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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!! (link)
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cutting is when you use a knife and phisically cut yourself to reduce the emotional pain you feel
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is wakling just (or close) as good for you as running? like can i loose weight from walking 20 minutes a day or does it have to be running? thanks i rate!! (link)
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well, it depends. you would lose more weiht running 20 minutes a day than walking. but if you walk more than 20 minutes it should equal up to 20 minutes of running. good luck!! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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last year i was in the broadway annie, in ny.
and like on the last night i got this huge cut on my leg...i didnt think it was that bad until a year later it left this huge scare! how do i get rid of it!!!
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you cant get rid of scars unless you buy some xpensive cream stuff u put on it every day. its not worth it!! everyone has scars.
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oMg! major problem here! i can't believe i'm even admitting this! but i really like a younger guy! as in 3 years younger!!! he's 13! I can't believe it! Is 3 years younger 2 young? what should I do? (link)
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noo!~ its just really hard for a gurl to accept that rather than a guy. when i was 13, i was dating 17 year olds!... he's not really too young, and if you like him enough just go for it!! good luck [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ok heres the deal..i really want a cell phone! and i would use it and everything! i am always going to movies..the mall..and football and basketball games that i have to cheer at! and yet my parents still wont get me a cell phone! my sister has one and got one when she was about 14 and i am only 13..but how do i convince them to get me a cell phone? (link)
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well... when i was 13 i also had a cell phone. it wasnt that hard to convince my parents, i just told them it was the only way they could keep up with me! i was always on the run going somewhere or doing something and my parents never knew where i was... they figured that way they could always know where i was at!! good luck!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Ok, so there's this guy that I really like. I only met him about 4 or 5 days ago but he's really nice and he's a good christian. He had this thing in his AIM profile that said "single let me know if any of you ladies want to change that" and I told him that I could "help him out there" and as soon as I said that he was all "I was hoping you'd say that" He also told me, my cousin, and this guy that he thought I was hot and that I seemed like an awesome girl.
The thing is, everytime I try to make plans he never calls me back or anything. It really sucks... cause I like him a lot. Do you think he likes me? should I give up? please help! :(
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i think he really likes you!! if he was happy that you said that, then he sure likes you. if i was you, i'd call him and ask him when he's not busy so you can go to the movies or something. I'm sure he likes you and i dont think you should give up!!! good luck!![H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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i need a new bra..where would you suggest i get one? what kidn should i get? (link)
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it depends how old you are and how big ur boobs are. if ur big enough for a "big gurlz bra"... then go buy one of those... but if your boobs arent too big yet... just go to wal mart or something and buy a sports bra! good luck!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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okay well i havnt gotten my period yet.. and i have like no shape to my body... barely any boobs like no ass... when i get my period will my body start growing faster n stuff.... cuz i really hate how i look... im 13 im tall ( 5'3) I have really long legs... im really skinny... and i can never find pants and like i hate school shopping bcuz i can never find good tight pants that are long enough like if they are tight enough they are to long... so im really self concious.... idk what to do (link)
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well ur not fully developed yet. give yourself time to grow. yes... once you get your period, everything will change... you'll grow boobs and an ass and become a lil bit more mature. dont worry, it happens to everyone!
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I don't know what to do abt this anymore, my best friend (not so best anymore) is always ignoring me and trying to control me. when i'm in a group with her she makes me feel really small, but when it's one on one it's not that bad. whenever i call her to chat she starts playing her guitar or she's like "i'm eating so i have to go" or "can u call back i'm watching a show" (when she has it taped!!) i'm getting really tired of it but she's friends with all my other friends so i can't just "drop her". i've already told her that i think she ignores me a lot and her response is "oh". what should i do??? plz help (link)
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maybe she's just jealous that of you and wishes to be more like you so she tries to put u down. it happens a lot to people. maybe you should start talking to her less and calling her less to let her know how it feels to be you. if it seems like she doesnt really care, find a new bff! good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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is it a good way to make money
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well it depends a lot of ways. if you're under 16, you cant really get a good job yet. so yeah, its a good way to make money. if you're 16 and up you might want to look into a different job, but i actually like babysitting! just make sure it's a reasonable pay...
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i have beauty marks like mole things on my back and in the summer i am scared to wear a bathing suit and a tank top because i am scared that people and freinds will make fun of me.what should i do ? (link)
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Dont feel insecure about them!! its perfectly fine! a lot of people have them! my mom has one on her face! nobody ever says anything to her... it's normal so dont feel like you have to hide so they dont show!! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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my mom has a deformed uterus. Less than like 3% of women in the US have it. I forget the exact name but its soo bad that her gyno. is surprised she had 2 kids. She had 13 misscarriages before she had me. Ne way my doctors seems to think this is genetic but we don't know for sure if its genetic in my family because all the females on my mom's side has had their female parts removed. My mom gets cysts on her overies too. When my mom told me this I was like I want to be checked. But she was like don't worry your 16. I don't want to have promblems having kids in 10 years so I want to be checked. Do you think I should get checked and if so can I go to the gyno. without her knowing?? (link)
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It's illegal to do that without your parent's consent... and I dont think you should be worried about it. I think you'll be just fine... Stop worrying about it!~ [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Ok - my uncle hits on me at almost every family gathering. It really bothers me! I told my mom and she said she'd try to help me, but I still feel so uncomfortable around him. He's always staring at me and winking, and saying that I'm hot!
I'm just so uncomfortable .. (link)
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O god! i dunno what i would do... just the next time he looks at u in a bad way... give him a mean look...hopefully then he'll know not to look at you in that way again... it's really weird for an uncle to say that to his neice... and i think he needs serious help. try to stay away from him at family gatherings! hope it helps![H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Can Sex keep you in shape? (link)
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sex does help burn calories... so yeah it might help a little. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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I'm 14/f. I've liked this guy Mark for a really long time. I know that he doesn't like me because he told me who he does like. One of my friends has also seen him with this other girl, they were going out to dinner together. I really want to get over him and move on to other guys that are available but every time i see him I start to like him so much all over again. We're friends and I want us to stay friends but how do I stop liking him. I know he's unavailable, but I can't stop myself. How do I get over him? (link)
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if i was you i'd just accept the fact that he has a girlfriend or he may be seeing someone. try to find someone else to like... Just remember!! there are plenty of other fish in the sea!!!! Good luck hun. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ok i'm kinda uncomfortable but i've been wondering...is it ok for me to want a vibrator?? cuz i've always wondered if they are more pleasurable and where can I get one? also--i'd prolly be WAAY too embarrassed to go buy one myself...is there anything i could use as a substitute?? (plz don't delete) someone plz answer, i rate high! (link)
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yes, it's ok for u to get a vibrator, its perfectly normal... if u dont want to go buy one... just find something else to use... goood luck gurl & have fun! =P [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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My friend Harmony is always telling me that I need to let God into my life and look to him as a source of comfort. I believe that God exists, but I have doubts about whether he really cares or not. I feel like she trying to force me to believe like she does. I respect the fact that she is strong in her faith, but I don't neccesarily want to talk about it with her. She gets really offended when I say something that she doesn't think is right. When I told her that I didn't want her to tell me to go to God for guidance, she got angry and told me that at least she knew that she couldn't be open with me anymore. Am I wrong for asking her to not talk about this? How to I tell her that I would rather not talk about God without offending her? (link)
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obviously she's strong on her religion... and u may have different beliefs... if i was u i'd just tell her that you dont feel comfortable talking with her about God. If she's a good friend she'll respect that! even I have doubt that god cares for me... because i think... if he cared why would he take my brother away from me?... anyways... just tell her u dont feel comfortable talking to her about god... and she should leave you alone. Good luck!! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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ok my dad and stepmom are getting divorced. i dont live with them, so it shouldn't bother me as much as it does, and i dont know it's just a big problem. i'm afraid i'll never see my stepmom again once they get divorced, and i don't want that to happen. I got really close to her and i love her, she's almost like a sister to me. i know i cant' stop them from getting divorced, but how can i get through this and still be happy and have a good outlook on things? i'm normally an optomistic person, and i want to stay that way. i don't expect never to be sad, but what are some ways to deal with this? i went through a divorce a few years ago with my real parents, but i dont know how to get through it again. thanks in advance to everyone who helps. love ya! (link)
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well... ive gone thru the same thing with my real parents, and its hard... just make sure you keep in touch with your stepmom! everything will work out so dont worry... good luck gurlie!
[H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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Okay I have had this guy as a friend for about a year now and he has been my boyfriend for about 3 months. and for about a week or 2 i have liked this other guy who my friend wrote a note to telling him i liked him and she put my # in there and so he called me to ask me if it was true and i said it was and i am starting to like him more than my boyfriend! i need serious help!*Hal* (link)
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well... if he called you, and asked if it was true... he most likely likes you.... if i was u i would just find out if this guy likes you... and since u like him too i would dump my boyfriend and go out w/ him!
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okay so recently ive been hanging out with some friends that i wouldnt normally hang out with them out of school or sports. They smoke pot and they talk about ti all the time. since ive been hanging out with them i have been wanting to smoke it but i know its not the right choice. What do you think i should do? (link)
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ok. i can relate to this question really good too. a couple years ago i started hangin out with the group that one of my friends is in... and i started smoking pot. it seemed cool cuz i was in with the cool gurlz that knew all the hott black guys in town... and had a car... so it was cool to driva around and stuff... but i mean.. my whole family smoked pot at the time.. and i was the only one that didn't... it's kinda messed up yeah.. i know.. but i started smokin pot and i did for about 2 years then i quit.... but it was hard... i knew it wasnt good for me thats why i did... i suggest you hang out with your old friends before you start a bad habit. good luck i know its hard. [H][U][G][S] ~Summer
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