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my friend is a hoe..i love her to death and everything but shes a hoe. she already gave it up 2 a 20 year old and she`s only 13 years old. i relle care about her and i want her to stop but she just doesnt want to get the point. and i made her promise me before that she would never smoke agen bc it wasnt healthy and she never did but then one day she told me she broke her promise. so she`s really going down the wrong road. What could i do to get her to stop dressing so slutty and to start acting her age?? please help me.. (link)
2 years a go, when i was in 6th grade, i used to dress like a slut too, i hung out with people that DEFINATLY weren't virgins, and who smoked just about anything. I've never done anything though. Now i've changed, i met a new friend who i'd listen to music with, and now she's my best friend. she saved me from everything i hate now. ive stopped dressing that way, and i've made tons of new friends that are like me now, and it was all within a year. i dropped all of my skanky friends, but i did it without communication. my life's a lot better, and now i'm actually getting boyfriends which i didn't get when i dressed slutty. give her a little time, and dont fall for her acts. if you cant handle this, and she won't listen, let someone know, or you might just have to make new friends.


hey, i like this boy named kyle at school and ive liked him for a couple monthes now, ive told him that i like him. my friends have talked to him and he says "its possible" that he likes me. hes VERY shy and sooo sweet. ive never liked someone this long before and i really want to be with him. i just dont want to ask him out and give me the answer thats not true because hes too shy. in september his heart was broken by another girl, and id promise to never break his heart. he's one of those boys thats kinda hard to tell what they're thinking so im stuck in the middle. he's not the most popular person, and he trusts me with a lot and we're already really great friends... what's your advice? (link)
when it comes to guys, im a really shy girl sometimes. i always find ways to keep it low and not embarass myself. talk to him in private, remind him you like him, and ask him a few questions, but don't annoy him. since his usual response is "its possible", ask "if we had the chance, do you think you'd take it?" and let him know you're okay with any answer he gives. just don't spill your heart out yet because that tends to scare boys sometimes, and with a shy guy like him, its highly probable.


can someone help me? i have been so depressed lately and i have no idea why. can you explain this or something? (link)
well, this sounds gross, but if you're anywhere from 9-16, it could just be adolesence. it makes you like this sometimes, and your hormones are its fault. mood swings will happen often .. just dont let them take total control.


my boyfriend's parents don't know we're going out and they're starting to find out and acting really suspicious ever since i went over his house today. we both dont know what to do... if he tells themhe the truth we'll probly have to break up... if he lies then his conscience will get the best of him. please help me. im in tears already. (link)
i know how you feel. my mom did the same to me. but after a month or so, we got back together and my mom was lightening up a bit. give it some time, and if nothing works out after a while, maybe it wasnt meant to be. and if it wasn't, theres someone so much better for you, and his parents will accept you. no matter how crazy that seems.


Hey im 14 do you think its wrong for me to date someone 10 years old? (link)
is he/she 10 from just being 9, or are they about to be 11? anyways, its completely okay, but it also depends on if you're both good influences. ask your parents and their parents to see if its ok with them.


Okay well im 13 years old i am going to be turning 14 in aug. and i'm having a birthday party at my house w/ guys and girls and i have no idea what to do at the party does any one have any ideas? i have no swimming pool so can't swim please help thank you so much :) (link)
i just had one a few weeks ago .. we're all kind of crazy, so we used silly string and waterballoons. inside in my basement we listened to music .. and did random stuff. i have a pool table and a dartboard so we did that kinda stuff .. we played twister, and i had refreshments like soda, water, chips and dip, and some m&ms for candy .. unfortunatly people started to have a M&M fight.. so they arent the best candy idea.


whats up with the number 69? what does it mean?
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it means sex. which would be a girl is a 6 and a boy is a 9.


If a person is 14, do u think their 2 young 2 have sex? (link)
you're physically mature, so therefore, you're able to have sex. but that doesn't mean you should. if you have an extremely strong relashonship with this person, you could, but first I'd check into things first, like results and outcomes. and don't use the pill, go for the rubber. make sure the male in the relashonship has one, or a few, condoms, and make sure he uses it right.




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