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My name is Becca. I wish that I could live in a eutopic world where nothing ever went wrong and smiles could brighten up everyone's day. But life isn't always rainbows and sunshine. All good comes with bad. What makes or breaks a person is their strength through those tough times. I am a simple person with simple ambitions, simple pleasures, and a simple life. I usually try to find the best in people, ergo, I can be a very forgiving person. Show me respect and treat me nicely, and I can be one of the nicest people you'll ever meet. I am worth $2,886,158 on humanforsale. I change my mind more than I change my underwear, so don't set what I say in stone. I am the biggest procrastinator in the world. I have horrible spelling and typing skills. The person who has changed my life the most would have to be my two year old cousin, Chelsea. She is the most amazing person ever, and I've been blessed to be a part of her life since March 23, 2005. I want to be a positive influence in her life, and guide her to grow up and make a difference in the world. This little girl means the world to me. She is my best friend.
I love to feel loved. Ian makes me feel loved. He is one amazing person. We have been dating since June 28, 2006, and we will stay together for the rest of our lives. We were made for eachother. He calls me his Bibbles and his lady bug and makes me smile my biggest smiles ever. He tickles me until I almost cry. I love every second I am with him.
I am done things in my life that I regret. I wish I was a better person. I am currently trying to find myself and what I want from life. I am currently trying to become who I want to be. Let's just see where that takes me.
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k well ive been going out with this guy since 6/19. so not that long, weve like kissed goodnight 2 times because i dont see him alot.
the 1st kiss was bad, cos i wasant expecting it so i didnt turn, the 2nd was better cos i kissed back.
i want to like go faster, like i wanna make it long, so if were still going out in sept when school starts it might be easier.
but like i get nervous like to make the 1st move so i need like tips and advice on what to doo.
pleasee help i rly like him&thankss.
dont worry about it, and relax. my first kiss with my boyfriend of over a year now ws HORRIBLE! i eneded up headbutting himrihgt in the face. after that, i was nervous to kiss him at all. i just had to relax and realise that he cared about me enough and wanted to kiss me even if i was a hazard. lol.
i made the first move to kiss again with him, because he knew i was nervous and respected i wanted to go at me own pace.
when you two are along, like sitting on a couch cuddling together while watching tv, sitting together on a beach watching the ocean, or even in line to pay at a store, just plant him one on his cheek. he'll smile and hint at him that you want to kiss him. if he doesnt take the hint, kiss him. he will want you to, so dont be nervous.
14/f what are some good items that i can use around the house to masturbate with? I cannot buy anything. Oh and where are some good places to practice it? I need it to feel really good. Not just a little bit. Thank you very much
go to www.mymasturbation.com
that site has a lot of stuff you can use without actually to buy stuff.
Is it normal to queef right after having sex doggy style?
it's a common thing, after or during ANY position really.
okay. so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about a year now. and i really really love him. infact we talk about getting married one day. heres the problem, im young. 15. same for him. is it odd for us to be thinking that far ahead even when we are so young? i mean i can't doubt us being in love, and we just feel that connection. and its been there from the start. there are no dull moments. yes we have been through alot, but it was my fault(i was diagnosed with a brain disorder about halfway though everything and had to spend alot of time in the hospital). but i honestly think that we have a future together. does anyone think this is odd?
nothing at all is wrong with this. my boyfriend and i have been going out for a year now and we talk about marriage all of he time. i'm 15, he just turned 19. it's quite adorable. we plan out our future together and have lovey dovey time.
honey, this is cute, not odd. most girls dream of guys like the ones we have.
:D
What are some common personality disorders?
Also, What is it when a person is there real self, but in their mind they are someone different and pretend things?
Thanks.
i looked this up just for you because i was interested. According to: http://www.focusas.com/PersonalityDisorders.html
Currently, there are 10 distinct personality disorders identified in the DSM-IV:
Antisocial Personality Disorder: Lack of regard for the moral or legal standards in the local culture, marked inability to get along with others or abide by societal rules. Sometimes called psychopaths or sociopaths
Avoidant Personality Disorder: Marked social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and extremely sensitive to criticism.
Borderline Personality Disorder: Lack of one's own identity, with rapid changes in mood, intense unstable interpersonal relationships, marked impulsively, instability in affect and in self image.
Dependent Personality Disorder: Extreme need of other people, to a point where the person is unable to make any decisions or take an independent stand on his or her own. Fear of separation and submissive behavior. Marked lack of decisiveness and self-confidence.
Histrionic Personality Disorder: Exaggerated and often inappropriate displays of emotional reactions, approaching theatricality, in everyday behavior. Sudden and rapidly shifting emotion expressions.
Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Behavior or a fantasy of grandiosity, a lack of empathy, a need to be admired by others, an inability to see the viewpoints of others, and hypersensitive to the opinions of others.
Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder: Characterized by perfectionism and inflexibility; preoccupation with uncontrollable patterns of thought and action.
Paranoid Personality Disorder: Marked distrust of others, including the belief, without reason, that others are exploiting, harming, or trying to deceive him or her; lack of trust; belief of others' betrayal; belief in hidden meanings; unforgiving and grudge holding.
Schizoid Personality Disorder: Primarily characterized by a very limited range of emotion, both in expression of and experiencing; indifferent to social relationships.
Schizotypal Personality Disorder: Peculiarities of thinking, odd beliefs, and eccentricities of appearance, behavior, interpersonal style, and thought (e.g., belief in psychic phenomena and having magical powers).
i dont think what you have is a personality disorder, i think i is just a vivid imagionation. i have it too, so whatever you have, i have too. :D
Does any one have any little hits or ideas or any little things or big things that can help me make it more enjoyable for him. anything to make him like it more, he doesn't come very easily like i still haven't made him so does any one have any helpful hints thanks o by the way I'm almost 16 f
I questioned the same thing and tried several things out on my boyfriend and saw how he reacted. Here are some results:
1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.
2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.
3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for him and he might cum faster because of this.
4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.
whats sex like
i'm not answering this nick
I've had a lot of professions in the past I DREAMED of doing. But realized I'd never be good enough to pursue them. Don't lecture me on that, that's not what I'm talking about.
Doing advicenators, and even it's as simple as just answering people's questions, I love doing it. I love helping my friends with their problems as well.
Which led me into thinking.. wow, I would LOVE to be a counselor/psychatrist(Sorry for spelling.)
Okay, and a couple days ago, I told my boyfriend one of my advice column entries, but it's one where it didn't really involve much advice, just thought, and I made it into a funny/sarcastic answer. He thought I was serious about it and didn't think it was good advice. Anyways, I told him today about my idea for the counseling/phystrist[sp] thing. And he was like "People would hate you, the ones who think they dont need help." And I was like, "Well, I'll help realize they need help and do my best to help! Haha." And then he was like, "No offense.. but you're not the best at giving advice."
Is he serious??
Or is it just because of the one entry I told him about??
He's never had problems to come to me about, so I never have given him advice.
I'm about to ask my friends if they think I'd be a good counselor/pshytrist.[sp!ack.]
Anyways, what do you think?
My advice column is Genrawks2, by the way.
Bleh, sorry for length.
And I know it's pathetic that I can't even spell the profession I wish to pursue. Lmfao.
Psyhtrist?
Phsycrist?
Oh god. >_< Maybe it's a sign that I'm not fit for it.
x SORRY FOR THE LENGTH!!VERY VERY SORRY. kasdfj
i took the time to read through your column a while ago after reading some advice you gave.
i friggen
okay so this is really important!
im not used to guys liking me
im 16 and never been on a date or kissed or anything
so this guy on myspace that lives about 20 minutes away from me added me and he didnt talk to me for like a month but he did about 40 minuts ago and we were talking and now he wants to go to a movie with me. i think hes cute, but i dont know him so im not sure if i like him. and hes 5'6 and im 5'9 and im not height shallow i just like the idea of dating a guy whos my hight but i think thats the least of my worries. my parents would freak if they thought that i was gonna go hang w/ a guy i dont know. my best friends said that they wouldnt let me go alone, just incase something happens, i dont think hes a dirty old man, but you can never be too careful. i dont want to say no and him think im not interested b/c i am, im just scared b/c things like this dont happen to girls like me. i really want some advice on this, i have no idea what to do. sorry this was so long but im like freaking out here!
i've been going out with my boyfriend for a year as of tomorrow and we met online. it can bring people together that would not have even known the other person existed without the internet.
just be careful. tere are the guys out there with no ill intentions but there are some who do have a nasty mentality. like your friends advice, don't go alone, but if you are intersted, check it out. make sure it's a public place with a lot of people.
I afraid of my boyfriends friends and he asked me if i wanted to go to a drive through with them and him. which makes me the only girl. and i said no thanks and he told me that we could make out the whole time. i trusted him. so i went and he went to get food and his friends started rapeing me and they told me if i screamed they would sufficate me so i didnt and i regret not screaming but i was so scared. my boyfriend was gone for like a half an hour which i thought was odd. and then they saw him coming so they got off me. i started crying and they made up an excuse why i was crying and he told them lets just go home. so the next day i told him and i couldnt stop crying he told me they didnt rape me and i was exagerating they were probaly just ticking me or osmething. i was going to tell my mom or someone but now im sure as hell nhot going to because if he doesnt believe me they wont either. im really scared and depressed and i cant stop crying what should i do? thanks.
sweetie, i know what you're going through and i'm sorry that you're going through all of this. i was sexually assulted by a guy who i thought was my friend and was the boyfriend of my boyfriend's co-worker/friend.
the best thing to do in this situation is to tell your mother so she can call the police to investigate and dump your boyfriend's ass. you need people supporting you through this and not people that do no believe you.
you should tell your parents so that they can tell the authorities so that they can either get in trouble or know that what they did was wrong. just imagion what would happen if you don't tell someone? they would think that they can get away with it and will put some other innocent girl through what you're going through. let them be punished.
sweetie, if you need a friend through all of this, don't hesitate to IM me at xAskkMechaBeccax on AIM or message me on myspace at www.myspace.com/mecha_becca_tm. you are a brave girl for even telling us this much. hope i helped.
hey, i wuz just wondering if there are any sites for different masturbation tequnices. thx
www.mymasturbation.com
that place is GREAT!
has stuff for guys and girls, using different objects or things to do. it's awesome. lol
:D
Okay so I am sixteen years old and my boobs are still really small! all my friends have big boobs and i dont and its really frustrating! im kind of curvy just without boobs! does anybody know anyways to make my boobs grow? or look bigger?
HELP!
i used to feel the same way. i am 15, 16 in a few months, and my boobs are small. i elt really self-consious about it alot. what didnt help was that boyfriend ex had 38DDs. could not compare.
i just had to like myself for how i looked and find something else that i liked about me. i have a huge butt. i thought it was bad, my boyfriend LOVES it. that was my best physcial assett. =]
we also can look better in our clothes. lol. big boobs limit how some shirts look on people or what cute bras they have to choose from.
enjoy your cruvy body and love yourself for who you are. you're not the only one who has your figure.
14/f. i tried putting in a tampon a few months ago but it didn't work, and then i tried today and it didn't work either. i'm scared to put it in, my mom was right there telling me where to put it but it just wasn't working.
1 - what hole does it go in?
2- is there a different hole from where you get fingered, where you tampon goes in, and where the penis goes in?
if so, please explain! because my boyfriend and i were getting pretty intimate but i made him stop because he was about to finger me and i was scared he was going to break my hymen and then i'd bleed everywhere. or like he wouldn't be able to find the hole just how i wasn't able to when putting in my tampon. 3- or do girls get fingered in a completely different hole? i'm so confused, someone please help! thank you!
its the same whole for everything. like, it can be hrd to get a tampon in without your hymen breaking. i didnt start useing them until after mine was broken. it made it easier to put in and not as uncomfortable.
ok so this is the girl who needs those masturbation tips. feel free to give me any websites. thanks for your help =].
mymasturbation.com
it's a wonderful thing.
haha.
:D
i'm plannin to give my bf a bj sometime very very soon and i was just wandering, what do girls do when they give you a bj that drives you crazy...in a good way! what do you love for them to do in other words, during an hj too!
I questioned the same thing and tried several things out on my boyfriend and saw how he reacted. Here are some results:
1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.
2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.
3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.
4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you.
i started masturbating about 3 months ago, and its not as exciting anymore, and it even feels kind of weird afterwards. so how can i make my orgasms more intense?
there are alot of things you can do to spice up your pleasuring time. different objects you can use, differnt positions to be in. private message me if you want a link to a websit with a lot of ideas. i dont want to put it on here just incase of little kids and stuff
Everyone says i need to change how i look to get a guy. But i dont know how....Even my family says that and i cant really change becuz i have no money. So i dont know what to do..... Can anyone like put some kewt outfits together and show me them or sumthing....because i want to find a new bf....But i dont know how to get a guy to like me without changing!
be yourself and flaunt that. you should be with a guy who likes the real you, the you you really are.
be confident and talk to the guy you like and dont worry about what he might think. the worst he can say is no, and then you move on.
i didnt have to change a bit to get with my boyfriend, he said i was adorable the way i was, even though he had never dated anyone like me before.
every time my boyfriend and i see each other we have sex like 3-4 times in one day, we see each other either everyday or every other day.. is there any risks in having sex to much like health wise?
no, having sex alot is not unhealthy for you. on the contrary, it is a good workout. :D
Sex three times a week burns lots of calories, and if maintained throughout the year, is equivalent to jogging 75 miles.
Sex increases the supply of oxygen to the cells and stimulates the activity of various organs and systems within the body.
Sex balances out the good cholesterol to bad cholesterol ratio, and at the same time reduces the overall cholesterol count in the body.
The satisfaction and the relaxation after sex are beneficial for the mind and the circulatory system.
Sex has an advantage, especially for women. Regular sex increases the level of female hormone, which reduces the risk of heart disease and softens the vaginal tract.
are there different ways to give head that are more pleasurable to guys? like different techniques or ideas? i want my boyfriend to really like it haha. thanks =)
I questioned the same thing and tried several things out on my boyfriend and saw how he reacted. Here are some results:
1. Get as much in your mouth as you can without gagging and suck him only to that point. Beat him off with the rest.
2. Instead of moving your head just up and down, move it at different angles while going down on him. My boyfriend REALLY loves this.
3. While giving him head, massage his balls. This can make it really pleasurable for hm and he might cum faster because of this.
4. Different positions or acts can affect it too. If you get more into it, it can feel better for him. One thing tht might feel good and get you going is 69 with him ontop of you. Another is him fingering you while you do it. Anything that can make you and him sexually aroused can change the experience completely.
i saw your anwser to a question and it said emancipated hwat does that mean?
emancipation is when a minor becomes a legal adult before the age of 18. like, someone who is say 16 and emancipated has the same rights as an 18 year old.