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WelL im funny..i give really good advice because i had so much stuff happen to me that sum people dun realli understand..im 5'2 im 90 pounds..i have like light brown hair sum blondish highlights..green eyes..uhmm..if u wanna ask me sumthin IM me..hehe
E-mail: sillycow9101@yahoo.com
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well im 15 and there is this guy ricky that ive liked for awhile & alot of people think he likes me 2, & the way he acts around me it seems like he does. but its been a few weeks since this whole thing started & nothing has happened.how could i talk to him about what his feelings are & if anything is going to happen without seeming like im pushin too hard? summer is days away & id like to figure out what is going to happen with us befor school is out. (link)
well...act like u like him to! ask him if he ever wants to see a movie or sumthin and go with him..or maybe even better..go with a hole group of friends and just liek talk to him through the movie lol..xOoOx


how can u get a guy to notice you???? (link)
by talkin to them..if ur at a teennight place talk to them..smile..flirt...dance..ask them what there name is..lol lots of ways


yah well there is this guy that i have liked for 2 years and he likes my best friend...and it seems like he doesnt even know i am there and i even told him that i have liked him for 2 years....even loved him!!!! what should i do??? i really love this guy! (link)
well..wat did he say when u sed u loved him???!! maybe he just wants to be friends bc usally when u go out with ur best friend thats a guy..once u break up ur not friends anymore..and maybe he just doesnt want to lose that..xOoOx


Could you get pregnant if you have unprotected sex in a hut tub? And wouldn't a condom slip off in the water? PlEaZe WrIte BaCK AuDREY! (link)
yup u could get pregnant...and yea a condom would probably slip off in the water..and anyway..why would u have sex in a hot tub? lol


I'm in love with this kid..but he doesn't know who I am...and I'm really shy so it isn't helping...hoe can I get him to notice me? (link)
first of all..dun b shy..bc then u look like u dun no how to have fun! dun b shy and then he might notice u..or if like u look like u are haviun fun..orr..be with all ur friends and laugh..bc guys like when they no u can have fun bc if ur just lookin misarable all thr tyme there like wtf is up with her...lol dun b shy and see what happens! xO


my boyfriend has been dating me for awhile now and we relli love each other. Him and his friend went to a prty w/out me one nite and my best fiends wre there. my boyfriends friend said that my friends were touching jason but wen i asked my friend if tht was true she said my boyfriend was touching her? now my boyfriend likes my friend and i dont kno wat to do..should i break up wit him? (link)
break up with him sweety! remember the thing i told u in lunch? lol do that grl! i love u!


I live in cali and i like this guy. school is going to be out in a couple of days, but i really like this guy. he is moving at the end of the school year. and i am very sad. he says he lkes me. i want to keep in touch but i'm really sad and on't know what to do!! i am in love with this guy!! pleazz help (link)
awwww! i feel so0o bad! he is moving? like is he movin in the same state (drivin distance)? or is he movin to like a hole different state? if he is movin to a diferent state there is realli nothin u can do bc like u just cant lol//but u can keep in touch on the computer and the phone..awww w/b and tell me more lol


im 14 years old and im really skinny. im 4 11 and weigh only 79 lbs. im not happy about my weight. im going to high school and i want to fit into a size 2 or 3. i eat alot but i just dont gain weight. what should i do to gain weight. (link)
lol maybe..u can tell ur mom to buy u sour cream and onion chips..and eat the HOLE bag at night right b4 u go to sleep..lol u will definalty gain 5 pounds..lol everytime i do it happens to me! and wow ur realli short and skinny..eat MORE and dun exercise! w/b and tell me if u already did that


ok, me and my ex broke up..and i want him back but he has a new gf now..and i dont think he wants me back..we went thro a lot..we are still good friends but i dont think he wants me back and ive tried to move on..i just cant...what should i do? (link)
awww..dun say u CANT move on bc u realli can! who broke up with who? did he break up with u or did u break up with him? w/b and then i will give u the advice..xO


do girls really like to get eatin out and are there any special tricks to it?
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idk..sum grls feel arkward bc like ur touchin them..others love it..ask them and if they say no then just let it be..and no there arent any special tricks..lol all u gotta do is lick there u no what hahah..oh yea and move it all around haha


im 15 and my penis is almost 6 inches long is that the average? im worried what my girlfriend will think. (link)
awww...its ok if she realli loved u she wouldnt care..nothing is not normal..u get what u get! and thats not realli THAT small..i guess...but if u realli feel weird about it go to the doctors bc they got pills for those for enhancments lol


Have you ever been donkey konged before? (link)
wats a donkey kongned! :0


Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =( (link)
yea i kno how u feel =( but wen i had a dum boyfriend named dave..everytime he signed on i wouldnt talk to any of my friends..and then my friend did that and i was like *wtf why..friends come first* we got in2 a fight..and then i noticed that u shouldnt do that if ur b/f comes on or anything..bc when she did it to me i got pizzed..just tell her..wen she isnt with her b/f be like hey! how come ur different every tyme ur with ur bf? we were friends first and then everytime a boy comes in u gotta act different! AND I HATE IT!


What does it mean if a girl's cherry pops? (link)
that she is not a vergin...there is a piece of skin in the *vagina* lol and once the guy puts his *penis* in ur thingy..it pops..and like it starts to blead and i would guess it hurts!


For 4 years i have had a condition that that always ends up in the "its Psychological bin" some of the content is, however much of it is reactive to the Physical, "psychologist refered me back to the Doctor"
initially there was severe spins, followed by a migraine, "this was diagnosed as inflamed tonsils"
next came the twitching upper lip,
two months after this, i was under some stress, i noticed a heavy sensation in the left side of the head, after a week i started to feel anxious, a close friend noticed that i was not behaving as normal, though she had no specific reason for thinking this at the time.
the sensation continued, as did the anxiety,
about two weeks after this sensation arose, there was a shooting feeling from the mid spine, this shot to the head where the sensation was,
the effects of this incl, loss of balance, difficulty moving the left eye, and pain to the left eye and above, sight seemed unaligned,
mental consentration impaired, visual residual, hearing imbalance,
temporal spasms "left side"
later, a lump would appear under the left ear, and also on the roof of the mouth
mental processing of information seems slow,as in the logic has gone out of everything,
painful neck, though not stiff "left"
the reactive "anxiety etc" or if i do anything physical or mentally concentrated makes the problem worse,at these times it seems to follow a line across head outside of this line the feeling is near numbness
i get migraines however these are over the top of the sensation, and i would assume these migraines are stress related
it is difficult to accept that it is all Psychological,
i was a pretty normal Being up till this, probably excessively laid back and A type in my working environment,
anyone got any idea's, suggestions (link)
It could be a TIA like Ithielden suggested. If it is physical, you probably need a neurologist to examine you. TIA's are very difficult to diagnose, and usually don't get much extensive treatment because the symptoms go away.

Depression and anxiety actually can make you that physically ill. But for your own peace of mind, I would ask to be examined more thoroughly by another physician or specialist. If you already have seen several doctors, then it is probably psychological. That does not make it any less problematic or disruptive. Try to get a doctor who can give you good advice or treat you in a way that will improve your symptoms. They should not just be ignored because they may be psychological.


There is this guy I really like. Today I found out that he cuts himself. The only thing is, he doesn't know that I know. How can I bring it up and tell him to stop without sounding all maternal? (link)
talk to him..tell him that u care too much for him to die..


I'm a 17 Female

There's this guy who goes to my friends church. His name is Collin. Anyway, I've thought Collin was cute for a while and I noticed him looking at me a few times during church and stuff. Well I told my guy friend, Aaron (who's friends with him) about it. Well last Sunday night Aaron went up to Collin and asked him what he thought about me (I didn't know what he was doing at the time. All I saw was Aaron talking to him and Collin smiling a lot.) Well Aaron told me that Collin smiled and nodded and said "Nice" (like he thought I looked good or something). Aaron told me I'd have to start talking to him because he's shy or w/e. Well when I got home he was online and my friend Crystal (whom he barely knows by the way) IMed him.. and asked him what he thought about me, again. And he told HER that he wasn't my type or something like that.. Could someone tell me what he means by this? I mean.. I know he's saying he doesn't think He's my type but.. why did he act like he was interested when my friend Aaron asked him but completely turn the tables when Crystal asked him.. Could it be that he doesn't know Crystal and didn't really want to tell her, or what? If anyone could help me, I'd greatly appreciate it! :)
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well..maybe he jkinda likes that grl Crystal...? and he likes u to..but usally boys are weird like that..dun get crystal in2 it bc then she will start to like him..and this happened to me..and then colin will like her..so just talk to him urslef and get to kno him!


i recently got a small bamboo plant that is barley a foot tall... what are some goo ways to care for it .. and how tall will it grow? thanks for ur help (link)
feed it mircle grow hope for the best! =)


I have this addiction for girls (ima boy) and all i wanna do is see them nude (YEAH I DO) can u help me PLZ!!!!! (link)
yea go get sum nude pictures...lol ..but dun b a perve about it bc then grls wont realli like u..get a gf and then get to kno her...lol thats a pretty weird question..haha


ok im an african american girl. i go to a prodominatly white school. and im not racist but some of the kids think like all the black people that go to my school are racist. im not racist against white people i like everybody n if i hate you its not because your race its because i hate you. or if i like you.. yea you get it but anyways im not racist but the white kids at my school say some racist comments and they have a lot of sterotypes about black people and then they watch to much tv. they think that all black men are in jail which is not true because i know alot of wealthy successful black men n then they think that all black women are video hoes.. n that aint true because i know alot of successful black women. and alot of their comments are just stupid and unnecessary and it pisses me off. like to the point where im ready to just beat them down. because they go by what they hear and not what they know. so i need a different way to over come there lil racists comments because if i do beat one of them down i already kno its gonna be shame on me and not shame on them because thats how my school is. and like i said i dont have anythin against white people but at my school if somethin happens they go to the black kids before they even try and think about anybody else. I NEED SOME HELP! (link)
well my friend annomus who is black sed that u should just tell ur mom and dad and if u dun wanna go to that school then dun go to that school u no what she is sayin? and if they sed u cant go to any other school bc tey cant afford pray about it! and thats my word of advice




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