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I like this boy, he is my neighbor, i go to his house and we hang out but just as friends, and we can talk hours on end on our cells. He recently asked me out and i said no. but he has a girlfriend and they aren't that close because i think he just got a girlfriend to get back at me. i think he likes me when he is taken because everytime i look at him he is already at me, he sits at the frint of the room in class and i sit all the way at the back and he turned around and asked me for a pencil when his best friend sits by him, and he always texts me calling me dork is he covering up his feelings. dont be afraid to tell me if i am going about this all wrong. i actually want to truth. thx bunches!!

oh goodness,
i hate these kind of boys,
they make me the maddest >:[
they are so annoying,
they wont stop bugging you until you say yes

but maybe that might not be the case so i think you should just simply ask him whats up & why hes acting like that when he has a gf & stuff

goodluck
♥kay

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Um, I just wanted to know, does it hurt to use a tampon the first time? Second time? Third? Help!

it hurts the first time,
because your not used to it
but after that it doesnt hurt.

oh and if you use it,
you have to make sure there's enough
blood on it when you take it out or
it hurts like crazy

♥kay

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hey, i'm a drama student..really hoping to go to do a career related with drama..if i want to be part of a acting company..that works with kids..do i have to be able to sing,dance and act..well i don't sound bad..but does anybody know any sites that help improve your vocals..your dancing (B Boy thing)..and your acting..!
thanks

if you check on youtube,
and search other peoples dance routine
& vocals & stuff, then maybe you might
learn from other people
goodluck! :)
♥kay

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Okay so at my school, I have been insulted so many times, over all these things. I have been insulted for my style, the music I listen to, how 'ugly' I am, etc. etc.
And it just hurts to hear all these things, and yes I have gone to a principal just once, and I was called a snitch and things just got worse. So what should I do about being verbally harrassed?
(if that is what you would call it o.0 )

this is a lame corny thing to say, but ignore them
most of the times people pick on others when they know that they're going to get ticked off, so pretend you don't care, or like the old saying says " kill him with kindess " be extra extra nice to annoy them :D
aww, i hope everything gets better
♥kay

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what does it mean when someone says to you "hey sex"

im not too sure about this one,
because the person might've missed
they y ( sex-y) or it probably means
like when people say thats the sex it
means like thats the shit, and yeah.
haha hope it helps
♥kay

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15;female


okayy sooooo, actually a lot of people say i'm really skinny, not annorexic like disgusting looking, but skinny. and i just don't feel like i am. maybe to other people but i think i give an illusion that i'm skinny... and i'm really not.
sometimes i want to be bullemic but i can't make myself throw up, do you know how to make yourself?
i can't be annorexic. i always eat.. but
how do you make yourself throw up?

i mean i ran track over spring.. and that ended 1 week ago. and this week i started soccer practice.. which is every day. so i mean i do run bbbuuuuuuuuutttt

the major problems i have are my love handles
and the inner thigh area...
anyone have any good exercises i can do to help me lose that little bit extra?

squat & run
is the magic key to success.
oh and if you want to tone your legs
try pilates, & yoga works real good.

♥kay
ps: don't be bullimic,
it rottens your teeth & it doesn't make
you any skinnier, it makes you fatter
because the next time you eat, your body
doesnt think that you're going to feed it
again so it stores all that as fat & then
yeah, so don't, trust me on this one :D

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Im thirteen,Female.
I had a boyfriend, but broke
up with him because we had
litterally hadnt talked on
the phone for maybe twice in
a month in a half relationship.


I think my heart is telling
me that "He's a amazing guy
[True] and that i want to be
the best of friends with him"
But how do i know if thats not
just something to conclusion of
mine and his relationship. Since
we both say we still like eachother.
And i love you and what not.

Do i stay with this feeling,
and let him know?
Or try and keep thinking about
it, even though i feel like
i dont know what to do, at all.
What do i do?

eeek,
shy guy.
i think that you should give him another chance,
and talk to him, maybe he's just shy with you now
and isn't way too comfortable, but you should wait until he " sets in " to do stuff with you.

goodluck hun.
♥kay

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Is there any way you can get an xanga layout to work as a myspace layout? I put the code on my myspace, and it just made the page blank. Thanks!

the only thing that is xanga & myspace compatible
is the backround like the image.
just copy that code line,
but otherwise the other stuff from your xanga
wont work for your myspace sadly ;[
♥kay

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My boyfriend and I have been going out for two years. I know he loves me, but I also know that he's thought about going out with other girls. He has plenty of opportunity, because a lot of girls like him. What can I do to keep him interested in me? Any suggestions?

aw babe,
first off, if you think he is interested
in other girls, you should just drop him,
unless you super duper like him,
think this through, but if you really do think so
then just tease him, be flirtatious, and tell
lots of corny jokes, trust me the last
one seems real corny, but guys think
its cute & i guess thats what keeps them
going haha, goodluck!
♥kay

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My best friend who is bi kissed me, and since then she's been this nasty person. I feel like I don't know her anymore and it hurts me a lot. I don't want to lose her, but I feel icky when I talk to her.
Her bf keeps telling me that suicide is NOT the answer, but I really want to do it.
So- suicide methods that work, and how to deal with my friend alternately.

take a deep breath.
my best friend last year was very suicidal
and she still is, but gotten alot better.

trust me suicide is giving up so many things,
it hurts to have a bff thats bi,
but its not always the right thing to do.

how would you like it if you were bi
& your bff did suicide cause of that?
wouldn't you feel so sad?

try to hang out with her less,
and talk to her about the things that
you think that you guys shouldn't be
best friends anymore, but still can be
friends, but not as close.

it might hurt her at first,
but she will move on,
but if you suicide its leaving her a deep scar.

♥kay

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I'm really self concious about my butt. Now that it's summer I feel kinda gross wearing shorts. I swear, my calves (sp?) at absolutely solid, then my quads are eh, pretty musuclar, and then as i get between my legs it's fat and below my butt and my butt. Are there any exercising to tighten up these areas? (Amounts of sets, reps would be great, too!) I already am doing cardio (running daily, skipping a day or two a week)

squats are always the best thing to do, and the invisble chair, oh goodness it hurts after a longgggg time
goodluck hun :D
♥kay

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can anyone rephrase this the way a seven year old may actually say it:
to five little stone lozenges....which...were sacred to the memory of five little brothers of mine---who gave up trying to get a living, exceedingly early in that universal struggle--i am indebted for a belief i religiously entertained that they had all been born on their backs with their hands in their trousers-pockets, and have never taken them out in this state of existence.

two five little stone diamonds that are important to the memory of my five little brother, that gave up on trying to get a job, in that big problem, i keep being surprised that they have all been born so poor that they have been born with their backs with their hands in their trouser pockets that they have never taken them out since they have lived

sorry best i tried:D
♥kay

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i put a question on here earlier, but i still don't know what to do. i got this dress the other day at the mall for my cousins wedding:

[Edit: Link removed to keep from stretching everyone's column. Question has been adequately answered.]

but is it ok to wear to a wedding??? cause someone said that black wasn't good to wear at weddings. i'm wearing a black headband, and black heels w/ it. is it ok?????? thanks.

you're just breaking the rules
& wearing a black dress,
it looks fine :D
if you like it & you know you're
confident with wearing it,
then that is all that matters,
take care
♥kay

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15/f Yesterday i went to the pool and me and some friends were messing around on the diving boards, and i went off doing the splits.
It ended up shooting water up and now it hurts so bad!!! i am a virgin so did it break my hymen?? what can i do to make it feel better??

this is totally normal,
because its such a sudden effect
and you didnt see it coming that
your legs hurt.

you should put a hot/cold pack
near the inside of your thighs
or ice first to numb it.

aw, get better
♥kay

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Well, I'm definitely more of a girly girl than a tom boy. & everyone always compliments me on my clothes & such. Because I care a lot about my clothes/not wearing the same thing too often/matching. But I pretty much never wear makeup & keep my hair in a ponytail most of the time. Whenever people talk about makeup & such I'm just like yeah, I never wear makeup, & people say like well you look fine without it, etc. But I feel like it's kind of something every girl should do? I'm usually just too lazy in the morning. But I don't want to look like crap. But I also don't want to become one of those girls who looks like crap when they're not wearing makeup.

I just don't know if it's something all girls should do, & if I should try to wear it more & care about my hair & stuff.

haha we are exactly the same,
seriously, dont worry,
guys like natural anyways.
& even if you feel un-girly
if you can pull it off,
thats all it matters
♥kay

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I got this really really bad sunburn, and I cant even move. It is on my chest, its like the bathing suit line. It is red, as dark as a tomato. I am normally really pale, so its that much more obvious. It hurts really bad, so is there anything I can put on it so it will go away? Thanks

oh lord,
this happened to me before,
plus i got stung by jellyfishes,
all you need to do is put aloe vera
like the natural plant thing on your
chest for a while everyday and it would
get better
i hope you get better,
cause yikes it seriously hurts.
take care hun.
♥kay

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I lost my phone today and i was wondering if verizon still sells the vx9800 in stores or do i have to buy it from LG?? Plus i dont think i have any insurance on it if it gets lost or stolen so does that mean i have to pay full price for it again? Thankyou so much. The phone by the way is the LG VX9800, The V

dont worry,
order it online, im not sure if they have it at stores, but im pretty sure they have it online because they have all the old models since like 2003 & yeah. :)
♥kay

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me 16/ bf 17

well me and my boyfriend have been to dying to have sex for a while, but we don't know when we should. and i'm afraid to get pregnant and he's afraid of getting me that way.

we have protection, but does it really help? would we have nothing to worry about if we did use it?

and without protection, when would be the absolute best time to have sex without getting me pregnant?

thanks in advance.

note: i don't want ppl saying we shouldn't do it. i know we probably shouldn't, but it's our choice.

protection helps, but still it's still not 100% gurantee, and be sure to put on the condom right or yeah... haha, oh and there is no such thing as " best time " w/o getting pregnant, because if you have unprotected sex or protected there is no such thing as not getting pregnant or whatever, sorry but lifes no fair ;[
i hope your relationship works fine hun!
♥kay

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14/f

ok so im a little overweight. and i hav lined on my boobs but i feel most comfortable (well not about my body) in a bikini because it givs me most breast support. tankinis totally fell off at all the pool parties last year. i kept pulling them up.

if i wear a bikini, its like boy repellent because of my fat but i'd have more fun at the parties wearing one because i wouldn't spend the whole time hiking it up. which should i do? (i have three parties to go to this summer so far)

halter tops :)
they give you support!.
goodluck at the parties
♥kay

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Okay, I'm a 16/F, and I LOVE PICTURES!
I love them, pictures of my friends, my family
MYSELF! I just love pictures but I also love editing them. I need a free trail picture editor and I've looked all over google (left and right)
but I can't find any good ones so if anyone has any links to some great photo editors they use, that'd be HIGHLY appriciated. Also, I don't know if this will help or not, but I have Windows XP.

go to google and type in picassa and download it i swear its the best freebie thing ever, or just go to www.blibs.com to edit your pics on that site
goodluck w/ your pics!
♥kay

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