimes!! it suxs i no!! but this is wat i wood do tell her stright up wats rong! if she was ur friend she wood listen!! i honestly think that she isnt a good friend! tell her that you wood like to go sumwhere with just you and her a girls nite out!! i relle think friends need that sumtimes! u cant make her choose that wood b bad of u! i relle hoped i helped!!!


ok heres my problem

i had this boyfriend for a little over a year ( on and off) and i was CrAzY about him he was my first love but he cheated on me about 3 times but i found it in my heart to forgive ( b/c he really was a sweet guy) but he didnt cheat on me for a looong time but we did end up breaking up..

then i got this boyfriend( who i am with now) and he treats me like gold if i told him to do something he does it right then and there...
but i think for some reason im still in love with my ex-boyfriend and my boyfriend at the same time..

i just dont know why i would even think of having feeling for my ex when he did that to me and my boyfriend treats me like gold.

is this wrong should i still have feelings for my ex? what do i do?? (link)
u r always going to have feeling for him! no matter wat! but if you think that he has changed or that he will treat you better then go bac with him if he will go bac out with you! but if you r relle in love current b/f than you shoodnt break up with him!! if he relle treats you that well he is perfect!! this is wat i wood do rite down things like wat you love bout him and how he treats you then do the same for ur ex! who ever wins mite b better. you never no just give it a try! i hope i helped!!




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