ok, most people that i know tell me that im not a prep. but on the other hand people that dont know me that well tell me that i am. I dont want to be (dont get offended) but somehow people end up telling me i am. Ok heres me, yes i have some things from american eagle and aeropostale, mostly jeans because most other jeans dont fit me right. Most of the time i wear a hoodie. One from american eagle, and the others just came from miscellaneous places. When i dont wear a hoodie, i wear just tee shirts, like sports teams tee shirts, well that style. I straighten my hair and take a shower and put on makeup every morning and i run my fingers through my hair throught the day. And at school i dont hang out with all the popular preppy people. Im not saying theres anything wrong with them, so dont get offended. So am i a prep or am i not? Got any advice of some sort for me?
dont get worried. i dont think your a prep. preps in my school wear hollister and a&f and thats it. and have like strict rules or so. people are just labeling and judging you to set aside there own insecurities temporarily. just ignore everyone who says your a prep. because if you dont consider yourself a prep, then your not. Its what you think you are, not what they thuink you are
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Okay, since this week is the week of valentines day, I wanna do my nails a cute way. I have a soft but solid light pink, solid white, and solid red. Any cute ideas, but not polka dots or anything over the top?
Also, please dont mention like alternating colors on each nail, one hand with one color and the other color on the other hand, etc, or just using a single color on each nail. I want a cute design.
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you need to get them proffessionally done OR have a freind do them for you but um Red nails, like heart red, and with a tooth pick or a special nailpaitning kit, makesmall very light pink hearts over the red (after it dries of course) Then after the pink dries, do a border aroundthe hearts, white ones..ive done it, it came out soo cute, it matched my shirt =]]
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okay so well there this guy i really like. and then i found out one of my close friend likes him too. [she didnt tell me though]. and now she wants him to be her valentine. should i just give up on him or what?
-Tasha
are you even supposed to know she likes him. if not, then dont give up, whoeever he wants more, he will go for. and besides, he might not want either of you, and thats the harsh reality of it. so dont give up on being freinds since in the end he might not want either of you gals.
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what do you do when you dont feel alive...but you know you are...
...then you know...its time for therapy...
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ok 18/m
shes 17
going out 4 months
then she tells me she loves her x
we break up
2 days later she comes back cryin sayin she made a mistake blah blah blah
wants me back blah blah blah
doesnt want him or ne1 else blah blah blah
i ask her if she has even kissed any1 else. she says no
i say ok
we get back together
Then i find out through trusty lil myspace that in those 2 days she fucked a 20 year old and lied about it.
Confronted her. She admited it. Shes crying over it. Shes givin me all the "im so disgusted in myself, i hate myself for it blah blah blah"
i cant take this pain anymore, every time i look at her i break down cuz i picture her and him.
But i also cant walk away from her. I love her.
And i also cant go on a break with her, becuase im to afraid of what she will do if shes not with me cuz i cant trust her whatsoever anymore. HELP
you cannot possibly be in a relationship where there is not trust and honesty in both sides of the relationship. I just talked about healthy relationships vs. bad ones today in health...last block, and your relationship does not seem that healthy. Also it seems she just wants a 'friend', if you know what i mean..
If she wants her Ex and breaks up with you for him, then its her problem, not yours, you dont need to get hurt by her again. What if she decides that she likes the 20 yr old. she could end up hurting you again. I would break it off before it gets more serious.
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13/f
are there any ways to speed up your period or something so it doesn't last as long? or any ways that will make it less painful? i'd like to be able to go to my school dance this friday but i can't dance if i have cramps [which i usually get] & feel wet. thanks for any advice.
i know its not healthy but since coffee stunts your growth, drink lots of coffee...thats what i do at times when im annoyed, or what i used to do was not eat alot. only a little. thats not too healthy either but mine lasted 2 days which is better than 5.
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I am 13 I wanna get my nose peirced and I'm gonna pay and all that but my mom don't care if I do or not and my dad said not till 16 and I REALLY want it done !!!!!!!!! What should I say to my dad to get him to say yes !!??!!
i woudnt get it done until your older..most people i know that were 13 and got it done were usually, well, the type that were 'easy' if you know what im saying...so i would't be ina rush to get it done if i were you. anyways dads never want to see there daughters get peircings on anywhere that is not your ears. some dont mind belly button rings, but some do. but ive never met a dad that really wants there daughter having a nose ring. but if hyou really want it. proove to him your old enough.
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I just took one in the internet, it was timed and it only consisted of 40 questions.
I got 110.4.
is this good, or bad?
avarage?
can some one give me the ruberic breakdown of the scores to average/belowaverage etc?
average, but online ones are never accurate/
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Ok. I have this kid in my class his name is david but we all call him "Dee" anyway hes always putts me down. He always trying to inbarace me infront of my hole class. And when I say Dee shut up, and he'll say "what you going to doo about it" and I say nothing back cause hes native and that is the only reason i dont say anything about it, cause hes a punk B*tch. So I need some comebacks hes always telling me to shut up, and that I talk to much. Ill say anything I dont care about my teachers and what they have to say so I need things to throw back at him. Thanks :]
slap him. and if you get introuble, tell the principle that he called you a slu+...i did that and they got suspended for a week. well they really did call me one, but they might not have really called you one, but usually girls can get away with guys calling them stuff like that because guys do it all the time.
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I have alot of friends, but not alot of best freinds..people i wuld consider bffs. ANyways, i'll be talking to one freind and then another one will come and we'd all be talking, then the 2 would have to go to there lockers and would meet me at class soon, but i have a huge feeling in my gut they are now talking shit about me at there lockers. do you think they r or do u think that im being paranoid.
i dont think you really want people who make you feel as if they are talking about you. but i think its more a self confidence issue. Earn some trust i feel that way alot but i get over it. you should too. its probably a mind thing.
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i wish i had 1 best friend that i could share all my secrets with, and that would be like better than all my other friends and stuff. but most of my friends are just good friends and stuff.. but what do you consider to be best friend material? idk if we're more than good friends yet.. even the ones i've known forever. or maybe they are, but like i still dont think i've found someone that like completely blew me away and that i'd totally know is my best best friend. :/ how do i get one? How do i find one? im always hoping for a new kid in the neighborhood or in my class at school and that we'd click and become best friends. -sigh- what should i do?
13/f
im basically going through the same thing. i have alot of good friends that i can talk about some stuff with, but not just one person i can depend on and will always have my back. But find someone who doesnt critisize you, only helps you. One who doesnt care what your wearing, and sees behind the clothes. and someone who you arent scared to talk about anything with and won't judge you or disagree in a mean/snobby way. and someone who you are nice with and arent worried when they walk the opposite direction in school w/ smeone else, that they are talking about you.
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we went out for a year and a half and he cheated on me with some other girl then he cheated on her with me and told me we were gonna get back together.. we had sex and everything and he told me he loved me then out of nowhere he told me he doesnt think our relationship is gonna work out and told me he doesnt want to see me anymore. i told him i didnt wanna talk to him anymore because theres no reason because ill just keep falling in love with him and never get over him. the problem is he wont stop calling.. and he calls from private numbers. and he tries to be my friend! i dont get it does he still love me?
He's using you for sure. He knows that you will basically do anything with him to get back with him. He is probably manipulating you and using you for the times when he cant get a date.
i would tell him to stop once and for all and that you have no feelings for him whatsoever.
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my friend is getting abused by her boyfreind but she doesnt know it. i can tell, because she says "i called him an a$$hole and then he slapped me., but i forgive him because you know, if he called me a b***** i would slap him" or how she says "me and him had sex, i didnt really feel like it but i mean i am his girlfreind, i kinda HAVE to". and how he can check her phone atleast once a day. She just says its him making sure that noone is calling her that could harm her. Oh please the only harm that she has is him. What should i do? Ive told her a few times its considered abuse if he hurts her in anyway, and forcing her to have sex, even if shes his girlfriend, is rape. And checking peoples phones to make sure they arent calling anyone or texting anyone they shouldnt is basically violation of trust and privacy. She just won't listten. and won't report it. WHAT SHULD I DO? Hes even starting to not let her hang out with me and her other friends
You should get proof and take it upon yourself to tell the police. maybe video recordings of there fights. because you know its legal to video tape someone for proof, but its illegal (w/o warrent) to audio record for proof. Or tell her parents that she is getting abused by her boyfreind. MOST likley they can stop it. No one should have go through that, not even the meanest person you know.
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my friend, called KT (katie) all of a sudden started doing drugs. i dont know what kinds exactly, but she is. Alcohol, ciggarettes, and probably pot. we're sophmores, soon to be juniors. I can't talk to her like i used to & when i try to she just says 'im critisizing her' which im not. I am just asking her about her day. Is this habit of partying going to stay with her until she graduates or not graduate..becuase i can already see her grades are slipping compared to last years Honors report cards. i just dont know what to so with her, she has turned into a B****!
Dude, girls like that won't ever listen, trust me. It basically has to take an injury or a death of them or there freinds who are doing drugs for anyone to realize what they are doing is wrong. You might not want this but you should tell her parents. shes underaged and you never know what they are acually doing at her little parties...they could all be having, idk, like group sex or something weird..or just ignore her. If she doesnt like you anymore, just because you arent into that stuff, then just dont even try..it would be pointless even trying. she'll realize she's being dumb EVENTUALLY.
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there is a guy at school im friends with. we hang out alot. but ive only been friends with him a few weeks. i like him alot but dont know how to let him know. i dont want to be too straightforward. i dont want to go into the "friend zone" sometimes he asks like he likes me. but im not sure. i really dont want to just go and tell him that i like him. what should i do?
di
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Hi there...I'm 14...And I had a fight with my friend over just the most STUPIDEST thing. It was about who composed a song (namely the Beatles). And on AIM, it started off as an argument, but pretty soon we started to curse each other out and those kinds of things. Some of the things she said made me question our friendship after all. The other things she stated hurt me so much, (it was on a personal level and she literally sank my heart by saying those kinds of things, which, frankly, friends shouldn't say). And even though I insulted her, it wasn't as BAD as she insulted me... Now we're not talking and haven't been for 2 weeks..I just don't know what to do. :( I'm confused who's the bad and who's the good person...
no one is the bad, and no one was the good. i think that you just werent that good of freinds to begin with and you guys found an exuse to get your rage and anger for eachother out. to argue about who composed a song. It may seem like a stupid fight, but the fight about the beatles was a stupid fight, the fight you had after it (when you yelled at eachother) was deffinitly built rage. maybe she will calm down and talk to you again, and maybe she wont. but you should know, if she does, she was a true freind and she just got mad, and if she doesnt, it prooves my theory right, that you werent fighting over the beatles, it was probably built rage.
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Age- 15
Gender-Female
okayy well i went out with this guy for like almost 4 months, and then i found out that he smoked and lied to me about it, so the next day, i broke up with him. and i really dont even know if it was because of that, or if it was because i didnt like him like that anymore. because i did go out w/ him before i knew even if i liked him because everyone was like "just do it!" so i did..and it was good for a while.. and then i just wasnt happy anymore.. and found out about that smoking stuff.. so i broke up with him. and he still really likes me. and tried so hard to get back with me for like a month. and then he basically just pretty much stopped because i said no. and blah blah he was all like i still like you.. but then a couple days later.. he goes and almost makes out with a girl..and i got pissed. beause i mean, how can you say you like someone, then go and almost makeout with someone? and hang out with girls like every night? and i defintiely asked him about it, and he was like " well if im with other girls do you really think im going to be thinking about you? its just to get my mind off you" blah blah. so yeah i really dont know what to do, because i think if i got back together with him it'd be for the wrong reasons like..just to have someone there ya know and knowning someone cares about you and just things like that.. so yeah i really dont know what to do and i guess if i wait to long.. he'll be like over me. even though he said he wont. but i mean, you probably think hes an asshole, but thats the crazy thing. usually hes really sweet, but hes like bi-polar or something! i dont know what to do!
please help! =[
IM SORRY THIS IS SO LONG! =[
he's not bi polar. bi-polar affects mood+thoughts. not actions. he may be sweet, but there are millions of sweet guys, who are pigs. he just doesnt want to have a free friday night. most guys are like that at this age.
basically all guys in my school do the same thing, but im one of those girls who is picky and doesn't take anything from anyone, so if i was in your situation, i would not go out with anyone who basically will cheat behind my back, and who doesnt keep his word. the quote 'theres other fish in the sea' applies here. use it =]
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I'm a fifteen year old girl and I have been together with my boyfriend for almost three months. I love him and he is just about perfect. But sometimes, I just want to act out for attention when I'm with him. I don't know why I do it, but I just feel myself starting to throw a fit sometimes and then it is hard to stop. I feel like it is making a strain on our relationship, and I want to know what you think I could do to stop. Thanks.
before you start making a fit of things, tell yourself "this last hissy fit could be the last with him. so let me not do it' because most guys, DO NOT like girls who start things or call too much attention to themselves, unless its good attention like winning something, or doing well on something. or keep something of his in your pocket when you go out (like a chain of his or his picture), so when you feel like your going to explode and yell or whatev. you can take it out and remember guys dont like when girls throw fits or fight with other people, or complain.
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i'm 15 and in highschool. my boyfriend of about 10 months is 18.
he's graduating this year and going off to college.
now i know this sounds stupid because so many young people say, "i'm in love" and don't even know what it means, but i really really really see myself with this guy in the future.
the only problem is i don't know if i'll be able to handle him going to college and then into the air gaurd and possibly off to iraq for 2 years.
do you think i should break it off before i fall deeper...or keep trying?
do you think you are totally in love? because me? i dont believe in true love yet, because i mean, everyone of my freinds have boyfriends and they are like 'love youuu' and then the next day they arent even toegether,
have you ever been in a long distance relationship, i have, and they are/arent fun. i hate not being able to see them, but the anticipation of those '4 days until i see him' days are a dream. because it just repairs all the sadness that you felt for so long.
i would like to help you alot on this but i cant. i dont want to say yes break up, nor say no dont. you have to do what your gut tells you. i dont wantt to end up telling you one answer, and then you regretting it.
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k i was hanging out with a few friends and we started messing around and things between one of my friends and me got really out of controll and now thing are awkward between us and now he wont talk to me.. and i dunno if its something i did or said
or if he just doesnt know wat to say
he confuses me i dunno wat to do about him
and to make it even worse i had a bf when things got out of controll and now he is my ex and i broke his heart and when im around him i get upset cuz i feel bad and dont know wat to say to him
were you guys drunk? well anyways, i never agree with cheating. this might sound veryy veryy bad, but you should feel bad. you basically are saying you cheated on your boyfriend. i hate to say this, but your trust with him will never mend and he probably wont want to talk to you.
the freind you 'got out of control' with, probably thought of you only as a freind, and just got caught up in the moment, and all. and now MOST LIKLEY he just doesnt know what to say, because if i was in his place, it would be awkward for me to talk to you. so maybe if you give your freind time, he might talk with you again.
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