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Im 14 years young. I like acting and singing even though i cant sing. I adore music with out it i could not live. I like Vintage and the 80's. I like giving out advice to those who are in need of it.

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I have glasses and I think that is the reason why no boyz like me. My friend, Zoe, is beautiful, gets all the boyz, all the girlz wanna be her friend, and she gets like an I-POD and an electric gutair and stuff. But, anyway, I think I am nice, cool, quiet, all my friends even say so, so I just dont understand why no boyz like me. I think its just becuz I wear glasses and that hurts. What can I do to get a boy to like me?

I am 13 years old.

I dont think that its because of your glasses.Your time will come when boys want to go out with you and you become the center of their world but until then your just going to have to deal with the cards you've been dealt. Some people just have a certain thing about them that make people naturally drawn to them i.e. your frined. To get a boyfriend you shouldnt have to do anything if a guy doesnt like you for who you are then thats his own loss. One day youll find someone to like you for you are. Hope i have helped.

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A closest friend of mine likes this guy called "Tom". I used to like him but i never told anyone. Tom flirts with me and my friend. I thought ive gotten over him but i dont think i did... or im getting to like him again.. what should i do??

I know how you feel. I had been going through the same thing a little while ago. The best thing to do is to find out how you feel about him first. If you figure out that you like him then confront him and your friend about the situation and tell them how you feel. Hope that helps.

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i have been seeing someone on /off for the last ten years . recently moved out because the depts are way to much for me, i know he cheats on me so why do i feel like i cant move on???

its simple after ten years youve grown attached. You feel as if you need him to be complete. The best thing for you to do is to start dateing again and find someone else. Once you do youll realise you can move on a lot faster then you think.

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ok well theres this kid who confessed his love for me and well i dont feel the same and so i figured its better to tell him the truth and not lead him on but he dosent seem to get the hint he follows me around hes like my fucking stolker and i dont want to be his close friend b/c i cant trust him and well i see how he is and i dont kno how to make it clearer w/out hurting him normally i wouldnt care but since i ko how it feels to love somebody and not be loved in return so help pleaze he dosnt get the freaking clue

Seeing that you know how it feels to love someone and not be loved back in return you should know that with time the pain goes away. tell this kid that you dont like him and you dont wish to have any kind of relationship. With him not knowing how you feel youll only be hurting him more in the long run.

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I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!

Dude one of your friends was raped she didnt take it apun herself to have a child. Everytime she would look at it she would think of what happend to her. as for your other friend she was just careless and made a decision she wasnt big enough to handle the consequences of. its her own fault that shes having a baby hasnt she heard of a little thing called a condom?as for your other friend its not her fault that she is having her baby she didnt ask for it.

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i have a boyfriend who i love so much!! but then i met another guy and i think i'm starting to like him..i think my boyfriend is getting tired of me now and he doesn't call me anymore but the new guy does..what do i do???

First and foremost how old are you? Life is short and sweet so live it to the fullest. What you think is love now you'll look back on and realize it really wasnt anything. As far as your boyfriend treating you like that, you definitely should talk to him if you "love" him so much and see what's been going on with him. If you're boyfriend continues to ignore you . Screw him and go to the man that will. Hope ive helped.
x0- Chenise

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I'm 19/f he's 20/m.

I've been with my boyfriend for what will be 3 years in August and I love him very much. But sometimes I can't help but think things like what if another girl comes along that appeals to him and will take him away from me?

My boyfriend always reassures me that he will never cheat, and I believe him for the most part, it's just that I can't help thinking these morbid thoughts. He's a people person who gets along with everybody. But as you know some girls mistake being nice with flirting...and I'm afraid that his social skills might get him into trouble someday.

We don't live as close to each other and don't get the opportunity to see each other as often as we'd both like. He lives a half hour away and we only see each other on the weekends. I don't know if I'm being paranoid or what, but I've never thought such things before...why all of a sudden now?

Some say I'm just overreacting but sometimes I don't know what to think. I am a good girlfriend who's stuck by him through everything and supported him through his ambitions; I don't restrict him and let him go out with his guy friends; I'm moderately attractive; the sex is good...so odds of leaving me are very slim unless there is another part of a guy's standards that I'm not fulfilling? Even so, what can I do to banish these thoughts? And can someone tell me WHY am I even thinking such thoughts when I should have no reason to...?

Thanks!

-Devoted

Devoted,

I think that your paronia is getting the best of you. You have nothing to worry about you have been together for 3 years now and he has yet to cheat on you. Your proabably just letting your insecurities get the best of you. You love him so much and after three years you dont want to lose him. To me it seems normal. I tihnk after fateing someone for 3 years we all began to think like that. As for banishing these thoughts they'll go away with time and confidence. hope ive helped.
x0 - Chenise

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okay.... i really like this kid... but he has no idea, and ii dont kno what to do... he just broke up with his girlfriend..((a couple of months ago)) and is finally free.lOl soo what should ii do?? ii really like him!!!ii also talk to him on AIM... but ii dont kno what to say to him..pleaze help me with that 2!


lOve...
troubled love life

Dear Troubled Love Life,

What you need to do is tell this kid how you feel about him. Hes not a mind reader he cant read your thoughts. Until you let him know how you feel about him he will never know. Dont drop hints because he may not get them. Just come out and tell him how you feel. Hope that helps.

xO - Chenise

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