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OK, today my private started to hurt really bad. and i looked at it and it started to bleed. I dont have mi period and i know its not that because the sides were bleedin. I dont know what to do! sumone plz help me. PLZ ILL RATE U A FIVE EVEN IF U SAY "BLAH".

plz help thanx

im sorry but i dunno wut it is, u should probly go see a doctor or sumthin bout it thatd prolly be the best idea
hope i helped
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my stepbrothers friend and i are in a relationship. we were thinkin about having sex, or at least me giving him head. whenever i talk to him dirty online he goes back and tells my stepbrother. im also scared cuz my dad is really strict nd im only 13

if hes gonna tell ure step brother bout every thin u do then dont do it u shouldnt do stuff like htat if hes gona go tellin everybody bout it plus ure only 13 r u sure ure ready? just think bout it nd then if u think its a good idea nd ure ready for it, just do wut u think is right or w/e
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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My x still likes me and i like him bac but the thing is my parents are like " Your not that serous in relation ships" I know i am and i dont know how to prove it to them?? Can any1 tell ma how ta cuz i love this guy to death

if i were u id just ignore my parents nd go out wit whoever i want wenever i want but thats just me i wouldnt prove ne thin to them cuz i wouldnt feel that i had to if u love the kid then u do u shouldnt hav to prove it
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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wow i fucking love you alot...like even more than ashlee simpson. keryn will u marry me?
.:the dandy one:.

hell yeah! haha i love u too! i miss u!!!
.:Keryn:.

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Do you know how like "lol" and "brb" mean "laughing out loud" and "be right back", well what does "bbiab" mean? Thanks

bbiab means Be Back In A Bit
u can tell cuz of the first letters in the thingy lol like "brb" "Be Right Back"
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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what should i do with my friend she just sits there and does nuthin all day she just sits there not even watches tv wat do i do

get her ass up! nd get her to do sumthin! take her to the mall or sumthin just try nd get her to do sumthin
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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im in 8th grade and i havent got mi period yet. what time am i supposed to get it?

dont worry bout it everybody gets their period at diff. times u'll get yours wen u get it!
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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We've been going out for 2 years and her birthday's coming up. What should i do?

do something romantic get her sum jewelery that u kno she'd love nd take her out or sumthin like that but do sumthin romantic lol
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Does anyone know any websites for diary's? (Anything besides xanga or live journal)

blurty.com
greatestjournal.com
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Just a few days ago my boyfriend bought me flowers just randomly. Well i got some pictures of us developed and had him pick out his fav. one. Today I'm going to get it inlarged and framed... and he guessed i was going to do that. Does anyone have any good ideas of little things i could get him including the picture. The flowers were sweet but I want to do something for him too besides a picture. Thanks and I will rate!

P.S. I dont want it to be to crazy!!! Just something small and sweet

u could get him a box of chocolates too, or a cd
thats so cute that u guys r givin eachother random presents lol!!
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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ive been havin some dificulties with this girl she has been threatnin me and then her mother did im like fuck that shitt dude and like the cops got invovled and like im kind of in big shitt that smells i told the cops that i had no part in any of the shitt smelling but realy i didnt what should i do im going out of my mind

hope you can help

im sorry! lol! if u had nothing to do wit ne of it then u really shouldnt worry bout it! just tell the cops the truth nd it will go away!! or u could always hav me help nd we can go sneak into their house nd kill them wit sporks!! my frend kevin said he'll be my aliby if i killed ne body im sure he'll stick up for u too!! lol!! everythin will be fine! dunt worry!!! luv ya gurl!!
hope i helped!!
.:Keryn:.

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okay, well I'm a columnist on here, and give good advice, but still...

Whenever I'm listening to Ashlee Simpson Pieces of me on the computer, Windows Media Player.. It skips, usually that's the only song that does it, does anybody know how to fix it, I click on the 1st link besides the video that pops up

Should I try clicking on a different link, or what?

stop listenin to ashlee simpson i hate that chick wit a fiery passion!! lol!!
umm just try a different link that would probly work ive never had that problem..
hope i helped
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I'm 16 and i know im pregnant. Im starting to gain weight, my family has a good reputation,like no pregnancies below 20 i dont know how to tell my mom what should i do

wel u have to tell her, so just wait til shes in a good mood nd sit her down nd tell her nicely just tell her straight out she'll love u no matter what
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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Hello, im 17 years old and i grew up with 3 friends since pre-school. We are soo close. But 2 out of the 3 are racists. I never really cared because they didnt say anything around me. Then i started dating an African-American. And they are saying things about me and my boyfriend. I love them and i have grown up with them but i love my boyfriend ALOT too.. he means alot to me. Now im stuck in the middle between my bestfriends and my boyfriend. What i am i going to do? Thank You.
Sincerely,
stuck so deeply

u could not hang out wit ure bf around ure frends, or u could tell ure frends how u feel nd ask them not to say stuff about u nd ure bf around u..
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?!

u can just ignore them or answer them how u think they should be answered, act as if its sum one who isnt ure frend nd its sumone who asked u on the site nd not in ure inbox
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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my friend whose a girl and 14 told me a few days ago that she cutts. i was devistated wen i heard this. i asked her wat in the world wud make u so miserable as 2 kill urself? and she sed that her family was messed up and that shes ben feeling really depressed. i told her 2 think bout wat life will bring her in the future. youll have kids a husband a job and a happy life. i dont think it convinced her. wat should i do?

u should just be there for her, tell her to call or sumthin wen ever she wants to cut again thats wut i do nd if they cut again i just tell them i think its a really bad idea nd im there for them so they dont have to do it, its really her choice to do that kind of stuff nd theres really not very much u can do to stop it cuz its her choice just be there for her nd help her up wen shes down ((that sounds so corny lol))
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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theres this girl thats kind of popular and she always wants to steal my best friend. the problem is, i can tell my bf is more interested in the other girl. also, its really hard to just be friends with someone else, because no one is quite like my bf and i dont like them as much. oh yea, and the person trying to steal my best friend doesnt like me.. so its kind of hard to become the three amigos. i usually rate a 5!!!:)

u can still be bests frends just get used to her havin different frends too its easier that way my best frend is like that too shes got frends who r all popular nd preppy nd everythin nd then ive got frends who arent as popular nd everythin but we're still bffs
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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im going to warped tour tomorow and last year wen i went the bands were signing sutographs and stuff like that and i was wondering if anyone has alreadi went and knos if good charlotte wil or will not be signing autographs

idk but ure sooo fuckin lucky ure goin!! i wanted to go but i couldnt get a ride cuz my frends r bitches!! haha have fun!! lucky!!
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im 13 in the 8th grade and ive never had a b/f. the guy that i like keeps on saying that he dosent like me.
is there something wrong with me?

no ure perfectly fine! he just doesnt like u thats his problem dont worry sum day a really nice guy will go out wit u nd ull be all dandy nd everythin! lol!
hope i helped!
.:Keryn:.

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okay... i have dark brown hair. it's about down to the middle of my back like where the back of my bra is, my hair is also EXTREAMLY thick and it gets frizzy really easily. i was thinking about cutting my hair to a little past my shoulders... like maybe taking about 2 inches or so off and getting lost of layers and long bangs to my cheekbone. the thing is i'm not sure what will happen to my hair like if it will friz up and get really poofy when it's humid outside. does anyone have any ideas on how to keep my hair from not frizzing up?

ps- i blowdry and straighten my own hair

i think u should just stick to straightening ure hair nd then to keep from frizzing up spray hair spray onto ure brush nd run it through ure hair after u straighten it
i have really really thick hair nd i got it layered nd it just got more frizzy nd poofy
hope i helped
.:Keryn:.

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