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Okay so I just walked in this store and this amazing guy stoped in front of me , we started to talk and I found out that he is only 16, and Im 15 , he asked me out on a date and I said I didn't really know , he toldme to think about it.
This Guy is totally Hot!!! , his name is Richard , should I give him a chance?/ Or should I tell him to go??? I just met this guy today.
PLZPLZPLZ HELP Jenipher ASAP
* give himmmm aaa CHANCE! haha.. age doesnt matter much- and if hes totally hott and seems nice n' everything GO FOR IT! * good luck hun *
is it ok to date online
i think it depends on your situation.. just make sure the guy isnt a freak or sum phsyco!! be careful!
HI Im a 14 year old girl and i told a guy I liked him right before graduation. we aren't very good friends but a friend of mine told me "he didnt want to ruin the friendship" and im pretty sure that is just an easy term for the words "i don't like you" but then at the dance two days after my friend told me the news he wouldn't stop convienently running into me and kept walking up to me like he wanted to dance but then would just say something sweet and walk away then he asked me to dance and kissed my hand. Was he just being sweet? Do I have a chance with this guy in high school? Is there a chance that he is thinking about me? And if so in a good way?
hey hun.. i think maybe he really ment the " he didn't wana ruin the friendship" because maybe he just needed some time to think of what it would be like actually being your boyfriend.. and im guessing maybe he thought about it and he thought maybe it would be kool.. something new. I think he might like you- but take this slow with him to see what he really feels.. Maybe try talking to him about the night at the dance and say " well that was nice of you kissing my hand.. what was that for " and if his responce is something like " it just seemed like something to do" then maybe he's afraid of being more than ur friend- Or if he says " it was for you " or something like that.. then maybe he does wana be with you. be careful what you say because he kinda seems uncomfortable saying things. You possibly do have a chance with him in H.S. I guarintee hes thinking about you.. And i would guess in a good way!! * i hope i helped!.. - rate me if u have time! thankx grl.. good luck with it!
ok im going out with this guy i really like him but i got a hickey my mom noticed so she dont like him and wont let me see him. ive talked to her a ton..i just dont kno what to do now. please help me!!
love ya
well hun i think you should talk to your mom and tell her how much he means to you- and tell her everybody deserves 2nd chances.. And then try asking her again to see him, but this time have him have a nice conversation with your mom- so maybe then your mom will trust the boy that he wont do it again.. and if it happens you know you can always rely on makeup most of the time! hehe.. Hope i helped a lil! * rate me if u hav time!
hey
i'm a natural red head i was wondering how people felt about..um..us!
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* hey grl.. i dont think their's ne thing wrong with red heads.. i mean your ur own self- and thats all you can be! its a good thing people aren't all the same! * So i feel that it doesnt matter wuts ur hair color that you're yourself for a reason!*
Hey KiSsEs.... Well the last advice you gave me before was SO helpful i thank you so much for what your doing! Helping people like the way you do is a talent and your talent was a gift from GOD! Keep up the good work and don't let anyone bring you down. Your a beautifull person inside and out and you should ALWAYS remember that.
!TiFfAnY! * Katy * 17
* aw that sweet!!
Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris*
*omgosh hun.. im so sorry.. BUt ne ways i think maybe your bf was drunk or something.. us girls usually always leave our friends to go with our boyfriends.. so that normal but i mean thats soo incredibly messed up of him to do that. I think you should track down his lil new gf and tell her what happend and maybe she'll dump him.. then he might even come crawling back to you and you can reject him or something.. * i kno this isnt great advice but it might help * good luck!
ok well my friend called my one of my guy friends and told him all this stuff that was not true so now he is going to think of me differently. Wat should i do?!? thanx 4 all the help!!
hey gurl.. let him know b4 anything happens.. or at least try and let him kno that nothings true... And if he's a true friend he'll believe you- and everything should be good! * hope i helped a lil! *
ok well my friend and i always have liked the same guyz pritty much and then shes always able to go out and tell them and she ends up going out with them and i get all sad n stuff and then after they brake up i dont like that guy anymore and then we end up liking the same guy again ((cuz we tell eachother who we like)) and she did the same thing again and then now she likes one guy and i like another guy and she flirts with the guy that i like but shes always saying that she doesnt like him and the guy that i like is the guy that ive felt best about so far and then he might like her but im not shur and i really want to be her friend still its just im pissed off about the fact that she keeps stealing the guyz that i like and thats why my friends keep making fun of me that i still dont have a boyfriend yet and i dont know wut to do? wut should i do?
i think you should have a talk with her and tell her if she really doesnt like the guy that you really like then why is she flirting with him? if she says she isnt say i know what flirting is and thats what you're doing.. dont say it in a rude way.. and just say i really like being your friend but it seems like you steal all the guys i like. . and that is not very cool of her to do that. Dont let her make fun of you either.. * hope i helped *
my best friend and i were spray painting our bikes. Her father comes out in a rage. He starts hitting her and she was screaming for him to stop. She used a bit of foul language towards him, but he was really hitting her. the mom had to try and calm him down.SHould I get help, tell someone or just leave it alone? I don't want it to seem like i'm in their family's business, then again that is my best friend she was crying histerically but i couldn't see her because he told me to leave.
i really think you shouldnt' leave the situation alone. I think you should get help thats not ok to leave the situation alone.. I know most people would do anything for your best friend and im sure that hurt you when you saw what happend.. so yes get help. hope i helped*
My boyfriend recently told me I was acting alot different and not being myself. I can see why he says that because I have been thinking about taking a break with him and I have SO much on my mind.
Tonight on the phone he kept saying he loved me and he never wanted to lose me AND our 8 month anniversary is this Saturday. Should I wait to call it off between us until after this Saturday or what?
I REALLY NEED THE ADVICE!!
hey gurl- i think you should brake it off before-because if you do it after he'll think that you didnt want him to feel bad- but let him know that you dont wana go any further into the relationship and that you need time of not being with him.. hopefully that will help! good luck gurl!
ok, so thers this guy, his name is niles. he is really nice, sweet, HOT,and funny.well ill see him the first time since school ended at my friends house. he used to like me but now i think he likes my friend! me and my friend both like him but she doesn't wanna go out with him because of a christian thing and she knos i reeeaally like him. well i dont kno how to make him like me again! i think it wont be like reeeaally har since like not to be conceited but i always have guys start like me who r reeaaally close friends after only talkin to them for an hour and he also says im a reeeeaaally close friend to him and stuff! so how can i make him like me? my friends gonna tell him that i like him but i mean, guys do things to make girls them so how can i make this guy like me mooore?pleez help!p.s i wanna do it on the same day i see him
well gurl i think you should have a talk but only with you and him and try to sweeten up to him and sometime along the conversation ask him how he feels about you? and maybe you'll find out if he likes you alot- or only as a friend if so only as a friend keep talking to him more and more and hopefully he'll be interested! hope i can help!