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should i get back together with him?
Age- 15
Gender-Female
okayy well i went out with this guy for like almost 4 months, and then i found out that he smoked and lied to me about it, so the next day, i broke up with him. and i really dont even know if it was because of that, or if it was because i didnt like him like that anymore. because i did go out w/ him before i knew even if i liked him because everyone was like "just do it!" so i did..and it was good for a while.. and then i just wasnt happy anymore.. and found out about that smoking stuff.. so i broke up with him. and he still really likes me. and tried so hard to get back with me for like a month. and then he basically just pretty much stopped because i said no. and blah blah he was all like i still like you.. but then a couple days later.. he goes and almost makes out with a girl..and i got pissed. beause i mean, how can you say you like someone, then go and almost makeout with someone? and hang out with girls like every night? and i defintiely asked him about it, and he was like " well if im with other girls do you really think im going to be thinking about you? its just to get my mind off you" blah blah. so yeah i really dont know what to do, because i think if i got back together with him it'd be for the wrong reasons like..just to have someone there ya know and knowning someone cares about you and just things like that.. so yeah i really dont know what to do and i guess if i wait to long.. he'll be like over me. even though he said he wont. but i mean, you probably think hes an asshole, but thats the crazy thing. usually hes really sweet, but hes like bi-polar or something! i dont know what to do!
please help! =[
IM SORRY THIS IS SO LONG! =[
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he's not bi polar. bi-polar affects mood+thoughts. not actions. he may be sweet, but there are millions of sweet guys, who are pigs. he just doesnt want to have a free friday night. most guys are like that at this age.
basically all guys in my school do the same thing, but im one of those girls who is picky and doesn't take anything from anyone, so if i was in your situation, i would not go out with anyone who basically will cheat behind my back, and who doesnt keep his word. the quote 'theres other fish in the sea' applies here. use it =]
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